FabSwingers.com forum: If only the women were!!!

By *igfatlad79 OP Man
51 weeks ago

Bradford

As forward as men on here id actually have some attention i wanted.....

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By *TG3Man
51 weeks ago

Dorchester

Oh they are forward just thin on the ground

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

Lots are, theyre just forward with the guys they want to be forward with

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By *oxy jWoman
51 weeks ago

somerset

you getting no attention has nothing to do with women not being forward the reason you have no attention is no one is sexually attracted to you ....yet

if find most women on this scene very open and very forward and will message first ..

sexual attraction is everything along with other stuff

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

I'm very forward when I find someone I like.

It's just the finding someone I like that's the hard bit. Really bloody hard.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
51 weeks ago

East Sussex

You probably would but the numbers are stacked against it. If there were twenty women to every man I reckon women would be much more proactive.

I would add that I know some women are but mostly it's men who put the leg work in on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

"As forward as men on here id actually have some attention i wanted....."

Well since no reply is a reply, I think they are being 100% forward with their intentions

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
51 weeks ago

East Sussex

^^ also adding you look great in your photo so don't lose hope

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By *aysOfOurLivesCouple
51 weeks ago

Essex

"As forward as men on here id actually have some attention i wanted....."

. if you zoom in on that dot, really, really, really close, you’ll see a beautiful emoji of the world’s smallest violin

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

Every time I’m forward I get accused of being a man lol

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

You haven't asked for profile advice so I won't give it

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By *naswingdressWoman
51 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

I'm forward when I'm given reason to be

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By *imi_RougeWoman
51 weeks ago

Portsmouth

Honestly... The women aren't the problem.

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By *illy IdolMan
51 weeks ago

Midlands

"Honestly... The women aren't the problem. "

It's the TV's isn't it?

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
51 weeks ago

Bristol

"Honestly... The women aren't the problem.

It's the TV's isn't it?"

I don't know what you're on about

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

I know loads of women who message first, me included, but only to a profile and pictures we're attracted to

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

I am sure it works both ways…. If a woman likes the look of you I am sure she will find a way to let you know ..whether that be a wink or a fab or a message…. If you follow up on it and it was just that she liked the pic… then at least you now know.

If the message / wink leads to more then win win

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
51 weeks ago

Weymouth

"I know loads of women who message first, me included, but only to a profile and pictures we're attracted to

This. Not just any cock available!

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

"Every time I’m forward I get accused of being a man lol"

The men must be quite short sighted then!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
51 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross

You are so right O.P. The fault definitely lies with the women.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
51 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross

"Every time I’m forward I get accused of being a man lol"

Tell me about it ...... !

Things that men think only men should do ......

Breath

Speak

Think

Make the first move

Say No

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By *igfatlad79 OP Man
51 weeks ago

Bradford

"You haven't asked for profile advice so I won't give it

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i am certainly asking now

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By *igfatlad79 OP Man
51 weeks ago

Bradford

"As forward as men on here id actually have some attention i wanted.....

. if you zoom in on that dot, really, really, really close, you’ll see a beautiful emoji of the world’s smallest violin

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does it play a good tune though

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By *ealitybitesMan
51 weeks ago

Belfast

If only they were backward they wouldn't cop on as fast.

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
51 weeks ago

Somewhere else

"I'm very forward when I find someone I like.

It's just the finding someone I like that's the hard bit. Really bloody hard."

Seconded.

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
51 weeks ago

Somewhere else

"Every time I’m forward I get accused of being a man lol

Tell me about it ...... !

Things that men think only men should do ......

Breath

Speak

Think

Make the first move

Say No "

Her fault her fault her fault

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By *ittlemissTinselTitsCouple
51 weeks ago

Southampton

"Oh they are forward just thin on the ground

I'm fat on the ground

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

"Every time I’m forward I get accused of being a man lol

Tell me about it ...... !

Things that men think only men should do ......

Breath

Speak

Think

Make the first move

Say No "

Don't forget..

Post in the forum.

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

"You haven't asked for profile advice so I won't give it

i am certainly asking now"

* man looking for woman*

Maybe something more lighthearted, funny, interesting.

Regular status updates so you always appear fresh in the feed.

In your bio, there's the same sentences used by a large percentage of other male profiles so maybe a little zhuzh, picture has a pesky ring in it and quite dark, and I don't speak for anyone but myself but I like a smile

I don't think I said anything bad, I'd do ya lol

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By *illy IdolMan
51 weeks ago

Midlands

"Oh they are forward just thin on the ground

I'm fat on the ground

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By *ittlemissTinselTitsCouple
51 weeks ago

Southampton

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
51 weeks ago

Leeds

"As forward as men on here id actually have some attention i wanted....."

Why don’t you try messaging men, I’ll smash your back doors in with a 12” dildo sideways, while angrily masturbating to animal porn.

The mr

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By *entlemanrogueMan
51 weeks ago

Motherwell

"As forward as men on here id actually have some attention i wanted....."

Some women do go out their way to contact men, so if ones does message you at least you know she is interested. The thing is you may have fallen into that wor is me trap by posting this very post, which can be off putting.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

"As forward as men on here id actually have some attention i wanted.....

Why don’t you try messaging men, I’ll smash your back doors in with a 12” dildo sideways, while angrily masturbating to animal porn.

The mr "

Your replies always make me chuckle

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By *icentiousCouple
51 weeks ago

Up on them there hills

We prefer a focus on what we want, not a scatter gun approach. When we find someone of interest, well we are more than willing to put the effort in.

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By *oiluvfunMan
51 weeks ago

Penrith

"You probably would but the numbers are stacked against it. If there were twenty women to every man I reckon women would be much more proactive.

I would add that I know some women are but mostly it's men who put the leg work in on here. "

Absolutely

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

"Lots are, theyre just forward with the guys they want to be forward with"

That’s it.

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

"As forward as men on here id actually have some attention i wanted....."

Only if they found you attractive

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

Are you using reverse psychology on us?

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

There are some forward women on here, if I like someone I’ll message them.

You could put a bit more about you in your profile and maybe a few more photos?

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

"You are so right O.P. The fault definitely lies with the women.

Since Eve. Heh.

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

"Are you using reverse psychology on us?

Shhh, don't give people ideas!

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By *igfatlad79 OP Man
51 weeks ago

Bradford

"Are you using reverse psychology on us?

T"
i suppose it depends if its working or not?

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By *igfatlad79 OP Man
51 weeks ago

Bradford

"As forward as men on here id actually have some attention i wanted.....

Why don’t you try messaging men, I’ll smash your back doors in with a 12” dildo sideways, while angrily masturbating to animal porn.

The mr "
i may actually try that

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By *igfatlad79 OP Man
51 weeks ago

Bradford

"You haven't asked for profile advice so I won't give it

i am certainly asking now

* man looking for woman*

Maybe something more lighthearted, funny, interesting.

Regular status updates so you always appear fresh in the feed.

I don't think I said anything bad, I'd do ya lol"

All very good points taken on board!

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By *igfatlad79 OP Man
51 weeks ago

Bradford

"I'm very forward when I find someone I like.

It's just the finding someone I like that's the hard bit. Really bloody hard."
you have the pick of the bunch so must be very particular about your men?

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

"Are you using reverse psychology on us?

Shhh, don't give people ideas!"

I thought I was alerting more like

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

"Are you using reverse psychology on us?

T i suppose it depends if its working or not?"

Not if I spot it

. Could make a good ice breaker thinking of it if done well

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By *eneralKenobiMan
51 weeks ago

North Angus

I wouldn’t put myself down as being forward in the slightest

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By *igfatlad79 OP Man
51 weeks ago

Bradford

"Are you using reverse psychology on us?

T i suppose it depends if its working or not?

Not if I spot it

. Could make a good ice breaker thinking of it if done well

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you can only spot it if i was using it so....

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By *ad NannaWoman
51 weeks ago

East London

The problem with being forward is men think you're up for anything and treat us like holes.

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By *igfatlad79 OP Man
51 weeks ago

Bradford

"Honestly... The women aren't the problem.

It's the TV's isn't it?"
tv's and bi men why do they think a like or message will change my sexuality?

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By *ools and the brainCouple
51 weeks ago

couple, us we him her.

You got to have banter,gift of the gab,front,game whatever you want to call it.

It's not generally the guy's who are the best looking or have the biggest shlong that gets the heat it's the ones who have good game and don't mind crashing and burning.

Confidence is key something I severely lack.

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By *iss DevilWoman
51 weeks ago

Bedford

"Lots are, theyre just forward with the guys they want to be forward with"

This!

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By *odders88Man
51 weeks ago

Northampton

That many men on here compared to women…I’m sure there’s enough forward women…it’s finding them that’s the hard part! But I guess if they see something they like they’ll be forward enough…build it and they will cum!

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

"Honestly... The women aren't the problem.

It's the TV's isn't it? tv's and bi men why do they think a like or message will change my sexuality?"

Same reason straight men think a half arsed profile and a crap message will change the standards of women. People playing numbers game. It’s the internet innit.

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By *alandNitaCouple
51 weeks ago

Scunthorpe

"You haven't asked for profile advice so I won't give it

i am certainly asking now"

Your name and profile info don't seem to match and the text is not inspiring.

To be fair it's not easy on Fab. You're more likely to have success if you get out to clubs and socials to meet people in person.

Nita

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

"As forward as men on here id actually have some attention i wanted....."

Attracted to you in first instance. Nothing to do with being forward.

Men here are not forward at all. Many hide in shells.

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

"As forward as men on here id actually have some attention i wanted.....

Attracted to you in first instance. Nothing to do with being forward.

Men here are not forward at all. Many hide in shells. "

If most women on this site complain about how forward they with their messages and you not getting any of that, I’ve got some bad news for you

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By *naswingdressWoman
51 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Honestly... The women aren't the problem.

It's the TV's isn't it? tv's and bi men why do they think a like or message will change my sexuality?"

Because a lot of people think that "if you don't ask you don't get" or that being persistent will get people to change their mind.

This is why message filters exist. Use them. Love them. I do.

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By *igfatlad79 OP Man
51 weeks ago

Bradford

"You haven't asked for profile advice so I won't give it

i am certainly asking now

* man looking for woman*

Maybe something more lighthearted, funny, interesting.

Regular status updates so you always appear fresh in the feed.

I don't think I said anything bad, I'd do ya lol"
haha you know where my inbox is

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

I'm forward with those I like

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By *all me missWoman
51 weeks ago

South Wales

"I'm very forward when I find someone I like.

It's just the finding someone I like that's the hard bit. Really bloody hard."

This totally

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By *igfatlad79 OP Man
51 weeks ago

Bradford

"I'm forward with those I like"
im sute there are alot thst like you

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