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By *cottish-sin69 OP   Man
48 weeks ago

scotland

Ive been struggling on here for a wee while, it seems that no matter what i do i can never grab a lasses attention. Though ill write a message that shows maturity when there bio asks or send msg being funny, cheeky but respectful... nothing seems to work dose anyone have suggestions plz

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By *he ass man 666Man
48 weeks ago

paradise city


"Ive been struggling on here for a wee while, it seems that no matter what i do i can never grab a lasses attention. Though ill write a message that shows maturity when there bio asks or send msg being funny, cheeky but respectful... nothing seems to work dose anyone have suggestions plz"

27 people in a year, think you should be giving the advice to us mate

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

How many people have you met if any?

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By *eroLondonMan
48 weeks ago

Mayfair

You've had ³° meets. I think that's outrageous behaviour. You really must try harder, dear fellow.

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By *cottish-sin69 OP   Man
48 weeks ago

scotland

Besides some friends from club events i went to, which is easier to engage with,my online ability is in question

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

Have pm'd you OP

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By *hirleyMan
48 weeks ago

somewhere


"Ive been struggling on here for a wee while, it seems that no matter what i do i can never grab a lasses attention. Though ill write a message that shows maturity when there bio asks or send msg being funny, cheeky but respectful... nothing seems to work dose anyone have suggestions plz"

You won't get attention writing messages to women here. You need a 3 foot penis and even then you may struggle bud.

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By *viatrixWoman
48 weeks ago

Redhill

Your profile is good. Your photos are good, you’re very cute and articulate. And you have lots of great veris, so don’t know what the problem is… do you want a different woman every day?

Give us a shout next time you go to AbFab. I am a sucker for cute-faced Scotsmen …

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By *cottish-sin69 OP   Man
48 weeks ago

scotland

I just feel its like squezzing blood from a stone when you go to hit all the boxes to be a genuine fabber but there are so many fake accounts it makes it harder for the real ones

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By *cottish-sin69 OP   Man
48 weeks ago

scotland

Thank you if im back down that way anytime soon ill give you a heads up alright

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago


"Besides some friends from club events i went to, which is easier to engage with,my online ability is in question "

So…….. you see people in person. What’s the problem? you’d rather just chat online?

*woody offers to swap!

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By *inky ChefMan
48 weeks ago

Norwich

Not sure you are being serious or just talking the piss.

If you are being serious, then check out 20 guy's profile randomly and look for verifications.

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By *cottish-sin69 OP   Man
48 weeks ago

scotland

Na its just when you dont go to clubs as offten due to life prioitorys with money (as single lads entrys to clubs is the price of a kidney hahah) ill tend to chat on here to see if anyone wants to have a social or any fun if they are just looking for that. But i seem to het no where at all

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

Use reply+quote to reply to a specific profile post

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By *inky ChefMan
48 weeks ago

Norwich


"Na its just when you dont go to clubs as offten due to life prioitorys with money (as single lads entrys to clubs is the price of a kidney hahah) ill tend to chat on here to see if anyone wants to have a social or any fun if they are just looking for that. But i seem to het no where at all"

***

Only 2 women commented and 1 definitely likes you.

The other one messaged you as well.

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By *cottish-sin69 OP   Man
48 weeks ago

scotland

Thanks for the help and suggestions guys and gals

As a single lad and any of the lads who msg know its hard to be the one guy to stand out in a sea of single men whole on here

Im not bragging at all the verifications are very spread out over the last year and not consistant, those are the times i went to clubs

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

You are welcome

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

27 people....can you teach me?

That's more than me in the past 5 years!

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By *cottish-sin69 OP   Man
48 weeks ago

scotland


"27 people....can you teach me?

That's more than me in the past 5 years! "

Thats 27 since 2018 though so i do get long very long lonley spells like every one else haha

Ur stunning though did you just not find anyone the grabbed your eye then?

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By *aydumfriesMan
48 weeks ago

heathhall


"27 people....can you teach me?

That's more than me in the past 5 years! "

I think he needs to be more picky......lol

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago


"27 people....can you teach me?

That's more than me in the past 5 years!

Thats 27 since 2018 though so i do get long very long lonley spells like every one else haha

Ur stunning though did you just not find anyone the grabbed your eye then?"

I struggle to a bit. But I did also have a two year relationship with one guy and went couple only so that's accounts for part of it.

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By *cottish-sin69 OP   Man
48 weeks ago

scotland


"27 people....can you teach me?

That's more than me in the past 5 years!

I think he needs to be more picky......lol "

If u read the veris you will see a fair few of them are from partys and clubs when i socialised is all.. dosnt mean i didnt play as well hahaha

I dont think i need to be more picky tbh im a single lad on a site that has thousands of sex hungry single lads on it and im under the age of 30 so the pool for people who will engage with me is reduced a fair bit haha

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

Have you tried leaping out at them with an airhorn whist wearing a bejewelled tracksuit? That usually gets their attention.

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By *aydumfriesMan
48 weeks ago

heathhall


"27 people....can you teach me?

That's more than me in the past 5 years!

I think he needs to be more picky......lol

If u read the veris you will see a fair few of them are from partys and clubs when i socialised is all.. dosnt mean i didnt play as well hahaha

I dont think i need to be more picky tbh im a single lad on a site that has thousands of sex hungry single lads on it and im under the age of 30 so the pool for people who will engage with me is reduced a fair bit haha"

Sorry bud i was being sarcastic.

I think you're doing fine tho mate. Sorry for any offence i didn't mean it like that. Ye big stud ye....

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By *cottish-sin69 OP   Man
48 weeks ago

scotland


"27 people....can you teach me?

That's more than me in the past 5 years!

I think he needs to be more picky......lol

If u read the veris you will see a fair few of them are from partys and clubs when i socialised is all.. dosnt mean i didnt play as well hahaha

I dont think i need to be more picky tbh im a single lad on a site that has thousands of sex hungry single lads on it and im under the age of 30 so the pool for people who will engage with me is reduced a fair bit haha

Sorry bud i was being sarcastic.

I think you're doing fine tho mate. Sorry for any offence i didn't mean it like that. Ye big stud ye...."

Aye thats alright everyone has the right to there thoughts, even if sarcastic or not right its how conversation continues and we progress as people right haha

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By *cottish-sin69 OP   Man
48 weeks ago

scotland


"Have you tried leaping out at them with an airhorn whist wearing a bejewelled tracksuit? That usually gets their attention. "

Aye attention of some bear mace and police handcuffs hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

I am struggling to feel sorry for you. I went to view your profile and first thing I see is you with two lingerie clad ladies. I think you're doing alright matey.

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By *aydumfriesMan
48 weeks ago

heathhall


"27 people....can you teach me?

That's more than me in the past 5 years!

I think he needs to be more picky......lol

If u read the veris you will see a fair few of them are from partys and clubs when i socialised is all.. dosnt mean i didnt play as well hahaha

I dont think i need to be more picky tbh im a single lad on a site that has thousands of sex hungry single lads on it and im under the age of 30 so the pool for people who will engage with me is reduced a fair bit haha

Sorry bud i was being sarcastic.

I think you're doing fine tho mate. Sorry for any offence i didn't mean it like that. Ye big stud ye....

Aye thats alright everyone has the right to there thoughts, even if sarcastic or not right its how conversation continues and we progress as people right haha"

Mate i stay in s/w Scotland, there's not many women around here. If you're being genuine and sticking to who you are even if you had 1 meet with a good veri then that's more satisfying to both you and whoever you met than trying to be someone your not.

I've met a few people but if I'm not feeling a connection that's as far as it goes.

Keep being you and you'll be fine bud.

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By *cottish-sin69 OP   Man
48 weeks ago

scotland


"I am struggling to feel sorry for you. I went to view your profile and first thing I see is you with two lingerie clad ladies. I think you're doing alright matey."

Well its a good thing i wasnt looking for sympathy but i get where your comming from, some photos can be miss leading with out context and this thread makes it out like im just fishing for responses but im being genuine, since i got back home up in scotland ive been struggling to connect with people on here

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago


"I am struggling to feel sorry for you. I went to view your profile and first thing I see is you with two lingerie clad ladies. I think you're doing alright matey.

Well its a good thing i wasnt looking for sympathy but i get where your comming from, some photos can be miss leading with out context and this thread makes it out like im just fishing for responses but im being genuine, since i got back home up in scotland ive been struggling to connect with people on here "

I think you're expecting a bit much. You've had a lot of success on here, and I would say you are having more luck than most men on the website. I would lower you expectations and try not to dwell on it. Women obviously like you and enjoy your company, so maybe if you've had more success in clubs try and get yourself to them as much as possible?

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By *cottish-sin69 OP   Man
48 weeks ago

scotland


"I am struggling to feel sorry for you. I went to view your profile and first thing I see is you with two lingerie clad ladies. I think you're doing alright matey.

Well its a good thing i wasnt looking for sympathy but i get where your comming from, some photos can be miss leading with out context and this thread makes it out like im just fishing for responses but im being genuine, since i got back home up in scotland ive been struggling to connect with people on here

I think you're expecting a bit much. You've had a lot of success on here, and I would say you are having more luck than most men on the website. I would lower you expectations and try not to dwell on it. Women obviously like you and enjoy your company, so maybe if you've had more success in clubs try and get yourself to them as much as possible? "

Thats a fair and sound suggestion thank you i appreciate you advice, ill try to get back to the clubs when the money and time avaliable to do so haha

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By *naswingdressWoman
48 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

Getting stuff to work online is hard for a lot of us (for different reasons).

You seem to have a pretty good profile and are doing well compared to most guys

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By *issmorganWoman
48 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

I think you have a pretty good profile op. you'd be too far and young for me, but I can't see anything obvious that would be stopping you getting a reply.

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By *trueceltMan
48 weeks ago

Bristol

I'm going back to basics and trying to do more in the real world. I live in quite a nice town so I'm trying to be a 'man about town', become a familiar face in a few different places and see what happens.

If it fails then Plan B is to lay a trail of breadcrumbs up to my front door. chocolate ones.

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago


"Ive been struggling on here for a wee while, it seems that no matter what i do i can never grab a lasses attention. Though ill write a message that shows maturity when there bio asks or send msg being funny, cheeky but respectful... nothing seems to work dose anyone have suggestions plz

27 people in a year, think you should be giving the advice to us mate "

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By *avexxMan
48 weeks ago

cheshire

just stay on the forums have a bit of fun and join in ,,,

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago


"just stay on the forums have a bit of fun and join in ,,,"

do you know the OP has had 27 meets this year?!

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By *aydumfriesMan
48 weeks ago

heathhall


"just stay on the forums have a bit of fun and join in ,,,

do you know the OP has had 27 meets this year?!"

No since 2017

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By *ob Carpe DiemMan
48 weeks ago

Torquay

I find most things have a happy ending involving an aubergine, but perhaps that's just me

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