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By *aith Skynbyrd OP   Woman
49 weeks ago

Somewhere else

… a misogynist?

Can a man be a radical femin*zi?

Discuss.

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By *aggonerMan
49 weeks ago

for a penny

There seem to be plenty of men trying to be radical feminists in case it makes them appeal to “the ladies”.

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By *inky ChefMan
49 weeks ago

Norwich


"… a misogynist?

Can a man be a radical femin*zi?

Discuss."

***

Yes and yes, but I'm afraid to get into it deeper in public.

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
49 weeks ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Yes.

Mrs TMN x

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By *naswingdressWoman
49 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

Yes

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By *aith Skynbyrd OP   Woman
49 weeks ago

Somewhere else

For those who say yes. What does it look like?

What are the indicators of a male radical feminist?

What are the indicators of a female misogynist?

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By *aith Skynbyrd OP   Woman
49 weeks ago

Somewhere else

Oh, and where do trans people come into all this?

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

Absolutely

People exists on both sides

Many men push the radical feminism stuff because they think it’ll get them laid

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

Female misogyny arguable demonstrated in the hausfrau philosophy of late 1930s Germany (and version branches of the US GOP today eg Tea Party)

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By *aith Skynbyrd OP   Woman
49 weeks ago

Somewhere else


"Female misogyny arguable demonstrated in the hausfrau philosophy of late 1930s Germany (and version branches of the US GOP today eg Tea Party) "

If Ann Coulter verifies me on fab, does that mean I’m one, too?

;-)

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By *aith Skynbyrd OP   Woman
49 weeks ago

Somewhere else

So the term “White Knight”…

Is that a male feminist?

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By *aith Skynbyrd OP   Woman
49 weeks ago

Somewhere else

Too grim for a December morning?

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago


"Female misogyny arguable demonstrated in the hausfrau philosophy of late 1930s Germany (and version branches of the US GOP today eg Tea Party)

If Ann Coulter verifies me on fab, does that mean I’m one, too?

;-)"

I’d respond but it risks veering into politics …

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By *aith Skynbyrd OP   Woman
49 weeks ago

Somewhere else

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By *aith Skynbyrd OP   Woman
49 weeks ago

Somewhere else


"Too grim for a December morning?"

Yep. Too grim. Soz all!

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago


"Too grim for a December morning?

Yep. Too grim. Soz all! "

Nice change from rate my whatever, profile advice and general simping in the forums

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By *rHotNottsMan
49 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"There seem to be plenty of men trying to be radical feminists in case it makes them appeal to “the ladies”. "

What do you mean by radical ?

I’ve been interested in feminism and been involved in activism since having daughters but not the mainstream kind, the kind that works to give women equality and a better chance of reaching their potential. If anything it puts women off !

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
49 weeks ago

Southampton


"… a misogynist?

Can a man be a radical femin*zi?

Discuss."

Definitely

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
49 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross

Yes to both. I've come across women who are misogynistic and ignorant enough to not be able to imagine that they could be. A few of my very good male friends are feminists and that's just as well really.

Why did you use the word feminAZI ?

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

Anybody can define themself as they wish.

Do I always understand it? No.

But don’t just jump on the perceived band wagon to win favour

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
49 weeks ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I think all things are possible with people

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

I dislike everyone equally regardless of gender.

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By *naswingdressWoman
49 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

I don't want to dig into this here, it'd be a bloodbath

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By *heekyDemandCouple
49 weeks ago

Leicester


"I dislike everyone equally regardless of gender."

Ah, Misanthropic, the only true bar of equality

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

I just think in the case of women being misogynists, I usually just describe it as internalised self hate?

I suppose like how Black people can be anti black, belonging to a group doesn’t mean you can’t be anti that group.

Can men be feminists? Well that’s a complicated question.

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago


"I don't want to dig into this here, it'd be a bloodbath "
speak your truth

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By *naswingdressWoman
49 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I don't want to dig into this here, it'd be a bloodbath speak your truth "

My truth is I ain't got the spoons for that fight.

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
49 weeks ago

Bristol

Yes to both

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

The idea that men support women’s liberation movements or are supportive of women’s resistance because they think it will get them laid is such a lazy, ironically misogynistic, but also unsurprising thing to read on fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago


"I don't want to dig into this here, it'd be a bloodbath speak your truth

My truth is I ain't got the spoons for that fight."

I see you. You see me.

I know what you mean

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By *naswingdressWoman
49 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"The idea that men support women’s liberation movements or are supportive of women’s resistance because they think it will get them laid is such a lazy, ironically misogynistic, but also unsurprising thing to read on fab. "

It's also misandrist. As if men are too weak to speak for themselves and need to suck up with their penis in charge of their brain.

I think more of men than that.

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By *aith Skynbyrd OP   Woman
49 weeks ago

Somewhere else


"Too grim for a December morning?

Yep. Too grim. Soz all!

Nice change from rate my whatever, profile advice and general simping in the forums "

That’s what I’d hoped… but I don’t want to upset anyone.

PS. Please forgive my ignorance but what is simping?

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By *aith Skynbyrd OP   Woman
49 weeks ago

Somewhere else


"There seem to be plenty of men trying to be radical feminists in case it makes them appeal to “the ladies”.

What do you mean by radical ?

I’ve been interested in feminism and been involved in activism since having daughters but not the mainstream kind, the kind that works to give women equality and a better chance of reaching their potential. If anything it puts women off ! "

What would you say is the mainstream kind? No one could agree on that at my uni.

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By *penbicoupleCouple
49 weeks ago

Northampton


"… a misogynist?

Can a man be a radical femin*zi?

Discuss."

I think so, though it might depend on your definition of 'radical.'

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By *aith Skynbyrd OP   Woman
49 weeks ago

Somewhere else


"… a misogynist?

Can a man be a radical femin*zi?

Discuss.

Definitely "

Which one? Both?

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago


"The idea that men support women’s liberation movements or are supportive of women’s resistance because they think it will get them laid is such a lazy, ironically misogynistic, but also unsurprising thing to read on fab.

It's also misandrist. As if men are too weak to speak for themselves and need to suck up with their penis in charge of their brain.

I think more of men than that."

Literally! That’s all there is to us. No brain cells, just horniness.

And of course women’s rights/ freedoms etc are only worth supporting if I can get sex out of it.

The irony is I believe that on these forums, those politics aren’t going to get you laid. Definitely not by most of the posters. But let me not even talk too much

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By *aith Skynbyrd OP   Woman
49 weeks ago

Somewhere else


"Yes to both. I've come across women who are misogynistic and ignorant enough to not be able to imagine that they could be. A few of my very good male friends are feminists and that's just as well really.

Why did you use the word feminAZI ?"

Because I figured people would know I meant “extreme.” I hope I’ve not offended anyone, it was tongue in cheek.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
49 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

There's pick mes on all sides.

There's also a decent amount of people who can support the other genders without being extreme or hateful about it. I like those ones

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By *aith Skynbyrd OP   Woman
49 weeks ago

Somewhere else


"I dislike everyone equally regardless of gender."

Oh come on. A womyn can have her favourites, it’s allowed.

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By *aith Skynbyrd OP   Woman
49 weeks ago

Somewhere else


"There's pick mes on all sides.

There's also a decent amount of people who can support the other genders without being extreme or hateful about it. I like those ones "

I like them too x

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By *G LanaTV/TS
49 weeks ago

Gosport


"Oh, and where do trans people come into all this? "

Probably at the bottom of a heap somewhere being metaphorically kicked by people on both sides.

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By *naswingdressWoman
49 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"The idea that men support women’s liberation movements or are supportive of women’s resistance because they think it will get them laid is such a lazy, ironically misogynistic, but also unsurprising thing to read on fab.

It's also misandrist. As if men are too weak to speak for themselves and need to suck up with their penis in charge of their brain.

I think more of men than that.

Literally! That’s all there is to us. No brain cells, just horniness.

And of course women’s rights/ freedoms etc are only worth supporting if I can get sex out of it.

The irony is I believe that on these forums, those politics aren’t going to get you laid. Definitely not by most of the posters. But let me not even talk too much "

Agree. It's probably become pretty obvious that I don't care

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
49 weeks ago

Reading

Yes totally to both.

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By *aith Skynbyrd OP   Woman
49 weeks ago

Somewhere else


"I don't want to dig into this here, it'd be a bloodbath speak your truth

My truth is I ain't got the spoons for that fight."

Fair.

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By *aith Skynbyrd OP   Woman
49 weeks ago

Somewhere else


"Oh, and where do trans people come into all this?

Probably at the bottom of a heap somewhere being metaphorically kicked by people on both sides."

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By *aith Skynbyrd OP   Woman
49 weeks ago

Somewhere else


"The idea that men support women’s liberation movements or are supportive of women’s resistance because they think it will get them laid is such a lazy, ironically misogynistic, but also unsurprising thing to read on fab.

It's also misandrist. As if men are too weak to speak for themselves and need to suck up with their penis in charge of their brain.

I think more of men than that.

Literally! That’s all there is to us. No brain cells, just horniness.

And of course women’s rights/ freedoms etc are only worth supporting if I can get sex out of it.

The irony is I believe that on these forums, those politics aren’t going to get you laid. Definitely not by most of the posters. But let me not even talk too much "

I feel like this is a conversation worth having, and these are some valid points.

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By *ex HolesMan
49 weeks ago

Up North

I’ll be anything a lady wants as long as she sucks my cock at the end of the night

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago


"The idea that men support women’s liberation movements or are supportive of women’s resistance because they think it will get them laid is such a lazy, ironically misogynistic, but also unsurprising thing to read on fab.

It's also misandrist. As if men are too weak to speak for themselves and need to suck up with their penis in charge of their brain.

I think more of men than that.

Literally! That’s all there is to us. No brain cells, just horniness.

And of course women’s rights/ freedoms etc are only worth supporting if I can get sex out of it.

The irony is I believe that on these forums, those politics aren’t going to get you laid. Definitely not by most of the posters. But let me not even talk too much

Agree. It's probably become pretty obvious that I don't care "

I know. Or maybe we’d have had sex

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By *ora the explorerWoman
49 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts


"I’ll be anything a lady wants as long as she sucks my cock at the end of the night "

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By *aith Skynbyrd OP   Woman
49 weeks ago

Somewhere else


"I’ll be anything a lady wants as long as she sucks my cock at the end of the night "

Oh, well in THAT case… *spits my teeth into a glass of water*

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By *aitonelMan
49 weeks ago

Liverpool

They can be anything they want to be, or skim told.

I prefer the

Coalition for the Liberation of Itinerant Tree-dwellers

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago


"The idea that men support women’s liberation movements or are supportive of women’s resistance because they think it will get them laid is such a lazy, ironically misogynistic, but also unsurprising thing to read on fab.

It's also misandrist. As if men are too weak to speak for themselves and need to suck up with their penis in charge of their brain.

I think more of men than that.

Literally! That’s all there is to us. No brain cells, just horniness.

And of course women’s rights/ freedoms etc are only worth supporting if I can get sex out of it.

The irony is I believe that on these forums, those politics aren’t going to get you laid. Definitely not by most of the posters. But let me not even talk too much

I feel like this is a conversation worth having, and these are some valid points."

Good luck to you! And I mean that genuinely.

I’ve learned not to engage in certain conversations seriously on the forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

Yep, it's all the idea rather than the people.

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By *naswingdressWoman
49 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"The idea that men support women’s liberation movements or are supportive of women’s resistance because they think it will get them laid is such a lazy, ironically misogynistic, but also unsurprising thing to read on fab.

It's also misandrist. As if men are too weak to speak for themselves and need to suck up with their penis in charge of their brain.

I think more of men than that.

Literally! That’s all there is to us. No brain cells, just horniness.

And of course women’s rights/ freedoms etc are only worth supporting if I can get sex out of it.

The irony is I believe that on these forums, those politics aren’t going to get you laid. Definitely not by most of the posters. But let me not even talk too much

Agree. It's probably become pretty obvious that I don't care

I know. Or maybe we’d have had sex "

Pickle!

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By *aith Skynbyrd OP   Woman
49 weeks ago

Somewhere else


"The idea that men support women’s liberation movements or are supportive of women’s resistance because they think it will get them laid is such a lazy, ironically misogynistic, but also unsurprising thing to read on fab.

It's also misandrist. As if men are too weak to speak for themselves and need to suck up with their penis in charge of their brain.

I think more of men than that.

Literally! That’s all there is to us. No brain cells, just horniness.

And of course women’s rights/ freedoms etc are only worth supporting if I can get sex out of it.

The irony is I believe that on these forums, those politics aren’t going to get you laid. Definitely not by most of the posters. But let me not even talk too much

I feel like this is a conversation worth having, and these are some valid points.

Good luck to you! And I mean that genuinely.

I’ve learned not to engage in certain conversations seriously on the forums. "

Fair.

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