FabSwingers.com forum: Maybe I was wrong about you?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Have you ever disliked someone and then been like, ‘actually I was wrong about you, you’re alright’ ?

It’s a weird feeling, that. Being wrong. Not sure I like it.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Not disliked them because I don't give that much energy to a person before I know them.

I've been pleasantly surprised before when I've found out people were more my sort of person than I originally thought. I like when that happens.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I have, and in some instances when I've had the chance to I've apologised to them.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

I give people more chances that I should

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That’s all part of your own personal journey I’ve disliked people before but only due to how others manipulated my opinion of them

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I've been wrong a couple of times with people I initially thought were sound only to see them in a different light.

So far I've never changed my opinion on anyone I originally disliked.

Not out of stubbornness on my part but just because they really are a cunt.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes I have, and in some instances when I've had the chance to I've apologised to them."

You’re a very lovely person.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not disliked them because I don't give that much energy to a person before I know them.

I've been pleasantly surprised before when I've found out people were more my sort of person than I originally thought. I like when that happens.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I give people more chances that I should

That is not good

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've been wrong a couple of times with people I initially thought were sound only to see them in a different light.

So far I've never changed my opinion on anyone I originally disliked.

Not out of stubbornness on my part but just because they really are a cunt."

Fair enough.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Have you ever disliked someone and then been like, ‘actually I was wrong about you, you’re alright’ ?

It’s a weird feeling, that. Being wrong. Not sure I like it. "

Erm let me think ………

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

No.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Have you ever disliked someone and then been like, ‘actually I was wrong about you, you’re alright’ ?

It’s a weird feeling, that. Being wrong. Not sure I like it.

Erm let me think ………"

Don’t think too hard it’s only fab

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No."

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On fab, just 2.

I had them blocked and then they became 2 of my fav people. Well 1 has buggered off now.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"On fab, just 2.

I had them blocked and then they became 2 of my fav people. Well 1 has buggered off now. "

I remember that guy

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *illy IdolMan
over a year ago

Midlands

"On fab, just 2.

I had them blocked and then they became 2 of my fav people. Well 1 has buggered off now. "

This explains a lot now

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ovingSussexLifeMan
over a year ago

West Sussex

On Fab, no.

In real life I couldn't stand a lad I had a Saturday job with. We've been best mates now since we were 15. Amazing how a common interest in women, booze and music brought us together

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

It happens in real life. Online, no.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On fab, just 2.

I had them blocked and then they became 2 of my fav people. Well 1 has buggered off now.

I remember that guy"

One of the few decent ones on here.

If we're talking about the same guy

....

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

There have been times when I've dismissed someone as just not my people and have changed my mind after a bit more exposure to them.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

No. I've attempted second chances and they have still been a cunt, or just annoying. So I stopped.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

In a training session I was sat next to a young guy who I thought was too loud and a bit of an idiot. However within an hour working on a project with him I realised he was very knowledgeable and his personality was quite refreshing, he was bloody honest about everything.

So I try to no longer judge on first impressions anymore unless it’s obvious the person is a prat.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *eliusMan
over a year ago

Henlow

Rarely, I seem to be lucky in that if I think you’re a dick you most certainly are and if you are worth getting to know I won’t hesitate to change other people’s opinion of you. That said, it does take a while for me to warm up to you, so maybe that’s why my dick-ometer is so finely tuned.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *heekyDemandCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

"There have been times when I've dismissed someone as just not my people and have changed my mind after a bit more exposure to them."

(Mr)

First time I saw your profile, when I was single, I initially thought you were unapproachable but after reading forum posts it became clear you were just very pragmatic and honest, some people may mistake that foe something else but it led me to message you and I'm glad I did.

Of course, plenty of chance to bugger it all up by being an arse in person but that's a problem for future-me

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah it’s always the other way round

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m probably the other way. Liked someone then seen some of their interactions and realised actually I don’t like them

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere else

"There have been times when I've dismissed someone as just not my people and have changed my mind after a bit more exposure to them."

That’s about as far as I’d go. Can’t dislike someone I’ve never actually had any dealings with.

… or CAN I ?

THEY KNOW WHO THEY ARE!!!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere else

"I’m probably the other way. Liked someone then seen some of their interactions and realised actually I don’t like them "

This has happened as well for me.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

When it all comes down to it, it's nothing but one person's hero is another person's villain.

We are all twats on some level, it just means you like the kind of twat they are. Your perception of the twatishness changed, but they are still that initial twat you thought they were in the first place too.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Not on fab no.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I’m probably the other way. Liked someone then seen some of their interactions and realised actually I don’t like them

This has happened as well for me."

So much this

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

No, I think my instincts about people have usually prooved to be right.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *pankingNorfolkCouple
over a year ago

Norwichish

This happened to me all the time in football playing days.

Play for one team and absolutely detested a lad who played for another local team, constantly had verbals etc.

Later I joined his team was player I was dreading playing with the most, but a few other teammates from former clubs had also made the switch, turned out we got on like a house on fire.

Had conversation in the changing rooms after about a month of playing there where he said to me “you know I used to hate you, but you are actually all right” I replied “the feeling was mutual”.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

"I’m probably the other way. Liked someone then seen some of their interactions and realised actually I don’t like them "

Same for me too.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"On fab, just 2.

I had them blocked and then they became 2 of my fav people. Well 1 has buggered off now.

I remember that guy

One of the few decent ones on here.

If we're talking about the same guy

....

Yeah the guy we all thought you were banging

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

On here only one person have I changed my mind about so far ...

I'm a pretty good judge of people tbf .

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’m probably the other way. Liked someone then seen some of their interactions and realised actually I don’t like them "

I think this is normal. Common. Happens to me a lot. You go off people when you actually get to know them

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"Not disliked them because I don't give that much energy to a person before I know them.

I've been pleasantly surprised before when I've found out people were more my sort of person than I originally thought. I like when that happens.

I dunno Pickle, I thought you were cool but then you attacked my virtue and I in another thread.

Being serious, it's great when people prove me wrong. I love it. I like surprises, being reminded that people are so much more than a singular facet.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not disliked them because I don't give that much energy to a person before I know them.

I've been pleasantly surprised before when I've found out people were more my sort of person than I originally thought. I like when that happens.

I dunno Pickle, I thought you were cool but then you attacked my virtue and I in another thread.

Being serious, it's great when people prove me wrong. I love it. I like surprises, being reminded that people are so much more than a singular facet. "

I went to see jada pinkett smith recently and she was talking about how she had to remind herself of that factor about people. Not sure it’s the same lol but she talked about how she had to realise like her Dad wasn’t put on this earth JUST to be her dad. So there’s more to him than how he is as a dad. If that makes sense? You saying this just triggered this memory that I wanted to share with you and all

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
over a year ago

A den in the Glen

I run off instinct like most and probably like most, it's usually a good indicator that rarely fails me. In RL I got it wrong once or twice, but always happy to change my opinion. One of the few mantras I stand by is 'a mate of a mate is always a mate' and that has never failed me. Someone on a thread a while back eluded to this about the company you keep reflects you.

On here. It's different purely because I don't know and haven't met 99.9% of people and never will. Sure there have been people that I disagree with and visa versa. So what, that's life. There are a myriad of personalities on here and as long as they stay true to themselves, fair play.

We all form opinions based on forum threads. I kind of know who I would enjoy a beer with and those who I probably struggle with but in relevance to your question I don't think I would be far off the mark but would remain open minded and happy to be corrected.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Why them man tryna war me. Ain’t them man like 40?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

A couple of times. One woman in particular is now slowly becoming a friend

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Instinct is mostly correct, but lust has led me awry and been with those I shouldn't have. Have been wrong about people who turned out to be ok.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *heGateKeeperMan
over a year ago

Stratford

I hear this a lot when people from Fab meet me in person

I don’t judge people too firmly, but there are definitely people I’ve met where I’ve been positively surprised that they were much more pleasant (and more my type of individual) in person

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Occasionally... I can be pretty rubbish with first impressions. I need a bit of time to see if people are consistent with their behaviour/actions.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *eneralKenobiMan
over a year ago

North Angus

Had it the other way mostly, I find I like a person and find out later they’re a bit of a knob

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Yes. There was a woman on here I couldn't stand we where always batching at each other.

Met at a social and hit off straight away. She used to come stay at my house

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep. Had a uni friend who I strongly disliked for the first year of knowing her. She ended up back at my place after a night out with mutual friends, and we talked properly over the old peace pipe, and 20+ years later we're still great friends.

Sometimes you just need to dig a bit below the masks people wear to see the real person.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
over a year ago

A den in the Glen

"Had it the other way mostly, I find I like a person and find out later they’re a bit of a knob "

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

A lot of people are quite wary of me at first, I wouldn't go as far as to say they don't like me but they certainly don't immediately take to me. It takes a while...and bribery

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *rozac_fairyCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

No, if I've taken a dislike to someone, it's usually for a good reason. On the odd occasion where its just been a gut instinct, I've tried to look past it but have still found I can't warm to said people. So I take the approach of just being civil and polite but not purposely allowing them near me where possible.

I'm sure one day though, I'll have my mind pleasantly changed

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have misread people yes but that gut feeling you get when you truly don't like someone from the get go.. that's never wrong.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *elbaCouple
over a year ago

Derby

"There have been times when I've dismissed someone as just not my people and have changed my mind after a bit more exposure to them."

Exactly this, on more than one occasion

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *carlet SeductionWoman
over a year ago

Maidstone

"I hear this a lot when people from Fab meet me in person

I don’t judge people too firmly, but there are definitely people I’ve met where I’ve been positively surprised that they were much more pleasant (and more my type of individual) in person

Knew you loved me really, knobhead!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I usually go with my gut instinct,the one time I didn't I realised after a while my initial impression impression of them was spot on. They were not someone I wanted to know or be friends with.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Ive sometimes thought, maybe I was wrong about you, but then they proved me right...

Always, I say. Always trust your gut x

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

Yes, but I still did not get a reply

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *929Man
over a year ago

bedlington

A few times in real life

One bloke I went to price a job for him and his wife and I thought he was an annoying nerd so never sent the price then he got in touch asking for his price so I felt bad and sent it and got the job turns out he was great crack and had good laugh with him the time we were there.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ady CurvaceousWoman
over a year ago

Kent

Yes, and there's been a few times I've really liked someone and then realised later down the line that I really can't stand them and being in their company becomes nails down a blackboard.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *r_PinkMan
over a year ago

london stratford

I have been "that person" a few times.

I have been told on many occasions "you aint as bad as i/we thought you where"/

I always say, don not judge a book by its cover. pick the book up and read a few pages first!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

"A few times in real life

Wait,his wife thought he was an annoying nerd??

She sounds like a lovely person..not!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

Happens to me all the time in this here forum

And people meet me in person and see I’m sweet as cherry pie..

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I hear it quite often.

I guess the blunt and openly hostile doesn't hide the soft little fucker underneath so well

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *heGateKeeperMan
over a year ago

Stratford

"I hear this a lot when people from Fab meet me in person

I don’t judge people too firmly, but there are definitely people I’ve met where I’ve been positively surprised that they were much more pleasant (and more my type of individual) in person

Knew you loved me really, knobhead!

Oh Shuddup Ya Face

I knew you’d be a sweetheart in person, despite your hard faced forum persona

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *929Man
over a year ago

bedlington

"A few times in real life

Wait,his wife thought he was an annoying nerd??

She sounds like a lovely person..not!"

Sorry no that was my poor punctuation that was my first impression of him not his wife’s

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

I've had it both ways. It is a weird feeling but definitely better than never admitting you could be wrong!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

I've actually not been wrong when I've thought that someone is an utter dick up front. It doesn't happen often though.

I've often been wrong when I've thought that they're a person I'd like. Some people have been very good at hiding their dickheadedness.

More often than not I tend to try and keep an open mind about people until I have personal experience of them. This is actually something that it took me a very long time to learn, and I still struggle sometimes.

I don't necessarily think it's true that a mate of a mate will be your kind of person though... I get on well with people that some of my closest friends don't like and I think some of their friends are dickheads.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

On Fab, no not really. Sometimes it takes a while to understand someone's sense of humour on here, and to appreciate they're not as abrasive as I once thought.

It happens the other way around more often I would say.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *GermanInLondonMan
over a year ago

London

Reflection, hindsight, and trying to understand the other person's view takes time sometimes.

Can take a while but happy to adjust my opinion. A way of learning I think.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

No darling OP. But I’ve been very wrong the other way round making friends with what I thought were genuine people and actually they’ve been utter backstabbing cunts

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"No darling OP. But I’ve been very wrong the other way round making friends with what I thought were genuine people and actually they’ve been utter backstabbing cunts

Ditto

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No darling OP. But I’ve been very wrong the other way round making friends with what I thought were genuine people and actually they’ve been utter backstabbing cunts

They should get lives and live our smol bird alone

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No darling OP. But I’ve been very wrong the other way round making friends with what I thought were genuine people and actually they’ve been utter backstabbing cunts

Ditto

Oh Fife not you too

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

"No darling OP. But I’ve been very wrong the other way round making friends with what I thought were genuine people and actually they’ve been utter backstabbing cunts

Absolutely this

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"No darling OP. But I’ve been very wrong the other way round making friends with what I thought were genuine people and actually they’ve been utter backstabbing cunts

Ditto

Oh Fife not you too

Sadly, my good nature gets abused

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

"No darling OP. But I’ve been very wrong the other way round making friends with what I thought were genuine people and actually they’ve been utter backstabbing cunts

They should get lives and live our smol bird alone

Ah fuck em I say… they certainly don’t feature high on my “being arsed about” list

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

"No darling OP. But I’ve been very wrong the other way round making friends with what I thought were genuine people and actually they’ve been utter backstabbing cunts

Ditto

Oh Fife not you too

Sadly, my good nature gets abused

This makes me sad because you are utterly lovely x

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"No darling OP. But I’ve been very wrong the other way round making friends with what I thought were genuine people and actually they’ve been utter backstabbing cunts

They should get lives and live our smol bird alone

Ah fuck em I say… they certainly don’t feature high on my “being arsed about” list

Your arse is high on my list

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

"No darling OP. But I’ve been very wrong the other way round making friends with what I thought were genuine people and actually they’ve been utter backstabbing cunts

They should get lives and live our smol bird alone

Ah fuck em I say… they certainly don’t feature high on my “being arsed about” list

Your arse is high on my list

Not that high. I’m smol

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No darling OP. But I’ve been very wrong the other way round making friends with what I thought were genuine people and actually they’ve been utter backstabbing cunts

They should get lives and live our smol bird alone

Ah fuck em I say… they certainly don’t feature high on my “being arsed about” list

Your arse is high on my list

Not that high. I’m smol

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No darling OP. But I’ve been very wrong the other way round making friends with what I thought were genuine people and actually they’ve been utter backstabbing cunts

Ditto

Oh Fife not you too

Sadly, my good nature gets abused

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *BWLOVER1965Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

"Have you ever disliked someone and then been like, ‘actually I was wrong about you, you’re alright’ ?

It’s a weird feeling, that. Being wrong. Not sure I like it. "

Nope always right with instinct and first impressions if you’re a prick you’re a prick no changing that male or female

Shit is shit whichever way you coat it

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"No darling OP. But I’ve been very wrong the other way round making friends with what I thought were genuine people and actually they’ve been utter backstabbing cunts

They should get lives and live our smol bird alone

Ah fuck em I say… they certainly don’t feature high on my “being arsed about” list

Your arse is high on my list

Not that high. I’m smol

Beautiful things come in small packages

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It takes me ages to warm up to people

so probably all the time!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No darling OP. But I’ve been very wrong the other way round making friends with what I thought were genuine people and actually they’ve been utter backstabbing cunts

They should get lives and live our smol bird alone

Ah fuck em I say… they certainly don’t feature high on my “being arsed about” list

Your arse is high on my list

Not that high. I’m smol

Beautiful things come in small packages

Don’t be so tough on your little guy I’m sure he’s at least average

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It takes me ages to warm up to people

so probably all the time! "

You’re nice. I like you

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Can't think of anyone no x

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"No darling OP. But I’ve been very wrong the other way round making friends with what I thought were genuine people and actually they’ve been utter backstabbing cunts

They should get lives and live our smol bird alone

Ah fuck em I say… they certainly don’t feature high on my “being arsed about” list

Your arse is high on my list

Not that high. I’m smol

Beautiful things come in small packages

Don’t be so tough on your little guy I’m sure he’s at least average

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was actually caught by this the other day - I fancy him now!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It takes me ages to warm up to people

so probably all the time!

You’re nice. I like you"

Yeah but I've been here for 5 years

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It takes me ages to warm up to people

so probably all the time!

You’re nice. I like you

Yeah but I've been here for 5 years

Omg same! Yess girl

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It takes me ages to warm up to people

so probably all the time!

You’re nice. I like you

Yeah but I've been here for 5 years

Omg same! Yess girl

slow burners

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It takes me ages to warm up to people

so probably all the time!

You’re nice. I like you

Yeah but I've been here for 5 years

Omg same! Yess girl

slow burners "

I am only 26, I got all the time in the world, baby

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope

I doubt anyone changed their mind about me for the better

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"It takes me ages to warm up to people

so probably all the time! "

You're bloody awesome

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It takes me ages to warm up to people

so probably all the time!

You’re nice. I like you

Yeah but I've been here for 5 years

Omg same! Yess girl

slow burners

I am only 26, I got all the time in the world, baby

I'm 53

times running out man

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It takes me ages to warm up to people

so probably all the time!

You’re nice. I like you

Yeah but I've been here for 5 years

Omg same! Yess girl

slow burners

I am only 26, I got all the time in the world, baby

I'm 53

times running out man "

Ah. Sucks to be you

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most people get it wrong and by the time they clicked the damage has been done and it’s to late

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It takes me ages to warm up to people

so probably all the time!

You’re nice. I like you

Yeah but I've been here for 5 years

Omg same! Yess girl

slow burners

I am only 26, I got all the time in the world, baby

I'm 53

times running out man

Ah. Sucks to be you

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

"It takes me ages to warm up to people

so probably all the time!

You’re nice. I like you

Yeah but I've been here for 5 years

Omg same! Yess girl

slow burners

I am only 26, I got all the time in the world, baby

You’re 26 this week then Pickle?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its usually the other way around.

People I thought were good people , turn out not to be.

Usually if I don't like you from the outset, I'm right.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Its usually the other way around.

People I thought were good people , turn out not to be.

Usually if I don't like you from the outset, I'm right. "

Urgh, does that mean I have to keep being "nice"?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its usually the other way around.

People I thought were good people , turn out not to be.

Usually if I don't like you from the outset, I'm right.

Urgh, does that mean I have to keep being "nice"?

yes!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *oldyoudown41Man
over a year ago

caledonian

Many times … once I’ve had a chance to think clearly…

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It takes me ages to warm up to people

so probably all the time!

You’re nice. I like you

Yeah but I've been here for 5 years

Omg same! Yess girl

slow burners

I am only 26, I got all the time in the world, baby

You’re 26 this week then Pickle?

I don’t get it

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It takes me ages to warm up to people

so probably all the time!

You’re nice. I like you

Yeah but I've been here for 5 years

Omg same! Yess girl

slow burners

I am only 26, I got all the time in the world, baby

You’re 26 this week then Pickle?

I don’t get it

I just got it

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It takes me ages to warm up to people

so probably all the time!

You’re nice. I like you

Yeah but I've been here for 5 years

Omg same! Yess girl

slow burners

I am only 26, I got all the time in the world, baby

You’re 26 this week then Pickle?

I don’t get it

I just got it"

No I still don’t get it

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You were right the first time. I am a twat.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *glyBettyTV/TS
over a year ago

About 3 feet away from the fence

My first impression is usually the right one.

By trying to give people I didn't like the opportunity to prove me wrong, often turns out to be just delaying the inevitable.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Yes both ways, I've well maybe not disliked but not liked people then met them in reality and they have been great whereas on fab I'd have not looked twice.

It's why I prefer meeting at socials it's hard to guage a person on here.

Mrs

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

Yea indeed Pickles. Not if I've generally really disliked them but minor 'they sound like a dick' to thinking they're awesome has indeed happened yesh

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
over a year ago

kent

No. I’m always prepared to give people the benefit of the doubt to begin with. But I have experienced the reverse, in that I’ve built friendships with people who for some reason have grown to not like me after a while.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m more of the opposite, I tend to see everyone as alright, until they show me otherwise.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

Post new Message to Thread