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"So I’ve been on here 2-3 years - and the last few days I’ve really got some very strange messages!! I don’t want to kink shame, but I’ve received unsolicited stuff I’ve never had in all my time here - diaper pics, comments about animals, much ruder messages than usual, more abuse. Is it just me being unlucky or have others experienced it too? And yes I block and report - mods must be sick of me reporting by now!" It’s not me…I swear! I honestly don’t know what possesses some people to send what they do, but sometimes people post screenshots of messages they have been sent and they are so unnecessary | |||
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"So I’ve been on here 2-3 years - and the last few days I’ve really got some very strange messages!! I don’t want to kink shame, but I’ve received unsolicited stuff I’ve never had in all my time here - diaper pics, comments about animals, much ruder messages than usual, more abuse. Is it just me being unlucky or have others experienced it too? And yes I block and report - mods must be sick of me reporting by now! It’s not me…I swear! I honestly don’t know what possesses some people to send what they do, but sometimes people post screenshots of messages they have been sent and they are so unnecessary " Yeah I’ve really had stranger messages the last week than the past 2 years. Some gross pics too | |||
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"Everyone ran out of new kinks so they just use AI to generate their yum and run with it. I'm into Calligraphy now! "Ooh I love a bit of calligraphy | |||
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"Everyone ran out of new kinks so they just use AI to generate their yum and run with it. I'm into Calligraphy now! "Oh don't...have you seen what you can do with AI on dating apps sites etc. It's scary as hell. | |||
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"So I’ve been on here 2-3 years - and the last few days I’ve really got some very strange messages!! I don’t want to kink shame, but I’ve received unsolicited stuff I’ve never had in all my time here - diaper pics, comments about animals, much ruder messages than usual, more abuse. Is it just me being unlucky or have others experienced it too? And yes I block and report - mods must be sick of me reporting by now!" I've not had any of that. I want to thank you now for reporting them as hopefully saving us other women from the experience. | |||
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"Yeah I’ve had more messages that are quite direct in what they want some bordering on rude. Maybe it’s the time of year, people are bored and think what have they got to lose in asking." Yeah I wondered about it. I have noticed the last few years that I get a lot more messages from guys this time of the year - and also from people that pop up from years and years ago, on here or who has my number from dating sites. I think a lot of single men might feel a bit lonely at Xmas time and reach out to female friends for sex or just a chat. Consciously or sub consciously. But I’ve never had such a spell of really yuck messages | |||
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"So I’ve been on here 2-3 years - and the last few days I’ve really got some very strange messages!! I don’t want to kink shame, but I’ve received unsolicited stuff I’ve never had in all my time here - diaper pics, comments about animals, much ruder messages than usual, more abuse. Is it just me being unlucky or have others experienced it too? And yes I block and report - mods must be sick of me reporting by now! I've not had any of that. I want to thank you now for reporting them as hopefully saving us other women from the experience." My pleasure! It’s just been really really noticeable the last 2 weeks and ramped up the last few days. I wondered if I commented on something or said something inadvertently that brought my profile to attention of a different group of Fab users, if users are changing or …? Just curious! | |||
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"Not just you, they seem to appear a lot more now than ever before! "Boo and ScoobyDoobyDo - thanks, I’m kind of glad it’s not just me, but also sorry to hear this from others! I’d hate to be scared off Fab but I’ve really had some more weird stuff that makes me more reluctant to open messages! | |||
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"Not just you, they seem to appear a lot more now than ever before!
Boo and ScoobyDoobyDo - thanks, I’m kind of glad it’s not just me, but also sorry to hear this from others! I’d hate to be scared off Fab but I’ve really had some more weird stuff that makes me more reluctant to open messages!"Can you not use your filters to prevent such messages? | |||
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"So I’ve been on here 2-3 years - and the last few days I’ve really got some very strange messages!! I don’t want to kink shame, but I’ve received unsolicited stuff I’ve never had in all my time here - diaper pics, comments about animals, much ruder messages than usual, more abuse. Is it just me being unlucky or have others experienced it too? And yes I block and report - mods must be sick of me reporting by now! I've not had any of that. I want to thank you now for reporting them as hopefully saving us other women from the experience. My pleasure! It’s just been really really noticeable the last 2 weeks and ramped up the last few days. I wondered if I commented on something or said something inadvertently that brought my profile to attention of a different group of Fab users, if users are changing or …? Just curious!" It does seem odd. I hope it stops for your sake. | |||
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"So I’ve been on here 2-3 years - and the last few days I’ve really got some very strange messages!! I don’t want to kink shame, but I’ve received unsolicited stuff I’ve never had in all my time here - diaper pics, comments about animals, much ruder messages than usual, more abuse. Is it just me being unlucky or have others experienced it too? And yes I block and report - mods must be sick of me reporting by now!" Not just you I’ve had a few dodgy requests | |||
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"In the summer, on the hottest day I had the most busy mailbox ever & thought it was the heat doing strange things to you girls. Maybe this is the opposite. " Hahah love that! Perhaps! | |||
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"Nothing particularly weird... Well no more than usual. I do find it happens in phases though... Definitely had a few past liaisons come creeping back. One today in fact! It's the cold, dark, lonely nights." I think you are right! Thank heavens for the block button haha! | |||
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"It’s Christmas, there’s something about the way the tinsel tickles our balls, sends a few doolally, normal service shall be resumed in the new year. Please be patient. The me " Hahahah yes x | |||
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