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By (user no longer on site) OP   
49 weeks ago

Hi I’ve been on here for a while now but never plucked up the courage to go to a club and never really chatted to any females on here looking for some help and pointers please

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

Look beyond the nature of what this site is. We're all human and do "normal" things too. Just message people that look of interest and see what common interests you have. It's really not difficult to have a conversation. Be interested and maybe they'll find you interesting

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
49 weeks ago

Thanks appreciate that

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By *mf123Man
49 weeks ago

with one foot out the door

Thats like asking a mouse how it would like a cat to catch and eat it

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
49 weeks ago

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Add more to your profile, likes, dislikes and a couple of small details about yourself, Add some more pics dressed or semi naked, only show 1-2 cock pics at the most, (Yes I know I have loads but I'm not looking I just show them now an then, they are usually for friends only)

Try and attend some social events that fab users set up either at a club or private venue, keep a eye out on the Swinging/club event ads in the forums.

Just my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago


"Hi I’ve been on here for a while now but never plucked up the courage to go to a club and never really chatted to any females on here looking for some help and pointers please "

Well, you've started today well. Youre engaging in the forum. You've started a thread, so will have people coming to talk to you.

Also just keep adding comments to threads that interest you, answer someone's comment if it strikes a chord with you. Just generally chat. Search round the forum for any socials happening your way, especially if a social is happening in a club, it can make attending a club easier. Good luck!

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By *orny-DJMan
49 weeks ago

Leigh-on-Sea

First mistake is referrimg to them as females.

A lot of ladies don't like it. There was another thread earlier in the week thst picked up on this.

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By *issmorganWoman
49 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Hi op

Maybe some other pics than just your cock, one or 2 is enough.

Also fill in a bit about what you're into and offer meets.

Always read a profile and only message if you fit what they're looking for.

If you go to a club don't have any expectations, treat it like a night out. Be friendly, but respectful to others.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
49 weeks ago

Portsmouth

We're women

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By *eordieJeansCouple
49 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Why ask women? You would ask a fish how to use a rod.

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By *orny-DJMan
49 weeks ago

Leigh-on-Sea


"Why ask women? You would ask a fish how to use a rod."

Their fins are too small to turn the handle on the reel for starters

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By *ig1gaz1Man
49 weeks ago

bradford


"Hi I’ve been on here for a while now but never plucked up the courage to go to a club and never really chatted to any females on here looking for some help and pointers please "

Take a look onto the meeting section for organised club events.

Over the years theres been many organised club events where newbies can go without joining.

It makes for a night out and gives all singles and couples that are newbies, A chance to view the club scene without any expectations.

Note you can be wearing a towel or towel with boxers on underneath

ladies are a towel or with towel and bra and knickers on.

you can be asked to play be polight and say sorry no thanks if you dont want to do theres no expectation at a club event.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
49 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

You wouldn't ask a mouse how it wants to be caught by a cat.

You wouldn't ask a fish how to use a fishing rod.

You wouldn't get anywhere with anyone with half a brain if your treat them as prey or a prize to be won.

Believe it or not, many of us females are actually whole humans

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By *ittlebirdWoman
49 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

Have a chat OP. Be kind always.

Just see if there’s any connection between you and the women you approach.

Everyone is different. Wish you luck

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By *icentiousCouple
49 weeks ago

Up on them there hills

Don’t look for advice, natively isn’t a great sell point

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
49 weeks ago

Thanks for all the advice I will take it on board

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago


"Hi I’ve been on here for a while now but never plucked up the courage to go to a club and never really chatted to any females on here looking for some help and pointers please

Well, you've started today well. Youre engaging in the forum. You've started a thread, so will have people coming to talk to you.

Also just keep adding comments to threads that interest you, answer someone's comment if it strikes a chord with you. Just generally chat. Search round the forum for any socials happening your way, especially if a social is happening in a club, it can make attending a club easier. Good luck! "

This... But can I add, just be you and interact where you enjoy interacting. Don't try be something you're not. Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago


"Thats like asking a mouse how it would like a cat to catch and eat it"

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago


"Hi I’ve been on here for a while now but never plucked up the courage to go to a club and never really chatted to any females on here looking for some help and pointers please "

I know you asked advice from females but even then my 2p worth.

It’s all how you market yourself.

Notice how software companies make millions and billions by selling us undeveloped products by calling it a “beta”. Then they get us to design it by asking for feedback and quadruple the price when it works like it’s supposed to in the first place. That’s marketing!

Change the name Tiny.

Pit bull, Piranah, Napoleon, Scotch Bonnet, Honey badger sound better in my opinion.

You are obviously concerned about size, so why draw attention to it.

In reality, ladies look at more than dik size. Ask any gorgeous hotwife, she will agree.

If you want to put a dik pic, make it like McDonald’s style. A close up to make it look like a monster.

Go to any swingers club. Most are warm and welcoming. If you meet a clique, let them be. They are entitled to their own company. Move on.

If you need Dutch courage, use the bar. Also get a lady a drink or two. Or two ladies a drink each. Be merry. Make use of the mistletoe excuse.

By Christmas, you will visit at least one club meet. Let us know how you get on. Good luck tiger!!

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