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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do ladies like or avoid shy inexperienced guys?

Willing to learn, but would a lady be interested?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do ladies like or avoid shy inexperienced guys?

Willing to learn, but would a lady be interested?"

Some ladies may be well interested. Some may find shy, inexperienced guys not to their taste.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do ladies like or avoid shy inexperienced guys?

Willing to learn, but would a lady be interested?

Some ladies may be well interested. Some may find shy, inexperienced guys not to their taste. "

One lady (part of a couple) is very keen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do ladies like or avoid shy inexperienced guys?

Willing to learn, but would a lady be interested?

Some ladies may be well interested. Some may find shy, inexperienced guys not to their taste.

One lady (part of a couple) is very keen. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do ladies like or avoid shy inexperienced guys?

Willing to learn, but would a lady be interested?

Some ladies may be well interested. Some may find shy, inexperienced guys not to their taste.

One lady (part of a couple) is very keen.

. Results. "

Are there any “milf teach sex” videos out there?

What is your personal video topic, if I may ask?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do ladies like or avoid shy inexperienced guys?

Willing to learn, but would a lady be interested?

Some ladies may be well interested. Some may find shy, inexperienced guys not to their taste.

One lady (part of a couple) is very keen.

. Results.

Are there any “milf teach sex” videos out there?

What is your personal video topic, if I may ask? "

I think the forum on Pornhub may be better suited to you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do ladies like or avoid shy inexperienced guys?

Willing to learn, but would a lady be interested?

Some ladies may be well interested. Some may find shy, inexperienced guys not to their taste.

One lady (part of a couple) is very keen.

. Results.

Are there any “milf teach sex” videos out there?

What is your personal video topic, if I may ask?

I think the forum on Pornhub may be better suited to you"

Thanks for reply. Wasn’t aware of it, but now I am.

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

54 is a bit old to be innocent

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"54 is a bit old to be innocent

Never said innocent. ??

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"54 is a bit old to be innocent

Never said innocent. ??"
omg you're guity then

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"54 is a bit old to be innocent

Never said innocent. ??omg you're guity then

Yes, your Honour !

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By *ayHaychMan
over a year ago

Leeds (Home) / Sheffield (Work)

"54 is a bit old to be innocent

I know someone in my personal life who is in his 30s, is a lovey and great guy, but he’s somewhat socially awkward and now withdrawn himself a bit from trying. He’s never even kissed a woman or been in a relationship. Unless he address the things holding him back, he will probabbly be in his 40s and in the same situation.

I feel sorry for him because I don’t know how realistic it is that he’ll find someone who has patience to let him find his way.

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By *ayHaychMan
over a year ago

Leeds (Home) / Sheffield (Work)

By the way, not saying this is the same for the OP, just highlighting a different perspective.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"54 is a bit old to be innocent

I feel sorry for him because I don’t know how realistic it is that he’ll find someone who has patience to let him find his way. "

Swinger sex is different from regular sex.

Vanilla versus non-vanilla.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"By the way, not saying this is the same for the OP, just highlighting a different perspective. "

Thanks for reply. It’s always good to keep an open mind and learn.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d avoid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I'm lazy and he doesn't know what to do it's not gonna be great is it?

I'm avoiding.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Suppose it’s a bit like a puppy

Most people would love a puppy to come trained

Some prefer to train a puppy themselves so they know it’s trained how they like it

Experience is usually a good thing in guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"54 is a bit old to be innocent

I feel sorry for him because I don’t know how realistic it is that he’ll find someone who has patience to let him find his way. "

Had a really good friend like that growing up. Getting into our late 20s and he didn’t hadn’t done anything, and he would try but just no success

He ended up seeing a bunch of prostitution to get some sexual experience and now he’s in a happy relationship, thankfully

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

"54 is a bit old to be innocent

I feel sorry for him because I don’t know how realistic it is that he’ll find someone who has patience to let him find his way.

Swinger sex is different from regular sex.

Vanilla versus non-vanilla. "

What makes you think swinger sex is different?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do ladies like or avoid shy inexperienced guys?

Willing to learn, but would a lady be interested?

Some ladies may be well interested. Some may find shy, inexperienced guys not to their taste.

One lady (part of a couple) is very keen. "

Be careful. Could be a man looking for wank chat. X

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

"54 is a bit old to be innocent

I feel sorry for him because I don’t know how realistic it is that he’ll find someone who has patience to let him find his way.

Swinger sex is different from regular sex.

Vanilla versus non-vanilla. "

For me it doesn’t differ.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Depends on how inexperienced. I've run the gamut. Just "only experienced vanilla" is fine, in general.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you to everyone that posted replies and private messages.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do ladies like or avoid shy inexperienced guys?

Willing to learn, but would a lady be interested?

Some ladies may be well interested. Some may find shy, inexperienced guys not to their taste.

One lady (part of a couple) is very keen.

Be careful. Could be a man looking for wank chat. X"

I am wary of profiles. Lots of single men with couple or female profiles. Easy to suss them out.

Anyway, I don’t cam and only club meet first. So they are fooling no one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you met someone who you really hit it off with and fancied the pants off would you really turn them away based on lack of experience?

I think it would depend on the dynamic and how well we got along is the honest answer.

I've shown people before what I like in the bedroom, and with my kinks. So as much as I'd say I prefer an experienced partner it's definitely a preference but I'm not completely rigid with it.

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By *ayHaychMan
over a year ago

Leeds (Home) / Sheffield (Work)

"54 is a bit old to be innocent

I feel sorry for him because I don’t know how realistic it is that he’ll find someone who has patience to let him find his way.

Had a really good friend like that growing up. Getting into our late 20s and he didn’t hadn’t done anything, and he would try but just no success

He ended up seeing a bunch of prostitution to get some sexual experience and now he’s in a happy relationship, thankfully "

Yeah I’ve suggested that as a possible way to get over the mind block of it all and realise sex is just sex. I think I half offended him though. I’m glad your mate found his way

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"54 is a bit old to be innocent

I feel sorry for him because I don’t know how realistic it is that he’ll find someone who has patience to let him find his way.

Swinger sex is different from regular sex.

Vanilla versus non-vanilla. "
no difference just supposedly more of it to be had here

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By *ecretsinnersCouple
over a year ago

Yorkshire

I’d avoid as I like to be taken in hand myself. Not through shyness or inexperience. I just like a guy who mostly takes the lead.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

I quite like shy men

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If you met someone who you really hit it off with and fancied the pants off would you really turn them away based on lack of experience?

I think it would depend on the dynamic and how well we got along is the honest answer.

I've shown people before what I like in the bedroom, and with my kinks. So as much as I'd say I prefer an experienced partner it's definitely a preference but I'm not completely rigid with it.

Thanks for reply. A custom built lover rather than one off-the-shelf.

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

MADERIA Wherever I lay my hat

"54 is a bit old to be innocent

I feel sorry for him because I don’t know how realistic it is that he’ll find someone who has patience to let him find his way.

Swinger sex is different from regular sex.

Vanilla versus non-vanilla.

For me it doesn’t differ. "

Yep same for me. There may be more people in the room for swinger sex but the acts and props are the same as 'vanilla' sex

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’d avoid as I like to be taken in hand myself. Not through shyness or inexperience. I just like a guy who mostly takes the lead. "

Thanks for sharing. You two make a good couple.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"54 is a bit old to be innocent

I feel sorry for him because I don’t know how realistic it is that he’ll find someone who has patience to let him find his way.

Swinger sex is different from regular sex.

Vanilla versus non-vanilla.

For me it doesn’t differ.

Yep same for me. There may be more people in the room for swinger sex but the acts and props are the same as 'vanilla' sex"

Thanks for reply. Another perspective.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I quite like shy men

So how do you get shy guys? Unless you approach them.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I don't want to be someone's first Tgirl and have the worry of them going into meltdown, because they think it makes them gay

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

From discussions here, a few don’t mind an inexperienced guy. So best to be frank upfront rather than let the team down.

From discussions read on other topics, majority of ladies seek chemistry and compatibility.

Even though it’s swinging, many still have the same selection criteria as regular dating. Just no long term commitments.

Guys views are generally along the lines of “whatever you want to hear, we will say” and many ladies stated that they are aware of that. So ladies use other methods to filter the guys.

So overall, not as bad as I thought the scene would be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't actively avoid anyone shy but it would be a mismatch of energies on the point of contact, so I believe it naturally wouldn't go too far.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't actively avoid anyone shy but it would be a mismatch of energies on the point of contact, so I believe it naturally wouldn't go too far.

Thanks for reply.

Just learnt that OP’s need to thank ALL posters or none.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer extrovert Men....who are confident out going & not shy ....

But OP I do know some like the shy type too....I don't know why I associate shy with submissive though....

Cos for some shy people once they get to know someone....they can be quite a surprise

I also associate shyness with quite people too....& What do they say....watch the quite ones they're the worst ha....in a good way obvs

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By *oldAndBoundlessMan
over a year ago

Bradford

"I prefer extrovert Men....who are confident out going & not shy ....

But OP I do know some like the shy type too....I don't know why I associate shy with submissive though....

Cos for some shy people once they get to know someone....they can be quite a surprise

I also associate shyness with quiet people too....& What do they say....watch the quiet ones they're the worst ha....in a good way obvs"

I’m right here lol

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By *assy LassieWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

I would avoid. I like a man to take the lead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I prefer extrovert Men....who are confident out going & not shy ....

But OP I do know some like the shy type too....I don't know why I associate shy with submissive though....

Cos for some shy people once they get to know someone....they can be quite a surprise

I also associate shyness with quiet people too....& What do they say....watch the quiet ones they're the worst ha....in a good way obvs

I’m right here lol "

Awh....are you a Shy Boy....really....that's kinda cute

"He used to be a Shy Boy....Till He was My Boy"....ear worm I have now ha....

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"I would avoid. I like a man to take the lead"
from the roof?

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