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For you, what makes a first kiss a good kiss?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Tia x

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

Ideally they are awake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The one that leaves me wanting another, and another. It may also make me feel a little aroused too.

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By *weetiepie99Woman
over a year ago

cardiff

When you can feel the flutters in your fanny...

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By *esafinadOHolyNightMan
over a year ago

Belfast

The first doesn't include tongues for me. It's not a full on snog, more of a locking of lips while my brain works out if it's magical or not and worth another. Then a little pause, a meeting of eyes, before going in for another and this time I'm happy to tentatively touch her tongue with mine.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ideally they are awake "

Good start

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

I couldn’t define it if I tried. And I have tried, many times, to describe it. But … that tentative first touching of lips and then that pause. Breath. Look into each other’s eyes. And leaning back in. When it opens up into the *real* kiss, with both of you fully engaged. And the world just sort of falls away around you. Nothing else matters in that moment, just each other.

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By *hriscooperMan
over a year ago

Warrington

Great technique and so it feels like they mean it.

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By *BWLOVER1965Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

First check for pulse then check she hasn’t banged her head or anything major if she still kisses me phone ambulance immediately

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By *hunky ChefMan
over a year ago

Norwich

If it gives me a boner, not just a pre cummy boxer.

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By *rlandoMan
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Still conscious

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By *obilebottomMan
over a year ago

All over

A fresh breath

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Chemistry. Its all in the kiss. You can find someone really attractive but the kiss just doesn't work. Also the reverse can be true.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Tongue?

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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It's not so much the minutiae, I don't mind if tongue is involved or not (obviously to a certain degree, I have no desire to experience really sloppy kissing). Nor how many.

It's about the build up to it, that delightful anticipation just before when you can feel that strong tension.

And when you know they want to kiss you as much as you want to kiss them, that split second where you realise it's happening. It's that attraction, the way you can lose yourself to everything that's going on around you but them. The way their body feels pressed against you, how their lips feel pressed against yours.

I think that's what makes a good first kiss, the chemistry and passion behind it delightfully entwined in a way that makes you want to kiss them again. Repeatedly.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

The ones you just need to kiss them & don't want to stop, hands all over and just lost in the passion.

Mrs

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I'm not writing that smut in public

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say a strong kiss, not like a peck on the lips. A bit of tongue and if they're really feeling it, moving towards my cheek and neck before they move to my lips again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best ever kiss..

Tingles everywhere, anytime, anyplace.. One person has managed that.

Rest are all sloppy joes.. Dribbles need a bib.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's not so much the minutiae, I don't mind if tongue is involved or not (obviously to a certain degree, I have no desire to experience really sloppy kissing). Nor how many.

It's about the build up to it, that delightful anticipation just before when you can feel that strong tension.

And when you know they want to kiss you as much as you want to kiss them, that split second where you realise it's happening. It's that attraction, the way you can lose yourself to everything that's going on around you but them. The way their body feels pressed against you, how their lips feel pressed against yours.

I think that's what makes a good first kiss, the chemistry and passion behind it delightfully entwined in a way that makes you want to kiss them again. Repeatedly. "

Can’t wait for our first kiss but obviously we’ll want to do the sex immediately

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would say a strong kiss, not like a peck on the lips. A bit of tongue and if they're really feeling it, moving towards my cheek and neck before they move to my lips again"

I like my kisses strong too. Like you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Timing, speed, movement and just a tickle of tongue. R

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't been kissed in so long

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Mutual passion. A bit of pulling you in close. Copping a feel. Bit of fingers through the hair.

Their throbbing erection pressed up against me, hopefully they leak a bit of pre cum and stain their trousers.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London


"Mutual passion. A bit of pulling you in close. Copping a feel. Bit of fingers through the hair.

Their throbbing erection pressed up against me, hopefully they leak a bit of pre cum and stain their trousers."

Now you’re just describing my Friday night.

(Although it wasn’t you I was pressing an erection against, just in case anyone reads that, gets the wrong idea, and launches some forum gossip …)

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By *illan-KillashMan
over a year ago

London/Sussex/Surrey/Berks/Hants


"I'm not writing that smut in public "

Yeah.....right.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm not writing that smut in public

Yeah.....right. "

I’ve seen the smut she writes in the forums too!!!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I'm not writing that smut in public

Yeah.....right.

I’ve seen the smut she writes in the forums too!!! "

I'm reformed

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Lots of things, but the way she looks at you just before the first kiss is a big one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

….when I can feel the nipple harden between my lips ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I've already imagined it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm not writing that smut in public

Yeah.....right.

I’ve seen the smut she writes in the forums too!!!

I'm reformed "

I hope not

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By *lipy123TV/TS
over a year ago

Birmingham

One that turns your knees to jelly

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

First should be gentle and soft, leading on to more passionate deeper kissing.

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
over a year ago

BRIDPORT

Dislodging their dentures with an over aggressive tongue is not a good move. ( so I was told by a friend).

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By *illan-KillashMan
over a year ago

London/Sussex/Surrey/Berks/Hants


"I'm not writing that smut in public

Yeah.....right.

I’ve seen the smut she writes in the forums too!!!

I'm reformed "

Say it ain't so.......

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

When I want to melt into his body and I get images of us naked in bed

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

That air of nervousness and excitement, a bit like dizziness, a sudden rush of heat and a fluttering heart as you feel the softness of there lips against yours and what surrounds you pales into insignificance for in that moment your completely just the two of you, melting into the chemistry between you, a kiss without passion is pointless x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tia x"

Slow lingering, exploring, but not tongue down throat! Not too sloppy and no bite or dribbles.

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