FabSwingers.com forum: 1st Time swinger Help lol

By *iratebay999 OP Man
50 weeks ago

Stoke On Trent

OK I need some help. I want to get into swinging but there's an issue. I'm very shy and nervous plus not good at initialising conversations. Especially sexually flirty ones. My partner is more than happy fir me to play and she/we hopefully will be doing things together soon, I just need to get over nerves. I've never slept with another person whilst in a relationship and my ex's wouldn't let me talk to any women let alone have fun of any sort with them. My new partner is amazing and says its OK as she plays at local club regularly but I've heard similar before but reality is freak out when mentioning another female to my ex's and not even mentioning in sexusl way. This is holding me back from having any fun as worried my current partner be same "I know she not but hard to convince brain lol" Are there any women or couples out there that could help or advise or possible help me fully get over this stumbling block. I love driving so with in reason travelling not an issue just no bi men please is all I Ash xxxxx

By *TG3Man
50 weeks ago

Dorchester

Shy isn't good in this world, getting hard in groups or just with singles is controlled by your nerves

By *batMan
50 weeks ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)

What advice has your swinging girlfriend given you? Surely it would make sense to go to a club or meet with her?

Gbat