FabSwingers.com forum: Love but no lust?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Can you love someone but have no desire to have sex with them?

To me this is a foreign concept and completely wrong.

What do you think?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course. There are many types of love !

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By *izandpaulCouple
over a year ago

merseyside

"Can you love someone but have no desire to have sex with them?

To me this is a foreign concept and completely wrong.

What do you think?"

I love my mum, dad, brothers and children.

Does that help.

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By *ogNMuseCouple
over a year ago

Surrey

Your mum?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

To clarify whilst in an exclusive marriage, you funny lot!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

According to my ex yes but usually means they are banging someone else.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Love and lust are entirely separate things to me.

I like when both exist together. But I also like having platonic friends and fuck buddies. I don't need anyone to give me everything

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Bliss

Yep, certain hormonal variables aka menopause, is very successful at wiping out any libido completely

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By *hunky ChefMan
over a year ago

Norwich

There are many forms of love.

I love my ex, but she would piss me off, if she would want to have sex with me.

I mean we didn't have any in 7 years, and divorced 4 years ago.

She still plays an important part in my life.

Mother of my child.

Probably the only person I trust with absolutely anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can you love someone but have no desire to have sex with them?

To me this is a foreign concept and completely wrong.

What do you think?"

Wrong for you, reality for many.

At one end of the spectrum Asexual people exist and many of them have or desire romantic relationships.

Some folks are Aromatic and don't experience romantic love, but do experience lust.

Romantic love and sexual attraction are biologically quite separate things, it is just seen as most common to experience them both at the same time and for the same person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love and lust can be very separate things...

Those rare people they combine with are pretty damn special.

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

I love my friends deeply but don't want to jump their bones. Well some of them maybe

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