FabSwingers.com forum: What is the one thing you have gone though and don't want to go through again

By *usman 199 OP Man
over a year ago

Stockport

Afternoon everyone

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By *romleyM41Man
over a year ago

orpington / surrounding

Divorce

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

The death of a child x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Heartbreak.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Hysteroscopy including biopsy with no pain relief... and driving the 15 miles home afterwards.

Nita

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Vitrectomy surgery on my eye

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"The death of a child x"

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Hysteroscopy including biopsy with no pain relief... and driving the 15 miles home afterwards.

Nita"

Some medical procedures are barbaric aren't they

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Those really small turnstiles of yesteryear that near took your fanwah off.....

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

Gout

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my child dying.

heartbreak.

i chose two, because i can. Px

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By *obilebottomMan
over a year ago

All over

"The death of a child x"

Nothing worse. Very sorry to hear

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Childhood! Early adult hood! Middle age! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Brain surgery, obviously not the surgery as I was out for that, but the immediate then the long term consequences of it.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Hysteroscopy including biopsy with no pain relief... and driving the 15 miles home afterwards.

Nita

Some medical procedures are barbaric aren't they"

Yes, they are...

Apparently, I should have been told to take pain killers beforehand... and had someone to drive me home...at least I know now

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

An anal fissure.

You asked

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)

My (LB) childhood.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Hysteroscopy including biopsy with no pain relief... and driving the 15 miles home afterwards.

Nita

Some medical procedures are barbaric aren't they

Yes, they are...

Apparently, I should have been told to take pain killers beforehand... and had someone to drive me home...at least I know now

I insisted on gas and air when I had mine done the second time and general anaesthetic for the first one. They let Mr N come in with me the second time

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By *r SproutMan
over a year ago

the middle

Handsworth

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Falling down the stairs and being left unable to walk without an aid

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By *uliette500Woman
over a year ago

Hull

The death of my partner 5 years ago.

That's why I'm on here and not looking for a 'proper' relationship.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Hysteroscopy including biopsy with no pain relief... and driving the 15 miles home afterwards.

Nita

Some medical procedures are barbaric aren't they

Yes, they are...

Apparently, I should have been told to take pain killers beforehand... and had someone to drive me home...at least I know now

I insisted on gas and air when I had mine done the second time and general anaesthetic for the first one. They let Mr N come in with me the second time "

The only option I got was to go back another day... gas & air would have been great. I decided to just get it over and done with.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

Marriage

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By *ddie1966Man
over a year ago

Paper Town Central, Essex.

Physical pain.. kidney stones.

Anguish pain. The death of people very very close to me. Taken way before their time.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Hysteroscopy including biopsy with no pain relief... and driving the 15 miles home afterwards.

Nita

Some medical procedures are barbaric aren't they

Yes, they are...

Apparently, I should have been told to take pain killers beforehand... and had someone to drive me home...at least I know now

I insisted on gas and air when I had mine done the second time and general anaesthetic for the first one. They let Mr N come in with me the second time

The only option I got was to go back another day... gas & air would have been great. I decided to just get it over and done with. "

Sometimes it's the least worse option. You were brave though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ealMissShadyWoman
over a year ago

St Albans/ Welsh Borders

Abusive relationship

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
over a year ago

A den in the Glen

"The death of a child x"

Same. Agree.

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By *hunky ChefMan
over a year ago

Norwich

My life except 10-15 good years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The "r" word that isn't allowed on the site...

My non-consent was ignored. By someone I was madly in love with.

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By *ucyLasticsWoman
over a year ago

North West

Well this is cheery at Christmas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Losing my twin.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Hysteroscopy including biopsy with no pain relief... and driving the 15 miles home afterwards.

Nita

Some medical procedures are barbaric aren't they

Yes, they are...

Apparently, I should have been told to take pain killers beforehand... and had someone to drive me home...at least I know now

I insisted on gas and air when I had mine done the second time and general anaesthetic for the first one. They let Mr N come in with me the second time

The only option I got was to go back another day... gas & air would have been great. I decided to just get it over and done with.

Sometimes it's the least worse option. You were brave though"

Thank you ??

Fortunately, I know I have a high pain threshold so should get through it OK. I wouldn't recommend it.

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By *hrek101Man
over a year ago

Herts

"The death of a child x"

Not saying cause no amount of pain I have experienced can compare xx

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By *obyn GravesTV/TS
over a year ago

1127 walnut avenue

Listening to the load album by

Metallica..

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By *inkylipsWoman
over a year ago

Debauchery

To many things to mention

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By *uck-RogersMan
over a year ago

Oakhill

Getting paint stripper on my crown jewels.

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By *tanley FunseekerMan
over a year ago

stanley

Death of people close to me, and unfortunately as I get older it’s guaranteed to happen again.

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By *educing_EmCouple
over a year ago

Tipperary

"The death of a child x"

I have nothing to say because nothing is worse than this.

Em x

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
over a year ago

Transsexual Transylvania

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By *ags73Man
over a year ago

glasgow-ish

death of my wife (you asked)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The loss of my first child

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By *xfordjohnMan
over a year ago

Oxford

"death of my wife (you asked)"

Same for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

DIVORCE

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By *JandCMCouple
over a year ago

cardiff

Going through a court case being guilty as hell with a 10 year prison sentence at the end.

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

Life saving surgery back in 2018.

Don't want to go there again anytime soon.

Mrs Mx

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By *uri00620Woman
over a year ago

Croydon

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By *uri00620Woman
over a year ago

Croydon

As an adult probably several miscarriages then being walked out on when pregnant in a cost of living crisis to be left a single parent.

But actually none of that is as bad a losing both parents as a kid and becoming "a looked after child".

On the plus side, that's something you can only go through once!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ages 0 to 17.

Reading the above comments is truly humbling, the shit people go through, the heartbreak of losing a child I know to a point but not like some above, my heart goes out to many of you. For some things there just isn't the words.

Sending love and all the best wishes in the world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hysteroscopy including biopsy with no pain relief... and driving the 15 miles home afterwards.

Nita

Some medical procedures are barbaric aren't they

Yes, they are...

Apparently, I should have been told to take pain killers beforehand... and had someone to drive me home...at least I know now

I insisted on gas and air when I had mine done the second time and general anaesthetic for the first one. They let Mr N come in with me the second time

The only option I got was to go back another day... gas & air would have been great. I decided to just get it over and done with.

Sometimes it's the least worse option. You were brave though

Thank you ??

Fortunately, I know I have a high pain threshold so should get through it OK. I wouldn't recommend it."

This surprises me, But also it makes me feel a bit better.

I went for one and had a biopsy done, I went alone. No pain relief nothing but I didn't find it massively painful either. But I left in tears being very triggered in several different ways and cried. And I felt a total pathetic twat for it. Reading this I don't think it was that pathetic really.

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By *rAitchMan
over a year ago

Diagonally Parked in a Parallel Universe

Getting run over at work by a fork lift truck weighing over 6 tons and crushing my steel toecap boot onto my foot was a tad unpleasant and I'd happily not experience that again.

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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago

Finedon ,

Jury service on a Murder Trial.

Happily now too old for Jury service.

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By *idnight RamblerMan
over a year ago

Pershore

Witnessing EOL

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By *olden PoleMan
over a year ago

London

Getting binned from selection.

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By *mall.sausageMan
over a year ago

Rochdale

Getting run over . The car didn't hurt but the landing on tarmac did.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Divorce. It was very amicable and all went rather well, all told, but it seemed as if the system was designed to punish and inconvenience us both for just wanting to have new lives.

Also, a crash on my pushbike. It turns out steelwork is harder than my face.

In fairness, in comparison to some of the posts here, I've had it extremely easy.

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

getting my willy stuck in my jeans zip

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Divorce.

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By *ags73Man
over a year ago

glasgow-ish

"death of my wife (you asked)

Same for me"

Sorry bud. If you need a chat. You’re welcome.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A windscreen

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By *uff and FruitCouple
over a year ago

ely

Divorce and Depression.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Grief with lying involved.

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By *xfordjohnMan
over a year ago

Oxford

"death of my wife (you asked)

Same for me

Sorry bud. If you need a chat. You’re welcome."

Thanks for the offer. My Fab friends have been very supportive over the last year.

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By *ags73Man
over a year ago

glasgow-ish

"death of my wife (you asked)

Same for me

Sorry bud. If you need a chat. You’re welcome.

Thanks for the offer. My Fab friends have been very supportive over the last year."

Good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been through hell so have plenty to choose from...

but suicide grief takes the winning spot here.

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By *eordieJeansCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Getting my back waxed. Fuck knows how women get their dangly bits done

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By *yronutMan
over a year ago

St Austell

Life…..

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By *ob Carpe DiemMan
over a year ago

Torquay

Birth, can't say I remember it but I can only imagine it's a bit harrowing

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I've thought of a few more

Father beating mother

Violent relationship

divorce

miscarriages

Death of partner

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By *orny-DJMan
over a year ago

Leigh-on-Sea

Family court

Domestic abuse

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By *jorkishMan
over a year ago

Seaforth

"death of my wife (you asked)"

Same

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By *opinovMan
over a year ago

Point Nemo, Cumbria

"The death of a child x

Same. Agree."

Agree too... same. Also, witnessing the horrific death of a friend as she tried to save my life. Neither have left me.

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By *issBehave69Man
over a year ago

Bulgaria

Death of my wife at a young age.

I’m still angry.

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By *aydumfriesMan
over a year ago

heathhall

Family court, once to try and stop my ex moving my kids 350 miles away from me. Then again to try and get them home after they were coming back home not looked after, everything from untreated head lice to untreated athletes foot letting my sons foot crack up the middle. My eldest moved back with me when he was 15 and my other son is desperate to come home too.

Rant over....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Childhood with a very damaged mentally ill and alcoholic mother along with an absent father

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By *aydumfriesMan
over a year ago

heathhall

"Childhood with a very damaged mentally ill and alcoholic mother along with an absent father"

Hugs xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bowel cancer and 3 years later still dealing with the recovery..

Wouldn't wish it in my worst enemy

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By *ucksguy2000Man
over a year ago

aylesbury

Death of my son, 2 years ago.

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By *hatKlungeEnigmaMan
over a year ago

St Leonards

"Death of my son, 2 years ago. "

I'm helping my best mate's Mum (also a mate) through the same thing right now.

It's beyond awful, so for all those on this thread who have said similar, I really don't know what to say. It's shit. It stays shit. The shit gets a bit easier to live with over time, but it's always going to be shit.

I'm going to answer the original OP question humorously know though.

The one thing I've been through that I never want to go through again?

Well, my Mummy's vagina.

Once was definitely enough for both of us, and twice would have been icky, wrong, and against Forum rules to post about

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By *andadbodMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

taking care of my mum before she passed away

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Childhood & other that isn't something I'd speak about here.

Mrs

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By *hatKlungeEnigmaMan
over a year ago

St Leonards

"taking care of my mum before she passed away

That's also hard. Were you able to take good things from it as well though? I went through the same rollercoaster - and as draining as it was, bruising in its effects, there was an awful lot of good in being there for her, and "reviewing" her and "us" from my adult viewpoint instead of just my childhood viewpoint.

It gave me more than it took.

But it does take a lot for sure.

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By *aughtycouple1008Couple
over a year ago

west london

Lung collapsed

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By *unnoisseurMan
over a year ago

Stratford

"Handsworth "

LMAO!!!

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By *unnoisseurMan
over a year ago

Stratford

Getting a quick shag pregnant and raising a child in constant conflict their mother.

At this age definitely would not like to go through parenthood again period!!!

Yes monthly periods on time every time please.

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth

Narcissistic abuse. Grew up with it and it's probably going to take the rest of my life to grow around, especially after my abusive relationship. Would not wish it on anyone! - Xeno

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By *aydumfriesMan
over a year ago

heathhall

Buried my best friend a year ago yesterday. Its my birthday today and I'm absolutely broken.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being cheated on by a pedo when I was 14. When I was 14 I dated a 27 year old. He cheated on me with another person my age at the time. It's probably the reason why I can't make a distinction between cheaters and nonces, that shit fucks with your mentality so hard.

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By *GermanInLondonMan
over a year ago

London

Separation with kids involved.

Was traumatic for all involved.

Now in a better place though

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By *oinerbillMan
over a year ago

warrington

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By *oinerbillMan
over a year ago

warrington

I was going to mention my experience which was quite bad for me, but seeing people have lost a child on here then its nothing.

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By *lam granWoman
over a year ago

falkirk

Cleaning & smelling a wound with Fournier's Gangrene.

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By *lexV16Man
over a year ago

Welling

Physically: kidney stones

Mentally: divorce

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Hysteroscopy including biopsy with no pain relief... and driving the 15 miles home afterwards.

Nita

Some medical procedures are barbaric aren't they

Yes, they are...

Apparently, I should have been told to take pain killers beforehand... and had someone to drive me home...at least I know now

I insisted on gas and air when I had mine done the second time and general anaesthetic for the first one. They let Mr N come in with me the second time

The only option I got was to go back another day... gas & air would have been great. I decided to just get it over and done with.

Sometimes it's the least worse option. You were brave though

Thank you ??

Fortunately, I know I have a high pain threshold so should get through it OK. I wouldn't recommend it.

This surprises me, But also it makes me feel a bit better.

Not pathetic at all... the procedure is very invasive, regardless of the pain level.

Nita

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle

Losing my Mam to cancer.

Losing my Fiancé to suicide.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

France.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Watching Strictly come dancing.

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By *r_PinkMan
over a year ago

london stratford

watching I am a celerity get me outta here!

pur utter vile shit TV

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being a carer for twenty years without sex . And yes I did stay loyal to the end.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Possibly the worst thing on here , so sorry

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

"Buried my best friend a year ago yesterday. Its my birthday today and I'm absolutely broken."

Hugs xx

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

to everyone who's been through awful things .xx

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

A speech in front of a room of people...a lot I did not know. I was best man at a wedding.

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By *ergus1000Man
over a year ago

Greenock

Sniffing a right smelly fanny.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Life changing false allegations.

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By *ixiePoisonWoman
over a year ago

Darlington

Divorce…

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Some threads on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This year!!

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

Mental abuse, looking back all three of my serious relationships before Marc involved it in some form, I went from one bad relationship straight to another. I spent time on myself and recognise the flags now.

Tinder

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By *oopy Lou 666Woman
over a year ago

Heaven.....………. I came down from Heaven

Take my Husbands last breath with a kiss

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By *melie LALWoman
over a year ago

Peterborough

"The death of a child x"

My heart goes out to you. I think everything else pales into significance.

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

Being shot in the eye with an air pistol, don't fancy being blind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The death of a child x

My heart goes out to you. I think everything else pales into significance."

The death of two children.

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By *eautifullyUnconventionalWoman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some heavy stuff on here. I feel for all those that's been through the turmoil.

Hopefully you've come through it all and can move forward head held high and keep enjoying life xx

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By *eronicaExplorerWoman
over a year ago

London

Orphanity being a child. No way to live something like that again, but the thought of my son going through It haunts me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being made a widow …

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

"Being made a widow … "

hugs x

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

"Orphanity being a child. No way to live something like that again, but the thought of my son going through It haunts me. "

hugs

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

Discovering my wife had been cheating on me and then manipulated in such away that she makes you feel you're crazy and making the whole thing up. Makes you feel so horrible and disgusting for believing such stuff. Questioning your santity and reality is a horrible place to be. Luckily the little voice in the back of my head told be to keep digging for truth and I did. Then feeling of being totally betrayed, abandoned, completely lost and broken is a dark place. Especially when marriage and family is everything to you. Truely the lowest period of my life. Add the worry of the impact to your young family and how it will effect the children's future.

And that was the darkest place of my life. Some say Divorce, but for me although the divorce process is grueling I'm glad I started it and divorced her. Starting the process was actually part of my building myself back up. It was the point I come to stand up and say its over, I won't be treated this way no more and I'm taking positive action towards the future. Starting the divorce was a big step in a new future for me and the kids into a scary new world as a single parent.

And as dark and destructive as that period of my life was it was a stepping stone to the life I have now and paved the way to being ready for Mrs Misfit. So I wouldn't change anything based on the path it's lead me. But I wouldn't want to ever be in that dark place again.

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By *hippy 1Man
over a year ago

high Wycombe

"The death of a child x"

Sorry to hear x

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By *hippy 1Man
over a year ago

high Wycombe

"The death of a child x

My heart goes out to you. I think everything else pales into significance.

The death of two children. "

My heart goes out to anyone that has to go through the loss of a child , absolutely the wrong equation in the process of life??

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By *esthetic21Man
over a year ago

Birmingham/Bristol

Stubbed my toe once

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By *lynJMan
over a year ago

Morden

"The death of my partner 5 years ago.

That's why I'm on here and not looking for a 'proper' relationship. "

Something similar for me. My partner died suddenly in May last year.

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By *hatty GuyMan
over a year ago

Midlands

Sciatica. Now happily addicted to Tramadol, thanks crippling nerve pain

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By *r99mr99Man
over a year ago

Ealing

It seems there's some pretty strong people in this thread.

Be proud of yourself a and how you're getting on.

I'm more grateful for what I have thanks to this thread.

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By *otyouraverageguyMan
over a year ago

west mids and n Wales

Bolton. It was as proper dump haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Losing a child.

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By *restonCouple555Couple
over a year ago

preston

Acute myeloid leukemia. Aortic aneurysm followed by dissection.

That said I'd happily go through both again if we could have been spared the terminal spinal injury that took our dog, during lockdown, so we couldn't be with her when she was put to sleep.

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By *mf123Man
over a year ago

with one foot out the door

Il never do heartbreak again not because it hurts but because it devalues whats been and gone

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
over a year ago

BRIDPORT

Bridgewater.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depression

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By *rishcuriosityWoman
over a year ago

Derry

Being a meat eater.

Loads of people in my family have tried it but none have lasted as long as me. 21 years and counting.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Channel tunnel.

The mr

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By *ries AngelWoman
over a year ago

Bournemouth

Divorce

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By *issBehave69Man
over a year ago

Bulgaria

"Death of my wife at a young age.

I’m still angry."

And now going through it with my Mother In Law.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being in a boating accident when I was 18 almost drowning trying to save a man’s life. The hardest part was seeing his young daughter the next day and knowing she’ll never see her dad again because I couldn’t save him.

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By *otuseater11Man
over a year ago

kilwinning

Losing a family member

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By *entlemanrogueMan
over a year ago

Motherwell

Another General election where the UK dont see what theiving lying scum the Tories are.

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By *agic johnsonMan
over a year ago

morden

2 heart attacks and going into heart failure ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Racism.

But there’s lots of years left to live so that’s unlikely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1) Depression, although not entirely free of it now it’s nowhere close to how it was once.

2) Almost going bankrupt during the GFC in 2008/9. Horribly stressful.

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

Death of my first wife

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Slough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Slough "

I’ll raise you a Luton

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By *jorkishMan
over a year ago

Seaforth

"The death of a child x"

Sorry for your loss - unimaginable

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

Death of a child ( my grandson)

Abusive relationship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Afternoon everyone

Dartford tunnel.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

Grief. Yet here we go again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The death of a child x"

Ah mate,so sorry to hear this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Through all the poppycock people dish out.

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By *eronicaExplorerWoman
over a year ago

London

"Death of a child ( my grandson)

Abusive relationship "

So sorry to hear that x

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

Airport security

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Work. Why wasn’t I born rich . Ffs

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

Puberty

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By *BWLOVER1965Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

Death of wife

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By *haggydogMan
over a year ago

Brooklands/London

Slough

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