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By *ltr OP   Man
over a year ago

sheffield

It may have been covered before,but this weekend was out with friends and one of my mates wife was chatting to me privately and said to me your on fab swingers aren't you .Shocked I said no but she then pulled up a picture of me on my profile and said yep you are I started to panic as I wasn't bothered about her finding out I was on fab was that It was bi on my profile , she said don't worry her and hubby had been on for ages no one knew and he was bi and would like to meet up some time I don't know whether to oblige or to decline as we are friends and don't want to make it awkward between us if it goes tits up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing this specific has been brought up before so I hope you get some good advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My advice by the way is to leave it alone. Don’t do it.

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By *ltr OP   Man
over a year ago

sheffield


"My advice by the way is to leave it alone. Don’t do it. "

I know it's a tricky one as will they take it iam been stand offish or do just chat

To them and decline on the grounds that it could be a mine field and could ruin a friend ship

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Are you attracted to them?

If you're worried it will affect the friendship, you can politely decline stating just that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My advice by the way is to leave it alone. Don’t do it. "

I concur. At least, not yet until you've all had a good discussion about it....what boundaries and all that.

Good luck.

M

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

Never play with friends is my advice

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By *ltr OP   Man
over a year ago

sheffield


"Are you attracted to them?

If you're worried it will affect the friendship, you can politely decline stating just that. "

Both very attractive but it's my worry it will ruin a friendship that spans 20 years if we do the deed and it goes wrong I think I will just decline and explain my fears thanks all its helped

Been able to chat it's not something you can bring up with vanillas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t shit where you eat

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Away for Christmas


"Don’t shit where you eat "

Kinda goes against the whole rimming concept really. Not a fan?

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By *ltr OP   Man
over a year ago

sheffield


"Don’t shit where you eat "

A bit blunt but it's right lol

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere else


"Never play with friends is my advice "

I only play with enemies

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

There is more chance for it to get messy than not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It may have been covered before,but this weekend was out with friends and one of my mates wife was chatting to me privately and said to me your on fab swingers aren't you .Shocked I said no but she then pulled up a picture of me on my profile and said yep you are I started to panic as I wasn't bothered about her finding out I was on fab was that It was bi on my profile , she said don't worry her and hubby had been on for ages no one knew and he was bi and would like to meet up some time I don't know whether to oblige or to decline as we are friends and don't want to make it awkward between us if it goes tits up "

I wouldn't fuck them and I'd probably also delete my profile. I'd be concerned they would b mail me about the bi thing and Out me if I did and/ or didn't meet them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is more chance for it to get messy than not "

And not in a good way!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don’t shit where you eat

Kinda goes against the whole rimming concept really. Not a fan? "

That would be don’t eat where you shit

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Away for Christmas


"Don’t shit where you eat

Kinda goes against the whole rimming concept really. Not a fan?

That would be don’t eat where you shit "

Depends on ones priorities

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I'd say leave it personally

How discreet will they be if you did anything with them or if it goes tits up.

They weren't bothered about letting you know they saw you on fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

decline and remain friends

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"Never play with friends is my advice

I only play with enemies "
omg Yorkie you're like a ninja

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Imo it's too close to home OP....you may risk ruining the friendship too....

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