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By *igste3 OP   Man
over a year ago

ibstock

Been on here for 3 weeks and getting no bites what so ever some tips be good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Thinking this was a quick thing. It takes time grasshopper

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s the lack of vag and breasts my friend.

If you had them you’d be sorted

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Ok I'm here. What can I do for you?

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By *heGateKeeperMan
over a year ago

Stratford

I love the bitey ones

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

There appears to be an apparent production-line of these types of threads!

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

You have 2 veries in 3 weeks which is no mean feat so you've been bitten a couple of times.

Is it a case of twice bitten twice shy?

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

What bait are you using and what are you trying to catch?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" some tips be good"

Its always just the tip...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women don’t bite, only if you want them to

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By *orny-DJMan
over a year ago

Leigh-on-Sea

Having unrealistic expectations is where you're going wrong OP, simple as that.

What did you think this site was?

Jot down a couple of sentences, upload a couple of pics and then be fighting them off by lunch time?

I'm afraid it doesn't work like that.

Single men massively outnumber women and couples here.

Most single chaps don't get their first meet until they've been here around 6 months to a year. Some fair better, others less so. Some guys ave been here for years and still haven't cracked it.

There is no magic formula.

You need to get to know people and they need to get to know you.

Instashag this is not

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex

How are you baiting your hook?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thinking this was a quick thing. It takes time grasshopper"
not for hotties like me. Look at my veris in just one month

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By *uffolkcouple-bi onlyCouple
over a year ago

West Suffolk/Essex


"Thinking this was a quick thing. It takes time grasshoppernot for hotties like me. Look at my veris in just one month "

All socials from one night

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By *reative-mindMan
over a year ago

Exeter

Everyone is dancing around the Christmas tree ain't they, to shattered for sex. Maybe try again in the New Year?

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

What were you expecting?

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Change your bait, have you tried using puppies ?

The mr

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By *mf123Man
over a year ago

with one foot out the door

Would a cat ask a mouse how it wants to be hunted?

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By *os_GoddessofdawnWoman
over a year ago

In the clouds

Small Penis?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Grab some sweets & borrow a puppy…. Get photos of those… update your status that you’re willing to share both… maybe that could work?

No joking aside…. It’s not a quick fix… just interact on the forums…. Chat to people as you would face to face… and I have got a feeling a dick pic in the first message is a bad idea… but I’ll let others confirm that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stop looking for bites then, and start looking for hotties that wanna do the sex.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

3 weeks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thinking this was a quick thing. It takes time grasshoppernot for hotties like me. Look at my veris in just one month

All socials from one night "

Hey! The first 6 weren’t

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In a fab universe that's still million light years away from meeting someone

On a serious note. Just dig your shoes in an keep adjusting the approach.

T

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love the bitey ones "

I like biting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Peach OP.

I paid a whole fiver why am I not drowning in dick already?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 09/12/23 10:56:10]"

Lower half of face kinda looks like a disheveled Benedict Cumberbatch, so perhaps a shave would do?

Also the most annoying thing is the newline during the phrase "open minded". Actually perhaps the wink emoji. I'm not sure. Both of them are irritating.

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

You're here

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By *oquars19458Man
over a year ago

sheffield


"Been on here for 3 weeks and getting no bites what so ever some tips be good"

Single man=lepper

Try going to a club

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By *aissez-faireMan
over a year ago

Right behind you…. Boo

As a rule of thumb, if you can’t get the sex in the real world it’s unlikely you will get it using fab.

You’re welcome.

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
over a year ago

A den in the Glen

In your bio you are asking for women to be fresh. If you are struggling maybe go for the ones who are out of date?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been on here for 3 weeks and getting no bites what so ever some tips be good"

Change yourorientation to bi .. lots of nibbles then in a dark room a mouths a mouth

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

More men than women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thinking this was a quick thing. It takes time grasshopper"

Grasshoppers have a short lifespan, so rime isn't their friend

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

3 weeks is short c teeth for fab 1 year 2 years is long term. And it rushes since people that account of tube to have a meet (excluding socials, club, parties etc).

To give you an understanding I have been on here a long time nearly a decade. And I have only had 4 meets. Most fall through for what ever reason.

Keep your head in the game and enjoy the experience and seeing lifestyle when it happened it happens.

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