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"I don't lie, I just keep certain things to myself..." That's sensible. Respectful sometimes as well. I don't think not sharing everything is a bad move at all. | |||
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"I don’t think I lie, I may have done. Can’t remember. I just don’t offer information or answer many questions. " Yeah, I kind of expect people to not remember the finer details of what they've said before etc but that's not quite lying. Just people peopleing. | |||
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"You can't handle the truth!" I like you in the colder months, Bella. | |||
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"I can’t remember everything I’ve posted so idk. I’ve probably lied about my experiences with racism and other trauma according to certain posters. Sorry to bring drama Meli. But I can’t help myself " I knew it | |||
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"No what’s the point in lying to complete strangers?!" You're actually a fluffy chicken?? | |||
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"No what’s the point in lying to complete strangers?! You're actually a fluffy chicken??" You e met me, you tell me | |||
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"I don't lie, I just keep certain things to myself..." Ditto | |||
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"Like a cheap watch. You can't believe anything I say." Yes buy you'll be right twice a day lol | |||
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"Yes I do. It isn't wise to be 100% truthful on social media. I don't indulge in bs, sychophancy or faux compliments though." Me neither, Love you , nice frock x | |||
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"I've just started lying and it's such fun. " What was your first lie ? | |||
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"Yes I do. It isn't wise to be 100% truthful on social media. I don't indulge in bs, sychophancy or faux compliments though. Me neither, Love you , nice frock x " Thanks Granny, you look fabulous. | |||
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"But I don't lie, there's huge details I sometimes omit but that's not lying. " Mr here. Actually... A lie of omission is a lie. If a lie is regarded to be the deliberate intent to deceive or conceal, then not revealing the full truth (with that same intent) has to also be regarded as a lie, no? I treat virtually everything on fab (on the forums and on profiles) to be potentially not fully true. I don't like being lied to and I generally don't lie. I will be careful with the truth (neither deliberately lie nor deliberately omit a truth) when needs be. Like others have said, sometimes not revealing a full truth is prudent - I imagine most people know this. Isn't the world of sex often heavily laced with deceit? The prospect of hooking up & getting off can be a powerful motivator. | |||
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"Like a cheap watch. You can't believe anything I say. Yes buy you'll be right twice a day lol" Maybe, but you still won't know when... | |||
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"All the time. Makes Fab life more interesting " Now my husband is staring at me wondering what I'm laughing at. | |||
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"Okay all that say they never lie. Someone you love is hiding in the loft from armed , crazed , hell bent on revenge drug dealers...... The drug dealers burst into your home and ask if you know where your mate is ..... What do you say ?" Yes | |||
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"I'm a terrible liar - mainly because everything I'm thinking is on full display on my traitor face. Suffice to say, I gave up on it ages ago. " Also, too literal! | |||
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"Okay all that say they never lie. Someone you love is hiding in the loft from armed , crazed , hell bent on revenge drug dealers...... The drug dealers burst into your home and ask if you know where your mate is ..... What do you say ? Yes " So then they say ......... Where is he? What do you say ? | |||
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"Okay all that say they never lie. Someone you love is hiding in the loft from armed , crazed , hell bent on revenge drug dealers...... The drug dealers burst into your home and ask if you know where your mate is ..... What do you say ? Yes So then they say ......... Where is he? What do you say ?" Oh I'd tell them, they got themselves in to that mess. Not my job to keep them safe. | |||
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"Okay all that say they never lie. Someone you love is hiding in the loft from armed , crazed , hell bent on revenge drug dealers...... The drug dealers burst into your home and ask if you know where your mate is ..... What do you say ? Yes So then they say ......... Where is he? What do you say ? Oh I'd tell them, they got themselves in to that mess. Not my job to keep them safe. " Good for you for not lying Your mate's dead though You get an honesty sticker | |||
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"Okay all that say they never lie. Someone you love is hiding in the loft from armed , crazed , hell bent on revenge drug dealers...... The drug dealers burst into your home and ask if you know where your mate is ..... What do you say ?" "Leave now or prepare for castration" | |||
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"Okay all that say they never lie. Someone you love is hiding in the loft from armed , crazed , hell bent on revenge drug dealers...... The drug dealers burst into your home and ask if you know where your mate is ..... What do you say ? Yes So then they say ......... Where is he? What do you say ? Oh I'd tell them, they got themselves in to that mess. Not my job to keep them safe. Good for you for not lying Your mate's dead though You get an honesty sticker " They fucked around, and they found out. They and their actions brought this shit in to my home and put me and potentially others I care about at risk. I owe them zero loyalty. Plus I got a sticker out of it. | |||
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"I was about to say no but actually I am full of shit " Wait... All of your detailed posts are not true? | |||
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"Okay all that say they never lie. Someone you love is hiding in the loft from armed , crazed , hell bent on revenge drug dealers...... The drug dealers burst into your home and ask if you know where your mate is ..... What do you say ? Yes So then they say ......... Where is he? What do you say ? Oh I'd tell them, they got themselves in to that mess. Not my job to keep them safe. Good for you for not lying Your mate's dead though You get an honesty sticker " Not my circus not my monkeys. I'm already going to have to pay for a new door because they brought that shit to my home | |||
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"I was about to say no but actually I am full of shit Wait... All of your detailed posts are not true? " Maybe. Did you know that in 2017 I fought a battle in the aisle of Tesco and I succumbed to my cucumber. | |||
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"I was about to say no but actually I am full of shit Wait... All of your detailed posts are not true? Maybe. Did you know that in 2017 I fought a battle in the aisle of Tesco and I succumbed to my cucumber." See! I don't know if you are being honest or not now. | |||
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"Okay all that say they never lie. Someone you love is hiding in the loft from armed , crazed , hell bent on revenge drug dealers...... The drug dealers burst into your home and ask if you know where your mate is ..... What do you say ? Yes So then they say ......... Where is he? What do you say ? Oh I'd tell them, they got themselves in to that mess. Not my job to keep them safe. Good for you for not lying Your mate's dead though You get an honesty sticker They fucked around, and they found out. They and their actions brought this shit in to my home and put me and potentially others I care about at risk. I owe them zero loyalty. Plus I got a sticker out of it. " Winner Winner ! | |||
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"Okay all that say they never lie. Someone you love is hiding in the loft from armed , crazed , hell bent on revenge drug dealers...... The drug dealers burst into your home and ask if you know where your mate is ..... What do you say ? Yes So then they say ......... Where is he? What do you say ? Oh I'd tell them, they got themselves in to that mess. Not my job to keep them safe. Good for you for not lying Your mate's dead though You get an honesty sticker Not my circus not my monkeys. I'm already going to have to pay for a new door because they brought that shit to my home " Shit...... I thought I was harsh but you are harsh with knobs on ! | |||
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"Okay all that say they never lie. Someone you love is hiding in the loft from armed , crazed , hell bent on revenge drug dealers...... The drug dealers burst into your home and ask if you know where your mate is ..... What do you say ? Yes So then they say ......... Where is he? What do you say ?" He’s down at the police station making a statement about you lot… | |||
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"Shit...... I thought I was harsh but you are harsh with knobs on ! " Is it harsh? Without some further context this is someone I care about deciding that they can bring a shitstorm to my door and put my life at risk to save their own skin when I have no informed involvement. They've demonstrated what my life, safety, home and wellbeing mean to them. I may have thought they were my friend before that moment. Why is it my job to then lie and give the people after them a reason to come back and react to the fact I lied to their faces? | |||
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"Shit...... I thought I was harsh but you are harsh with knobs on ! Is it harsh? Without some further context this is someone I care about deciding that they can bring a shitstorm to my door and put my life at risk to save their own skin when I have no informed involvement. They've demonstrated what my life, safety, home and wellbeing mean to them. I may have thought they were my friend before that moment. Why is it my job to then lie and give the people after them a reason to come back and react to the fact I lied to their faces?" Cos he's your son ???? | |||
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"Cos he's your son ????" You said someone I love. Can't be changing the rules halfway through | |||
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"on the forums? Big, small whatever. Is everything you post 100% the truth or is there more of a grey area? " Of course not! | |||
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"No what’s the point in lying to complete strangers?! You're actually a fluffy chicken?? You e met me, you tell me " You did walk a bit funny | |||
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"Cos he's your son ???? You said someone I love. Can't be changing the rules halfway through " C'mon ...... that's not a rule change. It is more context. | |||
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"I omit that I've fucked 90 percent of the women here because I want to complete the other 10. Other than that the only lie I've said is the above." What, you've shagged 10% of the women on here and are aiming for the other 90%? Lol | |||
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"Cos he's your son ???? You said someone I love. Can't be changing the rules halfway through C'mon ...... that's not a rule change. It is more context. " Zero maternal instinct even if I were capable of breeding. Cannot fathom the concept of loving a son. You can't choose your family. But you can sell them out | |||
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"Ha ! I did say husband first. Would that have had more pull ?" Depends. What's his life insurance policy like? And why isn't he hiding at his own home? | |||
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"Ha ! I did say husband first. Would that have had more pull ? Depends. What's his life insurance policy like? And why isn't he hiding at his own home?" Paid up and worth a pretty penny! No idea. He values his cushions. | |||
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"Ha ! I did say husband first. Would that have had more pull ? Depends. What's his life insurance policy like? And why isn't he hiding at his own home? Paid up and worth a pretty penny! No idea. He values his cushions. " He values his cushions more than me? I'll give them the guided tour of his possible escape routes on the way up | |||
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"Ha ! I did say husband first. Would that have had more pull ? Depends. What's his life insurance policy like? And why isn't he hiding at his own home? Paid up and worth a pretty penny! No idea. He values his cushions. He values his cushions more than me? I'll give them the guided tour of his possible escape routes on the way up " I think his love for cushions tells you what you had suspected for a long time. I have a feeling that it wouldn't take much for you to do it for them....... harsh | |||
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"Cos he's your son ???? You said someone I love. Can't be changing the rules halfway through C'mon ...... that's not a rule change. It is more context. Zero maternal instinct even if I were capable of breeding. Cannot fathom the concept of loving a son. You can't choose your family. But you can sell them out " I'd lie in the face of an armed intruder for my son, daughter, grandchildren. | |||
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"I think his love for cushions tells you what you had suspected for a long time. I have a feeling that it wouldn't take much for you to do it for them....... harsh " Honestly I just want to know how the charlatan got me to marry him in the first place when I'm tremendously against the whole concept. Maybe I could ask them to torture it out of him before they go | |||
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"Meli, Are you doing research for a uni assignment ?" Ha, no. My uni days are a good few years ago now. It's called being a nosy soul. | |||
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"Okay all that say they never lie. Someone you love is hiding in the loft from armed , crazed , hell bent on revenge drug dealers...... The drug dealers burst into your home and ask if you know where your mate is ..... What do you say ?" Which friend? I've no idea where they all are at this precise moment!!! | |||
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"on the forums? Big, small whatever. Is everything you post 100% the truth or is there more of a grey area? " nothing fake with us | |||
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"Of course I lie. How else I’m I supposed to get my dick wet. The mr " Yeah, fair point. | |||
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"I try to be honest. If I dont want to mention certain details then I avoid it. " Yes. You can side step things without lying. I think omitting details really isn't quite the same as lying. Or forgetting details because, let's face it, the average age for for a forum user is going to be, what, 48? It'll happen. I do sometimes read posts and think "why" but then remember I can spend that energy elsewhere. | |||
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"I try to be honest. If I dont want to mention certain details then I avoid it. Yes. You can side step things without lying. I think omitting details really isn't quite the same as lying. Or forgetting details because, let's face it, the average age for for a forum user is going to be, what, 48? It'll happen. I do sometimes read posts and think "why" but then remember I can spend that energy elsewhere." You think ‘why’? For people answering honestly? | |||
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"100% Trut Here ....If I don't want people to know certain things about me.... I'll just say nothing at all rather than lie …. " All we need are your stats and when you’re free! | |||
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"I try to be honest. If I dont want to mention certain details then I avoid it. Yes. You can side step things without lying. I think omitting details really isn't quite the same as lying. Or forgetting details because, let's face it, the average age for for a forum user is going to be, what, 48? It'll happen. I do sometimes read posts and think "why" but then remember I can spend that energy elsewhere. You think ‘why’? For people answering honestly? " No, about people lying. I'm all for people speaking honestly. I like authenticity, I don't mind it if people waffle on if it's how they honestly feel. | |||
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"I try to be honest. If I dont want to mention certain details then I avoid it. Yes. You can side step things without lying. I think omitting details really isn't quite the same as lying. Or forgetting details because, let's face it, the average age for for a forum user is going to be, what, 48? It'll happen. I do sometimes read posts and think "why" but then remember I can spend that energy elsewhere. You think ‘why’? For people answering honestly? No, about people lying. I'm all for people speaking honestly. I like authenticity, I don't mind it if people waffle on if it's how they honestly feel. " Ahh, when you read something and you know they leave out the important stuff? | |||
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"I don’t lie. I don’t see the point. I’ve told a lot of truths in the forum (and some I haven’t) and much to my detriment. People on fab don’t want truth or a real person, they want fantasies, so much of the crap I come out with is just a reply as the truth is boring to some. I also know the difference between a lie, and deception. Just because someone doesn’t ask, some people think they are not lying. " I don't know if it's so much people want a fantasy but there's definitely an element of escapism/people saying things for comedic effect. I do the latter because I can't quite take myself too seriously, nor certain threads. Yes, I get the final paragraph. | |||
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"Okay all that say they never lie. Someone you love is hiding in the loft from armed , crazed , hell bent on revenge drug dealers...... The drug dealers burst into your home and ask if you know where your mate is ..... What do you say ?" Bold of you to assume that forumites are capable of love | |||
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