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By *ohntall123 OP   Man
48 weeks ago

Biggleswade

So I’ve started to put in my messages “ if I’m not your cup of tea I won’t be offended “ is that ok or wrong ? Thoughts

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By *obilebottomMan
48 weeks ago

All over

Maybe tea/coffee

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

I'd just see the word tea and delete.

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By *oeBeansMan
48 weeks ago

Derby

It's not bad, I'd go for "I hope I'm your cup of of tea because I cum-a-mile"

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By *obilebottomMan
48 weeks ago

All over


"It's not bad, I'd go for "I hope I'm your cup of of tea because I cum-a-mile" "

Joe, that was witty

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
48 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Put whatever you like.

It seems a touch negative to me to be in both the profile and an opening message.

But you do you OP.

Trying to remain as bland and inoffensive as possible isn't usually the best way to connect with people that would be interested in the parts of you that are kept back.

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By *ohntall123 OP   Man
48 weeks ago

Biggleswade

So glad I asked hahahaha

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By *amierebelMan
48 weeks ago

nae danger.

Don't think it's bad pal, when I used to send out messages on here I'd normally add something at the end like hope to hear back if not hope they had a nice day anyways

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By *odevilWoman
48 weeks ago

exeter


"So I’ve started to put in my messages “ if I’m not your cup of tea I won’t be offended “ is that ok or wrong ? Thoughts "

There's nothing wrong with stating it but there is something wrong in feeling entitled to or expecting a reply *because* you've stated it.

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By *ohntall123 OP   Man
48 weeks ago

Biggleswade


"Put whatever you like.

It seems a touch negative to me to be in both the profile and an opening message.

But you do you OP.

Trying to remain as bland and inoffensive as possible isn't usually the best way to connect with people that would be interested in the parts of you that are kept back."

Fair comment , I wanted try something different from hey here’s my cock lol

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
48 weeks ago

Somewhere else


"Put whatever you like.

It seems a touch negative to me to be in both the profile and an opening message.

But you do you OP.

Trying to remain as bland and inoffensive as possible isn't usually the best way to connect with people that would be interested in the parts of you that are kept back."

Agreed.

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By *ohntall123 OP   Man
48 weeks ago

Biggleswade


"So I’ve started to put in my messages “ if I’m not your cup of tea I won’t be offended “ is that ok or wrong ? Thoughts

There's nothing wrong with stating it but there is something wrong in feeling entitled to or expecting a reply *because* you've stated it.

"

I don’t expect a reply of not interested at all

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
48 weeks ago

Somewhere else


"Put whatever you like.

It seems a touch negative to me to be in both the profile and an opening message.

But you do you OP.

Trying to remain as bland and inoffensive as possible isn't usually the best way to connect with people that would be interested in the parts of you that are kept back.

Fair comment , I wanted try something different from hey here’s my cock lol

"

Lol - OP there is a happy medium in there somewhere for you.

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By *ohntall123 OP   Man
48 weeks ago

Biggleswade


"Put whatever you like.

It seems a touch negative to me to be in both the profile and an opening message.

But you do you OP.

Trying to remain as bland and inoffensive as possible isn't usually the best way to connect with people that would be interested in the parts of you that are kept back.

Fair comment , I wanted try something different from hey here’s my cock lol

Lol - OP there is a happy medium in there somewhere for you."

Ture lol

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

You may as well say sorry for messaging you I’ll leave you to it. It doesn’t convey confidence.

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By *ohntall123 OP   Man
48 weeks ago

Biggleswade


"You may as well say sorry for messaging you I’ll leave you to it. It doesn’t convey confidence. "

Noted lol thought I was being kind but …

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By *ornycougaWoman
48 weeks ago

MOROCCO Wherever I lay my hat

Personally I don't like bland. My inbox is full of bland. As said above there is a balance between 17 dick pics and so out of your face that you become unoticable. I don't mind the "if I am not your cup of tea" messages...usually those guys don't verbally abuse or pester me when I delete or say no thanks. Just be true to yourself - don't do what you think other want.

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By *eroLondonMan
48 weeks ago

Mayfair

OP, do not mention the cup of tea, for most women reserve that sentiment and beverage for far more pleasurable outcomes: Åfternoon Teå.

Not everyone drinks tea and so you might be compromising yourself by mentioning a beverage they utterly detest.

There is no right answer. The women on here are a smörgåsbord of svelte, goth, sultry, moody, fickleness. Don't send any messages. Indeed wait for them to message you...and then tell them they are not your cup of sweet nectar.

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

It’s very British! I like it

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By *oxy jWoman
48 weeks ago

somerset


"So I’ve started to put in my messages “ if I’m not your cup of tea I won’t be offended “ is that ok or wrong ? Thoughts "

99.99 will ignore it as they wont care your either of interest or not its that blunt n simple it certainly wont get you any more replys than normal ...people just wont care if your offended as thats your problem not theirs

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By *ohntall123 OP   Man
48 weeks ago

Biggleswade


"It’s very British! I like it "

Thanks

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By *ohntall123 OP   Man
48 weeks ago

Biggleswade


"So I’ve started to put in my messages “ if I’m not your cup of tea I won’t be offended “ is that ok or wrong ? Thoughts

99.99 will ignore it as they wont care your either of interest or not its that blunt n simple it certainly wont get you any more replys than normal ...people just wont care if your offended as thats your problem not theirs "

Fair comment

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago


"So I’ve started to put in my messages “ if I’m not your cup of tea I won’t be offended “ is that ok or wrong ? Thoughts "

That sort of attitude annoys me.

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By *ohntall123 OP   Man
48 weeks ago

Biggleswade


"So I’ve started to put in my messages “ if I’m not your cup of tea I won’t be offended “ is that ok or wrong ? Thoughts

That sort of attitude annoys me."

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