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"Tell him, bro, you're seriously vaj blocking me on here. You gotta go. You could put something on your profile explaining why he's on your profile. It wouldn't bother me who you're friends with. " Haha to be honest you're right. I'll give him some grief tomorrow, you know, because he's a mate and that's what friends are for. 
Yeah I've added a little disclaimer at the bottom today saying why he's there. Try it and see I guess? | |||
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"Tell him, bro, you're seriously vaj blocking me on here. You gotta go. You could put something on your profile explaining why he's on your profile. It wouldn't bother me who you're friends with. Haha to be honest you're right. I'll give him some grief tomorrow, you know, because he's a mate and that's what friends are for.
Yeah I've added a little disclaimer at the bottom today saying why he's there. Try it and see I guess? "yeah that’s not gunna work, maybe block single guys from messaging you too, most true straights males do that. | |||
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"hide your friends list? " This does make a lot of sense to be fair. To be honest I'm usually (about 99%) on here on my mobile so I never even look at people's friends list. I wasn't really aware it was a thing you could do before today, or yesterday as it is now. | |||
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"So long story short(er) I'm a straight guy, I'm not attracted to guys at all, they're just not my jam. Some of my friends are and I literally don't care as long as everyone enjoys themselves and it's consensual. I've got a real life friend on my friends list here who is a gay guy and he's a close friend, he's one of those 4 or 5 people you really know in life, and we still do movie night once a week and hang out to this day. He's a true brother to me and I love him to bits. We're close and we've known each other long before either of us were here. He's the guy who pulled me out of a black hole when my last relationship tanked, and he always gives me good advice, so I owe him a lot. Here's the rub, I'm straight and he's gay, and he's on my friends list. I seem to be getting people thinking I'm bisexual or assuming so, or like I'm hiding something and secretly bi as a gay man is on my friends list. Thing is, I get it. I understand where they're coming from. I got more or less rejected earlier as the person thought I wasn't straight and that's what they like, and to be honest, I can completely understand why. I think me and my mate are the exception rather than the rule in that regard, I don't think too many are close friends before coming here, but we're totally open and honest with each other so should I raise it with him? At the same time I don't want him to feel like I'd be deleting him maliciously or I'm ashamed of him or anything like that, because I'm not. Like I say he's a true brother, I'd choose him over anyone here in all honesty, but I really really don't want to shag him. I just don't like men. Anyway, I guess what I'm asking for is your thoughts. What would you think if you looked and seen a straight guy with a gay guy on his friends list? Would you think I'm gay, or bi or something? Should I have a chat with him and remove him from my friends list? He's got my number and we're on each others social medias too, and we talk daily off the site so it's not like we'll lose touch. Would you be upset if you were him and I deleted you? It's just a bit delicate, I don't want to screw it up, he's a great bloke, but at the same time I don't want to start off on the wrong foot either. Anyone had a similar experience? Thanks for reading and your comments " what a lovely honest post I'm sure if he's a true friend he wouldn't mind you deleting him as long as you explained it as eloquently as you have here but their is something to be said for standing by your man and not caring what others like to think and believing in your written word "I'm straight" I'll let you decide  | |||
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You know, if you want to convince everyone how straight you are, one of the best ways to do it is to make a post in the fabswingers forum informing everybody about the platonic lifelong friendship you have with your gay mate, who you regularly meet for "movie nights", and how this friendship which absolutely nobody needed to know about is damaging your chances with the ladies...  | |||
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"Don’t allow strangers to affect a true friendship… if you’d take a fuck ovr a friend then the issue is within you. When fab goes your friend will still be there for you."  | |||
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"So long story short(er) I'm a straight guy, I'm not attracted to guys at all, they're just not my jam. Some of my friends are and I literally don't care as long as everyone enjoys themselves and it's consensual. I've got a real life friend on my friends list here who is a gay guy and he's a close friend, he's one of those 4 or 5 people you really know in life, and we still do movie night once a week and hang out to this day. He's a true brother to me and I love him to bits. We're close and we've known each other long before either of us were here. He's the guy who pulled me out of a black hole when my last relationship tanked, and he always gives me good advice, so I owe him a lot. Here's the rub, I'm straight and he's gay, and he's on my friends list. I seem to be getting people thinking I'm bisexual or assuming so, or like I'm hiding something and secretly bi as a gay man is on my friends list. Thing is, I get it. I understand where they're coming from. I got more or less rejected earlier as the person thought I wasn't straight and that's what they like, and to be honest, I can completely understand why. I think me and my mate are the exception rather than the rule in that regard, I don't think too many are close friends before coming here, but we're totally open and honest with each other so should I raise it with him? At the same time I don't want him to feel like I'd be deleting him maliciously or I'm ashamed of him or anything like that, because I'm not. Like I say he's a true brother, I'd choose him over anyone here in all honesty, but I really really don't want to shag him. I just don't like men. Anyway, I guess what I'm asking for is your thoughts. What would you think if you looked and seen a straight guy with a gay guy on his friends list? Would you think I'm gay, or bi or something? Should I have a chat with him and remove him from my friends list? He's got my number and we're on each others social medias too, and we talk daily off the site so it's not like we'll lose touch. Would you be upset if you were him and I deleted you? It's just a bit delicate, I don't want to screw it up, he's a great bloke, but at the same time I don't want to start off on the wrong foot either. Anyone had a similar experience? Thanks for reading and your comments " Bros before hoes Sorry but why do you need to explain yourself to anyone? If people have an issue that's their problem, why would you want to meet people like that. Just hide your friends list, to delete him is a bit shitty if he is as good a friend as you say he is | |||
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"So long story short(er) I'm a straight guy, I'm not attracted to guys at all, they're just not my jam. Some of my friends are and I literally don't care as long as everyone enjoys themselves and it's consensual. I've got a real life friend on my friends list here who is a gay guy and he's a close friend, he's one of those 4 or 5 people you really know in life, and we still do movie night once a week and hang out to this day. He's a true brother to me and I love him to bits. We're close and we've known each other long before either of us were here. He's the guy who pulled me out of a black hole when my last relationship tanked, and he always gives me good advice, so I owe him a lot. Here's the rub, I'm straight and he's gay, and he's on my friends list. I seem to be getting people thinking I'm bisexual or assuming so, or like I'm hiding something and secretly bi as a gay man is on my friends list. Thing is, I get it. I understand where they're coming from. I got more or less rejected earlier as the person thought I wasn't straight and that's what they like, and to be honest, I can completely understand why. I think me and my mate are the exception rather than the rule in that regard, I don't think too many are close friends before coming here, but we're totally open and honest with each other so should I raise it with him? At the same time I don't want him to feel like I'd be deleting him maliciously or I'm ashamed of him or anything like that, because I'm not. Like I say he's a true brother, I'd choose him over anyone here in all honesty, but I really really don't want to shag him. I just don't like men. Anyway, I guess what I'm asking for is your thoughts. What would you think if you looked and seen a straight guy with a gay guy on his friends list? Would you think I'm gay, or bi or something? Should I have a chat with him and remove him from my friends list? He's got my number and we're on each others social medias too, and we talk daily off the site so it's not like we'll lose touch. Would you be upset if you were him and I deleted you? It's just a bit delicate, I don't want to screw it up, he's a great bloke, but at the same time I don't want to start off on the wrong foot either. Anyone had a similar experience? Thanks for reading and your comments " Give it a go you might enjoy it. | |||
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"So long story short(er) I'm a straight guy, I'm not attracted to guys at all, they're just not my jam. Some of my friends are and I literally don't care as long as everyone enjoys themselves and it's consensual. I've got a real life friend on my friends list here who is a gay guy and he's a close friend, he's one of those 4 or 5 people you really know in life, and we still do movie night once a week and hang out to this day. He's a true brother to me and I love him to bits. We're close and we've known each other long before either of us were here. He's the guy who pulled me out of a black hole when my last relationship tanked, and he always gives me good advice, so I owe him a lot. Here's the rub, I'm straight and he's gay, and he's on my friends list. I seem to be getting people thinking I'm bisexual or assuming so, or like I'm hiding something and secretly bi as a gay man is on my friends list. Thing is, I get it. I understand where they're coming from. I got more or less rejected earlier as the person thought I wasn't straight and that's what they like, and to be honest, I can completely understand why. I think me and my mate are the exception rather than the rule in that regard, I don't think too many are close friends before coming here, but we're totally open and honest with each other so should I raise it with him? At the same time I don't want him to feel like I'd be deleting him maliciously or I'm ashamed of him or anything like that, because I'm not. Like I say he's a true brother, I'd choose him over anyone here in all honesty, but I really really don't want to shag him. I just don't like men. Anyway, I guess what I'm asking for is your thoughts. What would you think if you looked and seen a straight guy with a gay guy on his friends list? Would you think I'm gay, or bi or something? Should I have a chat with him and remove him from my friends list? He's got my number and we're on each others social medias too, and we talk daily off the site so it's not like we'll lose touch. Would you be upset if you were him and I deleted you? It's just a bit delicate, I don't want to screw it up, he's a great bloke, but at the same time I don't want to start off on the wrong foot either. Anyone had a similar experience? Thanks for reading and your comments " I would stay loyal to my friend. You’ve said he’s a real friend. Anyone you’re compatible with won’t make those assumptions about you. | |||
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"You can hide your friends list anyway (which you already seem to have done) so I don't really understand what the issue is
You know, if you want to convince everyone how straight you are, one of the best ways to do it is to make a post in the fabswingers forum informing everybody about the platonic lifelong friendship you have with your gay mate, who you regularly meet for "movie nights", and how this friendship which absolutely nobody needed to know about is damaging your chances with the ladies... " | |||
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"Who has time to look at the profiles of everyone on a stranger's friends list ?" This. How would they know the friend was gay without going on their profile to check? Evie | |||
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"If having a gay friend makes you gay, does me having a male friend of colour make me a black man ?" thats not a great argument to be fair | |||
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"So long story short(er) I'm a straight guy, I'm not attracted to guys at all, they're just not my jam. Some of my friends are and I literally don't care as long as everyone enjoys themselves and it's consensual. I've got a real life friend on my friends list here who is a gay guy and he's a close friend, he's one of those 4 or 5 people you really know in life, and we still do movie night once a week and hang out to this day. He's a true brother to me and I love him to bits. We're close and we've known each other long before either of us were here. He's the guy who pulled me out of a black hole when my last relationship tanked, and he always gives me good advice, so I owe him a lot. Here's the rub, I'm straight and he's gay, and he's on my friends list. I seem to be getting people thinking I'm bisexual or assuming so, or like I'm hiding something and secretly bi as a gay man is on my friends list. Thing is, I get it. I understand where they're coming from. I got more or less rejected earlier as the person thought I wasn't straight and that's what they like, and to be honest, I can completely understand why. I think me and my mate are the exception rather than the rule in that regard, I don't think too many are close friends before coming here, but we're totally open and honest with each other so should I raise it with him? At the same time I don't want him to feel like I'd be deleting him maliciously or I'm ashamed of him or anything like that, because I'm not. Like I say he's a true brother, I'd choose him over anyone here in all honesty, but I really really don't want to shag him. I just don't like men. Anyway, I guess what I'm asking for is your thoughts. What would you think if you looked and seen a straight guy with a gay guy on his friends list? Would you think I'm gay, or bi or something? Should I have a chat with him and remove him from my friends list? He's got my number and we're on each others social medias too, and we talk daily off the site so it's not like we'll lose touch. Would you be upset if you were him and I deleted you? It's just a bit delicate, I don't want to screw it up, he's a great bloke, but at the same time I don't want to start off on the wrong foot either. Anyone had a similar experience? Thanks for reading and your comments " I think this is more of a short story long! | |||
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"So long story short(er) I'm a straight guy, I'm not attracted to guys at all, they're just not my jam. Some of my friends are and I literally don't care as long as everyone enjoys themselves and it's consensual. I've got a real life friend on my friends list here who is a gay guy and he's a close friend, he's one of those 4 or 5 people you really know in life, and we still do movie night once a week and hang out to this day. He's a true brother to me and I love him to bits. We're close and we've known each other long before either of us were here. He's the guy who pulled me out of a black hole when my last relationship tanked, and he always gives me good advice, so I owe him a lot. Here's the rub, I'm straight and he's gay, and he's on my friends list. I seem to be getting people thinking I'm bisexual or assuming so, or like I'm hiding something and secretly bi as a gay man is on my friends list. Thing is, I get it. I understand where they're coming from. I got more or less rejected earlier as the person thought I wasn't straight and that's what they like, and to be honest, I can completely understand why. I think me and my mate are the exception rather than the rule in that regard, I don't think too many are close friends before coming here, but we're totally open and honest with each other so should I raise it with him? At the same time I don't want him to feel like I'd be deleting him maliciously or I'm ashamed of him or anything like that, because I'm not. Like I say he's a true brother, I'd choose him over anyone here in all honesty, but I really really don't want to shag him. I just don't like men. Anyway, I guess what I'm asking for is your thoughts. What would you think if you looked and seen a straight guy with a gay guy on his friends list? Would you think I'm gay, or bi or something? Should I have a chat with him and remove him from my friends list? He's got my number and we're on each others social medias too, and we talk daily off the site so it's not like we'll lose touch. Would you be upset if you were him and I deleted you? It's just a bit delicate, I don't want to screw it up, he's a great bloke, but at the same time I don't want to start off on the wrong foot either. Anyone had a similar experience? Thanks for reading and your comments " Has he already seen this thread by now? | |||
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"Be friends with who you like, fuck those that are gonna judge you for it, they aren't worth meeting IMO " Exactly this. | |||
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