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By *inky Chef OP   Man
49 weeks ago

Norwich

I need just a little.

It's not a negative thread.

Need to have a shave and cut my hair, but I'm not in the mood.

Don't want to look like Jesus anymore.

I'm not feeling down, but I didn't even leave the flat in almost for days, so need a push.

4 days off work wasted.

I'm in the "Whatever/IDGAF period I guess.

Eye of the storm maybe.

I don't need advice, because I deal with myself in my entire life, so I can always sort out my shit.

Just a little confidence boost please, so I will look like a man again when I go back to work tomorrow.

Really need to shave and cut my hair.

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2 questions...

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1. Would you have a coffee date with me, if you all wouldn't live 100-300 miles away?

2. Would you fuck my brain out, if I'd be the last man standing?

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By *inky Chef OP   Man
49 weeks ago

Norwich

So far it won't even get me out of the bed.

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

Yes I'd have a coffee meet with you.

As for sex with you, well if you grow boobs and a fanny then quite possibly I would

Try and find some confidence in yourself for who you are though, stand tall and be proud of you.

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

Worst thing you can do is look for self validation through others. Back yourself, have confidence in what you bring to the table and the when you find the right people, you won't need to ask you'll just know.

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

I wouldn't either but that's not a reflection on you, I wouldn't with anyone off here.

But you shouldn't put your own worth in someone else's hands, fuck what other people think and like you for you.

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By *inky Chef OP   Man
49 weeks ago

Norwich


"Yes I'd have a coffee meet with you.

As for sex with you, well if you grow boobs and a fanny then quite possibly I would

Try and find some confidence in yourself for who you are though, stand tall and be proud of you."

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I have kind of man boobs and I can take a hard pegging.

Doesn't smell too mannish usually, but I have some body hair.

I have confidence, but without other tools I don't get anywhere here.

As I mentioned, it doesn't matter anymore .

Don't care and feel better.

No pressure.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
49 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Honestly, no. Through our interactions, we have clearly established that we are deeply incompatible people, and that's okay. Doesn't mean I'm wrong or lesser. It doesn't mean you're wrong or lesser. There's just no point in us trying to connect.

Try not to let other people's opinions define your self worth or confidence. You are more than most people will ever see. And if someone isn't your people, it doesn't matter if you don't get along.

Just because we don't gel doesn't mean I don't hope you feel better soon. I overnegatived that to death and now can't tell if it's what I mean to say. But oh well. Hopefully, you get the gist of the word vomit.

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By *inky Chef OP   Man
49 weeks ago

Norwich


"Worst thing you can do is look for self validation through others. Back yourself, have confidence in what you bring to the table and the when you find the right people, you won't need to ask you'll just know."

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It was going to be a weird funny thread, but not too serious.

I guess I overdosed the weird part again.

Thanks anyway.

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By *inky Chef OP   Man
49 weeks ago

Norwich


"I wouldn't either but that's not a reflection on you, I wouldn't with anyone off here.

But you shouldn't put your own worth in someone else's hands, fuck what other people think and like you for you.

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Please tell me it's, because you're not a fan of people in general.

I would take it as positive as it gets.

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By *parkle1974Woman
49 weeks ago

Leeds

Honestly OP....no and no.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
49 weeks ago

Reading

You know i would.

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

Roland Roland Roland

What ya doing tomorrow?

If your home, get a good sleep tonight. Tomorrow have a long hot bath or shower, do somewhere grooming if YOU want to, have a good meal and go for a walk, take in the air, breathe deep. How you feel about yourself in them moments...try to breathe out the negative

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By *inky Chef OP   Man
49 weeks ago

Norwich


"Honestly, no. Through our interactions, we have clearly established that we are deeply incompatible people, and that's okay. Doesn't mean I'm wrong or lesser. It doesn't mean you're wrong or lesser. There's just no point in us trying to connect.

Try not to let other people's opinions define your self worth or confidence. You are more than most people will ever see. And if someone isn't your people, it doesn't matter if you don't get along.

Just because we don't gel doesn't mean I don't hope you feel better soon. I overnegatived that to death and now can't tell if it's what I mean to say. But oh well. Hopefully, you get the gist of the word vomit."

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It was more you than we, but you have a point there.

You are a bit too spicy.

Actually you are the only woman who I find interesting in many ways, but sometimes nicely(or not) intimidating.

It is exactly good how it is.

It is what it is with no labels.

Thanks for your another interesting comment.

Getting up to have a coffee right now.

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By *inky Chef OP   Man
49 weeks ago

Norwich


"You know i would. "

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Thanks

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By *inky Chef OP   Man
49 weeks ago

Norwich

Honestly it's not a negative thread.

I started with explaining that straight away.

Put some funnyISH stuff in it as well.

I guess I explained a bit too long my slightly antisocial last for days.

I am reasonably confident and reasonably positive.

I honestly expected it to be just kind of making fun of my mysery.

I came across wrong again, sorry.

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

No and no.

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

OP you are a chef. If you ever decided to be a serial killer you have the means to dispose of the evidence and make money from it.

Look to the positives in life

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By *eordieJeansCouple
49 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

I’d go for a pint with you. I’m straight so I’m not going to fuck you… sorry.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
49 weeks ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Why not yes to both? You seem a decent and nice chap

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By *illy IdolMan
49 weeks ago

Midlands

I'd certainly have a beer with you, Roland.

Don't put so much pressure on yourself here. Just try to enjoy the forums for the nonsense they are and you never know what might crop up in the future.

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
49 weeks ago

Southampton

I'd certainly have a coffee with you not sure about the sex it would depend how the coffee went...

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago


"OP you are a chef. If you ever decided to be a serial killer you have the means to dispose of the evidence and make money from it.

Look to the positives in life "

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
49 weeks ago

little house on the praire

If I was meeting I'd have a coffee with you but no sex. I like you but not sure I get your sense of humour it might come across better in real life

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By *aitonelMan
49 weeks ago

Liverpool

No and no.

Neither of those answers have any direct connection to or about yourself. The vast majority of people would get the same answer from me.

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
49 weeks ago

Southampton


"No and no.

Neither of those answers have any direct connection to or about yourself. The vast majority of people would get the same answer from me. "

Charming lol

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By *inky Chef OP   Man
49 weeks ago

Norwich

Again...

I didn't meant to give the vibe of feeling sorry for myself, or expecting anybody make me feel better.

It just went the wrong way.

It meant to be ironically funny.

Every single person misunderstood it, but obviously it's my fault.

Most were actually nice and thanks for that.

A couple of people literally just wanted to be evil.

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago


"Worst thing you can do is look for self validation through others. Back yourself, have confidence in what you bring to the table and the when you find the right people, you won't need to ask you'll just know."

Good advice. Thanks for sharing.

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