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Hope to you reset your sexual desire?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
51 weeks ago

So I'm fairly confident in saying that most people when continually exposed to sexual material (be that acting on fantasies, porn or other elements) they will tend to drift from their starting point.

I also know that can lead to desensitization or numbing of the pleasure response due to the overstimulation.

So they seek more "hard core/extreme stuff"

So I'm interested to know how people manage that or reset those desires and maintain their level?

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
51 weeks ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Reconnecting with Mr. That bond of sexual desire without a shopping list of sexual acts and situations.

Mrs TMN x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
51 weeks ago


"Reconnecting with Mr. That bond of sexual desire without a shopping list of sexual acts and situations.

Mrs TMN x"

Thanks for sharing x

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By *naswingdressWoman
51 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

I came into this with what most people would regard as relatively extreme desires - gangbang/ DP. And I think that even early on before I'd been exposed to anything that I knew what it was, my desires were probably on the outlier stage compared to where they were. Those desires haven't shifted, and I've been here over five years.

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

I just turn it off when I don't feel like it. You don't have to be continually exposed to it.

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

I actually think this is a big problem for young men that over consume porn

For me, I limit porn. I know it’s not good for me

To the guys on here, ask yourself, when was the last time you caught a no porn beat? Just pure imagination?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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51 weeks ago

East Sussex

I don't watch porn (not because I disapprove or don't want to I just don't really get the opportunity) so I'm exposed to very little. I do know that since being on fab a strangers penis is a very ordinary thing to me now. If I wanted to make it novel again I'd turn off images

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By *inky ChefMan
51 weeks ago

Norwich

I need overstimulation for wanking, otherwise it would be boring.

It's different, if I'm having sex with a woman.

Even normal/basic sex is a lot more stimulating,than wanking for porn alone.

If there's some extra kink, then it's even better, but not necessarily expecting it.

I think many guys seeing it this way.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
51 weeks ago

I'm dreaming of the day I can get a spontaneous hard on through my imagination again. X

Think my life is too full of stress and bad choices for food etc. X

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By *naswingdressWoman
51 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I'm dreaming of the day I can get a spontaneous hard on through my imagination again. X

Think my life is too full of stress and bad choices for food etc. X"

Stress kills my sex drive. I can quite easily get aroused through nothing but imagination or memory - as long as I'm not stressed or exhausted.

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