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Hardest time of year to find a new lover?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
51 weeks ago

I never know which term to use, lover playmate, FB, Fwb. Pick whichever one suits you.

When do you think the hardest time of year is for finding someone to bump uglies with?

Now in the run up to Christmas?

The summer when they are on their holidays?

Winter when it's dark and cold early and everyone's vitamin D is a bit fucked?

January which is classed as the worst month of the year?

April, tax year end/start and bills increase or need paying up?

When is the best time?

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

Winter is cuffing season babe. It’s so easy to find dates in winter. In summer when everyone already has their roster sorted? That’s what separates the boys from the men.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
51 weeks ago


"Winter is cuffing season babe. It’s so easy to find dates in winter. In summer when everyone already has their roster sorted? That’s what separates the boys from the men. "

Dam. I better make more of an effort.

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By *ruceyyMan
51 weeks ago

London

I'm finding women generally more horny this time of year! Less summer plans, more inside on their sofas thinking a nice sexy cuddle would be nice.

It's a good time!

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By *i1971Man
51 weeks ago

Cornwall

1 Jan through to 31 Dec I usually find most difficult

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By *llthetime24Man
51 weeks ago

London

Winter is great to keep each other warm. Summer is great just to get more turned on with both being sweaty.

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By *hrek101Man
51 weeks ago

Herts

Best time is between August 15th-16th

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By *eliWoman
51 weeks ago

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"Winter is cuffing season babe. It’s so easy to find dates in winter. In summer when everyone already has their roster sorted? That’s what separates the boys from the men. "

Yep. Summer is great if you're abroad/on holiday. Otherwise, nope. Get your roster ready in Spring PW.

I'm loving Autumn/Winter time for ermmm... lovin'.

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By *exi_LexiTV/TS
51 weeks ago

caerphilly


"Best time is between August 15th-16th"

Yay, my birthday. But doesn't bring me any luck, so guess it's not then for me, pretty much the same all year round lol

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

wtf? This is the easiest time

The run up to Christmas is fish in a barrel. Lonely people not wanting to spend the holidays alone

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By *ickyKlungespeareMan
51 weeks ago

St Leonards

Worst is usually end of Oct to mid Jan for me historically.

End of Jan to early April best.

I've always put it down to yukky winter and spring promise/boom.

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
51 weeks ago

Somewhere else


"I never know which term to use, lover playmate, FB, Fwb. Pick whichever one suits you.

When do you think the hardest time of year is for finding someone to bump uglies with?

Now in the run up to Christmas?

The summer when they are on their holidays?

Winter when it's dark and cold early and everyone's vitamin D is a bit fucked?

January which is classed as the worst month of the year?

April, tax year end/start and bills increase or need paying up?

When is the best time?"

Feels like people hide out for the entirety of winter in this country.

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By *hrek101Man
51 weeks ago

Herts


"Best time is between August 15th-16th

Yay, my birthday. But doesn't bring me any luck, so guess it's not then for me, pretty much the same all year round lol "

Mine too

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
51 weeks ago

Somewhere else


"Winter is cuffing season babe. It’s so easy to find dates in winter. In summer when everyone already has their roster sorted? That’s what separates the boys from the men. "

And yes. Cuffing season. Sounds much sexier than it is

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By *ickyKlungespeareMan
51 weeks ago

St Leonards


"I never know which term to use, lover playmate, FB, Fwb. Pick whichever one suits you.

When do you think the hardest time of year is for finding someone to bump uglies with?

Now in the run up to Christmas?

The summer when they are on their holidays?

Winter when it's dark and cold early and everyone's vitamin D is a bit fucked?

January which is classed as the worst month of the year?

April, tax year end/start and bills increase or need paying up?

When is the best time?

Feels like people hide out for the entirety of winter in this country. "

Certainly for me it's the "greyness" of winters here. I've been in wetter places and colder places in winter...and as long as the "light" isn't grey they don't have anywhere near the same effect.

The gwey is not my fwiend.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
51 weeks ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Xmas is hardest for me as everyone is busy with families, disclosed or not, summer is easiest

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
51 weeks ago


"Xmas is hardest for me as everyone is busy with families, disclosed or not, summer is easiest "

I think so too.

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

I don't seem to find any time is a good time OP

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
51 weeks ago

I struggle with the finding people I fancy part all year round.

I just think more people are around in the summer.

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By *aitonelMan
51 weeks ago

Travelling

This time of year is a nightmare. I'm too busy, they are too busy. So much shit going on.

The "boring" months tend to be the best, around my birthday especially seems to work. Those are the months people have little pockets of downtime to have to do what they want.

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By *herry delightWoman
51 weeks ago

Ilfracombe

The only time I find impossible to find a FB is over the weekends, apart from that I have never noticed any different time of year to be better or worse at finding a FB.

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

Finding them isn't a issue.

Me being arsed to put effort in is.

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago


"Winter is cuffing season babe. It’s so easy to find dates in winter. In summer when everyone already has their roster sorted? That’s what separates the boys from the men.

And yes. Cuffing season. Sounds much sexier than it is "

Can’t relate

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
51 weeks ago

little house on the praire

I don't think there is a season but I know some put extra effort into finding a partner for christmas

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By *hagTonightMan
51 weeks ago

From the land of haribos.


"I don't seem to find any time is a good time OP "
This, it is the same for me as well

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
51 weeks ago

Coventry

To be fair I've always found the run up parties (work, social groups, clubs etc) a great opportunity. Especially those works Christmas party's held at venues where multiple different work places/companies are attending the same do. In my experience all the singles tend to throw caution to the wind this time of year. As a single in my youth this was prime time for me and I've hooked up and/or started something new a few time this times in this run up period.

Mr

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

It depends how hard you look.

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago


"It depends how hard you look. "

I always look hard

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By *andy BarSteward73Man
51 weeks ago

Sandwell

The hardest period is between Jan 1st and Dec 31st but all other times it's easy

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

Just before payday, people are far more open to bribes.

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By *BWLOVER1965Man
51 weeks ago

My Own Little World

When you find you find could be anytime of year

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By *aitonelMan
51 weeks ago

Travelling


"This time of year is a nightmare. I'm too busy, they are too busy. So much shit going on.

The "boring" months tend to be the best, around my birthday especially seems to work. Those are the months people have little pockets of downtime to have to do what they want. "

In addition to this! I should say even the lazy quiet months are not 3xactoy 100% win rate, it's more like a 0.08% increase

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago


"It depends how hard you look.

I always look hard "

well hard?

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By *imi_RougeWoman
51 weeks ago

Portsmouth

Couple of weeks in May... Then maybe a week in September. That's it. Rest of the year is a write off.

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago


"Couple of weeks in May... Then maybe a week in September. That's it. Rest of the year is a write off."

Between 9 and five on 29th feb.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
51 weeks ago

Portsmouth


"I struggle with the finding people I fancy part all year round.

I just think more people are around in the summer."

See I found August the worst... Was absolutely dead. I gave up in the end.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
51 weeks ago

Portsmouth


"Couple of weeks in May... Then maybe a week in September. That's it. Rest of the year is a write off.

Between 9 and five on 29th feb. "

I'll mark that on the calendar for next year

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By *ornucopiaMan
51 weeks ago

Bexley

There's always a surfeit of newbies on the dating scene straight after Christmas.family life can be too much for many people.

Add to that the ones who have fallen out after getting caught misusing mistletoe on New Year's Eve.

The trick is not to date much in the run up to Christmas. the payroll can be a major expense.

But, don't get too serious before 14th February or that could turn out expensive or complicated for players.

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By *TG3Man
51 weeks ago

Dorchester

I wouldn't say so lots of people out socialising so its anyones guess

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

Always.

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago


"I never know which term to use, lover playmate, FB, Fwb. Pick whichever one suits you.

When do you think the hardest time of year is for finding someone to bump uglies with?

Now in the run up to Christmas?

The summer when they are on their holidays?

Winter when it's dark and cold early and everyone's vitamin D is a bit fucked?

January which is classed as the worst month of the year?

April, tax year end/start and bills increase or need paying up?

When is the best time?"

January is good. A clear run without any awkward Christmas present buying

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By *bz matureMan
51 weeks ago

aberdeen

All year round lol

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

It was last night.

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

I'm unwanted all year round

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By *ickyKlungespeareMan
51 weeks ago

St Leonards


"I'm unwanted all year round "

There's always cloning...

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By *ddie1966Man
51 weeks ago

Paper Town Central, Essex.

Definitely the approach to Christmas.

People never remember to make time for themselves.

Quite often it turns out to be the loneliest time of the year.

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By *igfatlad79Man
51 weeks ago

Bradford


"I never know which term to use, lover playmate, FB, Fwb. Pick whichever one suits you.

When do you think the hardest time of year is for finding someone to bump uglies with?

Now in the run up to Christmas?

The summer when they are on their holidays?

Winter when it's dark and cold early and everyone's vitamin D is a bit fucked?

January which is classed as the worst month of the year?

April, tax year end/start and bills increase or need paying up?

When is the best time?"
surely the best time is when you find someone your attracted to and they fancy you back

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By *moothdickMan
51 weeks ago

stoke

I get blown more than wind sock any time of the year ….

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