FabSwingers.com forum: What have you learnt about yourself?

By *nplainsight200 OP Man
41 weeks ago

portsmotuh

Been on fab for a few months now and it’s taught me a few things about myself that maybe I wouldn’t have otherwise realised…

I now don’t have a “type”. Everyone has something that makes them attractive

I’m not as vanilla as I thought I was!

Pierced nipples turn me on

It’s the thrill of flirting that really does it for me.

I’m not as dull as I thought I was.

So there you go, thanks fabworld! Anybody else learnt things about themself?

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
41 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

I'm too fucking trusting sometimes.

And then I ruin it for the people I should trust

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
41 weeks ago

East Sussex

I've learned that I'm even more cynical than I thought I was

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By *nplainsight200 OP Man
41 weeks ago

portsmotuh

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By *ittlemissmistressKCouple
41 weeks ago

Southampton

I like sex.... lots ... who knew ??

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By *ealitybitesMan
41 weeks ago

Belfast

That this site needs me more than I need it.

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By *nplainsight200 OP Man
41 weeks ago

portsmotuh

"I've learned that I'm even more cynical than I thought I was"

I’m cynical about this comment

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By *rozac_fairyCouple
41 weeks ago

Tamworth

I have less patience than I thought I had

For him, he loves his own personal porn show more than he thought so single guys have become our priority preference instead of couples

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By *icecouple561Couple
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41 weeks ago

East Sussex

"I've learned that I'm even more cynical than I thought I was

I’m cynical about this comment

I just learned that my phone autocorrects r o f l to 'dick' and now I'm terrified that I'm going to insult someone when I'm trying to laugh at their comments

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By *-and-mCouple
41 weeks ago

Carlisle

That I have a pretty small cock conpared to most guys on here

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By *imisugarWoman
41 weeks ago

Rugby

That' I'm better at setting boundaries than I thought I was.

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

"I've learned that I'm even more cynical than I thought I was"

Sings. - “I’ve become so cynical these days. I don’t know how it started but it won’t go away.”

Op. I’ve learnt a lot, and a lot of it is positive. Lots and that’s with the people I’ve been very lucky to have had the opportunity to get to know a little.

But that also leads to the negative about Fab, it’s a self indulgent website filled with selfishness. I’ve learned to look out for those that can turn on you quickly.

But I repeat, it’s more positive than bad.

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By *affron40Woman
41 weeks ago

manchester

I have learnt that I’m an awkward demisexual but that there are people I can feel an energy with, they’re just difficult to find.

I have also learnt that I give too much and leave myself open to being walked over.

I’ve also learnt that I can walk away for years at a time and not miss fab.

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
41 weeks ago

Essex

I’m an acquired taste that most don’t have the patience to acquire.

That I’m ok with the above.

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By *elshcouple18Couple
41 weeks ago

Cardiff

Learnt that not all cocks are as nice as hubbies..

And we are fussier than first thought..

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By *otsossieMan
41 weeks ago

Chesterfield

Some folks will fab anything.

My personal hygiene is a lot better than some others.

I seem to be ok at composing pictures.

I got a lot more interaction on Twitter before it went shit.

Pogonophiles exist.

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

"I have learnt that I’m an awkward demisexual but that there are people I can feel an energy with, they’re just difficult to find.

I have also learnt that I give too much and leave myself open to being walked over.

I’ve also learnt that I can walk away for years at a time and not miss fab.

I managed a few week.

but in that time, I genuinely missed a few people I started to consider friends. Albeit, online friends. But still, people are good to talk to.

Sadly, one or two don’t think the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

Hang on I know the answer, wrote it down somewhere..

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By *obilebottomMan
41 weeks ago

All over

That the new unit of measurement is apparrently the pringles tube and you always round up.

That straight guys are just that, totally straight.

That people use too many acronyms I don't understand

That cake unites all

That there are some good eggs on here, just not everyone though

That I like public speaking as I dish too many threads out and must control that (or not)

and finally, that I had no idea I could show a pic of my bum in public without blushing.

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By *oeydogsMan
41 weeks ago

brentwood

My resilience is ever-strengthening

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

I've learned that no matter what I give it isn't enough.

People are only temporary when I'd like them to stick around.

I'm hated for stupid reasons.

But I've learned what I'm into sexually and it's really hard to find.

And something else I can't type here

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By *ickyKlungespeareMan
41 weeks ago

St Leonards

"I've learned that I'm even more cynical than I thought I was

I’m cynical about this comment

I just learned that my phone autocorrects r o f l to 'dick' and now I'm terrified that I'm going to insult someone when I'm trying to laugh at their comments

Dick dick dick!

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

Oh. And I’ve learned how to avoid timeouts.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
41 weeks ago

Leeds

I've learnt that I really dislike most men, I've learnt compliments generally mean nothing if you don't offer your pussy up.

I've also learnt there are a very few beautiful humans out there that restore my faith in humanity slightly.

Mrs

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By *affron40Woman
41 weeks ago

manchester

"I have learnt that I’m an awkward demisexual but that there are people I can feel an energy with, they’re just difficult to find.

I have also learnt that I give too much and leave myself open to being walked over.

I’ve also learnt that I can walk away for years at a time and not miss fab.

I managed a few week.

but in that time, I genuinely missed a few people I started to consider friends. Albeit, online friends. But still, people are good to talk to.

Sadly, one or two don’t think the same.

You’re a good egg woody. You can only be you. Those that don’t value that are simply wrong.

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By *entlemanrogueMan
41 weeks ago

Motherwell

Being true to myself is much better than being a people pleaser.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
41 weeks ago

Leeds

"Some folks will fab anything.

My personal hygiene is a lot better than some others.

I seem to be ok at composing pictures.

I got a lot more interaction on Twitter before it went shit.

Pogonophiles exist. "

Ok at pics?? You have some of the best pics I've seen from a blokes profile.

Fan here!

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

I’ve learned that I’m very fussy and very easily put off by people. Also found out I have a short attention span.

The main thing I’ve learned that attraction to my “type” is about how people act, as much as how they look. I didn’t realise that before.

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By *otsossieMan
41 weeks ago

Chesterfield

"Ok at pics?? You have some of the best pics I've seen from a blokes profile.

Fan here!

Mrs "

Oh give over

And you know I appreciate yours.

I was thinking it because I’d just inadvertently clicked on a profile where the guy needed a good wash

vomitsmiley

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

"I have learnt that I’m an awkward demisexual but that there are people I can feel an energy with, they’re just difficult to find.

I have also learnt that I give too much and leave myself open to being walked over.

I’ve also learnt that I can walk away for years at a time and not miss fab.

I managed a few week.

but in that time, I genuinely missed a few people I started to consider friends. Albeit, online friends. But still, people are good to talk to.

Sadly, one or two don’t think the same.

You’re a good egg woody. You can only be you. Those that don’t value that are simply wrong.

You want a Christmas card don’t you?

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
41 weeks ago

Somewhere else

"I'm too fucking trusting sometimes.

And then I ruin it for the people I should trust

Oof. Been there.

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
41 weeks ago

Somewhere else

"I've learned that I'm even more cynical than I thought I was

I’m cynical about this comment

I just learned that my phone autocorrects r o f l to 'dick' and now I'm terrified that I'm going to insult someone when I'm trying to laugh at their comments

This is hilarious

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
41 weeks ago

Somewhere else

"That I have a pretty small cock conpared to most guys on here"

So do I.

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

Milk

Coffee

Detergent

Lube

Bin bags

Nope that’s not it

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By *glyBettyTV/TS
41 weeks ago

About 3 feet away from the fence

I learnt that it's easier to meet men in real life...

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

"I learnt that it's easier to meet men in real life... "

Very true

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By *egasus NobMan
41 weeks ago

Merton

Learn not to judge people, fab didn't teach me that, but reinforced it

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

I’ve learnt ignoring someone is now polite…

*runs

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By *ornycougaWoman
41 weeks ago

Wherever I lay my hat

I have learned just how important honesty and respect are to me and I won't compromise on those values for anyone.

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By *mber SkiesWoman
41 weeks ago

Cardiff-ish

"I learnt that it's easier to meet men in real life... "
yip

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
41 weeks ago

Somewhere else

"I've learned that no matter what I give it isn't enough.

People are only temporary when I'd like them to stick around.

I'm hated for stupid reasons.

But I've learned what I'm into sexually and it's really hard to find.

And something else I can't type here

Well, I think you fucking rock.

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
41 weeks ago

Somewhere else

"I have learned just how important honesty and respect are to me and I won't compromise on those values for anyone."

I like this.

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By *C79Man
41 weeks ago

Caterham

I've learnt that I blend into a crowd easily and don't have that instant magnatism that others are fortunate to have. I have also abandoned the idea of having a 'type' as there is no consistent pattern to what I'm attracted to. Most of all, I have discovered a true dislike for the wanking dead & do my very very best to not become one of them

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By *ros40Man
41 weeks ago

Bedford

I've learnt that most people aren't nice

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By *obilebottomMan
41 weeks ago

All over

"I've learnt that most people aren't nice

Sorry to hear. There are a few but lits are nice too. Some also taje a while to show how nice they are, protective me hanism O think.

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By *ealitybitesMan
41 weeks ago

Belfast

I've learned that Wuddy often has a dose of the runs when he posts on the forums.

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By *midnight-Woman
41 weeks ago

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I have discovered that i actually quite like my body

That kink is what excites me

That i love and thrive in DD/lg

That i haven't achieved comperison

That i struggle to commit /say yes

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
41 weeks ago

East Sussex

"I've learned that I'm even more cynical than I thought I was

Sings. - “I’ve become so cynical these days. I don’t know how it started but it won’t go away.”

Op. I’ve learnt a lot, and a lot of it is positive. Lots and that’s with the people I’ve been very lucky to have had the opportunity to get to know a little.

But that also leads to the negative about Fab, it’s a self indulgent website filled with selfishness. I’ve learned to look out for those that can turn on you quickly.

But I repeat, it’s more positive than bad.

What song does that come from, it could be my theme tune

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

"I've learned that I'm even more cynical than I thought I was

Sings. - “I’ve become so cynical these days. I don’t know how it started but it won’t go away.”

Op. I’ve learnt a lot, and a lot of it is positive. Lots and that’s with the people I’ve been very lucky to have had the opportunity to get to know a little.

But that also leads to the negative about Fab, it’s a self indulgent website filled with selfishness. I’ve learned to look out for those that can turn on you quickly.

But I repeat, it’s more positive than bad.

What song does that come from, it could be my theme tune

Supernaturals - Smile.

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By *ornycougaWoman
41 weeks ago

Wherever I lay my hat

"I have learned just how important honesty and respect are to me and I won't compromise on those values for anyone.

I like this."

Thank you my lovely. I would do the [heart] emoji but my knackered Hwawei (not a euphemism) won't let me

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
41 weeks ago

East Sussex

"I've learned that I'm even more cynical than I thought I was

Sings. - “I’ve become so cynical these days. I don’t know how it started but it won’t go away.”

Op. I’ve learnt a lot, and a lot of it is positive. Lots and that’s with the people I’ve been very lucky to have had the opportunity to get to know a little.

But that also leads to the negative about Fab, it’s a self indulgent website filled with selfishness. I’ve learned to look out for those that can turn on you quickly.

But I repeat, it’s more positive than bad.

What song does that come from, it could be my theme tune

Supernaturals - Smile.

Ta!

I'm not going to appear really uncool so I'll ask Alexa...

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
41 weeks ago

My boudoir - S Wales

That’s I feel more confident naked than in clothes.

I hate winter.

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By *empest2KMan
41 weeks ago

Derby

I've learned that I'm not prepared to settle for anything less than what I'm after, even if that limits my options even further. Yeah, that's crazy, I know!

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
41 weeks ago

Bristol

That I'm too easy when I'm horny

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

"I learnt that it's easier to meet men in real life... "

And the least they talk the better.

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By *rispyDuckMan
41 weeks ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

That I look good naked

& I very much enjoy 3somes.

2 is company, 3 is a party lol

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By *mber SkiesWoman
41 weeks ago

Cardiff-ish

"That I'm too easy when I'm horny "

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

I’ve learned people lie even more on here than in the real world

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

I have learnt I don't jump to conclusions, I fucking leap. I've learnt to be more relaxed about irritating situations. I've learnt to always trust that gut instinct about people. I've learnt never to put your own self worth on somebody else.

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By *oeydogsMan
41 weeks ago

brentwood

"I’ve learned people lie even more on here than in the real world "

I never ever ever ever ever ever lie

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By *oneybee1001Woman
41 weeks ago

Around and about

I've learned that the things about me that aren't my favourite things aren't a big deal! I embrace all that I am and all that I love now

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By *nikingMan
41 weeks ago

Hull

I barely have any limits

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By *obilebottomMan
41 weeks ago

All over

"I barely have any limits

I am just the same with lindt balls

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

"I've learned that I'm even more cynical than I thought I was

Sings. - “I’ve become so cynical these days. I don’t know how it started but it won’t go away.”

Op. I’ve learnt a lot, and a lot of it is positive. Lots and that’s with the people I’ve been very lucky to have had the opportunity to get to know a little.

But that also leads to the negative about Fab, it’s a self indulgent website filled with selfishness. I’ve learned to look out for those that can turn on you quickly.

But I repeat, it’s more positive than bad.

What song does that come from, it could be my theme tune

Supernaturals - Smile.

Ta!

I'm not going to appear really uncool so I'll ask Alexa...

I sing it daily, it’s not my ringtone, it’s my life’s theme tune.

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

"I’ve learned people lie even more on here than in the real world "

It’s all the same. A lie will always be found out.

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

I’ve learned I’m not so weird with my kinks.

I’ve learned what love and lust is and there’s a big difference.

I’ve learned a man over 45 can still be someone’s desire

I’ve learned distance is an excuse when you want to hold a someone in your arms x

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By *ora the explorerWoman
41 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

"I'm too fucking trusting sometimes.

And then I ruin it for the people I should trust

Oh this is definitely me too

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

I've learnt that I am a pretty good observer.

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

I've learnt that I'm shit at the whole messaging internet thing but much better at the sitting down and chatting with people thing, I've learnt loads of interesting things from those I've chatted with. I've also realised how much I enjoy the social side of Fab again.

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By *essiCouple
41 weeks ago

suffolk

I've learnt never say never..

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By *midnight-Woman
41 weeks ago

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"I’ve learned people lie even more on here than in the real world "

Do you mean there aren't 14" penises

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

"I’ve learned people lie even more on here than in the real world

Do you mean there aren't 14" penises

That’s 1.4

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