FabSwingers.com forum: Verified by ? People by ? Meet

By (user no longer on site) OP
47 weeks ago

Since you've been on here and acquired verifications, or you may not have, how many are you left with that you can actually display today of you wanted to?

You don't need to give actual numbers, you could give a rough answer like under half or even a percentage.

But as people come and go from fab, people turn out to be sods and end up blocked, people verify from socials that never ended up being sex or it was a group social event. People verify more than once. Etc etc.

How much does you summary actually reflect in numbers your actual sex life? And how many are you left with that could be displayed?

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By *ris GrayMan
47 weeks ago

Dorchester

I have one, i don't need them or ask for them

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By *ellinever70Woman
47 weeks ago

Ayrshire

My summary isn't representative of my sex life

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By *lik and PaulCouple
47 weeks ago

Flagrante

Verifications on here are a tiny part of our overall sex/swinging life.

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By *affron40Woman
47 weeks ago

manchester

Complete lie. 43 veris of which only was was more than social.

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

I prefer to keep what ever I do in private, well private.

I couldn't careless if a grown ass man thinks I'm not real because I don't have a verification. I also don't feel the need to prove I am, or prove I know how to have sex. (I do! I read a book and everything).

So basically none OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

I’d love to display ALL my old verifications as I literally think of EVERYONE fondly. And some a lot more than that, but a new profile and all that jazz.

Others are just social verifications to prove I exist and do actualy meet face to face for social and not a time waster. (Someone told me I sounded like a time waster ??? Wtf?)

Maybe I’m lucky.

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By *carlet SeductionWoman
47 weeks ago

Maidstone

None. I hate verifications. I won't display mine as their no one's business. I'm not keen to read others as I have a brain.

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By *affeine DuskMan
47 weeks ago

Caerphilly

All my veris are always visible. Only time they disappear is when someone pops an UNLOS.

And they would tell you nothing of my sex life.

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By *ris GrayMan
47 weeks ago

Dorchester

"None. I hate verifications. I won't display mine as their no one's business. I'm not keen to read others as I have a brain. "

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
47 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Verified by 27 people, newest 12 hours ago

8 fem. 12 men. 5 cpl. 2 tv/ts. By 36 meet.

I've met a lot more than 27 people across 36 meets. I didn't have sexual contact with all of them. I intend to have further sexual contact with less. I'd show maybe 5 if I was showing verifications from those I do want to see again

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By *adCherriesCouple
47 weeks ago

Cheshire/Northwest

Even if people leave they stay on your summary.

This is approximately our 8th fab account because we sometimes take a break, delete and then return. We would probably have around 300 verifications if we hadn't deleted.

Only around 35 would be from play though and the rest would be from people we have chatted to at parties/clubs.

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By *ealitybitesMan
47 weeks ago

Belfast

My verifications are not linked to my sexlife at all.

I have hidden some that were given by people who couldn't maintain the persona they displayed when I met and verified them but again no sex was involved.

I have accumulated 60+ verifications across almost 8 years and 4 different profiles and only 10 percent of those ever went beyond a social.

I have no interest in discussing or displaying details of my sex life with random strangers so anyone searching for clues among mine will be disappointed.

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By *eliWoman
47 weeks ago

Not in the slightest. Not the number nor the content.

I have never left nor will I ever display a sexual veri - that's not me.

I can display quite a few because they make no reference to sex and that works for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

Oh, are we talking about sexual reviews???….

Sorry, I misunderstood…. None of my verifications read like an erotic novel. Sadly, it just showed I wasn’t a dickhead.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
47 weeks ago

"My verifications are not linked to my sexlife at all.

I have hidden some that were given by people who couldn't maintain the persona they displayed when I met and verified them but again no sex was involved.

I have accumulated 60+ verifications across almost 8 years and 4 different profiles and only 10 percent of those ever went beyond a social.

I have no interest in discussing or displaying details of my sex life with random strangers so anyone searching for clues among mine will be disappointed. "

You seem to be the first to vitally answer my thread properly. Thank you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
47 weeks ago

I can only display half my total number of verifications, the rest cease to exist and only show in the summary. And only half of those were people I got naked with.

This is the kind of answer I was looking for.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
47 weeks ago

The actual content in the verifications is irrelevant, wether you have verifications that say anything sexual is completely irrelevant

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By *uffolkcouple-bi onlyCouple
47 weeks ago

West Suffolk

"Since you've been on here and acquired verifications, or you may not have, how many are you left with that you can actually display today of you wanted to?

You don't need to give actual numbers, you could give a rough answer like under half or even a percentage.

How much does you summary actually reflect in numbers your actual sex life? And how many are you left with that could be displayed?

We display all our verifications that we have received, some have since left the site so their verification goes as well.

We do get quite a few that don’t want to do verifications, also if we meet more than once we dont swap verifications again.

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By *endydick.CumbersnatchMan
47 weeks ago

"Oh, are we talking about sexual reviews???….

Sorry, I misunderstood…. None of my verifications read like an erotic novel. Sadly, it just showed I wasn’t a dickhead. "

Some of the veris I've read have been like gushing fan fiction retelling of Barbra Cartland novels. Soooo many superlatives and white knighting in the hope of turning "I overheard her Fab name at the club and held a door open for her" through a gushing veri to a failed hook up. There are some I've read which have tested my gag reflex.

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

"Oh, are we talking about sexual reviews???….

Sorry, I misunderstood…. None of my verifications read like an erotic novel. Sadly, it just showed I wasn’t a dickhead.

Your name is brilliant!!!!

But yes, some are just lamppost pissing and flexing their sexual prowess

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

Out of the 6272 verifications, 6273 have involved sex.

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By *ris GrayMan
47 weeks ago

Dorchester

"The actual content in the verifications is irrelevant, wether you have verifications that say anything sexual is completely irrelevant "
Their has to be relevence to some or why would they require it or read it?

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By *eliWoman
47 weeks ago

"I can only display half my total number of verifications, the rest cease to exist and only show in the summary. And only half of those were people I got naked with.

This is the kind of answer I was looking for."

Ah I understand now!

I can't display seven of them I think. Sure it's seven.

The amount I've been intimate with? X.

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By *arla SwingerWoman
47 weeks ago

Somewhere

Mine reflect not much to do with my sex life... I've had sex more than once

Previous account I had near to 30 veris, didn't display any of those either. Think the whole veri thing is mental anyways. Nobody walks around in real life with a sign attached to em stating how many folk they've shagged/chatted to whatever

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By (user no longer on site) OP
47 weeks ago

"I can only display half my total number of verifications, the rest cease to exist and only show in the summary. And only half of those were people I got naked with.

This is the kind of answer I was looking for.

Ah I understand now!

I can't display seven of them I think. Sure it's seven.

The amount I've been intimate with? X.

I think my wording was crap

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

"The actual content in the verifications is irrelevant, wether you have verifications that say anything sexual is completely irrelevant "

Yet people choose to display the ones that portray them in the right way.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
47 weeks ago

Central

They're not indicative of my sex life, apart from having it. I've been here so long that I don't think about them. Such a blasé attitude perhaps means that I forget to give them to others

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By (user no longer on site) OP
47 weeks ago

"The actual content in the verifications is irrelevant, wether you have verifications that say anything sexual is completely irrelevant

Yet people choose to display the ones that portray them in the right way.

I don't display forumites.

If that gets misconstrued to me portraying myself a certain way then thats on the people that think that and their perception of me.

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By *ellhungvweMan
47 weeks ago

Cheltenham

I would guess that half my meets have probably disappeared/left fab over the years. I don’t tend to veri for socials.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
47 weeks ago

"The actual content in the verifications is irrelevant, wether you have verifications that say anything sexual is completely irrelevant

Yet people choose to display the ones that portray them in the right way.

And just in case it wasn't clear I meant irrelevant to the topic of the thread

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By *eliWoman
47 weeks ago

"I can only display half my total number of verifications, the rest cease to exist and only show in the summary. And only half of those were people I got naked with.

This is the kind of answer I was looking for.

Ah I understand now!

I can't display seven of them I think. Sure it's seven.

The amount I've been intimate with? X.

I think my wording was crap "

Not at all. It's early(ish) and my brain is currently functioning on mobile mode rather than desktop.

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By *illy IdolMan
47 weeks ago

Midlands

"The actual content in the verifications is irrelevant, wether you have verifications that say anything sexual is completely irrelevant

Yet people choose to display the ones that portray them in the right way.

Bit like selling a house really

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
47 weeks ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I've got a few, but most are socials

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By *aigeWoman
47 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

I think about half show, unlike others I think I fucked them all though and most were repeat offenders lol

It’s a fraction of my actual long term misbehaving and moments of abject sluttiness… although less opportunities these days.

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

I might leave one hidden, leave an air of mistery to who it is.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
47 weeks ago

Portsmouth

I'm not really awake enough to work out figures, but out of the actual veris, from the opposite sex that I've met in person, I think only 20% have resulted in the sex.

Some of them have now left or even been blocked.

Realistically... It's a less than 10% success rate. Those who I've met and would meet again.

Currently I could only display 1 verification to reflect on the amount of sex. Maybe 2 after this week.

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

"I'm not really awake enough to work out figures, but out of the actual veris, from the opposite sex that I've met in person, I think only 20% have resulted in the sex.

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Riiiggghtt. Is that the question???

Op. None, none of my verifications have resulted in sex. And I show them all.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
47 weeks ago

Leeds

I don't display sexual verifications I don't really like them, all ours shown are socials and social events, enough to show we turn up, we are who we say we are and we aren't catfishing anyone.

They don't represent our sex fab life at all because none of them shown are regarding sexual meets.

I think only 3 people who have verified us have left fab.

Mrs

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
47 weeks ago

Leeds

Actually I lie one shown was a sexual meet but the verification isn't sexual so I left it up.

Mrs

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By *imi_RougeWoman
47 weeks ago

Portsmouth

"I'm not really awake enough to work out figures, but out of the actual veris, from the opposite sex that I've met in person, I think only 20% have resulted in the sex.

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Riiiggghtt. Is that the question???

Op. None, none of my verifications have resulted in sex. And I show them all."

Yes, try reading it again... Slowly... lol

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By *imi_RougeWoman
47 weeks ago

Portsmouth

Oh and the 7% that would have been sex but they couldn't perform

I'd need to think about no shows

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By *cott73Man
47 weeks ago

brighton

Never ask for veris. It's all a bit of Facebook friends accumulation competition to me.

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By *ad NannaWoman
47 weeks ago

East London

0% of my verifications reflect my sex life.

I display all but older repeats from group socials or people I met at them.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
47 weeks ago

Portsmouth

10% that could have been sex, but they failed to get their act together or left it too long and I lost interest.

And another 10% that were no shows after arranging to meet for sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

"I'm not really awake enough to work out figures, but out of the actual veris, from the opposite sex that I've met in person, I think only 20% have resulted in the sex.

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Riiiggghtt. Is that the question???

Op. None, none of my verifications have resulted in sex. And I show them all.

Yes, try reading it again... Slowly... lol"

Caffeine !!! I need caffeine.

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By *affeine DuskMan
47 weeks ago

Caerphilly

"I'm not really awake enough to work out figures, but out of the actual veris, from the opposite sex that I've met in person, I think only 20% have resulted in the sex.

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Riiiggghtt. Is that the question???

Op. None, none of my verifications have resulted in sex. And I show them all.

Yes, try reading it again... Slowly... lol

Caffeine !!! I need caffeine.

I'm here babe.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
47 weeks ago

Portsmouth

"I'm not really awake enough to work out figures, but out of the actual veris, from the opposite sex that I've met in person, I think only 20% have resulted in the sex.

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Riiiggghtt. Is that the question???

Op. None, none of my verifications have resulted in sex. And I show them all.

Yes, try reading it again... Slowly... lol

Caffeine !!! I need caffeine.

I'm here babe.

Caffeine is always a good idea first thing in the morning!

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By *affeine DuskMan
47 weeks ago

Caerphilly

"I'm not really awake enough to work out figures, but out of the actual veris, from the opposite sex that I've met in person, I think only 20% have resulted in the sex.

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Riiiggghtt. Is that the question???

Op. None, none of my verifications have resulted in sex. And I show them all.

Yes, try reading it again... Slowly... lol

Caffeine !!! I need caffeine.

I'm here babe.

Caffeine is always a good idea first thing in the morning!"

Highly debatable, but reads like a cool veri, you're good at this!

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

"I'm not really awake enough to work out figures, but out of the actual veris, from the opposite sex that I've met in person, I think only 20% have resulted in the sex.

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Riiiggghtt. Is that the question???

Op. None, none of my verifications have resulted in sex. And I show them all.

Yes, try reading it again... Slowly... lol

Caffeine !!! I need caffeine.

I'm here babe.

Haha. Well done. You made me laugh!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

"I'm not really awake enough to work out figures, but out of the actual veris, from the opposite sex that I've met in person, I think only 20% have resulted in the sex.

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Riiiggghtt. Is that the question???

Op. None, none of my verifications have resulted in sex. And I show them all.

Yes, try reading it again... Slowly... lol

Caffeine !!! I need caffeine.

I'm here babe.

Caffeine is always a good idea first thing in the morning!"

Yes, along with a big slice of ‘sexy sex’

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By *imi_RougeWoman
47 weeks ago

Portsmouth

"I'm not really awake enough to work out figures, but out of the actual veris, from the opposite sex that I've met in person, I think only 20% have resulted in the sex.

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Riiiggghtt. Is that the question???

Op. None, none of my verifications have resulted in sex. And I show them all.

Yes, try reading it again... Slowly... lol

Caffeine !!! I need caffeine.

I'm here babe.

Caffeine is always a good idea first thing in the morning!

Yes, along with a big slice of ‘sexy sex’

No, none of that first thing...

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By *imi_RougeWoman
47 weeks ago

Portsmouth

Caffeine !!! I need caffeine.

I'm here babe.

Caffeine is always a good idea first thing in the morning!

Highly debatable, but reads like a cool veri, you're good at this!

Ha ha thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

Not even close. The majority of my sex life comes from outside fabs

Plus I’ve never been a fan of the sex verifications. I’d struggle to respect a woman with a wall of “sucks like a Dyson”

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By *ittlebirdWoman
47 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

Only a few of mine have gone UNLOS. So I’m now left with 3312 sexual ones

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

"I'm not really awake enough to work out figures, but out of the actual veris, from the opposite sex that I've met in person, I think only 20% have resulted in the sex.

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Riiiggghtt. Is that the question???

Op. None, none of my verifications have resulted in sex. And I show them all.

Yes, try reading it again... Slowly... lol

Caffeine !!! I need caffeine.

I'm here babe.

Caffeine is always a good idea first thing in the morning!

Yes, along with a big slice of ‘sexy sex’

No, none of that first thing..."

Hint taken. Haha.

*pours Mimi another cup of Joe.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
47 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

I could display all of them. They’re all lovely. I think a few have probably left so won’t be on there anymore.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
47 weeks ago

"I'm not really awake enough to work out figures, but out of the actual veris, from the opposite sex that I've met in person, I think only 20% have resulted in the sex.

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Riiiggghtt. Is that the question???

Op. None, none of my verifications have resulted in sex. And I show them all.

Yes, try reading it again... Slowly... lol

Caffeine !!! I need caffeine.

I'm here babe.

Brilliant

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By (user no longer on site) OP
47 weeks ago

Caffeine !!! I need caffeine.

I'm here babe.

Caffeine is always a good idea first thing in the morning!

Highly debatable, but reads like a cool veri, you're good at this!

Ha ha thanks

Agreed, has earned herself a good few gold stars! Her percentage work is on fire.

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

Can't make any as I've not received any.

No one wants me

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
47 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

About a quarter of mine have disappeared as people have left the site. I think it’s a bit of a shame that happens, but I understand why.

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

I have two this time around. I need more.......

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
47 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

"How much does you summary actually reflect in numbers your actual sex life?"

My veris don’t reflect my sex life. They reflect my Fab life, both sexual and social (but even then, only parts of it).

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
47 weeks ago

little house on the praire

Verified by 110

Meets 147.

But I stopped doing verifications 7 years ago

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

100% I've got 2 from 2 that are so around.

Would like to have more verifications and nearly got one from a lovely lady who we happened to meet while I'm the same coffee shop but couldn't chat.

If you wish it needs help getting more message me xx

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
47 weeks ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

All of ours that are there to show are shown, all socials and just the one that was more but nothing in it indicates what may or may not have happened.

Unless it's graphic we happily show them, as that's not our vibe

Tinder

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By *rHotNottsMan
47 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Of 45 just checked and 38 still there that could be displayed. I blocked 2 and 5 left / came back.

They are funny, accurate, sometimes embarrassing and cringy and I love them all but it’s pure self sabotage to display them when you use forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

Of all the ones I’ve had over my profiles I’d say I can display all of them except maybe one. But most of them have come from socials. I think maybe a quarter are from people I’ve slept with. I don’t know.

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By *oeBeansMan
47 weeks ago

Derby

I think I can display them all. My problem is that a very small percentage are sexual ones which I'm worried puts people off if they think I'm only ever social.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
47 weeks ago

Portsmouth

"I'm not really awake enough to work out figures, but out of the actual veris, from the opposite sex that I've met in person, I think only 20% have resulted in the sex.

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Riiiggghtt. Is that the question???

Op. None, none of my verifications have resulted in sex. And I show them all.

Yes, try reading it again... Slowly... lol

Caffeine !!! I need caffeine.

I'm here babe.

Caffeine is always a good idea first thing in the morning!

Yes, along with a big slice of ‘sexy sex’

No, none of that first thing...

Hint taken. Haha.

*pours Mimi another cup of Joe.

A cup of Joe Hoho Beans? That would definitely get me going.

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By *sername already in useMan
47 weeks ago

manchester

My mum wrote me a really sweet verification bless her, but she called me by my nickname in it and it’s embarrassing so I don’t display it.

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By *oeBeansMan
47 weeks ago

Derby

"*pours Mimi another cup of Joe.

A cup of Joe Hoho Beans? That would definitely get me going."

I'll be there with a coffee and more than a cup of myself if you need it

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By *ife NinjaMan
47 weeks ago

Dunfermline

As a single man, with all the difficulties experienced on here, I display them to I'm the real deal and respectful

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By *hrek101Man
47 weeks ago

Herts

"I prefer to keep what ever I do in private, well private.

So basically none OP.

This for me

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By *xfordjohnMan
47 weeks ago

Oxford

My veris don't really reflect my sex life at all as the couple I meet most often have never given me one.

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

100% of my verifications have never been bad.

I'm clearly awesome.

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

A big fat juicy zero.

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