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Do people use sex sites because they can't get a fuck in real life?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

The evidence is pointing towards "yes".

What do you think?

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere else

Absolutely. You found me out. You get a cookie.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. It's tragic.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Oh no I'm hugely successful in real life. I only need to stand at the bus stop in my Nora Batty's and I'm inundated with offers. I only use the net because there's an asbo against me by the bus company.

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By *uietlycheekyMan
over a year ago

aberdeen

Christ…. I struggle to get one on here !! But I really enjoy looking at naked people so I stick around

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By *orfolkinwayWoman
over a year ago

East Anglia

Fab is like ordering pizza. If I'm hungry I order a pizza, if I'm horny... I go on fab. No strings, no drama, I don't need to meet the family. It's a means to an end

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By *eordieJeansCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

We do.

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By *ikesEmBigMan
over a year ago

Herts


"The evidence is pointing towards "yes".

What do you think? "

Absolutely not. This site is just a bonus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can get a fuck on the outside, I just don't have time in my life to explain that's all I want them for.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Yes of course. Can't get here either so it fits in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't get a fuck here either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s less hard work, and cheaper than going out on the ‘pull’.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope definitely not I had more sex off fab than I have had on fab this year

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't catch a break pretty much anywhere, but I'm over 55 so it's pretty much over anyway

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

I came on here initially for a quick lay and actually did manage to find it fairly quick.

Then I got fascinated by you weirdos here.

Most of the ones I would get naked with live in another country or near enough!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't get an ugly guy never mind a hot guy in real life.

Fab is my last hope.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't get an ugly guy never mind a hot guy in real life.

Fab is my last hope.

"

I call bullshit

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

Yes.

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By *reykiwi500Man
over a year ago

West Kent (near Tonbridge)


"I can't get an ugly guy never mind a hot guy in real life.

Fab is my last hope.

I call bullshit "

Just what I was thinking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't get an ugly guy never mind a hot guy in real life.

Fab is my last hope.

I call bullshit "

But it isn't! No one ever believes you on this site.

There are reasons I'm single and there are reasons no one in real life EVER hits on me.

And that's fact!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Can't catch a break pretty much anywhere, but I'm over 55 so it's pretty much over anyway "

Over 50's aren't built for sex.

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By *eordieJeansCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne


"I can't get an ugly guy never mind a hot guy in real life.

Fab is my last hope.

I call bullshit

But it isn't! No one ever believes you on this site.

There are reasons I'm single and there are reasons no one in real life EVER hits on me.

And that's fact!"

I believe you. You’re a bit of a dick

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I can't get an ugly guy never mind a hot guy in real life.

Fab is my last hope.

I call bullshit

But it isn't! No one ever believes you on this site.

There are reasons I'm single and there are reasons no one in real life EVER hits on me.

And that's fact!"

Got the bits covered up and on show mixed up.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It’s less hard work, and cheaper than going out on the ‘pull’. "

You have very nice eyes.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Fab is like ordering pizza. If I'm hungry I order a pizza, if I'm horny... I go on fab. No strings, no drama, I don't need to meet the family. It's a means to an end "

Sex cheese.

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By *glyBettyTV/TS
over a year ago

About 3 feet away from the fence

If they do, they're in for an incredible amount of disappointment...

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

Sometimes it’s easier to just get quick no brains sex online without the hassle of offline meets.

Though saying that it’s also fast enough to fuck randoms out on a night etc as well I have found

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't get an ugly guy never mind a hot guy in real life.

Fab is my last hope.

I call bullshit

But it isn't! No one ever believes you on this site.

There are reasons I'm single and there are reasons no one in real life EVER hits on me.

And that's fact!

I believe you. You’re a bit of a dick "

Thankyou!

And likewise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s less hard work, and cheaper than going out on the ‘pull’.

You have very nice eyes. "

Boom! You’ve pulled.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking at my mailbox, 90% must fit in that category... Or are too lazy /selfish irl to put any work in

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

I don't go anywhere to meet anyone in real life, so this is my only option!

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By *teelballsMan
over a year ago

central london

Or just more sex and more variety than they currently get.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't get an ugly guy never mind a hot guy in real life.

Fab is my last hope.

I call bullshit

But it isn't! No one ever believes you on this site.

There are reasons I'm single and there are reasons no one in real life EVER hits on me.

And that's fact!

Got the bits covered up and on show mixed up. "

People avoid me even more if I walk around with a balaclava on.

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By *reykiwi500Man
over a year ago

West Kent (near Tonbridge)


"Can't catch a break pretty much anywhere, but I'm over 55 so it's pretty much over anyway

Over 50's aren't built for sex. "

Not true. The walking frame comes in very handy

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By *reykiwi500Man
over a year ago

West Kent (near Tonbridge)


"I can't get an ugly guy never mind a hot guy in real life.

Fab is my last hope.

I call bullshit

But it isn't! No one ever believes you on this site.

There are reasons I'm single and there are reasons no one in real life EVER hits on me.

And that's fact!

Got the bits covered up and on show mixed up.

People avoid me even more if I walk around with a balaclava on. "

I'd love to prove you wrong, but alas...

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London


"I can't get an ugly guy never mind a hot guy in real life.

Fab is my last hope.

"

In

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By *eordieJeansCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne


"I can't get an ugly guy never mind a hot guy in real life.

Fab is my last hope.

I call bullshit

But it isn't! No one ever believes you on this site.

There are reasons I'm single and there are reasons no one in real life EVER hits on me.

And that's fact!

I believe you. You’re a bit of a dick

Thankyou!

And likewise. "

You’re welcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't get an ugly guy never mind a hot guy in real life.

Fab is my last hope.

I call bullshit

But it isn't! No one ever believes you on this site.

There are reasons I'm single and there are reasons no one in real life EVER hits on me.

And that's fact!

Got the bits covered up and on show mixed up.

People avoid me even more if I walk around with a balaclava on.

I'd love to prove you wrong, but alas..."

But alas I don't take guys seriously that say this stuff and have no clue what i actually look like.

Any holes a goal!

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By *hief_Of_AlwaysMan
over a year ago

The last house on the left…


"The evidence is pointing towards "yes".

What do you think? "

WRONG!

I’m actually a lot more successful IRL than on Fab. It’s just the pool of variety & opportunity is greater online.

Also I spent a good portion of my life inveigling women into bed. On Fab I can be open & honest with my wants & intentions. No more lies, no deception.

I’m too old fo’ dat shit

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By *reykiwi500Man
over a year ago

West Kent (near Tonbridge)


"I can't get an ugly guy never mind a hot guy in real life.

Fab is my last hope.

I call bullshit

But it isn't! No one ever believes you on this site.

There are reasons I'm single and there are reasons no one in real life EVER hits on me.

And that's fact!

Got the bits covered up and on show mixed up.

People avoid me even more if I walk around with a balaclava on.

I'd love to prove you wrong, but alas...

But alas I don't take guys seriously that say this stuff and have no clue what i actually look like.

Any holes a goal!

"

The "alas" was a reference that we don't live near each other and I'm outside your age range anyway. I'm most definitely not a "any hole's a goal" kind of guy. Have met several women who unfortunately think they are less attractive than they are (all subjective, I know).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes totally.

A room mate helped me because I was getting really frustrated meeting no one and figured I’d hit the age of undesireability.

He explainedthe Worlds changed and people are more comfortable making connections online.

I resisted as I’m a dinosaur, don’t even have Facebook. But he was right and I’m happier for embracing it.

Ironically he married a woman he met at a party about 2 weeks after he told me all this. No internet involved.

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By *eordieJeansCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne


"I can't get an ugly guy never mind a hot guy in real life.

Fab is my last hope.

I call bullshit

But it isn't! No one ever believes you on this site.

There are reasons I'm single and there are reasons no one in real life EVER hits on me.

And that's fact!

Got the bits covered up and on show mixed up.

People avoid me even more if I walk around with a balaclava on.

I'd love to prove you wrong, but alas...

But alas I don't take guys seriously that say this stuff and have no clue what i actually look like.

Any holes a goal!

The "alas" was a reference that we don't live near each other and I'm outside your age range anyway. I'm most definitely not a "any hole's a goal" kind of guy. Have met several women who unfortunately think they are less attractive than they are (all subjective, I know)."

I’ve seen her face

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I wouldn't even know where to start pulling someone irl. I can be quite shy, and that can come across as aloof. Even in a club, most of my encounters happen accidentally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They shouldn’t

If you can’t pull in real life then how do you expect to pull on here where it’s 10x harder?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Can't catch a break pretty much anywhere, but I'm over 55 so it's pretty much over anyway

Over 50's aren't built for sex.

Not true. The walking frame comes in very handy "

Kinky

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"They shouldn’t

If you can’t pull in real life then how do you expect to pull on here where it’s 10x harder? "

Yeah that's what I'm wondering really.

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By *ongandharderMan
over a year ago

Rotherham

I probably could but I used dating apps etc and never again they are designed to drain money from you ful of fake profiles and nit about actual connections

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The evidence is pointing towards "yes".

What do you think?

WRONG!

I’m actually a lot more successful IRL than on Fab. It’s just the pool of variety & opportunity is greater online.

Also I spent a good portion of my life inveigling women into bed. On Fab I can be open & honest with my wants & intentions. No more lies, no deception.

I’m too old fo’ dat shit "

Is inveigling a typo or a word I need to learn?

Agree about the open and honest... sometimes...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They shouldn’t

If you can’t pull in real life then how do you expect to pull on here where it’s 10x harder? "

It's easier if you're female!

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By *ood Time RMan
over a year ago

London / Hertfordshire


"I can't get an ugly guy never mind a hot guy in real life.

Fab is my last hope.

I call bullshit

But it isn't! No one ever believes you on this site.

There are reasons I'm single and there are reasons no one in real life EVER hits on me.

And that's fact!"

I think that has more to do with the guys in Hull. Clearly there’s an eyesight issue with the guys up there. Because if you was anywhere near me I’d be hitting on you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The evidence is pointing towards "yes".

What do you think? "

online is easier, as a guy, you try plucking up the courage to approach a girl and not risk some kind of ‘me too’ moment.

*just my opinion- And I’ll defend that opponents

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They shouldn’t

If you can’t pull in real life then how do you expect to pull on here where it’s 10x harder?

It's easier if you're female!"

Well my comment doesn’t apply to women. Different ball game

If your a woman and you exist, you’ve pulled

But guts on here with a 5 year dry spell thinking fabs will fix things are laughable

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By *anther81Man
over a year ago

Drogheda

At least online people are pretty honest about what they want.

You meet somebody in a pub or club you have no idea what they are into, if they want fun and people can get easily offended very quickly if you misjudge their intentions.

Also if it’s a local bar you maybe have to meet them again if things went well is fine but if not can be awkward.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester


"They shouldn’t

If you can’t pull in real life then how do you expect to pull on here where it’s 10x harder?

It's easier if you're female!

Well my comment doesn’t apply to women. Different ball game

If your a woman and you exist, you’ve pulled

But guts on here with a 5 year dry spell thinking fabs will fix things are laughable "

The last part is very true for many guys but the easiest optic for a single guy is get to a few clubs . Greedy girl nights etc

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The evidence is pointing towards "yes".

What do you think?

online is easier, as a guy, you try plucking up the courage to approach a girl and not risk some kind of ‘me too’ moment.

*just my opinion- And I’ll defend that opponents "

That's a really good point that I've been discussing with male friends. How can they chat a woman up in person without risking being the 10th man that day saying something similar and her going nuclear..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They shouldn’t

If you can’t pull in real life then how do you expect to pull on here where it’s 10x harder?

It's easier if you're female!

Well my comment doesn’t apply to women. Different ball game

If your a woman and you exist, you’ve pulled

But guts on here with a 5 year dry spell thinking fabs will fix things are laughable

The last part is very true for many guys but the easiest optic for a single guy is get to a few clubs . Greedy girl nights etc "

Absolutely, but again, if they can’t pull down the pub or on the dating apps, how do they think a club or fans will work?

The dating apps are almost comically easy if you’re at least ok. Start there guys

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"At least online people are pretty honest about what they want.

You meet somebody in a pub or club you have no idea what they are into, if they want fun and people can get easily offended very quickly if you misjudge their intentions.

Also if it’s a local bar you maybe have to meet them again if things went well is fine but if not can be awkward."

Although 'can I spunk in your hair then run it through my toes' is not a great first message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I have a row with my left hand I come to sex sites for alternative arrangements… it usually leads to making with my left hand pretty quick ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Absolutely. You found me out. You get a cookie."

Does that cookie come with a fuck….?

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By *nlyessexCouple
over a year ago

Hornchurch


"Fab is like ordering pizza. If I'm hungry I order a pizza, if I'm horny... I go on fab. No strings, no drama, I don't need to meet the family. It's a means to an end "

Well put we have a great sex life but enjoy some extra fun

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester


"They shouldn’t

If you can’t pull in real life then how do you expect to pull on here where it’s 10x harder?

It's easier if you're female!

Well my comment doesn’t apply to women. Different ball game

If your a woman and you exist, you’ve pulled

But guts on here with a 5 year dry spell thinking fabs will fix things are laughable

The last part is very true for many guys but the easiest optic for a single guy is get to a few clubs . Greedy girl nights etc

Absolutely, but again, if they can’t pull down the pub or on the dating apps, how do they think a club or fans will work?

The dating apps are almost comically easy if you’re at least ok. Start there guys "

Greedy girl gamgbsng club nights/days are the easiest , as it’s just well a gangbang. I mean might not be the most mentally stimulating of meets for them but if they just look to fuck and cum then it’s probably the path of least resistance

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By *anther81Man
over a year ago

Drogheda


"At least online people are pretty honest about what they want.

You meet somebody in a pub or club you have no idea what they are into, if they want fun and people can get easily offended very quickly if you misjudge their intentions.

Also if it’s a local bar you maybe have to meet them again if things went well is fine but if not can be awkward.

Although 'can I spunk in your hair then run it through my toes' is not a great first message. "

I apologise for that but that’s just my kink can’t believe you have not even replied lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't get an ugly guy never mind a hot guy in real life.

Fab is my last hope.

I call bullshit

But it isn't! No one ever believes you on this site.

There are reasons I'm single and there are reasons no one in real life EVER hits on me.

And that's fact!

Got the bits covered up and on show mixed up.

People avoid me even more if I walk around with a balaclava on.

I'd love to prove you wrong, but alas...

But alas I don't take guys seriously that say this stuff and have no clue what i actually look like.

Any holes a goal!

The "alas" was a reference that we don't live near each other and I'm outside your age range anyway. I'm most definitely not a "any hole's a goal" kind of guy. Have met several women who unfortunately think they are less attractive than they are (all subjective, I know)."

It's nothing to do with thinking I'm less attractive than I am. I know what I look like! It's called been honest which most people on here have a problem with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quality for me all the time

Same as in off here, I do not go yes, please because he was first to ask.

Lies and dishonesty run rife here and off here. I will never be a second best or playing fiddle.

Show me a real person, no lies no dishonesty first you might find that hard here and there and everywhere.

I remember when this issue of being real was not noticed as much. I fully get what single guys and us woman face, the real men not the players.

Be real.. No lies and no dishonesty. Will aid us all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To address the question. I can get fucks in real life but they always seem to come with complications.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"At least online people are pretty honest about what they want.

You meet somebody in a pub or club you have no idea what they are into, if they want fun and people can get easily offended very quickly if you misjudge their intentions.

Also if it’s a local bar you maybe have to meet them again if things went well is fine but if not can be awkward.

Although 'can I spunk in your hair then run it through my toes' is not a great first message.

I apologise for that but that’s just my kink can’t believe you have not even replied lol"

Yeah sorry I was brushing my hair.

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By *reykiwi500Man
over a year ago

West Kent (near Tonbridge)


"Can't catch a break pretty much anywhere, but I'm over 55 so it's pretty much over anyway

Over 50's aren't built for sex.

Not true. The walking frame comes in very handy

Kinky "

Right up there with teeth in a jar beside the bed

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"To address the question. I can get fucks in real life but they always seem to come with complications. "

In Fab you can block them and disappear.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

We can do the Sex together whenever* we want.

*Well. It depends on a few things

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

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By *a1970Man
over a year ago

East cork

It's why I'm here...

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By *anther81Man
over a year ago

Drogheda


"At least online people are pretty honest about what they want.

You meet somebody in a pub or club you have no idea what they are into, if they want fun and people can get easily offended very quickly if you misjudge their intentions.

Also if it’s a local bar you maybe have to meet them again if things went well is fine but if not can be awkward.

Although 'can I spunk in your hair then run it through my toes' is not a great first message.

I apologise for that but that’s just my kink can’t believe you have not even replied lol

Yeah sorry I was brushing my hair. "

Oh that’s getting me all worked up the thought of hair, a brush and some thick spunk

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere else


"Absolutely. You found me out. You get a cookie.

Does that cookie come with a fuck….? "

I’ll fuck anyone who wants me. Everyone knows that. I don’t even have to find them remotely attractive. So, sure. Let’s fuck.

Bend over.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Some people probably do. Guess it depends on both the sex site and the person. I'd assume that the most sought after members of any sex site are perfectly capable of going put and getting it in person on the whole though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can't catch a break pretty much anywhere, but I'm over 55 so it's pretty much over anyway

Over 50's aren't built for sex. "

My mind hasn't deteriorated yet and the body is just about functioning

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

This is real life, surely or am i dreaming it?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Communication online is more suited to my brain type. All this innuendo and hinting at shit and body language... just confuses me and when people flirt with me in real life I end up wondering why the fuck they're being weird (and work out wtf that was days later).

And most places where people find people I either strongly dislike (pubs and clubs are sensory overload and I can't hear myself think - I'm not amenable to much when I'm that on edge) or are what I call "category error" - work is for work and if you're thinking about me romantically or sexually in that context I'm going to have a problem with you.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I'm guessing that the levels of cluelessness demonstrated by so many newish guys here, means that they probably don't get a lot off-site. Nor much here, until they learn to address some of the errors of their ways.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

It's easier than going out to find sex.

More convenient might be a better word for it.

I don't have to dress up or chat to loads of men who can't accommodate or want things I don't want.

Online you can find all that out without leaving your chair.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I'm guessing that the levels of cluelessness demonstrated by so many newish guys here, means that they probably don't get a lot off-site. Nor much here, until they learn to address some of the errors of their ways. "

Oh and there's a common notion both online and offline that if you really want someone, you keep trying.

Blocking is much easier than having to end your night/consider having to involve HR

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My sex life at home as ended a very long long time ago, so on here to chat make a few friends and perv. Thats the truth.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

If I wanted to find sex off here I’d have to socialise. Stuff that for a laugh!!

Fab is like the Kay’s Catalogue of sex. Easy to browse.

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By *JandCMCouple
over a year ago

cardiff

As a male of 58 who never goes out I don't get a fuck, I also don't get a fuck on here as a single guy.

Only use this site as a couple for an extra M to join us every now n then.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Maybe some of us are scarred by previous experiences

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

Getting laid on or off Fab is not the problem

Time is the issue for me!

On Fab we all know why we meeting off Fab there is too much beating about the bush & all my previous vanilla FB started getting feelings wanting more. Going back to the ‘time issue’ I mentioned above, I don’t have time for relations or beating about the bush! Let’s beat inside your bush lol

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By *idnight RamblerMan
over a year ago

Pershore

The very thought!!!

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By *urnedoutniceagainMan
over a year ago

louth

I’m a billionaire playboy philanthropist so time is in short supply so this is perfect for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The evidence is pointing towards "yes".

What do you think? "

Or they can but they can't be arsed.

This is the matter of convenience in a sense of being able to log in and out when you get the desire. Not when the desire bumps into you. Although that has its own thrill.

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By *ust want fun 888Man
over a year ago

nearby

Personally myself, I do come on here for some form of release as I’m not that lucky in the real world so to speak. I am blind so it’s not easy to pull

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By *ddie1966Man
over a year ago

Paper Town Central, Essex.

Yes...... and no...

Obviously there is an element of can't get a fuck . But, no, because many people on here like to socialise with others of the same mindset and personality that are open about their sexual preferences and kinks.

I kinda get the feeling you don't believe me though

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Communication online is more suited to my brain type. All this innuendo and hinting at shit and body language... just confuses me and when people flirt with me in real life I end up wondering why the fuck they're being weird (and work out wtf that was days later).

And most places where people find people I either strongly dislike (pubs and clubs are sensory overload and I can't hear myself think - I'm not amenable to much when I'm that on edge) or are what I call "category error" - work is for work and if you're thinking about me romantically or sexually in that context I'm going to have a problem with you."

Good points.

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By *entlemanrogueMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"The evidence is pointing towards "yes".

What do you think? "

I personally use it to find likeminded women who enjoy the same kind of sex as i do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for me. I prefer older men and don’t often come across men 40+ in my social life or at work so this is the best place to meet them, I’m also into kink, easier to tell someone before meeting rather than saying “Hi I like X” and scaring them off.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm guessing that the levels of cluelessness demonstrated by so many newish guys here, means that they probably don't get a lot off-site. Nor much here, until they learn to address some of the errors of their ways. "

Indeed.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If I wanted to find sex off here I’d have to socialise. Stuff that for a laugh!!

Fab is like the Kay’s Catalogue of sex. Easy to browse."

Grey Y fronts and socks.

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By *dinburghWomanWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I’m 61, how else can I get the younger guys I want ?

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

For a grumpy fat old Welsh dragon, I do pretty well for myself on the sex front thank you very much.

I come on fab to chat shit with a bunch of lovely freaks and oddballs.

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By *verageSausageMan
over a year ago

Flintshire

I agree.

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By *iHungMikeMan
over a year ago

Shaw

Of course and can't complain about it as it's no strings fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can get a fuck on the outside, I just don't have time in my life to explain that's all I want them for. "

This

And when i ask them are they into sharing its a wtf moment

Or they say yh but are not

Id love to be with someone in to the swinging life threesomes cuckholding but its sooo hard to find

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use fab when I'm not going for nights out and too busy. Though I can and prefer to pull in real life. Some people are swingers or have kinks they may not want to show everyone or can find in real life.

Yes though some people can't get laid in real life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Absolutely. You found me out. You get a cookie.

Does that cookie come with a fuck….?

I’ll fuck anyone who wants me. Everyone knows that. I don’t even have to find them remotely attractive. So, sure. Let’s fuck.

Bend over."

Absolutely love your skinhead look, absolutely rocking it!

Regards real life I’ve not got super high self esteem to go up to someone on a night out or gig or anything, I’ll talk to people but in a friendly way that ain’t after anything, I feel awkward trying to hit on people, on here it’s more about getting the chance to strike up a convo though I know full well I’m not a catch and know I’ll get limited interest but I’ve come to terms with that and it is what it is!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I can get it in real life. But, and here's the catch, it's always someone that's too close and most likely attached. That would be okay, but they often want more than a casual fuck. There's a whole load of people out there who are in relationships and dissatisfied with their partners. A work colleague, a friend of a friend typically, and once in the past a friend of my partner. I think that getting what people want aligned is much harder in real life. It's easier here, although it still requires people being clear upfront.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No. I can get it in real life. But, and here's the catch, it's always someone that's too close and most likely attached. That would be okay, but they often want more than a casual fuck. There's a whole load of people out there who are in relationships and dissatisfied with their partners. A work colleague, a friend of a friend typically, and once in the past a friend of my partner. I think that getting what people want aligned is much harder in real life. It's easier here, although it still requires people being clear upfront."

Nightmare ain't it.

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By *un couple 2Couple
over a year ago

Tynemouth.

its just simpler here, people can read the profile, before messaging, if were what their looking for, them that bother to read profiles that is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you count dating apps as sex sites then yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No. I can get it in real life. But, and here's the catch, it's always someone that's too close and most likely attached. That would be okay, but they often want more than a casual fuck. There's a whole load of people out there who are in relationships and dissatisfied with their partners. A work colleague, a friend of a friend typically, and once in the past a friend of my partner. I think that getting what people want aligned is much harder in real life. It's easier here, although it still requires people being clear upfront.

Nightmare ain't it."

Absolutely. At work it can screw your job and career. And do for your friendships because these things always come out and get whispered round, or the friendship links with that person and others can suddenly get cut. It can even come from simple flirting without sex, from people assuming that it's far more than it actually is. The anonymity of meeting a complete stranger on somewhere like Fab is brilliant.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"The evidence is pointing towards "yes".

What do you think? "

No but It’s just far easier on here and tinder. The types of ways I meet women in real life (through work, friends, hobbies etc) all create complexity which I’d rather avoid.

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