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By (user no longer on site) OP   
49 weeks ago

Would you tell them?

Looking back there's always one right, one where you didn't say what you wanted to say.

Didn't tell them how much they actually mean to you, or how much they've actually fucking hurt you.

Or maybe you just wanted to tell them they were a little bit hot. Or not.

If you got the chance, would you tell them?

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

If people knew. It would change everything. That’s all I’ll say. A lot of love for some people that keeps me going

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
49 weeks ago

Reading

No i wouldn't. I don't believe in opening old wounds.

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By *layfullsamMan
49 weeks ago

Solihull

You have to, thought a girl was out of my league so admired from afar, she passed away then at the funeral her best friend said she liked me but was to shy

Broke my bl..dy heart !

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
49 weeks ago

little house on the praire

There isn't anything to say to anyone

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
49 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

My brain is chaos. I can't think of a time I didn't word vomit the thing if it felt important.

There's times I wish I hadn't, if that counts

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

Life is too short for this bollocks!

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

Someone who’d hurt me?

Nah, fuck that. They’re all the way gone from my life if they’ve done that. I don’t see any advantages or positives from telling them that.

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By *he ass man 666Man
49 weeks ago

paradise city


"Would you tell them?

Looking back there's always one right, one where you didn't say what you wanted to say.

Didn't tell them how much they actually mean to you, or how much they've actually fucking hurt you.

Or maybe you just wanted to tell them they were a little bit hot. Or not.

If you got the chance, would you tell them?"

If I got the chance, I would tell them how I really felt next time instead of making out I was cool with how it ended or didn’t get properly started ( I know what I mean ) lol

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

I dunno, Yes. No. Maybe.

But I don’t like maybes, and things up in the air, so I probably lean towards a yes.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
49 weeks ago


"Life is too short for this bollocks!"

Thanks

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By *eordieJeansCouple
49 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Are you trying to get me to confess my love for you before your next hiatus?

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
49 weeks ago

Somewhere else

I may still tell her.

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By *coobyBoobyDooWoman
49 weeks ago

Markfield

I don’t think I’d get back in touch with anyone specifically to update them on my thoughts, but I do try to be honest in the moment now and let people know how I feel. About them. Kinda.

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By *ddie1966Man
49 weeks ago

Paper Town Central, Essex.

I just did.

!!! BRING ON THE BLOCK !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago


"Are you trying to get me to confess my love for you before your next hiatus?"

Too late, we all know.

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By *eordieJeansCouple
49 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne


"Are you trying to get me to confess my love for you before your next hiatus?

Too late, we all know. "

I think I hide it well.

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By *olden PoleMan
49 weeks ago

Kent

Wow….you know what Jaga, there’s one who’s the love of my life. She’s been in my head and heart since forever it feels. Sometimes I go back to the places we went and remember so hard that I try and turn back time. We were young and I guess I thought I had forever to bide my time and find the words that never came….maybe I was scared of fucking up the there and then.

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By *aitonelMan
49 weeks ago

Travelling

No reason not to tell them.

Bottling up long term is not good, it comes out one way or another, and not always in the best way.

Saying it let's it out and has it been said, it make change things or nothing changes. But it's out and you no longer have to carry around the baggage of keeping it in.

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By *affron40Woman
49 weeks ago

manchester

I can’t hold stuff in so I’ll say it regardless.

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By *edeWoman
49 weeks ago

the abyss

Honestly? Probably not, I don't express myself to many people even if they are close to me. Maybe it's a defence mechanism or just the way I'm programmed, I'm not sure. But I know if I didn't say it the first time round, I wasn't ready to share

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
49 weeks ago

little house on the praire

I wouldn't tell someone how much they hurt me anyway. I wouldn't give them the satisfaction

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
49 weeks ago

Southampton


"No reason not to tell them.

Bottling up long term is not good, it comes out one way or another, and not always in the best way.

Saying it let's it out and has it been said, it make change things or nothing changes. But it's out and you no longer have to carry around the baggage of keeping it in. "

Maybe so but it can lead to burnt fingers so I'm not doing that again

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

I’ve never had a relationship end badly, only amicably. I feel left out….

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By *aitonelMan
49 weeks ago

Travelling

I know Drama Freee wants me. He doesn't need to say it.

But I've made it clear, not until I get my Freddo! Making things clear and on the table is important. As important as a Freddo.

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago


"I know Drama Freee wants me. He doesn't need to say it.

But I've made it clear, not until I get my Freddo! Making things clear and on the table is important. As important as a Freddo. "

You dirtbag K! You cannot compare this to a FREDDO

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
49 weeks ago

Glasgow / London


"Would you tell them?

If you got the chance, would you tell them?"

Yeah. I would. But then, I’m quite chatty.

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By *hrek101Man
49 weeks ago

Herts

100% I would. I fell in love too late. I live with that regret

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago


"Would you tell them?

If you got the chance, would you tell them?

Yeah. I would. But then, I’m quite chatty."

Haha. That’s a good point… it would give us something else to talk about.

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By *aitonelMan
49 weeks ago

Travelling


"I know Drama Freee wants me. He doesn't need to say it.

But I've made it clear, not until I get my Freddo! Making things clear and on the table is important. As important as a Freddo.

You dirtbag K! You cannot compare this to a FREDDO"

It needed to be said!

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By *oofy321Man
49 weeks ago

moon base zero

I was married at the time and I fell in love with someone, never told her but I knew she felt the same but because I was married we did nothing..unfortunately she passed away and I never got to tell her or find out if she really felt the same..

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By *parkle1974Woman
49 weeks ago

Leeds

Yes and have done x

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

No.

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago


"Would you tell them?

Looking back there's always one right, one where you didn't say what you wanted to say.

Didn't tell them how much they actually mean to you, or how much they've actually fucking hurt you.

Or maybe you just wanted to tell them they were a little bit hot. Or not.

If you got the chance, would you tell them?"

No, there's absolutely no point.

Write it down on a piece of paper, like a letter to them, take it outside, set fire to it and watch it burn and be gone for good.

If they didn't know how much they meant to you then they probably couldn't 'see you' anyway.

If they hurt you they won't care and they won't take away that hurt with anything they say so let it go, don't waste you breath.

And no.

And the day I do the above myself won't be a day too soon. I'm working on it though.

I did get the opportunity to say something to someone that hurt me recently, their response was all the right ones with sorry's included. But that was only because they wanted to get back in my knickers. So it was as insincere as it can get. Am I angry, no. I got to say it, they know. That's enough for me.

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