FabSwingers.com forum: How do you judge people?

By (user no longer on site) OP
49 weeks ago

Yes I'm stealing from your thread.

If you decide you don't like someone on here, or you do like someone, what is that based off?

Bio?

Pictures?

Their posts?

Or is it actual one on one interaction?

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By *aitonelMan
49 weeks ago

Liverpool

Observation over time

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By *eneralKenobiMan
49 weeks ago

North Angus

I judge them on the colour of their tea

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
49 weeks ago

East Sussex

Harshly.

Usually from comments

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
49 weeks ago

Somewhere else

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

They have 3 boxes to tick. And one to avoid ticking, it doesn’t matter what order, but when I like you, I like you.

But nice tits help too.

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
49 weeks ago

Somewhere else

"Yes I'm stealing from your thread.

If you decide you don't like someone on here, or you do like someone, what is that based off?

Bio?

Pictures?

Their posts?

Or is it actual one on one interaction?

It can be any number of things. But most of the time I’m fairly indifferent. I either like someone or I don’t think about them.

It would take a special kind of a$$hole to make me feel like I really didn’t like someone I only know from a website / app / forum.

How do YOU decide?

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
49 weeks ago

Leeds

Probably more from comments than anything, sometimes pics if they are truly grim of and the odd status update.

Mrs

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By *ora the explorerWoman
49 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

The prettiness of the penis

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
49 weeks ago

Somewhere else

"The prettiness of the penis "

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By *hunky GentMan
49 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"The prettiness of the penis "

That's me out then.

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

Copying my threads

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By *illy IdolMan
49 weeks ago

Midlands

Online I make assumptions from comments. I judge them on 1 to 1 interactions.

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

All of the things you listed.

I can tell from any of those things whether they’re my kinda person or not. Especially bios, forum posts and interactions.

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

I judge them on what flavour pot noodle they like best.

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By *illy IdolMan
49 weeks ago

Midlands

"I judge them on what flavour pot noodle they like best. "

FYI curry pot noodle for me

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
49 weeks ago

Somewhere else

"Copying my threads

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By *ilthycoupleabzCouple
49 weeks ago

Aberdeen

I'm fairly indifferent, people aren't the same on a forum as they are in real life I think plus some comments could be taken the wrong way etc with no tone to even it out with.

Some people I wouldn't choose to spend time with, a few seem like they would be fun.

Mostly it doesn't matter as it is unlikely I will ever meet them.

MrsAbz

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By *rispyDuckMan
49 weeks ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

"Yes I'm stealing from your thread.

If you decide you don't like someone on here, or you do like someone, what is that based off?

Bio?

Pictures?

Their posts?

Or is it actual one on one interaction?

Bit of everything really

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By *ellhungvweMan
49 weeks ago

Cheltenham

I tend to get bored of people who start new threads every five minutes. It gets tedious when you see the same people starting the same kind of thing every day.

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By *eliWoman
49 weeks ago

I try not to too much unless I've spent actual time with them. I don't want to give people headspace rent free when there are far more interesting things to think about.

If they interact with me in a twatty way, I might think, yep, they're a bit of a twat for about twenty seconds and then I move on. Focus on something more worthwhile.

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By *rHotNottsMan
49 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Only when I meet them.

I have a really bad memory by design on here, and often choose not to pay attention to who said what. I don’t see the point of liking or disliking people, you will never meet, based on what on the whole fake versions of themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

"I tend to get bored of people who start new threads every five minutes. It gets tedious when you see the same people starting the same kind of thing every day. "

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

"I tend to get bored of people who start new threads every five minutes. It gets tedious when you see the same people starting the same kind of thing every day. "

Shots fired ! …

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By *orny-DJMan
49 weeks ago

Leigh-on-Sea

I don't. Never have

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By *eyond PurityCouple
49 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

You kind of get a feel for some people from interactions on here and there’s certain people I don’t react to or comment on their threads and there are certain people I quite enjoy reading their comments but generally FAB is used to find the people we’d enjoy hanging out with, so don’t get involved in drama.

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By *os19Man
49 weeks ago

Edmonton

I don’t believe it’s my place to judge anyone on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

Since I only really use the forums for discussion, I try to pay little attention to who posts what specifically so I can discuss the point they’ve made without bias

I don’t want to judge an entire person based on a few posts on a sex site forum

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

I form loose opinions of people from how I’ve interacted online with them. The same with people I read.

I don’t judge them specifically until we’ve met in person.

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
49 weeks ago

Somewhere else

"Only when I meet them.

Yes.

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
49 weeks ago

Somewhere else

"I tend to get bored of people who start new threads every five minutes. It gets tedious when you see the same people starting the same kind of thing every day. "

*runs off to start a new thread*

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

"You kind of get a feel for some people from interactions on here and there’s certain people I don’t react to or comment on their threads and there are certain people I quite enjoy reading their comments but generally FAB is used to find the people we’d enjoy hanging out with, so don’t get involved in drama.

Actually, that’s about one of the top tips on Fab Forums.

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By *addad99Man
49 weeks ago

Rotherham /newquay

"Observation over time"
this sums it up I never judge a book on its cover until I've read the book

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By (user no longer on site) OP
49 weeks ago

"I judge them on the colour of their tea

I judge them if they drink tea

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By (user no longer on site) OP
49 weeks ago

"Yes I'm stealing from your thread.

If you decide you don't like someone on here, or you do like someone, what is that based off?

Bio?

Pictures?

Their posts?

Or is it actual one on one interaction?

It can be any number of things. But most of the time I’m fairly indifferent. I either like someone or I don’t think about them.

It would take a special kind of a$$hole to make me feel like I really didn’t like someone I only know from a website / app / forum.

How do YOU decide?"

Moi?

I'm very judgemental, it can just be one little comment and I'm deeming you to be a dick. Am I right? In my head, yes, in reality, probably not.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
49 weeks ago

"The prettiness of the penis "

Were we separated at birth?!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
49 weeks ago

"Copying my threads

I'm told it's the sincerest form of flattery. Or really fucking weird. The jury's still out on that one.

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

I wouldn't say I judge them, I can just usually tell the people who I won't match with. Sometimes it's their profile, otherwise a few messages in when talking.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
49 weeks ago

"I tend to get bored of people who start new threads every five minutes. It gets tedious when you see the same people starting the same kind of thing every day. "

Ah phew, luckily I make different threads.

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By *carlet SeductionWoman
49 weeks ago

Maidstone

God I judge based on everything!

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By *ora the explorerWoman
49 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

"God I judge based on everything!"

Me too

. Silently though

. I’m not silly

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By (user no longer on site) OP
49 weeks ago

"Observation over time this sums it up I never judge a book on its cover until I've read the book "

But if the cover or synopsis isn't appealing I don't want to read it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
49 weeks ago

"God I judge based on everything!

Me too

. Silently though

. I’m not silly "

I can confirm it's more fun when you do it openly.

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By *carlet SeductionWoman
49 weeks ago

Maidstone

"God I judge based on everything!

Me too

. Silently though

. I’m not silly "

Where's the fun in that??

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By *ora the explorerWoman
49 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

"God I judge based on everything!

Me too

. Silently though

. I’m not silly

I can confirm it's more fun when you do it openly. "

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By *carlet SeductionWoman
49 weeks ago

Maidstone

"God I judge based on everything!

Me too

. Silently though

. I’m not silly

I can confirm it's more fun when you do it openly. "

Dammit... beat me to it!!

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

"I judge them on the colour of their tea

And if they put the milk in before removing the bag

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By *otsossieMan
49 weeks ago

local, but not too local

Generally posts, but sometimes pictures have me banging my gavel.

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By *naswingdressWoman
49 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

Harshly.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
49 weeks ago

little house on the praire

By forum posts. I'm not going to be meeting anyone new..

Most people are fine but you get one or two absolute twats

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By (user no longer on site) OP
49 weeks ago

"By forum posts. I'm not going to be meeting anyone new..

Most people are fine but you get one or two absolute twats"

I'm raising my hand here.

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By *elbaCouple
49 weeks ago

Derby

Anyone that uses txt spk is a massive red flag. If they are that lazy they can’t be arsed to type properly then as sure as shit is sugar they’ll be lazy and impatient in the bedroom.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
49 weeks ago

"Anyone that uses txt spk is a massive red flag. If they are that lazy they can’t be arsed to type properly then as sure as shit is sugar they’ll be lazy and impatient in the bedroom.

Was the irony intended here or....

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

"Anyone that uses txt spk is a massive red flag. If they are that lazy they can’t be arsed to type properly then as sure as shit is sugar they’ll be lazy and impatient in the bedroom.

Haha. Used ‘txt’ for text !!

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By *educing_EmCouple
49 weeks ago

Tipperary

I'll judge from all aspects but shitty forum posts or creepy status updates and I'm out.

Em x

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By *eneralKenobiMan
49 weeks ago

North Angus

"I judge them on the colour of their tea

And if they put the milk in before removing the bag

That’s an unforgivable sin!

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By *arynBrianCouple
49 weeks ago

Epping

For us, it is all about good manners. If folks cannot even be bothered to use that free gift then we block them. M&B xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

"I'll judge from all aspects but shitty forum posts or creepy status updates and I'm out.

Em x"

The curiosity had got the better of me. How am I fairing?

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By *ealitybitesMan
49 weeks ago

Belfast

I've met people who were pleasant and polite for an hour but subsequently over time they have shown themselves to be anything but.

Some in the way they have used my friendship to further their fab journey by sharing my details to gain access to chatgroups and some in the way they treat others with distain in private while kissing their arse on the forums.

I judge people on the forums not on individual comments but on their history of shit stirring and trolling even when some of those are lauded by many others.

I've never judged anyone on their profile pics or bio but I definitely have based on their verifications.

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By *educing_EmCouple
49 weeks ago

Tipperary

"I'll judge from all aspects but shitty forum posts or creepy status updates and I'm out.

Em x

The curiosity had got the better of me. How am I fairing? "

You're a good one Woody

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
49 weeks ago

Central

I form impressions which are akin to shadows, but the only time I can properly do so, is after spending time with someone.

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By *igboobstCouple
49 weeks ago

barrow

All of the above but on here I think it'd have to go in this order

Pics

Bio

And if we like both of them one on one interaction

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By *hrista BellendWoman
49 weeks ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Whether we have anything in common

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By *affron40Woman
49 weeks ago

manchester

A few people from specific comments that are completely opposite to my way of thinking.

A few people from them being cunts in real life

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By *oo..Woman
49 weeks ago

Boo's World

I like most people and will often talk to most people on here or face to face at the socials.

The only ones I dislike has been for good reason : I.e. nasty comments (usually untrue) and bullying. Not something I'll listen too or change my mind on.

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

It’s a little bit of it all

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