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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

For all those who get 100s of messages daily. How do you actually keep track of who you wish to talk too?

Xx

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

We get 1-4 a day and I don't manage that

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do not !

T

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

Poorly. I manage my inbox poorly.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I review 'friends' messages first then the rest will have to wait their turn.

I'm a busy man.

(Who am I kidding).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My inbox manages itself mostly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My inbox manages itself mostly "

If you take 3 months break it all will clear.

T

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I use filters so I don't that many messages now.I couldn't cope with loads, not that I'd be inundated anyways.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My inbox manages itself mostly

If you take 3 months break it all will clear.

T"

I don’t get many messages is what I meant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With filters, inboxes are easily managed. Women who say they have too much mail to keep track are either bullshitting or not using their filters. 90% of messages are either 'compliments', dick pics, meet now requests, can I ask you a question or one word messages.. Once you delete all those, pretty apparent who you still have/want to talk too.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

I have a PA for my Inbøx. Actually, I ·had· a PA but she's dispensed with her services.

I'm looking for a new one...

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

I barely look at my I box these days. I sort of forget more often than not

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"With filters, inboxes are easily managed. Women who say they have too much mail to keep track are either bullshitting or not using their filters. 90% of messages are either 'compliments', dick pics, meet now requests, can I ask you a question or one word messages.. Once you delete all those, pretty apparent who you still have/want to talk too."

Careful! You will get yourself blacklisted from your woman's card club.

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By *obilebottomMan
over a year ago

All over

Only a few each day so there are manageable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Filters.

Block men for a few hours and it takes them a while to resurface when you unblock if you don't post a status or pic.

Block anyone you're not interested so you don't have them in your box again. Also reduces fabs which is handy.

Put up a moany status or a negative one.

I dont get hundreds a day though. That only happens if I hit hotpics. I hit page 2 months ago and had 600 over 3 days.

I get between 5-20 a day at the moment but I lowered my age range. The 35 to 40 seems to mean more messages. I keep my eye out for other women and will recommend profiles I think they might like.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

I don't they eventually delete themselves if I don't open them!I only open a few! I don't have filters x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's pretty easy. Unless you want the attention, which let's face it most women do.

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere else

Filters, filters, and more filters.

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By *illy IdolMan
over a year ago

Midlands


"I have a PA for my Inbøx. Actually, I ·had· a PA but she's dispensed with her services.

I'm looking for a new one..."

Incoming new Nero thread...

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
over a year ago

Essex


"It's pretty easy. Unless you want the attention, which let's face it most women do. "

I totally admit to this

Not just attention for the sake of it.. but no attention = no willy for Misty

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"It's pretty easy. Unless you want the attention, which let's face it most women do.

I totally admit to this

Not just attention for the sake of it.. but no attention = no willy for Misty "

(Stands to attention with his willy out).

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester


"With filters, inboxes are easily managed. Women who say they have too much mail to keep track are either bullshitting or not using their filters. 90% of messages are either 'compliments', dick pics, meet now requests, can I ask you a question or one word messages.. Once you delete all those, pretty apparent who you still have/want to talk too."

This ^

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

Unless it’s what you want for whatever reason, the “100’s of messages a day” myth is exactly that - a myth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Easy when there is over a 100 unread message in my inbox I delete all messages.

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By *a1970Man
over a year ago

East cork

That's my pa problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"With filters, inboxes are easily managed. Women who say they have too much mail to keep track are either bullshitting or not using their filters. 90% of messages are either 'compliments', dick pics, meet now requests, can I ask you a question or one word messages.. Once you delete all those, pretty apparent who you still have/want to talk too."

My favourites are those that post a status wanting to be fucked then complain they don't get respectful messages.

I just can't see why.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London


"My favourites are those that post a status wanting to be fucked then complain they don't get respectful messages. I just can't see why. "

It’s a mystery wrapped in an enigma. We may never know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't get anyone that moans about having 100s.

If you don't want 100s you can use your message filters, make photos friends only, or even just block anyone from messaging and look yourself.

I tend to have very few messages and I like it that way.

Much prefer meeting people in person at socials.

Maybe cause I'm not very good at the whole online thing!

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By *BWLOVER1965Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

Manage it quite well

So far

Block Block Block

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Sporadically. I don't think any woman gets hundreds of messages unless she wants to. And, perhaps a tad harshly, I think it's rather daft when they complain about it.

It's remarkably easy to control messages you get on here. The number and to some extent the content.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s not the thread for me…..

*leaves door to close by itself

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