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By *illy Idol OP   Man
over a year ago

Midlands

Do looks play a role on how you judge a comment on here?

Do you take the comment at face value or are you more forgiving if they're hot?

Hot = you cheeky/saucy minx

Not so hot = you dirty pervert

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I'm judging the words

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hot - pumpable

Not Hot - not pumpable

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I don't think anyone would say they do but they definitely do, so does gender

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I take it at face value but I’m not prepared to kiss ass thinking I’ll get a meet from it.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Yeah probably, at times, if I’m honest.

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By *illy Idol OP   Man
over a year ago

Midlands


"Hot - pumpable

Not Hot - not pumpable"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Whoever has the largest cup size is in the right

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

As far I'm aware it's about the words. If I recognise someone's picture but didn't catch the usual undertones of their text then I'll read it differently because of that.

But whether or not someone is visually appealing is irrelevant.

Pretty people can still be skeevy and repulsive

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

On the forums no I definitely don't view people differently based on a few well taken pics.

I coined a phrase here a couple of years ago about some people being fannyblind which is the fab variant of snowblindness and it can be very apt at times.

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Even if not consciously, I reckon it does affect our reactions.

If someone has a photo I like - funny, thoughtful, well composed - I'm more likely to respond positively to them than if it's a smudgy genitals shot. I guess it's the same kinda thing.

Mrs TMN x

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually


"Even if not consciously, I reckon it does affect our reactions.

If someone has a photo I like - funny, thoughtful, well composed - I'm more likely to respond positively to them than if it's a smudgy genitals shot. I guess it's the same kinda thing.

Mrs TMN x "

Oh.

That's a fair point actually.

I'm probably less likely to respond positively to someone with a standard dick pic as their profile picture.

I don't mind an artsy one with some thought. But if you're just whacking out your dong at everyone it is likely to affect how I personally feel towards someone. Exceptions for the occasional challenge and such.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s not that many hot people on here. But I forgive them many things, just not bigotry.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Can't really see what they look like most of the time, so it's irrelevant.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Nah I don't like hot people, they're pricks.

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly


"Nah I don't like hot people, they're pricks."

I like you, you massive prick.

Mrs TMN x

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

100% go by looks on here yes x

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…


"Nah I don't like hot people, they're pricks."

Lacey You’re back!

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

In answer to the original question though: A repellent comment is just that, irrespective of my perception of the persons physical attractiveness.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Nah I don't like hot people, they're pricks.

I like you, you massive prick.

Mrs TMN x"

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Nah I don't like hot people, they're pricks.

Lacey You’re back! "

TheVonMatterhorns occasionally remind me fab exists .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nah I don't like hot people, they're pricks."

What do you think about mildly good looking but not exactly ugly people?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do looks play a role on how you judge a comment on here?

Do you take the comment at face value or are you more forgiving if they're hot?

Hot = you cheeky/saucy minx

Not so hot = you dirty pervert"

I judge only by actions as words and looks lie

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Nah I don't like hot people, they're pricks.

What do you think about mildly good looking but not exactly ugly people? "

They're alright. Wouldn't write home about them though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nah I don't like hot people, they're pricks.

What do you think about mildly good looking but not exactly ugly people?

They're alright. Wouldn't write home about them though."

I’ll take that!!!

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Even pretty boys don't get away with being twonks in my book, it instead makes them rather unattractive

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

People I already fancy get a bit of a pass from me sometimes. But that’s more because I know them a bit better - I’ve got some context to go on and know they’re not *actually* a prick.

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By *entlemanrogueMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I'm judging the words "

This always

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By *lam granWoman
over a year ago

falkirk

Mostly judge on comments alone. But some forumites obviously get away with lots because of how they look.

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By *illy Idol OP   Man
over a year ago

Midlands


"Mostly judge on comments alone. But some forumites obviously get away with lots because of how they look."

Exactly my thoughts.

If someone said they'd like to give you a good motorboating your initial reaction may be different depending who has said it

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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No. My level of friendship with a person does, if I'm more comfortable with someone I'm less likely to think they're a dirty scoundrel for how they reply.

But in terms of conventional markers of attractiveness affecting how I reply to someone? Nope.

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly


"Mostly judge on comments alone. But some forumites obviously get away with lots because of how they look.

Exactly my thoughts.

If someone said they'd like to give you a good motorboating your initial reaction may be different depending who has said it"

I think it's also about the existing relationship you have with the other poster. There are some folk on here I can be really sarcastic/sexual with, because that's how our relationship works. I wouldn't start doing that with someone I didn't know, though.

Mrs TMN x

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London


"No. My level of friendship with a person does …"

That’s what I meant to say but it came out as being all about whether I fancy them because I’m nothing if not an incorrigible flirt.

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By *illy Idol OP   Man
over a year ago

Midlands


"Mostly judge on comments alone. But some forumites obviously get away with lots because of how they look.

Exactly my thoughts.

If someone said they'd like to give you a good motorboating your initial reaction may be different depending who has said it

I think it's also about the existing relationship you have with the other poster. There are some folk on here I can be really sarcastic/sexual with, because that's how our relationship works. I wouldn't start doing that with someone I didn't know, though.

Mrs TMN x"

I wouldn't mind motorboating you. Grrrr

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly


"Mostly judge on comments alone. But some forumites obviously get away with lots because of how they look.

Exactly my thoughts.

If someone said they'd like to give you a good motorboating your initial reaction may be different depending who has said it

I think it's also about the existing relationship you have with the other poster. There are some folk on here I can be really sarcastic/sexual with, because that's how our relationship works. I wouldn't start doing that with someone I didn't know, though.

Mrs TMN x

I wouldn't mind motorboating you. Grrrr"

QED

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I don't know them I judge them harshly regardless of hotness.

If I know them then they're hot and they can say whatever. Within reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mostly judge on comments alone. But some forumites obviously get away with lots because of how they look.

…..

Mrs TMN x"

Is this why I visit the naughty step often?

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"No. My level of friendship with a person does …

That’s what I meant to say but it came out as being all about whether I fancy them because I’m nothing if not an incorrigible flirt."

You; an incorrigible flirt? No Rose, say it isn't so. I won't stand for such self-slander.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always the words

Amazing how nasty words or certain things people say turns you off them regardless of looks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Imagine a world outside of here where you judged what they said by how they look or whether you think they’re hot. Why should that be any different from here

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I dont care how hot someone is, words can have a powerful affect from whoever says them...hot or not c

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By *obilebottomMan
over a year ago

All over


"I don't think anyone would say they do but they definitely do, so does gender

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By *uzie69xTV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone

Hot = you cheeky/saucy minx

Even hotter = you dirty pervert

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do looks play a role on how you judge a comment on here?

"

How do I do that? I don’t know what any of you look like?

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