FabSwingers.com forum: Why doesn't anybody read my profile?

By *ingerblastermaster OP Man
48 weeks ago

Langdon hills

I've been a member for years and it never says that someone read my profile. I never get messages from couples or single females. I would appreciate if someone could review and help me edit my profile.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
48 weeks ago

little house on the praire

Looks alright to me. What's a swingers calling card

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By *eroLondonMan
48 weeks ago

Mayfair

"Looks alright to me. What's a swingers calling card"

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I was going to ask the same thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

"I've been a member for years and it never says that someone read my profile. I never get messages from couples or single females. I would appreciate if someone could review and help me edit my profile.

Unblock men and you will have loads of views showing.

Most women and couples just wait for messages and don't send first.

Most also hide from the 'Looked at me' setting so you won't know they looked. Because men often assume if someone looked then they want to fuck.

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By *lam granWoman
48 weeks ago

falkirk

It's not terrible but there's nothing original in it either. Reads a bit generic.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
48 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Most women and couples don't actively look for single men. Those that do will usually have ninja mode on to avoid the Saw you looking at me messages.

Doesn't mean there's anything wrong with your profile.

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By *use and wolfCouple
48 weeks ago

angus

As others said, try and add a bit more of your personality into it. i will say i know some people have a stigma about Married people who claim their partner knows, i am not trying to say this isn't the case but you can imagine people write that when it's not true.

Then of course there's the stigma around single males which is a result of a (growing) minority who never read profiles, send unsolicited dick pics and think that even if you say you are not looking for single males, believe that they can convince you otherwise.

Someone said most couples wait for messages but from what i have read while browsing most couples say they will reach out when wanting a male so not to message. This goes back to reading profiles in full. Get out to you local social meets and get those verifications too.

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By *BW_Hotwife_And_HimCouple
48 weeks ago

South Shields

It looks like this is your only post and you don't get involved in forum posts by replying to conversations.

Whenever we see someone who makes a good point or shares an interest of ours, we click on them and have made quite a few friends that way.

Maybe join in some of the threads?

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By *ingerblastermaster OP Man
48 weeks ago

Langdon hills

Thank you to those that have viewed me.

I was a member of a local kik group and they all had 1. It's basically a collage of various pics with age and location on it.

If anyone has any suggestions please private message me.

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

Plenty of people may have read it, you just won’t know it.

Ninja mode will hide them.

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

"Thank you to those that have viewed me.

I was a member of a local kik group and they all had 1. It's basically a collage of various pics with age and location on it.

If anyone has any suggestions please private message me."

They've already given you some advice on here

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By *ingerblastermaster OP Man
48 weeks ago

Langdon hills

I understand the married bit but all I'm trying to do is be open and honest.

My wife has offered to make a video explaining our situation but we don't want this as public as we have young children and we want to keep this to the select few.

I have had a couple of social events and meets cancelled with the excuse of " covid ".

I did even drive all the way From Essex to Oxford 1 night for a social event organised by a kik group I was a member of but turned out after 30 mins I realised I had nothing in common and left.

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By *ingerblastermaster OP Man
48 weeks ago

Langdon hills

I have only just blocked men because I'm sick of the disgusting things they say to me tbh

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By *ickD80Man
48 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

What do you mean by ‘never says that someone has read my profile’? Do you mean that no one ever views your profile or do you mean that people are viewing your profile but not reading everything that’s on it?

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By *ust want fun 888Man
48 weeks ago

nearby

That’s probably a good idea for the developers of this website. When you fill in your bio, for them to make that a link and then show up on your page how many people have read the bio, not how many people have viewed you but this may tell Individuals how many people have actually read the bio.

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By *orny-DJMan
48 weeks ago

Leigh-on-Sea

Is it just me, or does this thread have an air of entitlement about it?

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

"That’s probably a good idea for the developers of this website. When you fill in your bio, for them to make that a link and then show up on your page how many people have read the bio, not how many people have viewed you but this may tell Individuals how many people have actually read the bio. "

What would you do with that information, really?

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By *ickD80Man
48 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

What would you do with that information, really?

Complain about how many people have read my bio but not messaged me…

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

You're just normal, so mundanely normal.

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By *ickD80Man
48 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

"I understand the married bit but all I'm trying to do is be open and honest.

My wife has offered to make a video explaining our situation but we don't want this as public as we have young children and we want to keep this to the select few.

I have had a couple of social events and meets cancelled with the excuse of " covid ".

I did even drive all the way From Essex to Oxford 1 night for a social event organised by a kik group I was a member of but turned out after 30 mins I realised I had nothing in common and left. "

Has your wife offered to make a video or has she actually made a video? I’m sure if you used your imagination you could make a video without disclosing her identity, she could wear something that covers her face, record her writing a note saying that she gives you permission to meet other people so that she can’t be recognised by her voice….you have full body pictures on your profile that are public so you could do a video that would be less revealing than they are.

Covid isn’t an excuse, if someone can’t make it to a meet because they’re ill then it’s a reason not an excuse. Did you put covid in inverted commas because you don’t believe it’s real?

If you were in a Kik group with them then you must have known what they were like prior to meeting them so why did you only realise after meeting them that you had nothing in common with them? If you’re in a Kik group with people then it’s normally because you have something in common which is the topic of the group, how do you end up in a Kik group with a load of people you have nothing in common with? Considering your profile says that you can talk about anything, you’re up for trying anything and you like all different kinds of people it’s weird that you still didn’t have anything in common with them….

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By *ldgeezermeMan
48 weeks ago

Newcastle

"I have only just blocked men because I'm sick of the disgusting things they say to me tbh"

Bisexual and you've blocked men?

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

"I have only just blocked men because I'm sick of the disgusting things they say to me tbh

Bisexual and you've blocked men?

Read his profile!!

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

So just to confirm. You won’t display a video of your wife saying you can play solo even if you hide her face to protect your children but are happy for you to be photographed or videos taken of you playing in a group or as a single that you then have no control over what happens to them.

That seems a bit weird

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

"So just to confirm. You won’t display a video of your wife saying you can play solo even if you hide her face to protect your children but are happy for you to be photographed or videos taken of you playing in a group or as a single that you then have no control over what happens to them.

That seems a bit weird "

Fab in a nutshell.

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

Loads of text. Photos and age ranges set. Looks good

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