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Love but no lust?

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By *rBlueSky2018 OP   Man
50 weeks ago

Ross

Can you love someone but have no desire to have sex with them?

To me this is a foreign concept and completely wrong.

What do you think?

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By (user no longer on site)
50 weeks ago

Of course. There are many types of love !

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By *izandpaulCouple
50 weeks ago

merseyside


"Can you love someone but have no desire to have sex with them?

To me this is a foreign concept and completely wrong.

What do you think?"

I love my mum, dad, brothers and children.

Does that help.

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By *ogNMuseCouple
50 weeks ago

Surrey

Your mum?

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By *rBlueSky2018 OP   Man
50 weeks ago

Ross

To clarify whilst in an exclusive marriage, you funny lot!

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By (user no longer on site)
50 weeks ago

According to my ex yes but usually means they are banging someone else.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
50 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Love and lust are entirely separate things to me.

I like when both exist together. But I also like having platonic friends and fuck buddies. I don't need anyone to give me everything

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By *hrista BellendWoman
50 weeks ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Yep, certain hormonal variables aka menopause, is very successful at wiping out any libido completely

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By *inky ChefMan
50 weeks ago

Norwich

There are many forms of love.

I love my ex, but she would piss me off, if she would want to have sex with me.

I mean we didn't have any in 7 years, and divorced 4 years ago.

She still plays an important part in my life.

Mother of my child.

Probably the only person I trust with absolutely anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
50 weeks ago


"Can you love someone but have no desire to have sex with them?

To me this is a foreign concept and completely wrong.

What do you think?"

Wrong for you, reality for many.

At one end of the spectrum Asexual people exist and many of them have or desire romantic relationships.

Some folks are Aromatic and don't experience romantic love, but do experience lust.

Romantic love and sexual attraction are biologically quite separate things, it is just seen as most common to experience them both at the same time and for the same person.

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By *ycanNightsMan
50 weeks ago

Workington

Love and lust can be very separate things...

Those rare people they combine with are pretty damn special.

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By *edeWoman
50 weeks ago

the abyss

I love my friends deeply but don't want to jump their bones. Well some of them maybe

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