FabSwingers.com forum: Have you ever had someone ask you to block them?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

On here or in life outside of fab?

A friend? someone on another form of social media?

Anywhere?

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Wonko

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

I get men doing this, on here. Like why? Why can't you just block me? Where's their logic?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wonko

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

"I get men doing this, on here. Like why? Why can't you just block me? Where's their logic? "

It stops them from unblocking you at 2am and making bad message decisions... dunno if that is logic, but it seems handy!

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

Also, yeah Wonko

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"On here or in life outside of fab?

A friend? someone on another form of social media?

Anywhere?

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yes x on here and in real life x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I get men doing this, on here. Like why? Why can't you just block me? Where's their logic?

It stops them from unblocking you at 2am and making bad message decisions... dunno if that is logic, but it seems handy!

Can you block me? Please.

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

"I get men doing this, on here. Like why? Why can't you just block me? Where's their logic?

It stops them from unblocking you at 2am and making bad message decisions... dunno if that is logic, but it seems handy!

Can you block me? Please."

I just tried and accidentally pressed the Hide All Site Images, now everyone has a Crimbo name I haven't remembered and the same haircut, @admin help

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

"I get men doing this, on here. Like why? Why can't you just block me? Where's their logic?

It stops them from unblocking you at 2am and making bad message decisions... dunno if that is logic, but it seems handy!

Can you block me? Please.

I just tried and accidentally pressed the Hide All Site Images, now everyone has a Crimbo name I haven't remembered and the same haircut, @admin help

Well hello

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I get men doing this, on here. Like why? Why can't you just block me? Where's their logic?

It stops them from unblocking you at 2am and making bad message decisions... dunno if that is logic, but it seems handy!

Can you block me? Please.

I just tried and accidentally pressed the Hide All Site Images, now everyone has a Crimbo name I haven't remembered and the same haircut, @admin help

I'll be the thirsty one messaging at 2am

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By *oursweetCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

Yes random men will message on here and ask to be blocked despite us never communicating with them prior to that message. It baffles us

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By *illy IdolMan
over a year ago

Midlands

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On here, yes. I happily oblige.

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By *rRiosMan
over a year ago

dublin

"On here or in life outside of fab?

A friend? someone on another form of social media?

Anywhere?

I’ve had this. I had ninja mode off like a fool and this guy texted me asking did I want to have fun. I generally reply to guys “no thank you, flattered though. Hope you find what you looking for”

This time i looked at the message but didn’t have time to reply, I was planning to eventually. Anyway he scolded me for having the audacity of looking at his profile and not responding to his text and told me to block him.

I don’t even remember looking at his profile tbh but so what if I did.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

"I get men doing this, on here. Like why? Why can't you just block me? Where's their logic?

It stops them from unblocking you at 2am and making bad message decisions... dunno if that is logic, but it seems handy!

But why would they do that, knowing nothing is ever going to happen? Have they no self control.... Oh... Yeah, that's it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask me to block them???

Probably wonko.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I do, I don't get it. They could just block me.

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By *mf123Man
over a year ago

with one foot out the door

Not that i know of i have been asked not to make contact anymore but looking back i can see why as i was a little bit insane for a while i can see now how that could have been overwhelming altho i was blind to all things but my loss at the time

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I've had a few screaming out to be blocked, even if they've not actually asked me to do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For some reason I cannot fathom I decided to block myself after reading this. Which didn’t work.

Then I messaged myself and no matter how many times I read it I still have the 1 unread message from myself.

Oops!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wonko"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wonko

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Also, yeah Wonko

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ask me to block them???

Probably wonko. "

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

I'm already blocked, so I don't need to ask.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wonko. As per most people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, mainly from men messaging our couples profile. Cut and paste cliched generic replies telling us how our pics are the hottest on Fab... blah... blah... blah... but then requesting we block them if we not interested.

We just delete.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

‘Block me back’ I’ve had jokingly

But yes I had someone I cared about deeply ask me to block her while we went no contact.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wonko. As per most people "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can anyone spot the pattern?

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

Yes. Once.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"For some reason I cannot fathom I decided to block myself after reading this. Which didn’t work.

Then I messaged myself and no matter how many times I read it I still have the 1 unread message from myself.

Oops!"

Can I call you knob or will that get me banned?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Can anyone spot the pattern? "

I think they like you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ask me to block them???

Probably wonko.

I didn’t block you,…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ask me to block them???

Probably wonko.

I didn’t block you,… "

Yet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can anyone spot the pattern?

I think they like you?"

Do they?

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Just wonko

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

"Yes. Once."

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By *hawn ScottMan
over a year ago

london Brixton

Attention seeking? u ok hun xx

Its like the fb posts from guys on sunday that have done something stupid the night before

"if any sees me drinking agaon shot me"

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By *hawn ScottMan
over a year ago

london Brixton

"Attention seeking? u ok hun xx

Its like the fb posts from guys on sunday that have done something stupid the night before

"if any sees me drinking agaon shot me""

yes mate if it was legal I would

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ask me to block them???

Probably wonko.

I didn’t block you,…

Yet! "

I don’t block you out of spite.

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By *iberatedduoCouple
over a year ago

Ashbourne

Sometimes yes from people we have never engaged with. They usually say in their first message if they are not for us then block them so they don’t message again.

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By *imisugarWoman
over a year ago

Rugby

I have but i didn't comply.

Figured if they couldn't remember I'd said no thanks and didn't want to block me themselves. It wasn't important

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get men doing this, on here. Like why? Why can't you just block me? Where's their logic?

It stops them from unblocking you at 2am and making bad message decisions... dunno if that is logic, but it seems handy!

An ex asked me and this was his reasoning. He was an ex due to his poor impulse control so it made sense.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe it feeds a self-humiliation kink?

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By *estrel girlWoman
over a year ago

Wokingham

I had this where a guy asked me to block him as seeing me was driving him crazy (I'm no oil painting). So I obliged and then, bugger me he comes back with a new profile and pretends to be someone else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Can you all block me please.

Thank you.

The mr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can you all block me please.

Thank you.

The mr "

Consider it done

Send me a message when you want unblocking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah an ex would constantly beg me to block her because she couldn’t stay away from me

Then she’d make 900 new instagram account to get around the block

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

"Can you all block me please.

Thank you.

The mr

Consider it done

Send me a message when you want unblocking

Liar.

The mr

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

No but I have had someone tell me they were going to block me after chatting for a while because they didn't think we were compatible and it would stop me coming up in searches again.

It was all very polite and civilised and we met at a social a long time later and I'm now unblocked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can you all block me please.

Thank you.

The mr

Consider it done

Send me a message when you want unblocking

Liar.

The mr "

Well I wasn’t really going to block you

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere else

"I have but i didn't comply.

Figured if they couldn't remember I'd said no thanks and didn't want to block me themselves. It wasn't important "

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere else

Blocks all around… YOU get a block! And YOU get a block! Everybody gets… a BLOCK!

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bring on the blocks

(I’m joking please don’t block me I just want to be loved

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By *horesonWellesMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Sometimes but not often. My profile says "feel free to block me if I'm not your type" so that probably cuts it down. I sometimes block people if I'm not their type (bi, trans, fat, hairy etc.) mostly because I have a terrible memory and don't want to accidentally annoy people who aren't interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been the one asking someone to block me. I don't want to see updates, pictures etc coming onto my feed or whatever, so I asked them to block. That way I see NOTHING except the odd forum comment, which is fair enough.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

I’ve only had one person ask and it was Wonko.

But I didn’t block because I’m like that

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Yes on here! X

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Yes. I’ve obliged.

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

I can't say that I have... I feel like I am missing out on a life experience now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, a few times...

Only when feelings weren't reciprocated, or distance was an issue and they wanted to move on.

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By *oxy RedWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Yes my male cousin when he joined Fab! Lol

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