FabSwingers.com forum: Your most expensive social.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

And I mean social as in just socializing and no sex involved. Maybe you got snog or a grope at the end but you get what I mean.

I've had one where the coil spring snapped on my car and another where I got a parking ticket.

What's your most expensive social?

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Just coffee really. I paid for some, she paid for some.

Nothing exciting or overly expensive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One cost me my pride.

And one was a price of a coffee. I can live with that!

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere else

I’ve not had it yet. I anticipate my next one will be QUITE dear.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

£3.20 had to pay for my own coffee.

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

"£3.20 had to pay for my own coffee. "

...kinda miss paying £3.20 for my coffee, damn my delightful vices

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By *heGateKeeperMan
over a year ago

Stratford

Probably one of the Manchester weekends, but worth every penny

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

For just a social not much

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just coffee really. I paid for some, she paid for some.

Nothing exciting or overly expensive."

Oh I like those ones. I managed that last week with someone. Car didn't break at all. Yay go me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"£3.20 had to pay for my own coffee. "

You went Dutch?

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

A bottle of gin.

And I don't even drink it.

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By *errocaWoman
over a year ago

Shropshire

Big social nights out normally cost a pretty penny,once you've added up hotels, transport,outfit,food and drink... I think it's about £500, the most I've spent.

Just a one on one social.. it's probably been about £80

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A week in Aberdeen, to meet someone for a cocktail.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"Probably one of the Manchester weekends, but worth every penny

Same and agreed .. Deffo worth it

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Probably one of the Manchester weekends, but worth every penny

Yeah this for me too

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I literally wrote my car off on a FAB date driving into a flooded riverbed. We had to get towed back to Nottingham and then hired another car to continue to York

But it was worth it, driving back from York with the sunsetting, listening to Lady Gaga, looking at her cute smiling face in the passenger seat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met for drinks in a fancy cocktail bar, ended up having dinner in the fancy steak restaurant attached with some nice wines. Total bill was just under £500 between us (we split it).

Don't remember the guys name or the conversation and never saw him again, but the food was incredible.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"I literally wrote my car off on a FAB date driving into a flooded riverbed. We had to get towed back to Nottingham and then hired another car to continue to York

But it was worth it, driving back from York with the sunsetting, listening to Lady Gaga, looking at her cute smiling face in the passenger seat."

You had a meet with lady gaga

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By *esthetic21Man
over a year ago

Birmingham/Bristol

Couple hundred on food and drinks for the two of us. I'd never ask a lady to pay how rude

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

"£3.20 had to pay for my own coffee.

You went Dutch?"

No... He didn't even get a drink (this was when it was warmer... He brought a bottle of water with him)

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Probably no more than £30 - transport and food

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

"Just coffee really. I paid for some, she paid for some.

Nothing exciting or overly expensive."

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That sounds lovely and perfectly sedate.

WOOAH there!! Just re-read that - she paid!?!

#GoingDutchFFS

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Couple of drinks and parking charge.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

About £150 in a hotel bar, just off Bond Street. It was one of the nicest dates I've been on. Lots of cocktails, laughter and tactile flirtation.

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By *ussle SproutMan
over a year ago

the middle

Birmingham the weekend just gone.

Hotel £213

Parking £16.50

Clean air charge £16

Pizza £30

Drinks £180

Fuel £60

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

"Birmingham the weekend just gone.

Hotel £213

Parking £16.50

Clean air charge £16

Pizza £30

Drinks £180

Fuel £60"

Bro hugs, priceless

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By *ussle SproutMan
over a year ago

the middle

"Birmingham the weekend just gone.

Hotel £213

Parking £16.50

Clean air charge £16

Pizza £30

Drinks £180

Fuel £60

Bro hugs, priceless

I did miss that off but now you mention it…..

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere else

"I literally wrote my car off on a FAB date driving into a flooded riverbed. We had to get towed back to Nottingham and then hired another car to continue to York

But it was worth it, driving back from York with the sunsetting, listening to Lady Gaga, looking at her cute smiling face in the passenger seat."

You had a social with Lady Gaga.

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere else

"About £150 in a hotel bar, just off Bond Street. It was one of the nicest dates I've been on. Lots of cocktails, laughter and tactile flirtation."

Tactile flirtation = quick handy behind the skips at the Waldorf?

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By *cunnylassCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

£900 for a new clutch.It was less than a mile from our place to the pub but we didn't make it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was my first ever Fab meet.

I was so inexperienced looking back, but I digress.

We met for a drink at a posh piano wine bar. That became a bottle, went on to dinner, another bottle of wine. I offered to split the bill. He wouldn’t have it. The bill was several hundred £.

He suggested we go to a club to dance. Two more drinks at over £20 each.

He booked a stunning hotel overlooking the river (I knew before we met tbf). A suite with the most made for sex bed I’ve ever seen. Several hundred ££.

It was a bloody nice first meet tbh.

I estimate it was over £500 at the end of it all.

Was also the night I discovered I could squirt. Oh, I meant wee myself in bed.

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By *umblecutMan
over a year ago

Finchley

3points on my license and £100.

First time I ever got this in 10years!

I was late to a meet and speeding a little. Expensive but worth it as she was lovely.

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By *rozac_fairyCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

The price of a bottle of rum and a pack of cigarettes.... that he stole lol

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

"About £150 in a hotel bar, just off Bond Street. It was one of the nicest dates I've been on. Lots of cocktails, laughter and tactile flirtation.

Tactile flirtation = quick handy behind the skips at the Waldorf?

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I thought you enjoyed that!! You were quite amenable to it at the time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've only had one that didn't end in sex.

I drove an hour and a half away, and I think I bought the coffees as he paid for us to get into the place.

It wasn't that expensive and still worth it.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I just remembered I went to a social in a club

Hair done

new outfit

train fare

hotel

entry price

d*unks

I'd say just under £200

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

About £250. Was travelling to Birmingham for social with a guy. He confirmed morning of the meet, then didn't show. Ended up having great evening drinking craft beer with group of people I met at the pub.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jesus! I can buy food for a month for that. Hope she was worth it

"Couple hundred on food and drinks for the two of us. I'd never ask a lady to pay how rude "

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

One in Wakefield at a local pub.

There was another Tgirl there, but she was a bit of a disaster. She'd not put any make up on or even had much of a shave, so had a load of stubble sticking out. She was in fetish gear and seemed to have tried to intrude into everyone's conversations.

When I walked in, I immediately felt unpopular, which is unusual, and then twigged, I was guilty by association. The whole social was a write off and I ended up grabbing the other Tgirl and taking her up to Leeds for a night out, so as to try to salvage something.

Here she immediately managed to irritate everyone we met.

I may as well have stayed at home

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Manchester social

10 hours on the train, hotels, food and drink for a weekend away £450

Unfortunately unaffordable

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By *GermanInLondonMan
over a year ago

London

Northampton socials for me.

Drive, hotel, food, drinks.

But I enjoy them a lot so well worth it!

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

On another site, we’ve been to numerous socials.

Birmingham was expensive as it was pride weekend and all hotels were put up - think it was over £200!

We’ve been to Newcastle for a social too and stayed over.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

I don’t think I’ve ever added up the cost but probably the Manchester socials when you add in the hotel, dancing, drinking, more dancing and Uber of shame

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A £55 cab ride after getting the wrong train

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By *BWLOVER1965Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

KFC bucket

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By *929Man
over a year ago

bedlington

Only had one social and it cost A Nando’s each and a cup of tea each. She offered half which I appreciated but said it ok

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
over a year ago

Next Door

Manchester socials, but I had amazing times.

Also got my 1st ever speeding ticket on a way to a social. Speeding course £90 and the 3hrs of my life I won't get back

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
over a year ago

Next Door

"It was my first ever Fab meet.

I was so inexperienced looking back, but I digress.

We met for a drink at a posh piano wine bar. That became a bottle, went on to dinner, another bottle of wine. I offered to split the bill. He wouldn’t have it. The bill was several hundred £.

He suggested we go to a club to dance. Two more drinks at over £20 each.

He booked a stunning hotel overlooking the river (I knew before we met tbf). A suite with the most made for sex bed I’ve ever seen. Several hundred ££.

It was a bloody nice first meet tbh.

I estimate it was over £500 at the end of it all.

Was also the night I discovered I could squirt. Oh, I meant wee myself in bed.

Sound like a fantastic meet

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"A £55 cab ride after getting the wrong train

That was hilarious sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Socials aren’t expensive for me. Dates however… I’ve had some expensive dates.

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By *ddie1966Man
over a year ago

Paper Town Central, Essex.

Congestion charge and ulez charge. Ladies choice on food (pizza) and a couple of drinks.

I offered to pay as it was my invite. Saw the lady safely to the nearest tube and went home.

Including fuel, approximately £100.

Best money I've ever spent especially as the company was delightful.

Nothing will ever happen between us but we still socialise every month or so and take it in turns to pay.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A £55 cab ride after getting the wrong train

I'm saying nothing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually a night in London for the socials can cost £300 ish each time with a hotel,train tickets,car parking,food and drinks.

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

Probably the Manchester and London socials I’ve attended when you add up travel and hotel costs. Everyone I’ve been to has been worthwhile though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh yes. The MLS earlier in this year. If I added the cost of that, it was quite as bit.

No regrets, it was great fun.

*I forgot about that. Went home alone … how am I doing Fab so wrong?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh yes. The MLS earlier in this year. If I added the cost of that, it was quite as bit.

No regrets, it was great fun.

*I forgot about that. Went home alone … how am I doing Fab so wrong?

I do fab wrong daily, even after all these years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" it was great fun. "

You didn't put *true story.......

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By *illy IdolMan
over a year ago

Midlands

"I've only had one that didn't end in sex.

I drove an hour and a half away, and I think I bought the coffees as he paid for us to get into the place.

It wasn't that expensive and still worth it.

OMG, something positive

Let me write this down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" it was great fun.

You didn't put *true story.......

Haha. But it was. I went home with a shoe box.

… stories to smile at right there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've only had one that didn't end in sex.

I drove an hour and a half away, and I think I bought the coffees as he paid for us to get into the place.

It wasn't that expensive and still worth it.

OMG, something positive

Let me write this down"

I have lots of positives. I just don't feel the need to shout about them Willy.

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By *oldyoudown41Man
over a year ago

caledonian

It’s actually embarrassing to say how much …

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It’s actually embarrassing to say how much …

Oh come on, you know you want to.

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By *umblecutMan
over a year ago

Finchley

"It was my first ever Fab meet.

I was so inexperienced looking back, but I digress.

We met for a drink at a posh piano wine bar. That became a bottle, went on to dinner, another bottle of wine. I offered to split the bill. He wouldn’t have it. The bill was several hundred £.

He suggested we go to a club to dance. Two more drinks at over £20 each.

He booked a stunning hotel overlooking the river (I knew before we met tbf). A suite with the most made for sex bed I’ve ever seen. Several hundred ££.

It was a bloody nice first meet tbh.

I estimate it was over £500 at the end of it all.

Was also the night I discovered I could squirt. Oh, I meant wee myself in bed.

Im sure the lucky guy thought it was worth every penny!

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By *oldyoudown41Man
over a year ago

caledonian

"It’s actually embarrassing to say how much …

Oh come on, you know you want to."

Honestly no , it kills me every time I think about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My most expensive date was the price of a Ginsters pasty. It worked because we have become best friends ever since plus i got to eat the pasty myself lol.

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By *exi_LexiTV/TS
over a year ago

caerphilly

"My most expensive date was the price of a Ginsters pasty. It worked because we have become best friends ever since plus i got to eat the pasty myself lol."

God, I sound cheap, a ginsters pasty that I didn't ask for which got returned to its rightful owner, also you've forgotten to factor in fuel lol

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By *illy IdolMan
over a year ago

Midlands

"I've only had one that didn't end in sex.

I drove an hour and a half away, and I think I bought the coffees as he paid for us to get into the place.

It wasn't that expensive and still worth it.

OMG, something positive

Let me write this down

I have lots of positives. I just don't feel the need to shout about them Willy. "

Just write them down then Bella Bear

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It’s actually embarrassing to say how much …

Oh come on, you know you want to.

Honestly no , it kills me every time I think about it "

Now I really want to know

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By *oldyoudown41Man
over a year ago

caledonian

"It’s actually embarrassing to say how much …

Oh come on, you know you want to.

Honestly no , it kills me every time I think about it

Now I really want to know"

You would have to squeeze it out of me , literally

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By *tudFuckMan
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

A return flight to LAX, maybe £700 at the time

(pre-Fab, but internet related if it counts?)

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By *_DirectorMan
over a year ago

Middle of somewhere

"And I mean social as in just socializing and no sex involved. Maybe you got snog or a grope at the end but you get what I mean.

I've had one where the coil spring snapped on my car and another where I got a parking ticket.

What's your most expensive social?"

If you class tea for 2 in a hotel reception as a social! £10 ahahha no kissing tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably this recent one when I went I London for a group social. Spent the weekend there and hoo-boy...

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By *eardyBikerMan
over a year ago

nr stonehaven

Cost me new forks on my bike, she lived up a farm track and the speeding fine the day I got the bike back

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

Went to Ireland and stayed in a hotel a couple of nights well worth it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will let you know on the 20th

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Arranged a social on here with a woman from an area I didn’t know very well, so I let her pick the venue

Turn up, been catfished. Too polite to just say no thanks bye. She’s also picked an extremely expensive place

She gets a starter and eventually a dessert and of course, 3 or 4 drinks

I stick to drinks only

She nice, but still a catfish. Too polite to suggest splitting the bill. Pick up the entire thing (over £100) leave and ghost her

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By *ltrMan
over a year ago

sheffield

Met up at a coffee shop very nice but we did not click went out to my car and some knob had hit my door and drove off £250 + vat to repair it .

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
over a year ago

Next Door

"It’s actually embarrassing to say how much …

Oh come on, you know you want to.

Honestly no , it kills me every time I think about it

Now I really want to know

You would have to squeeze it out of me , literally "

Was it worth it?

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By *esafinadOHolyNightMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Extending time in London next year to meet a couple of folk from here, purely for a social and because I like how they both are on Fab and really think we'd get on. So, Hotel, flights change, drinks, atc

Not fussed about the money at all though, totally worth it

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By *ussex21Man
over a year ago

Crowborough

£80, we went out for dinner

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

Wherever I lay my hat

If we are talking purely social with no filth thrown in then it would be when I got out for cocktails with a certain Forumite with exquisite taste in London bars

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Coffee , drink in a bar. That’s been it really, not even a grope…

All my previous shagfests required little social preamble….go figure..

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