FabSwingers.com forum: Are You Autosexual?

By (user no longer on site) OP
51 weeks ago

Following on from my 'would you have sex with a clone of yourself?' thread.

Do any of the people that commented identify as Autosexual?

Does anyone else that didn't comment on it? Have you heard of the term?

Autosexuality is a sexual orientation where people are more sexually attracted to themselves than others.

Individuals may seek sexual arousal or stimulation through masturbation, fantasies, or sexual dreams, rather than sex or sexual thoughts involving another person.

For example, an autosexual person may feel aroused while looking at naked images of themselves rather than another individual.

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

Hell no. Others are way more attractive than me. I’m not that vain.

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By *eroLondonMan
51 weeks ago

Covent Garden

Salvador Dalí was autosexual. His painting "Metamorphosis of Narcissus" was attributed to this trait. That doesn't really answer your question. Sorry.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
51 weeks ago

"Salvador Dalí was autosexual. His painting "Metamorphosis of Narcissus" was attributed to this trait. That doesn't really answer your question. Sorry."

Still an interesting fact to share

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By *aitonelMan
51 weeks ago

Travelling

I can think of a few that think so highly if themselves that they would also view themselves as such.

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

"Salvador Dalí was autosexual. His painting "Metamorphosis of Narcissus" was attributed to this trait. That doesn't really answer your question. Sorry."

The fact you know this about Dali impressed me.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
51 weeks ago

ashford

Hmmm not heard of this! But think maybe I am a bit like this x

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By *a LunaWoman
51 weeks ago

South Wales

No. I did think it meant folk had sex with cars

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By (user no longer on site) OP
51 weeks ago

"No. I did think it meant folk had sex with cars

Actually people do that ...I saw this thing on TV once....after about 5 mins of him talking to and then kissing his car I turned it off. This is one of the many reasons I don't watch TV much.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
51 weeks ago

Sex wth cars kink is called Mechanophilia

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By *a LunaWoman
51 weeks ago

South Wales

"No. I did think it meant folk had sex with cars

Actually people do that ...I saw this thing on TV once....after about 5 mins of him talking to and then kissing his car I turned it off. This is one of the many reasons I don't watch TV much."

I dread to think what emissions would be coming from his exhaust pipe!

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

"No. I did think it meant folk had sex with cars

Mehta car do you drive V?

mines broken.

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

Wtf is this

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By (user no longer on site) OP
51 weeks ago

"Wtf is this"

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

"No. I did think it meant folk had sex with cars

Mehta car do you drive V?

mines broken.

*what car

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By *a LunaWoman
51 weeks ago

South Wales

"No. I did think it meant folk had sex with cars

Mehta car do you drive V?

mines broken.

It’s a French one (oooh La La!)

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

"Wtf is this

To be fair, I bought myself tweezers today

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

"No. I did think it meant folk had sex with cars

Mehta car do you drive V?

mines broken.

It’s a French one (oooh La La!)

Dm would you mind if I hold the key and slide it into the ignition and give it some revs?

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By *eordieJeansCouple
51 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

God no. I have days when I’m feeling myself but god knows why anyone wants to have sex with me.

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By *affron40Woman
51 weeks ago

manchester

Fuck no. I feed off the energy of another person.

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By *uri00620Woman
51 weeks ago

Croydon

"Sex wth cars kink is called Mechanophilia"

Yes, and there's also the French woman who married a rollercoaster and has to travel around the country to be with it (him?) as its a carnival ride. They have a son too apparently!!

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

Why would I be I'm ugly as fuck

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By *uzie69xTV/TS
51 weeks ago

Maidstone

In the MtF trans world, there is a thing called Autogynephilia.

Where a straight male gets so turned on by the idea of having boobs and a vagina that they transition and enjoy those body parts on themselves...

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

Erm, this just sounds narcissistic to be honest

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By (user no longer on site) OP
51 weeks ago

"Why would I be I'm ugly as fuck"

I wish you wouldn't be so down on yourself wonko.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
51 weeks ago

"In the MtF trans world, there is a thing called Autogynephilia.

Where a straight male gets so turned on by the idea of having boobs and a vagina that they transition and enjoy those body parts on themselves..."

Oh I don't know that one.

That's fascinating.

I have a question....off to Google I go.

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

This is my problem, no one matches my hotness.

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

"Why would I be I'm ugly as fuck

I wish you wouldn't be so down on yourself wonko.

I speak the truth

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By *eordieJeansCouple
51 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

"This is my problem, no one matches my hotness.

If you shaved more often you’d cool down.

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

"This is my problem, no one matches my hotness.

If you shaved more often you’d cool down."

Even the cream doesn't help.

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By *eordieJeansCouple
51 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

"This is my problem, no one matches my hotness.

If you shaved more often you’d cool down.

Even the cream doesn't help. "

Canesten?

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

"This is my problem, no one matches my hotness.

If you shaved more often you’d cool down.

Even the cream doesn't help.

Canesten?"

I have a subscription

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

"Fuck no. I feed off the energy of another person. "

Oh damn! This ^. But that’s another thread

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By *eordieJeansCouple
51 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

"This is my problem, no one matches my hotness.

If you shaved more often you’d cool down.

Even the cream doesn't help.

Canesten?

I have a subscription "

I have one of those for Dolce Gusto pods.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
51 weeks ago

Portsmouth

Maybe this is why I struggle to meet people...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
51 weeks ago

"Maybe this is why I struggle to meet people... "

Anyone who doesn't get meets now gets branded Autosexual

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

You're so vain. You probably think this thread is about you. Don't you?

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By *eroLondonMan
51 weeks ago

Covent Garden

It's about her... ^

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By *agneto.Man
51 weeks ago

Bham

There's got to be a fair few of them in here!

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By *as2cheatMan
51 weeks ago

harrow

Interesting I do feel more aroused wanking in the mirror , but not as aroused as have someone else

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By *illy IdolMan
51 weeks ago

Midlands

"This is my problem, no one matches my hotness.

If you shaved more often you’d cool down.

Even the cream doesn't help.

Canesten?

I have a subscription "

I think you and Carrick would be the perfect match

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By *agnar73Man
51 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

I suppose to get yourself off without

Porn or other stimulation that you ‘have to be into yourself’, a bit, however weird that seems

I do think I get more stimulated, hard, big, whatever with someone else, but, it’s okay to get my rocks off when I have to?

Or is it?

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By *imi_RougeWoman
51 weeks ago

Portsmouth

"You're so vain. You probably think this thread is about you. Don't you?"

Yeah she definitely is

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By *mf123Man
51 weeks ago

with one foot out the door

Nope but wanking is my future i just dont believe lightning can strike twice and im unwilling to accept less and im no longer capable of feeling that lightning anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

"I suppose to get yourself off without

Porn or other stimulation that you ‘have to be into yourself’, a bit, however weird that seems

I don't use porn or other stimulation, or even fantasise to wank, but I'm also not staring in to my own eyes in a mirror and getting horny from that. I'm not into myself like that.

I'm giving myself orgasms cos they feel nice, and help me relax and sleep. There's no "wow, I'm so sexy, damn I turn myself on" thoughts going on in my mind. Which is my interpretation of autosexual - you 'fancy' yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

To answer the OP - no, I don't sexually desire myself.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
51 weeks ago

little house on the praire

I'm definetly not

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

"Following on from my 'would you have sex with a clone of yourself?' thread.

Do any of the people that commented identify as Autosexual?

Does anyone else that didn't comment on it? Have you heard of the term?

Autosexuality is a sexual orientation where people are more sexually attracted to themselves than others.

Individuals may seek sexual arousal or stimulation through masturbation, fantasies, or sexual dreams, rather than sex or sexual thoughts involving another person.

For example, an autosexual person may feel aroused while looking at naked images of themselves rather than another individual.

If I looked like you I'd be at home fucking myself all night , I'd use biggusclittus to get the hard to reach spots

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
51 weeks ago

Most people looking at themselves like in a mirror are fantasying someone else is touching them,

Isn't the best sex you have in your head ?

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By *ddie1966Man
50 weeks ago

Paper Town Central, Essex.

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By *agnar73Man
50 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

"I suppose to get yourself off without

Porn or other stimulation that you ‘have to be into yourself’, a bit, however weird that seems

I don't use porn or other stimulation, or even fantasise to wank, but I'm also not staring in to my own eyes in a mirror and getting horny from that. I'm not into myself like that.

Expressed better than I did and I don’t think I’ve ever really looked at myself in the mirror thinking I fancy myself. So I’ll have to have a think.

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By *opinovMan
50 weeks ago

Point Nemo, Cumbria

I'd be a shit load more fulfilled if I was.

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By (user no longer on site)
50 weeks ago

I have experienced autofellatio, but sadly, no ... I don't do it for myself.

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By *ilverjagMan
50 weeks ago

swansea

Autosexual....I'll commit that word to memory. Next time I feel the urge to tell someone that they can go and fuck themselves, I'll be polite, and ask the them the question, "Do you consider yourself to be Autosexual?" 99% are not going to know the meaning, so I'll then explain in to them, and then tell them, "If you are autosexual then you can go and fuck yourself "

The reactions could be interesting to say the least.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
50 weeks ago

Leeds

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
50 weeks ago

Leeds

Oh god no, that's definitely not me, I need a connection & I don't really like myself.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
50 weeks ago

"Oh god no, that's definitely not me, I need a connection & I don't really like myself.

Mrs"

I feel the same as this sometimes. Isn’t it weird. I sometimes can’t believe someone could like me if I can’t see why?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
50 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross

I don't see it as vain or strange to be aroused by your own body. How can you not be ?

All sexual pleasure starts with the self. We tend to think otherwise as we are always looking outward and even more so due to magazines , and other visuals.

Autosexuality isn't narcissim one is sexual orientation and the other isn't.

As far as I'm concerned it's just another term that comes into the mainstream gaze and will be misused and applied endlessly in the wrong circumstances.

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By (user no longer on site)
50 weeks ago

"I don't see it as vain or strange to be aroused by your own body. How can you not be ?

All sexual pleasure starts with the self. We tend to think otherwise as we are always looking outward and even more so due to magazines , and other visuals.

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so I’m confused what is it then? Is it just making yourself sexual aroused by touch, and you’re just turning yourself on. Which, don’t we all do?

Or is it when you look at yourself in the mirror and think phwoar! I’m fit and you get aroused by the image of yourself? And you think of yourself as more attractive than anyone else you know. as that’s how I read it the opening post.

Which would seem very vain to me.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
50 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross

Closer to your first idea and your second idea is vanity - you are right.

The bloke who first used the term autosexuality thought it was a sexual disorder. I'm not inclined to think it is but he's the authority on the subject.

It's generally nothing more than getting more sexual satisfaction by yourself or by thoughts of yourself than through the person you are with.

Regardless of what it is , if it's anything at all , the word will be further picked up and suddenly we will have a room full of autosexuals to go with the internet full of narcissists and neurodivergents..... etc etc

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By (user no longer on site)
50 weeks ago

Granny. Right, so now that makes sense, and explains how I read (just a thread the other day) too much porn, etc. or having trouble getting aroused when with someone, but okay when alone, Maybe its too much porn, maybe it’s the fact they know themselves more than a lover. Maybe it’s something else that could highlight this in oneself. *I’m just adding a thought.

Op. No, I’m not autosexual, I’m quite the opposite.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
50 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross

oooooo good thought but to my mind it's different than not being able to get aroused in the company of others because that could be due to inhibitions, insecurities etc..... the autosexual is just aroused by themselves more than they are by others e.g. gets more satisfaction via masturbation than being wanked or fucked.

I'd pretty much guarantee that 100% of people here regardless of gender prefer their own wanking methods to the fumbling attempts of others...

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By *TG3Man
50 weeks ago

Dorchester

"oooooo good thought but to my mind it's different than not being able to get aroused in the company of others because that could be due to inhibitions, insecurities etc..... the autosexual is just aroused by themselves more than they are by others e.g. gets more satisfaction via masturbation than being wanked or fucked.

I'd pretty much guarantee that 100% of people here regardless of gender prefer their own wanking methods to the fumbling attempts of others... "
Exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
50 weeks ago

"…..the autosexual is just aroused by themselves more than they are by others e.g. gets more satisfaction via masturbation than being wanked or fucked.

I'd pretty much guarantee that 100% of people here regardless of gender prefer their own wanking methods to the fumbling attempts of others... "

I’ll do some practical research ….

I get far more satisfied with someone else, even their fumbling is probably better than my fumbling down there!

So I disagree with the 100percent.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
50 weeks ago

Leeds

I'd pretty much guarantee that 100% of people here regardless of gender prefer their own wanking methods to the fumbling attempts of others... "

I have to disagree, the Mr's hands feel far better than my own, the ability to let go is easier too.

Mrs

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
50 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross

ffs.....

I'm autosexual

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By (user no longer on site)
50 weeks ago

I'd pretty much guarantee that 100% of people here regardless of gender prefer their own wanking methods to the fumbling attempts of others... "

But an auto sexual would be wanking thinking of themselves and their body. Most of us are thinking/viewing/reading about scenarios or outfits or other people.

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By (user no longer on site)
50 weeks ago

No in definition not autosexual.

I love having sex with other people, yes sometimes its nice to satisfy yourself but I prefer having sex with others.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
50 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross

I'd pretty much guarantee that 100% of people here regardless of gender prefer their own wanking methods to the fumbling attempts of others...

But an auto sexual would be wanking thinking of themselves and their body. Most of us are thinking/viewing/reading about scenarios or outfits or other people.

ffs .... i'm even more autosexual

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
50 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross

Nope i'm not.

Apparently autosexuals have an 'intense' sexual attraction to themselves.

I don't. So I'm not. I'm just a wanker apparently.

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By (user no longer on site)
50 weeks ago

If stood in mirror taking matters in hand so to speak then get more aroused

But is this auto or just mind trick thinking you watching someone else etc.?

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By *affeine DuskMan
50 weeks ago

Caerphilly

Nah, not at all.

But if you give me an opportunity to have sex with a clone of me... I mean that's once in a lifetime, I just gotta know.

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By (user no longer on site)
50 weeks ago

I'd pretty much guarantee that 100% of people here regardless of gender prefer their own wanking methods to the fumbling attempts of others...

But an auto sexual would be wanking thinking of themselves and their body. Most of us are thinking/viewing/reading about scenarios or outfits or other people.

ffs .... i'm even more autosexual

You're toying with us aren't you?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
50 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross

I wouldn't know how to

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By (user no longer on site)
50 weeks ago

I don’t watch TV any more either… you’re a goddess btw.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
50 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross

"I don’t watch TV any more either… you’re a goddess btw."

Oh thanks ........

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
50 weeks ago

Southampton

Absolutely not lol

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By *ezandCCouple
50 weeks ago

Telford

Kez weirds herself out when she finds herself a turn on. I often joke to her that she would love fucking herself, I would certainly enjoy watching that.

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By *r_PinkMan
50 weeks ago

london stratford

I am not but there are LOADS on here who are!

either that or they are just up their own arse!

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