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When you call someone bro does it have any gender

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By *usman 199 OP   Man
49 weeks ago

Stockport

See folk at work addressing lady members aswell .

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
49 weeks ago

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Pretty sure it doesn't actually

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
49 weeks ago

BRIDPORT

Wouldn’t it be sis for female.

DISCLAIMER I have no foreign language qualifications.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
49 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

I’ve never called someone bro and I don’t think I ever will but I’d probably find it odd to hear someone call a woman bro

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
49 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

I call many people bro.

But if someone expresses they're not comfortable with that, I don't call them it any more

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By *aitonelMan
49 weeks ago

Liverpool


"I’ve never called someone bro and I don’t think I ever will but I’d probably find it odd to hear someone call a woman bro "

You're just not with it, bro.

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By *entlemanrogueMan
49 weeks ago

Motherwell

I worked with fem, who referred to their past selves like this "When i was a wee guy.."

rhis happened a few times over the first few days and I had to double check if they were transitioning or not

this was years ago now though, things like that dont even make me think twice, it ls so normalised in my social circle

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By *ora the explorerWoman
49 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts


"I’ve never called someone bro and I don’t think I ever will but I’d probably find it odd to hear someone call a woman bro

You're just not with it, bro."

I’m good with that

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
49 weeks ago

Somewhere else

I only call my mother “bro.”

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

I've called it men and women. Same as mate, men think I'm friendzoning them but it's just how I talk

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

I don't use bro, but using "guys" for a collective group of people including women has been a hard habit to break

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By *immyinreadingMan
49 weeks ago

henley on thames


"See folk at work addressing lady members aswell . "

I realised I was hopelessly out of touch recently when I was at a golf driving range and a bunch of young guys were in the next bay … they finished every single sentence with the word “cuz”

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
49 weeks ago

Somewhere else


"I don't use bro, but using "guys" for a collective group of people including women has been a hard habit to break "

Well clearly you’re a monster.

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

Bro, bruv, girl, sis are all terms I’ve seen used towards people of all genders.

But I’d only call someone any of those things if I liked them.

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By *ebauchedDeviantsPt2Couple
49 weeks ago

Cumbria

Language is constantly changing and evolving, a few years ago I’d have assumed it was masculine but these days there’s no gender meaning to it.

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By *ylonseeker2023Man
49 weeks ago

Harwich

Very popular like women calling me 'mate' .....never met them before, but mate.

For me it's so ugly and so not feminine. I'd somehow accept it from a brickie or someone when I'm on site...

Yeah, 'bro', short for brother which used to be masculine, that was before he became a Haribo, but a female one.

Yeah, great innit bro

If someone calls me 'bro', is that mucher better dan callin me 'mate', innit?

M

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By *ullyMan
49 weeks ago

Near Clacton

I don't use the term and don't like being addressed as such.Though as it is short for brother, I assume it also applies to females in a trade union.

I also personally deplore since the start of the "tinternet" total strangers, companies etc etc addressing me by my first name in communications. I much preferred the good old respectful Mr, or Mrs, Miss Master etc. All too bloody familiar these days and I don't think it good manners or good etiquette.

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago


"I don't use bro, but using "guys" for a collective group of people including women has been a hard habit to break

Well clearly you’re a monster.

"

Just cancel me now

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By *ora the explorerWoman
49 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts


"Bro, bruv, girl, sis are all terms I’ve seen used towards people of all genders.

But I’d only call someone any of those things if I liked them. "

I’m safe then

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By *ylonseeker2023Man
49 weeks ago

Harwich


"I don't use the term and don't like being addressed as such.Though as it is short for brother, I assume it also applies to females in a trade union.

I also personally deplore since the start of the "tinternet" total strangers, companies etc etc addressing me by my first name in communications. I much preferred the good old respectful Mr, or Mrs, Miss Master etc. All too bloody familiar these days and I don't think it good manners or good etiquette. "

Feck, you are as old fashioned as me! Tbh, glad someone sees it similarly to myself.

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By *ellhungvweMan
49 weeks ago

Cheltenham

It is one of those phrases that I find amusing because I feel people who use it are trying just a little too hard. But then I am old so what do I know?

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
49 weeks ago

Somewhere else


"I don't use bro, but using "guys" for a collective group of people including women has been a hard habit to break

Well clearly you’re a monster.

Just cancel me now "

But I like monsters

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
49 weeks ago

Somewhere else


"I don't use the term and don't like being addressed as such.Though as it is short for brother, I assume it also applies to females in a trade union.

I also personally deplore since the start of the "tinternet" total strangers, companies etc etc addressing me by my first name in communications. I much preferred the good old respectful Mr, or Mrs, Miss Master etc. All too bloody familiar these days and I don't think it good manners or good etiquette. "

Call me m’aam. Watch what happens.

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By *hrek101Man
49 weeks ago

Herts

In jiu-jitsu everyone gets bro'd no matter the gender especially if I can't remember their name

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

It’s gender neutral

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

I still associate Bro with men, otherwise Sister would equally apply?

I do consider ‘guys’ and ‘tart’ gender neutral so I’m probably just a bit behind the social idiom curve..

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

An ex used to occasionally call me bruv.

Was weird. Didn't like it.

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By *r SensualMan
49 weeks ago

London

I only ever refer to men by the term “bro”

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By *heekyDemandCouple
49 weeks ago

Leicester

(Mr)

I regularly address my OH as "dude?" or "dafuq, bro?"

I think it conveys appropriate sentiment

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By *ora the explorerWoman
49 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts


"I still associate Bro with men, otherwise Sister would equally apply?

I do consider ‘guys’ and ‘tart’ gender neutral so I’m probably just a bit behind the social idiom curve.."

Yeah guys I get can be neutral. Wouldn’t use that either though to be honest

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By *ete le MeatMan
49 weeks ago

Derbyshire/ Notts

Is this something people are actually digesting and taking seriously? What has happened to us all?

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

Bro is defo masculine term… and I only refer to my brothers as brother … everyone else is guys .. guys seems to work for both sexes but I think bro is not something I’d refer to anyone as let alone a women … just not for me…

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By *hrek101Man
49 weeks ago

Herts


"Is this something people are actually digesting and taking seriously? What has happened to us all?

"

Calm down bro

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago


"I still associate Bro with men, otherwise Sister would equally apply?

I do consider ‘guys’ and ‘tart’ gender neutral so I’m probably just a bit behind the social idiom curve..

Yeah guys I get can be neutral. Wouldn’t use that either though to be honest "

I don't use them, but I do acknowledge them. Except 'tart', which I apply as a term of tolerant endearment....

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago


"It’s gender neutral "

Trust me bro

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago


"Bro, bruv, girl, sis are all terms I’ve seen used towards people of all genders.

But I’d only call someone any of those things if I liked them.

I’m safe then "

Not anymore, Nora. Not anymore

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By *inky ChefMan
49 weeks ago

Norwich

If a woman wants to turn me off, then calling me bro or mate does the job.

Half past 6 and even the horny thoughts disappear.

It's feels a bit they either put you in the friend zone or they are less feminine.

Less feminine behaviour can mean dominant too, which would actually turn me on.

Not sure where I'm going with this... anyway.

I actually don't call anyone bro or mate, but I wasn't born here.

Man calling me mate and it's kind of traditional/normal.

Bro is a bit chavy or confused about the shade of my skin.

Not taking it as an offence.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
49 weeks ago

little house on the praire

Never used the word and not about too but guess its more geared for a man

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By *hisismeXXXMan
49 weeks ago

Welsh Wales

I frequently use ‘guys’ when addressing a mixed group of people, regardless of gender. I see it as more of a collective term than a gender specific individual one.

Nobody seems to mind/take offence. If they did I’d happily listen to what they say.

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