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Somewhere In The Ether…

Ow do good folks once again

A quickie question: How would you rate yourself as a lover on a scale of 1-10 (with 1 equating to utterly risible and woefully inept and 10 being Deity level)

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By *eliWoman
48 weeks ago

I'm going to say a solid 6. I'm rather enthusiastic. Love giving pleasure more than receiving it (I get more aroused doing so than I do receiving). I think I'm okay. Not the worst shag of your life, very likely not the best either.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
48 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

With the right people, 13.

With the wrong people, 2.

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

"I'm going to say a solid 6. I'm rather enthusiastic. Love giving pleasure more than receiving it (I get more aroused doing so than I do receiving). I think I'm okay. Not the worst shag of your life, very likely not the best either.

Sold, where do I sign hehe

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
48 weeks ago

Transsexual Transylvania

I'd give myself a 3.

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

After a very very long abstinence from it, a big fat i would imagine

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By *agnar73Man
48 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

"With the right people, 13.

With the wrong people, 2."

That me too.

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

-40

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By *ornym66Man
48 weeks ago

Col /ips

I'm a6 out of 10

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

I’ve never not finished.

Maybe once or twice if I’ve been too d*unk, but then again I can finish really fast sometimes too, so that’s good

So 9.5/10 I’d say.

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
48 weeks ago

Stockport

Hovering around -2. Have forgotten any skills I once had. Hoping to find somebody with patience and belief that I could be worth it with retraining and enough practice. They'll have to hurry up though before my body falls to pieces through rust and neglect. Polly xxx

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
48 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

I think we need more granularity here.

I mean, I reckon I could be a nine at oral. With the right partner, a clear 10 at kissing. But maybe only a six at the fucking.

Does that give me an average of eight? Feels too high. I’m not that egotistical.

This whole exercise is a minefield. I give up. Not in.

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

Now I feel only others can score me… so any willing volunteers who might like to come give me a score (for research purposes and for an answer to this thread) please get in touch

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

"I think we need more granularity here.

I mean, I reckon I could be a nine at oral. With the right partner, a clear 10 at kissing. But maybe only a six at the fucking.

Does that give me an average of eight? Feels too high. I’m not that egotistical.

This whole exercise is a minefield. I give up. Not in."

I’d probably get a seveeeern from Len.

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By *aitonelMan
48 weeks ago

Liverpool

Shit shag. Wherever that falls on the scale

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By *orthwhile27Man
48 weeks ago

dark side of the moon

Awful

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By *eliWoman
48 weeks ago

"Shit shag. Wherever that falls on the scale"

1 for at least showing up. Good work, Kai.

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By *aitonelMan
48 weeks ago

Liverpool

"Shit shag. Wherever that falls on the scale

1 for at least showing up. Good work, Kai."

1 for showing up. What will a few growls and moans get me?

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

If your asking myself going to say a 20 out 10

If your asking people I been with

Some will say a 20 out 10

Some will say a 10 out 10

Some will say a 5 out 10

And some will say a 0 out off 10

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48 weeks ago

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By *eliWoman
48 weeks ago

"Shit shag. Wherever that falls on the scale

1 for at least showing up. Good work, Kai.

1 for showing up. What will a few growls and moans get me? "

1.5. If your mouth was doing other things? Possibly 1.8.

Still, it's not a 0.

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By *aitonelMan
48 weeks ago

Liverpool

"Shit shag. Wherever that falls on the scale

1 for at least showing up. Good work, Kai.

1 for showing up. What will a few growls and moans get me?

1.5. If your mouth was doing other things? Possibly 1.8.

Still, it's not a 0."

I can live with a 1.8 rating

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

"Shit shag. Wherever that falls on the scale

1 for at least showing up. Good work, Kai.

1 for showing up. What will a few growls and moans get me?

1.5. If your mouth was doing other things? Possibly 1.8.

Still, it's not a 0."

I'd give you one, many times, so would that be a 10 lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

Does anyone need any practice?

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

Well based on the fact I can't keep a man past 10 years.

A 3?

Though I must be going downhill as the last one was 2 years.

So 1.5?

But they come back again for a bit more when they're not getting any elsewhere or as much as they'd like....so a 2?

It actually doesn't matter how good it bad you are does it? you're just a bunk up for a time, and then they move on, maybe boomerang and then piss off again.

You can rate me yourself if you like SL

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
48 weeks ago

Leeds

I'd give myself a 10 for effort sometimes a 6 if I'm tired.

Actual skill 5.

Mrs

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By *eordieJeansCouple
48 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

I’ve been described as adequate. Make of that what you will.

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By *hunky GentMan
48 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Can I use minus figures?

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By *BWLOVER1965Man
48 weeks ago

My Own Little World

Shit shag

I know how to use hands

And mouth

Solid 2

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By *ickdasterdly51Man
48 weeks ago

Lingfield

I'd say mentally 7-8, years of experience, a very dirty mind and very adventurous. However age is catching up with me physically so without any 'help' that bit would be 4-5. I think that's what would scare me off a meet from here, being able to talk the talk but not walk the walk!

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By *orny-DJMan
48 weeks ago

Leigh-on-Sea

Well, as one lady described me as a sex god, i'm going to give myself a solid 10

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By *ornycougaWoman
48 weeks ago

Wherever I lay my hat

I'll let others be the judge of that

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By *aitonelMan
48 weeks ago

Liverpool

Remember ladies, you don't actually need any skill to get the job done

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By *iggydog78Man
48 weeks ago

London

Honestly a 8/10 allowed to perform to a 5/10 standard!!! Lol please release me!!

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By *imi_RougeWoman
48 weeks ago

Portsmouth

5/10 pretty average

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By *entlemanrogueMan
48 weeks ago

Motherwell

Depending on who and how i think a 7/8 isn't over exaggeration.

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By *ddkkk91Man
48 weeks ago

fife

Its okay..

Hard to rate yourself but not looking at numbers, i realised quickly..

Use other skills you have

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By *ornyfriendlygentlemanMan
48 weeks ago

Mid-Sussex

I don't like boasting,I have a lifetime of experience so I won't put a number up.

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By *entlemanrogueMan
48 weeks ago

Motherwell

"I'll let others be the judge of that"

I would be happy to give you honest feedback

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

7. Unless im awake in which case 2 maybe 2.5

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By *illy IdolMan
48 weeks ago

Midlands

"I think we need more granularity here.

I mean, I reckon I could be a nine at oral. With the right partner, a clear 10 at kissing. But maybe only a six at the fucking.

Does that give me an average of eight? Feels too high. I’m not that egotistical.

This whole exercise is a minefield. I give up. Not in."

This is interesting.

I wonder if there is any gents on here who think they're crap at oral?

Excluding Kai, as he takes pride on being crap.

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
48 weeks ago

Transsexual Transylvania

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By *aitonelMan
48 weeks ago

Liverpool

"I think we need more granularity here.

I mean, I reckon I could be a nine at oral. With the right partner, a clear 10 at kissing. But maybe only a six at the fucking.

Does that give me an average of eight? Feels too high. I’m not that egotistical.

This whole exercise is a minefield. I give up. Not in.

This is interesting.

I wonder if there is any gents on here who think they're crap at oral?

Excluding Kai, as he takes pride on being crap."

Leave them expecting more

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
48 weeks ago

Transsexual Transylvania

I was TRYING to say that I've had quite a few messages from guys who say they'd give me 1.

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By *ames_1985Man
48 weeks ago

Wantage / Bicester

I'm a solid 7.5-8 /10 I reckon

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By *lam granWoman
48 weeks ago

falkirk

A solid 3.

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

"I was TRYING to say that I've had quite a few messages from guys who say they'd give me 1.

1 inch?

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
48 weeks ago

Transsexual Transylvania

"I was TRYING to say that I've had quite a few messages from guys who say they'd give me 1.

1 inch? "

Hey, I'm take what I can get...

But yes, probably. They do frequently tell me that they're going to make me gag, then they send a pic, and I do. So there's some truth.

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By *illy IdolMan
48 weeks ago

Midlands

"I think we need more granularity here.

I mean, I reckon I could be a nine at oral. With the right partner, a clear 10 at kissing. But maybe only a six at the fucking.

Does that give me an average of eight? Feels too high. I’m not that egotistical.

This whole exercise is a minefield. I give up. Not in.

This is interesting.

I wonder if there is any gents on here who think they're crap at oral?

Excluding Kai, as he takes pride on being crap.

Leave them expecting more

Wise man

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
48 weeks ago

Transsexual Transylvania

"A solid 3."

Reminds me of my last gangbang...

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

"I was TRYING to say that I've had quite a few messages from guys who say they'd give me 1.

1 inch?

Hey, I'm take what I can get...

But yes, probably. They do frequently tell me that they're going to make me gag, then they send a pic, and I do. So there's some truth. "

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By *rispyDuckMan
48 weeks ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

9/10 & im being humble about it

Hahaha

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By *anted by NightMan
48 weeks ago

Shangri-La

69/10.

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

1.5

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By *herry delightWoman
48 weeks ago

Ilfracombe

0.5

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

"Remember ladies, you don't actually need any skill to get the job done

So true.

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By *amish MacBethMan
48 weeks ago

Southend

It’s been a while lol I really have no idea though lol

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By *ealitybitesMan
48 weeks ago

Belfast

My automatic response to this question would be 6/10.

I discovered about 8 years ago that I'm very instinctive so for some of those I've met that could mean an 8/10 experience for that reason alone while for others it could have been a 4/10.

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By *ensuallover1000 OP Man
48 weeks ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

"Well based on the fact I can't keep a man past 10 years.

A 3?

Though I must be going downhill as the last one was 2 years.

So 1.5?

But they come back again for a bit more when they're not getting any elsewhere or as much as they'd like....so a 2?

It actually doesn't matter how good it bad you are does it? you're just a bunk up for a time, and then they move on, maybe boomerang and then piss off again.

You can rate me yourself if you like SL

A curious tingle hath just centred around my loin region….

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
48 weeks ago

little house on the praire

When I was still having sex I'd say an 8/10. I've been doing it along while, I'm enthusiastic and adventurous and I'm not bad with stamina

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By *viatrixWoman
48 weeks ago

Redhill

A good, solid 8.5

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

"A good, solid 8.5

Hotlisted.

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

Depends who I'm with. If we mesh, a good 8/9. If we don't, maybe 1.

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

"With the right people, 13.

With the wrong people, 2."

This is so true. Sometimes you just "work" together and sometimes you don't. But I did recently get a 95 out of 10 so I'll say that

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
48 weeks ago

The Women I've been with might say something different but in my opinion,

Kissing - 7

Oral - 8

Fingers - 7

sex - 6

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By *ie n MashCouple
48 weeks ago

Back in Malice

There are a few gents out there who owe me a huge favour. When I was first starting out sexually, I was so shit in bed that I set the bar so low for the ladies unfortunate enough to sleep with me. ANY man subsequently sleeping with these poor girls would seem like a sex-god after my pathetic attempts.

Things have improved as I mastered my technique and my Wife regularly stays awake for the first 30 seconds of our sensual love making, but tends to drift off through the remaining 30 seconds.

Please form an orderly queue Ladies x

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

ORAL SKILLS 5

COCK SKILL 5

SO THAT MAKES ME 10

MERRY CHRISTMAS FABS

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

Recently got called a sex wizard but she may have been seeing the wrong people, still inflated my ego.

Strong rate myself a 9 with oral.

With the right person and a good vibe 6/7 shag

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

"10

And I’ll add

… with a great sexy woman it’s a 20/10

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By *ornym66Man
48 weeks ago

Col /ips

"When I was still having sex I'd say an 8/10. I've been doing it along while, I'm enthusiastic and adventurous and I'm not bad with stamina"

Are you not having sex anymore ??

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By *eneralKenobiMan
48 weeks ago

North Angus

4/10, requires practice

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
48 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

I once received the most wonderful message an hour or so after a spur-of-the-moment Fab meet that said quite a lot about “Oh my god never have I felt like that before, the things you were doing to my pussy …” and so on. It was a delight to read. But I didn’t think I’d been doing anything different or special. I guess sometimes you’re just a great fit with someone! (Or she was exaggerating …)

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By *ickyKlungespeareMan
48 weeks ago

St Leonards

"With the right people, 13.

With the wrong people, 2.

That me too."

And me.

Although with the wrongest people, 86.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
48 weeks ago

little house on the praire

"When I was still having sex I'd say an 8/10. I've been doing it along while, I'm enthusiastic and adventurous and I'm not bad with stamina

Are you not having sex anymore ??"
No. I gave it up about three years ago

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By *innamon!Woman
48 weeks ago

no matter

I couldnt possibly rate myself . No clue . Lack of practice so probably very low.

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

Always thought my skills were half decent but hard to gauge and it is subjective. I did enjoy going to a club night recently where your skills were essentially rated. It was a Survivor event. 4 women blindfolded in one room with 10 guys in another. We took turns going into the room to perform different acts and each woman eliminated one guy every round. There were four different rounds we performed twice, if not eliminated. They were BJ, lick out, kiss on the lips and kiss on the neck. The last two guys for each women got half an hour in a private room afterwards. I ended up in the last two for two women and got eliminated at the final 3 for the other two.

Don't know if I'd go to something like that again, took too long to get round to actual fucking, but was a good experience nevertheless.

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By *ose manMan
48 weeks ago

kells

Willing btm guy .

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

Never meet you probably never will however just listened to you voice and your profile. Got say your way way to HARD on yourself. add say good 9 out 10 and plenty of enthusiasm xxxx

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
48 weeks ago

Naughty Lane

Solid 5

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By *oubletroubleCouple
48 weeks ago

South West

Definitely awesome. I usually manage to come 1st and very quickly on a good day. John x

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By *2000ManMan
48 weeks ago

Worthing

I do a "Tuffnel" and go up to 11. Works every time.

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
48 weeks ago

Bristol

Inadequate

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By *eyond PurityCouple
48 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

We don’t do average meets - only top shelf memories here so we are going high. Not really bothered if people think we are egotistical for it

I’m sure people go low for others to then go ‘oooh no you’re a sex god(dess)’

We make sure there’s a good connection with people before we get into bed with anyone so that’s why there’s no average meet.

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By *hunky GentMan
48 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

My left hand doesn't complain.

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By *ad NannaWoman
48 weeks ago

East London

I'm going with a 7, because I'm enthusiastic, I like using my hands and mouth, I'm open-minded and selfless.

I lost points because I'm stiff and can't stretch or bend well, and I don't have as much energy as I used to.

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By *eliWoman
48 weeks ago

Never meet you probably never will however just listened to you voice and your profile. Got say your way way to HARD on yourself. add say good 9 out 10 and plenty of enthusiasm xxxx"

Haha, my voice and ability to take a poor photo sadly doesn't indicate my sexual skills. I wish it did. Thank you for the compliment nevertheless (after I kind of tore it apart

), x

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By *rHotNottsMan
48 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Being a guy I have to overestimate, so I’ll go with a solid 1.5 based on my veris highlighting that I like to hold hands and nap

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By *ambertMan
48 weeks ago

Cheltenham

2.6

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By *uffolkcouple-bi onlyCouple
48 weeks ago

West Suffolk

I would give myself about a 7, I would give Mr 10

Mrs

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By *uffolkcouple-bi onlyCouple
48 weeks ago

West Suffolk

I think being good in bed is more about compatibility than demonstrating a skill set in line with the national curriculum. A bit like kissing.

I’d give my Mrs a 10 and me an 8 as I can be a bit lazy lol

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