FabSwingers.com forum: racism.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

if i said white people only, i would be called a racist (which i am not).

although certain members insist on (BLACK MEN ONLY).

am i wrong? or is there some double standards here.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

who says you would?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its like black tv awards or black music awards, not aware there are any white ones....why is that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"if i said white people only, i would be called a racist (which i am not).

although certain members insist on (BLACK MEN ONLY).

am i wrong? or is there some double standards here."

Lots of profiles say white people only.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

I say I only play with white guys on my profile and no ones called me a racist.

Difference being its coz generally I find myself more attracted to white guys, not that I don't like black guys or think they should be treated differently in day to day life. It's preference not racism x

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"if i said white people only, i would be called a racist (which i am not).

although certain members insist on (BLACK MEN ONLY).

am i wrong? or is there some double standards here."

because they only want to shag a black man..., saves anyone else wasting their time.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

ok. i say only white chicks?

not a preference. but racism.

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

Many folk prefer to meet only whites (or blacks, or asians, or blue alien women in Funky's case...) it's just that, a preference - it's not racist and anyone calling you that is wrong

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"Its like black tv awards or black music awards, not aware there are any white ones....why is that?"

thre is no reason why not, just no one has done one yet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ID SHAG ALL ALL COLOR AND CREEDS [FEMS]BUT THIS CAN BE A SENSITIVE AREA...mmmMM

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"ok. i say only white chicks?

not a preference. but racism."

if you think its racist then dont say it....i'm a tad confused as to your point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"ok. i say only white chicks?

not a preference. but racism."

no it isn't

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

"ok. i say only white chicks?

not a preference. but racism."

So are you saying you only want to meet white women because you're a racist??? That's how that comment reads to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a white woman says 'black only', who is she being racist to exactly?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"If a white woman says 'black only', who is she being racist to exactly?"

white men i guess would be the arguement, racism can happen both ways but personally i dont see sexual preferece as racism

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Methinks the OP is baiting people to brand him a racist...

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Every time someone gets excluded they come whining like bitches on the forums: pathetic!

***Goes off to pen own bitch whine about being excluded for being fat, old, Domme, stoosh, professional, southern ***

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

"if i said white people only, i would be called a racist (which i am not).

although certain members insist on (BLACK MEN ONLY).

am i wrong? or is there some double standards here."

It is preference. Get over it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When it comes to rules of attraction there is no ism's.. Ageism, racism, sexism..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If a white woman says 'black only', who is she being racist to exactly?

white men i guess would be the arguement, racism can happen both ways but personally i dont see sexual preferece as racism"

I doubt its technically possible to be racist against your own race.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I dont suck straight guys, I am hetrophobic

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"if i said white people only, i would be called a racist (which i am not).

although certain members insist on (BLACK MEN ONLY).

am i wrong? or is there some double standards here."

How do you get white people asking for black being racist. Or a black woman like myself asking for white men only?!!

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"I dont suck straight guys, I am hetrophobic

but they can suck me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Zzzzzzzzzzzzzzz

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

"Every time someone gets excluded they come whining like bitches on the forums: pathetic!

***Goes off to pen own bitch whine about being excluded for being fat, old, Domme, stoosh, professional, southern ***"

What's stoosh???

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By *hetalkingstoveMan
over a year ago

London

"am i wrong?"

Yes.

Lots of people express a preference for white people without being called racist.

Has anyone actually called you a racist?

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

"ok. i say only white chicks?

not a preference. but racism."

Everything black and white,is not racist.

Your statement should read,

Not a racist,but preference.

I'm here to help,

no need to thank me,it's what I do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Every time someone gets excluded they come whining like bitches on the forums: pathetic!

***Goes off to pen own bitch whine about being excluded for being fat, old, Domme, stoosh, professional, southern ***

What's stoosh???"

Skunk Anansie album?

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

"Every time someone gets excluded they come whining like bitches on the forums: pathetic!

***Goes off to pen own bitch whine about being excluded for being fat, old, Domme, stoosh, professional, southern ***

What's stoosh???

Skunk Anansie album?"

Miss Tress is a Skunk Anansie album?Well I never - you learn something every day on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

rejection is a terrible thing

not being able to have what you want is too

they share a common symptom in sufferers

they usually cause people to over think things and make statements that, in the main, are pure rubbish

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"ok. i say only white chicks?

not a preference. but racism."

it is not fella..

nor is homophobic for straight people to state that their preference is for like minded..

etc etc..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

AGAIN? God lord how many times does this subject get raised?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"AGAIN? God lord how many times does this subject get raised?"

oh there's plenty more where this came from !

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Every time someone gets excluded they come whining like bitches on the forums: pathetic!

***Goes off to pen own bitch whine about being excluded for being fat, old, Domme, stoosh, professional, southern ***

What's stoosh???"

***Giggles***forgot my audience: Jamaican colloquialism meaning high and mighty, up yourself etc.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Its like black tv awards or black music awards, not aware there are any white ones....why is that?"

Most awards were institutionally white only for a long time. Things have moved on but not a lot. Woman's Hour Power List was 7% Black and Minority Ethnic - that's seven women they could find who weren't white to award the honour.

As to the OP, if you are racist that will come through at some point. Your sexual preference doesn't make you racist but how you communicate it may be. Only you know that.

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By *ark Gr8 Teddy BearMan
over a year ago

Wigan

I don't think I really care about a person colour or creed, If I find them attractive I find them attractive, if I don't I don't, but I have dated, asian, black, indian, and white women so, I guess it whether people want to make things a race issue on how they'd react to "white people only".x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nobody is obligated to have sex with a person of a particular race just to prove you aren't a racist. If you're not attracted to someone you're not attracted to them, and that's that. If someone's dense enough to not understand that then that's their problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Didnt anyone watch "meet the izzards"

Proves we are all the same and related ...skin colour only denotes how hot its been where ya live

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some things never change

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you live in an area, like the South West, the ethnic minority population is about 5%, and that includes people that run restaurants and fast food outlets, so maybe about 2 or 3% of the population are black. It amuses me when I see "seeks BBC" locally, I would suggest that preference is drastically cutting the odds of finding someone you are sexually and socially compatible with..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I may come under fire for this, but does racism have any place in swinging.

Isn't it all down to personal preferance, I have seen profiles with only black men others with no black men. It is down to the individual surely what they want, you could say some people are being sizist by saying big cocks only.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"I may come under fire for this, but does racism have any place in swinging.

racism has no place anywhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I forgot to say, I find black girls sexy, and have had my fair share as I lived in Tottenham throughout my 20's. Imagine putting black girls preferred on my profile, I mean, it's hard enough trying to get the white girls talking.....

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By *ady4ladyWoman
over a year ago

liverpool

I have the right to choose who I have sex with. It is my body. By saying I prefer to have sex with black guys to white ones is not racist, its merely an attraction preference.

Likewise stating 'not into single men' is not singleism, its merely a preference.

I dont think that racism in any form would be allowed on this or any sex/dating site.

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By *ady4ladyWoman
over a year ago

liverpool

As to the OP, if you are racist that will come through at some point. Your sexual preference doesn't make you racist but how you communicate it may be. Only you know that."

Spot-on

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"I have the right to choose who I have sex with. It is my body. By saying I prefer to have sex with black guys to white ones is not racist, its merely an attraction preference.

Likewise stating 'not into single men' is not singleism, its merely a preference.

I dont think that racism in any form would be allowed on this or any sex/dating site.

It's not racism, singleism or anything of that nature any more than men advertising only for men for sex is a breach of equalities legislation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are so many preferences on here ! Age, dress size, cock size, height and colour ! If you dont hit the bill move on nothing to do with racism.

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"There are so many preferences on here ! Age, dress size, cock size, height and colour ! If you dont hit the bill move on nothing to do with racism."

The issue is that there's no legislation (that I know of) about any of those things, other than colour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't think I really care about a person colour or creed, If I find them attractive I find them attractive, if I don't I don't, but I have dated, asian, black, indian, and white women so, I guess it whether people want to make things a race issue on how they'd react to "white people only".x"

This isn't about dating someone.. Its nsa which is majority a physical attraction..

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By *ady4ladyWoman
over a year ago

liverpool

The Equality Act protects people from ageism, ........ it mentions jobs, education and training, cant see anything about being too old to be someones preference for sex tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I may come under fire for this, but does racism have any place in swinging.

racism has no place anywhere"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Racism is excluding someone or a group because of their race. Not saying I only want to meet people of a certain race.

That's personal choice OP you can set your selection criteria as you see fit. Its your profile so its up to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its crazy to think any ism is included in sexual preferences..

A straight guy is being sexist cos he only sleeps with woman and excludes men?

Someone of 25 who doesn't want to sleep with someone who is 65 is being ageist?

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"Its crazy to think any ism is included in sexual preferences..

A straight guy is being sexist cos he only sleeps with woman and excludes men?

Someone of 25 who doesn't want to sleep with someone who is 65 is being ageist?

maybe for some a symptom of rejectionism is to blame all and sundry for their perceptions..?

funny old game..

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By *ady4ladyWoman
over a year ago

liverpool

Rejectionism, yes, brilliant

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By *ark Gr8 Teddy BearMan
over a year ago

Wigan

This isn't about dating someone.. Its nsa which is majority a physical attraction.."

Did you actually read and understand what I wrote?,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"if i said white people only, i would be called a racist (which i am not).

although certain members insist on (BLACK MEN ONLY).

am i wrong? or is there some double standards here."

I am sure you well know why.

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone

We only meet bi single femmes, perhaps we're being sexist and an ist of some sort against straight femmes. I (ted) have a preference for black girls though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This isn't about dating someone.. Its nsa which is majority a physical attraction..

Did you actually read and understand what I wrote?,

Yes and I reacted to what's said in the first 3 lines

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

I'm confused, in the frist post the OP says he's not racist, then a few posts later says he is. I wish he'd make his mind up.

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