FabSwingers.com forum: Married guy with a (genuine) pass. Give up or keep truckin’? ??

By *ihungdom OP Man
47 weeks ago

dublin

41yo married mechanic with genuine pass from wife (long story but can explain if needed!). No weird/bad motives - me and wife never got into scene but did group on and off for a few years and she lost interest. Is there room for a ‘single’ guy on the scene or should I just give up?

Not into smashin or blow & go, love meeting up for social meets n see what happens and have heard great things about general vibe of the scene in Dublin.

At this point I’m just looking for advice on how to get msgs from couples and not just single gay guys!

Seriously, any advice greatly appreciated.

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

Easiest way is to also have a couples profile that has your SM profile listed. Explain all on there and ask your partner if she is happy to talk on the phone with potential meets to confirm the green light. Once you have a couple of verifications which can include the line 'talked with wife' or 'got wife's approval' then you can close down the couples account and just use your solo.

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By *ellinever70Woman
47 weeks ago

Ayrshire

There will probably be many women that just won't meet you cos it would be too weird for them to speak to your wife to confirm she's all good with you going it alone

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

*just my opinion. Yes, there’s plenty of guys around, we could start a football league

I’m not sure how often you’ll get to enjoy a swinging scene though, but there’s enough people that make you feel welcome to make it worthwhile.

Or we just live with fantasies, what would you rather do?

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

"There will probably be many women that just won't meet you cos it would be too weird for them to speak to your wife to confirm she's all good with you going it alone "

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By *itygamesMan
47 weeks ago

give up , even though you can explain your pass its to complicated, swingings got to be fun and relaxed with no agg or re procussions possible.

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By *issmorganWoman
47 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Maybe list your situation on your profile op, so people are aware.

Will she speak to potential meets to confirm that she's happy with you meeting? I'd want that and wouldn't just take anyone's word for it. There's too many liars on fab.

Also I'd say think about who you're looking to attract, because your username and current pics probably won't be that appealing to some women and couples.

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By *izzy.Woman
47 weeks ago

Stoke area

Your username will put some people off. Your profile status is confusing as you refer to yourself being a new guy and yet you have a verification from 3 years ago.

You are unlikely to get messages from couples and need to put in the effort messaging couples and single ladies yourself.

The quickest way to meet people and get verifications which will help your journey is to attend a group social or go to a club.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
47 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross

Why ask if there is room for a 'married' guy ?

If you are looking for sex and offering sex that is what you advertise.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
47 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross

Message couples yourself.

Why wait for them to message you?

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By *affeine DuskMan
47 weeks ago

Caerphilly

Plenty of room.

Probably a different viewpoint on the forum, but it's a big ol' site past that.

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