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"Sex change" Pretty radical. When did you decide that's what you wanted to do? | |||
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"That I would no longer willingly participate in passive eugenics. It's required me to radically alter my life, cut off a lot of people, and keep many more on online only." Did they cut you off or you them? | |||
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"That I would no longer willingly participate in passive eugenics. It's required me to radically alter my life, cut off a lot of people, and keep many more on online only. Did they cut you off or you them? " I cut them off. | |||
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"That I would no longer willingly participate in passive eugenics. It's required me to radically alter my life, cut off a lot of people, and keep many more on online only. Did they cut you off or you them? I cut them off." Because of their attitude towards you or that you didn't agree with their position on the matter? Just curious. | |||
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"That I would no longer willingly participate in passive eugenics. It's required me to radically alter my life, cut off a lot of people, and keep many more on online only. Did they cut you off or you them? I cut them off. Because of their attitude towards you or that you didn't agree with their position on the matter? Just curious." Their general attitude became something I could no longer abide, and/ or they were combative about the way in which I lived my life. | |||
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"That I would no longer willingly participate in passive eugenics. It's required me to radically alter my life, cut off a lot of people, and keep many more on online only. Did they cut you off or you them? I cut them off. Because of their attitude towards you or that you didn't agree with their position on the matter? Just curious. Their general attitude became something I could no longer abide, and/ or they were combative about the way in which I lived my life. " Definitely not friends then, regardless of the subject, that's not how it works. | |||
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"Not as radical as I would like but I think going veggie, openly living as a poly person and formally regularly challenging my employers on racism and culture are *relatively* radical changes I’ve made to my life. I hope in my life I can make more radical changes some day like move country, live on a commune, go vegan " | |||
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"That I would no longer willingly participate in passive eugenics. It's required me to radically alter my life, cut off a lot of people, and keep many more on online only." FFS! Now I need to google “passive eugenics” to see wtf that means. | |||
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"Probably deciding that I am enough "I like this response  | |||
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"What's the most radical decision you've ever made? " Joining the military. But I wouldn't have met my husband and be where I am without those experiences. | |||
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"I think I could be on the verge of making one now. I'm being promoted to a job with much more responsibility but for an absolutely disgusting pay rise. I really feel like walking." *** Just turn it down. It will make you feel better. They offered the head chef position after 12 years in the hotel. I turned it down for many reasons. They were all surprised, kind of chin dropped. I left a few months later, because it was effecting me, but still didn't regret it. Fuck them! | |||
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"I think I could be on the verge of making one now. I'm being promoted to a job with much more responsibility but for an absolutely disgusting pay rise. I really feel like walking. *** Just turn it down. It will make you feel better. They offered the head chef position after 12 years in the hotel. I turned it down for many reasons. They were all surprised, kind of chin dropped. I left a few months later, because it was effecting me, but still didn't regret it. Fuck them! "I have said no to their proposal and asked for them to reconsider the offer. | |||
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"I think I could be on the verge of making one now. I'm being promoted to a job with much more responsibility but for an absolutely disgusting pay rise. I really feel like walking. *** Just turn it down. It will make you feel better. They offered the head chef position after 12 years in the hotel. I turned it down for many reasons. They were all surprised, kind of chin dropped. I left a few months later, because it was effecting me, but still didn't regret it. Fuck them!
I have said no to their proposal and asked for them to reconsider the offer."*** Good  | |||
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"“ Passive eugenics were historical forms of sexual and reproductive control that occurred through sequestering people who were seen as unsuited to reproduction. These were not biomedical interventions but sought social means including institutionalization, isolation, and immigration laws that prevented ‘undesirables’ from breeding.” I’m not much wiser. I understand the term now but have no clue to what was being referred to." Would that be for example preventing people with downs syndrome for example from having children by way of forced sterilisation/contraception etc ?? | |||
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"dick extension,," How much did it cost out of interest? | |||
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"“ Passive eugenics were historical forms of sexual and reproductive control that occurred through sequestering people who were seen as unsuited to reproduction. These were not biomedical interventions but sought social means including institutionalization, isolation, and immigration laws that prevented ‘undesirables’ from breeding.” I’m not much wiser. I understand the term now but have no clue to what was being referred to. Would that be for example preventing people with downs syndrome for example from having children by way of forced sterilisation/contraception etc ??" No. That’s active eugenics. Fucking horrible | |||
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"“ Passive eugenics were historical forms of sexual and reproductive control that occurred through sequestering people who were seen as unsuited to reproduction. These were not biomedical interventions but sought social means including institutionalization, isolation, and immigration laws that prevented ‘undesirables’ from breeding.” I’m not much wiser. I understand the term now but have no clue to what was being referred to. Would that be for example preventing people with downs syndrome for example from having children by way of forced sterilisation/contraception etc ?? No. That’s active eugenics. Fucking horrible" Ah ok... Time to educate myself | |||
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Done it a couple of times now…. Only for 6 months at a time … but sometimes you just got to give things a try.
In fact … I might be due another one… hmmm where to go next ? | |||
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"To stop using words like Tubular Cool Dude Dingus And other such Edward furlongisms " So you're terminating their use ?? Lol | |||
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"Walking away from an employer after 34 years. Simply because I could do my job blindfolded, saved them £1000s in fuel costs and had my dept running as smoothly as it had ever done and they "forgot" me when making presentations to long serving staff and management. They have made numerous vain attempts over the last 4 years to get me back." Did you go nuclear and walk out there and then? Or did you give it some time? And did you line something up to move to? | |||
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"Walking away from an employer after 34 years. Simply because I could do my job blindfolded, saved them £1000s in fuel costs and had my dept running as smoothly as it had ever done and they "forgot" me when making presentations to long serving staff and management. They have made numerous vain attempts over the last 4 years to get me back. Did you go nuclear and walk out there and then? Or did you give it some time? And did you line something up to move to? " I put my first ever CV on a business site and the very next day got invited for an interview the following week and offered the role at the interview. | |||
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"Walking away from an employer after 34 years. Simply because I could do my job blindfolded, saved them £1000s in fuel costs and had my dept running as smoothly as it had ever done and they "forgot" me when making presentations to long serving staff and management. They have made numerous vain attempts over the last 4 years to get me back. Did you go nuclear and walk out there and then? Or did you give it some time? And did you line something up to move to? I put my first ever CV on a business site and the very next day got invited for an interview the following week and offered the role at the interview. " Cool! Did you do that while still in employment in the original job? | |||
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"Walking away from an employer after 34 years. Simply because I could do my job blindfolded, saved them £1000s in fuel costs and had my dept running as smoothly as it had ever done and they "forgot" me when making presentations to long serving staff and management. They have made numerous vain attempts over the last 4 years to get me back. Did you go nuclear and walk out there and then? Or did you give it some time? And did you line something up to move to? I put my first ever CV on a business site and the very next day got invited for an interview the following week and offered the role at the interview. Cool! Did you do that while still in employment in the original job? " Outside working hours. Handed in my notice the next day and because I had been there so long they allowed me to work whatever notice I wanted so I said 2 weeks. They made no attempt to keep me but 6 months later and after 3 others had tried and failed they wanted me to come back. I've never been tempted even though the new job was cut short as a direct consequence of covid lockdowns. | |||
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"Walking away from an employer after 34 years. Simply because I could do my job blindfolded, saved them £1000s in fuel costs and had my dept running as smoothly as it had ever done and they "forgot" me when making presentations to long serving staff and management. They have made numerous vain attempts over the last 4 years to get me back. Did you go nuclear and walk out there and then? Or did you give it some time? And did you line something up to move to? I put my first ever CV on a business site and the very next day got invited for an interview the following week and offered the role at the interview. Cool! Did you do that while still in employment in the original job? Outside working hours. Handed in my notice the next day and because I had been there so long they allowed me to work whatever notice I wanted so I said 2 weeks. They made no attempt to keep me but 6 months later and after 3 others had tried and failed they wanted me to come back. I've never been tempted even though the new job was cut short as a direct consequence of covid lockdowns. " thanks for the reply. Sounds like you made the correct decision for you. Fair play | |||
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