FabSwingers.com forum: Tips for lasting

By *indsor55 OP Man
47 weeks ago

Ringwood

This one goes out to the fab community. What’s everyone’s tips for lasting longer before they cum

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

Stubbornness

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By *aitonelMan
47 weeks ago

Liverpool

Don't move

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By *hunky GentMan
47 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

A tactical wank.

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By *sername already in useMan
47 weeks ago

manchester

Think of your nan.

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

Refuse to tell him he's doing it wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

Bag off her head

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
47 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

Imagining a you're in a foursome with the Crankies and Nicola Sturgeon.

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
47 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

"Imagining a you're in a foursome with the Crankies and Nicola Sturgeon."

*Krankies. Schoolboy error.

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

I'll send you a picture of my face.

Generally works.

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By *hunky GentMan
47 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"I'll send you a picture of my face.

Generally works. "

Awwww.

I bet you're cute

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

"I'll send you a picture of my face.

Generally works.

Awwww.

I bet you're cute

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By *hunky GentMan
47 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"I'll send you a picture of my face.

Generally works.

Awwww.

I bet you're cute

No"

I'll get me coat

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
47 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

If the idea is not to get off I may be doing it wrong.

But my way works for me

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

There’s a way to last longer???

*Woody licks his pencil and gets his notepad ready.

I’m listening.

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By *RWoodyCouple
47 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

I can honestly say I've never wanted to last longer, or for the guy to last longer either!

If its quick then you're doing something right

J x

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By *hunky GentMan
47 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"I can honestly say I've never wanted to last longer, or for the guy to last longer either!

If its quick then you're doing something right

J x"

And there's always round 2, 3, 4.....

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

A woman might take it as a compliment if you finish early …. But I guess as long as you don’t just pull your pants up and leave straight after

Foreplay for her…while you’re getting ‘ready to go again’ for round 2 ….

Or make sure you give her the Ooooooooooo haha before you….

Ignoring all that… just have a wank before the meet

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

"A woman might take it as a compliment if you finish early …. But I guess as long as you don’t just pull your pants up and leave straight after

Oh no, please do

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By *orny PTMan
47 weeks ago

Peterborough

Depression, nerve damage, bad circulation, numb penis, happy pills * delete as appropriate

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

"A woman might take it as a compliment if you finish early …. But I guess as long as you don’t just pull your pants up and leave straight after

Oh no, please do"

Only if you insist

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

Just cum and pretend that nothing happened, keep pumping away

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

Only have sex with men scared of the clitoris.

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By *an1978Woman
47 weeks ago

GONE/TIMEOUT (No DMs please)

Depression and the Meds that come along with it can do the job for many...

I'm happy with 5-10 mins so have had to tap out on more than one occasion after an hour

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By *olden_AdonisMan
47 weeks ago

london

"I'll send you a picture of my face.

Generally works. "

Don’t believe this one bit!

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By *ayHaychMan
47 weeks ago

Leeds (Home) / Sheffield (Work)

Breath work, strength training, and pacing yourself from the beginning.

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
47 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

"Only have sex with men scared of the clitoris."

Scared? We can't even find it!

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By *pstanding CitizenMan
47 weeks ago

Nottingham

"Only have sex with men scared of the clitoris."

Where do we find that?

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By *hriscooperMan
47 weeks ago

Warrington

"Only have sex with men scared of the clitoris.

Where do we find that?

She's clearly on about those sweets that Bertie Bassett used to advertise.

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

Well, I don't want to say it but I will. I would recommend closing your eyes and picturing your nana shouting BINGO and it's the fucking jackpot would you believe it she has waited her whole life for this moment. 10k cash in her hand. She's crying her eyes out screaming BINGO BINGO BINGO and everybody is clapping and the man is running over to check her tickets and her friends are offering Werther's Originals to everyone in the hall she is so happy you've never seen her smile so much and her mouth can't can't hold her dentures she is so blessed today didn't your nana always deserve that? I know she did it is a universal experience we all go through but guess what it's just a fucking dream it never happened life is cruel and life is not fair but honestly thinking these kind of things really helps you to last so much longer.

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By *aitonelMan
47 weeks ago

Liverpool

"Well, I don't want to say it but I will. I would recommend closing your eyes and picturing your nana shouting BINGO and it's the fucking jackpot would you believe it she has waited her whole life for this moment. 10k cash in her hand. She's crying her eyes out screaming BINGO BINGO BINGO and everybody is clapping and the man is running over to check her tickets and her friends are offering Werther's Originals to everyone in the hall she is so happy you've never seen her smile so much and her mouth can't can't hold her dentures she is so blessed today didn't your nana always deserve that? I know she did it is a universal experience we all go through but guess what it's just a fucking dream it never happened life is cruel and life is not fair but honestly thinking these kind of things really helps you to last so much longer. "

Well I'm off... To have a wank over this

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By *layfullsamMan
47 weeks ago

Solihull

Don’t penetrate, but it might not help you if you’re really bad

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By *ormally NudeMan
47 weeks ago

Oxfordshire

Dapoxetineor marketed as Priligy.

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By *inacolada3Couple
47 weeks ago

kettering

Put a wank in the bank a couple of hours before you have a shag !

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By *layfullsamMan
47 weeks ago

Solihull

Why don't you stay, just a little bit longer

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

"Bag off her head "

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By *tylebender03Man
47 weeks ago

Manchester

I rank my favourite Godzilla movies from best to worst

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By *layfullsamMan
47 weeks ago

Solihull

Relax, don't do it when you want to come,

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By *ormally NudeMan
47 weeks ago

Oxfordshire

Dapoxetineor marketed as Priligy.

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By *RWoodyCouple
47 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

"I can honestly say I've never wanted to last longer, or for the guy to last longer either!

If its quick then you're doing something right

J x

And there's always round 2, 3, 4.....

You know how this goes

J x

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By *hunky GentMan
47 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"I can honestly say I've never wanted to last longer, or for the guy to last longer either!

If its quick then you're doing something right

J x

And there's always round 2, 3, 4.....

You know how this goes

J x"

It's been a while, but.......

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

"Refuse to tell him he's doing it wrong."

Fuck I love you for that

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By *andybigboiMan
47 weeks ago

Mount Pleasant

"A tactical wank.

Tactical love it!

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

Practice edging while wanking, deep breaths, slow down, kegel exercises

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By *orny PTMan
47 weeks ago

Peterborough

"Only have sex with men scared of the clitoris.

Where do we find that?

Netflix?

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

"Practice edging while wanking, deep breaths, slow down, kegel exercises

Slow down?

Harder faster bang bang bang bang!!

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

Marriage

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By *ilva69Man
47 weeks ago

stockport

"Imagining a you're in a foursome with the Crankies and Nicola Sturgeon."
mmmm that’s having the adverse effect

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By *ilthycoupleabzCouple
47 weeks ago

Aberdeen

"Practice edging while wanking, deep breaths, slow down, kegel exercises

Slow down?

Harder faster bang bang bang bang!!

You don't always have to fuck her hard. In fact, sometimes, its not right to do

MrsAbz

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

"Practice edging while wanking, deep breaths, slow down, kegel exercises

Slow down?

Harder faster bang bang bang bang!!

Fun fact, saying this along with "please keep going" automatically makes my stupid body want to cum

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By *hunky GentMan
47 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"Imagining a you're in a foursome with the Crankies and Nicola Sturgeon."

That's a fan-dabby-dozy idea.

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

Try reverse psychology and think you have to cum as fast as you can.

Add some orgasm control games to your play.

The opposite works for ladies who struggle with their orgasm. Telling them they're not allowed to takes the stress and focus off of trying to cum and they can relax. Then enjoy some punishment for being so naughty too. Win win.

Most research in to guys who want to last longer says it's made worse the more performance anxiety they have. So make it a race. See how quickly you can do it.

Then take the focus off penetration and enjoy all the other parts of sex. Get the toys out and have fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

"Practice edging while wanking, deep breaths, slow down, kegel exercises

Slow down?

Harder faster bang bang bang bang!!

Fun fact, saying this along with "please keep going" automatically makes my stupid body want to cum

Haha. An ex playmate of mine banned me from telling him I was about to cum as he would lose control.

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By *ullyMan
47 weeks ago

Near Clacton

Topical pain relief like Lanacane.

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

"Practice edging while wanking, deep breaths, slow down, kegel exercises

Slow down?

Harder faster bang bang bang bang!!

Fun fact, saying this along with "please keep going" automatically makes my stupid body want to cum

Haha. An ex playmate of mine banned me from telling him I was about to cum as he would lose control."

Oh my God same! But then I can't slow down because I still want her to cum so it's over for both of us

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
47 weeks ago

North West

"Practice edging while wanking, deep breaths, slow down, kegel exercises

Slow down?

Harder faster bang bang bang bang!!

You don't always have to fuck her hard. In fact, sometimes, its not right to do

MrsAbz "

Sometimes you've got to make some lurve

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

"Practice edging while wanking, deep breaths, slow down, kegel exercises

Slow down?

Harder faster bang bang bang bang!!

Fun fact, saying this along with "please keep going" automatically makes my stupid body want to cum

Haha. An ex playmate of mine banned me from telling him I was about to cum as he would lose control.

Oh my God same! But then I can't slow down because I still want her to cum so it's over for both of us

Don't slow down!

the cheat code I found was to tell him just as I started to orgasm and we would cum together, which is the hottest thing anyway. Then a little breather and a cuddle and round 2 or 3 or wherever we had got to, or just passing out exhausted...

damn. This nostalgia almost makes me want to text him haha

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

"Practice edging while wanking, deep breaths, slow down, kegel exercises

Slow down?

Harder faster bang bang bang bang!!

Fun fact, saying this along with "please keep going" automatically makes my stupid body want to cum

Haha. An ex playmate of mine banned me from telling him I was about to cum as he would lose control.

Oh my God same! But then I can't slow down because I still want her to cum so it's over for both of us

Don't slow down!

damn. This nostalgia almost makes me want to text him haha"

Ooooh noted!

you should definitely text him and if he doesn't reply, I will

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By *inky ChefMan
47 weeks ago

Norwich

Have a look at the clock (discreetly) at the start and when I feel close to cum.

Then willpower, slowing down or changing position.

If there's no clock, then wing it.

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

"Practice edging while wanking, deep breaths, slow down, kegel exercises

Slow down?

Harder faster bang bang bang bang!!

You don't always have to fuck her hard. In fact, sometimes, its not right to do

MrsAbz "

I was talking about me.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
47 weeks ago

North West

"Have a look at the clock (discreetly) at the start and when I feel close to cum.

Then willpower, slowing down or changing position.

If there's no clock, then wing it."

This is excellent advice

Bonus points for wearing either a Casio calculator watch or some kind of cartoon watch!

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By *inky ChefMan
47 weeks ago

Norwich

"Have a look at the clock (discreetly) at the start and when I feel close to cum.

Then willpower, slowing down or changing position.

If there's no clock, then wing it.

This is excellent advice

Bonus points for wearing either a Casio calculator watch or some kind of cartoon watch! "

***

The clock, not the watch.

I like to start with doggie, so I usually get away with it.

It's for everyone's benefit.

I didn't wear a watch since 2001.

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By *mf123Man
47 weeks ago

with one foot out the door

Just go again

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By *ensuallover1000Man
47 weeks ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

Insert one’s phallus into a container of liquid nitrogen….

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

"Practice edging while wanking, deep breaths, slow down, kegel exercises

Slow down?

Harder faster bang bang bang bang!!

Fun fact, saying this along with "please keep going" automatically makes my stupid body want to cum

Haha. An ex playmate of mine banned me from telling him I was about to cum as he would lose control.

Oh my God same! But then I can't slow down because I still want her to cum so it's over for both of us

Don't slow down!

damn. This nostalgia almost makes me want to text him haha

Ooooh noted!

you should definitely text him and if he doesn't reply, I will

Haha thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

"Just go again "

A solid option. Round 2 almost always lasts longer. I've had a couple of partners who would call the first time they cum the foreplay or warm up. That's easier for some than others though.

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