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"It is not a question i would ask nor would i expect to be asked. Its history." I like history. Two history 'o'-levels and also one at 'A'-level. | |||
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"It matters to me because I don’t want a long term thing with someone that’s been ruined by a tonne of bad experiences with men Basically, baggage The higher a woman’s body count is, the more negativity/baggage around men they tend to have My last serious partner was 27 with a body count of 1 and she was by far the least amount of anti-man baggage " You only need one person to give you that bad experience | |||
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"It matters to me because I don’t want a long term thing with someone that’s been ruined by a tonne of bad experiences with men Basically, baggage The higher a woman’s body count is, the more negativity/baggage around men they tend to have My last serious partner was 27 with a body count of 1 and she was by far the least amount of anti-man baggage You only need one person to give you that bad experience " The more it happens the deeper its ingrained, the more it takes to get past it Would women want to date a guy that had a a bunch of bad interactions with women and now places that burden on the new women he dates? | |||
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"It matters to me because I don’t want a long term thing with someone that’s been ruined by a tonne of bad experiences with men Basically, baggage The higher a woman’s body count is, the more negativity/baggage around men they tend to have My last serious partner was 27 with a body count of 1 and she was by far the least amount of anti-man baggage You only need one person to give you that bad experience The more it happens the deeper its ingrained, the more it takes to get past it Would women want to date a guy that had a a bunch of bad interactions with women and now places that burden on the new women he dates?" I think sometimes the opposite can happen too. My last long term partner had only a few relationships previously. It turned out there were reasons for that 
I'd far rather meet someone whose been around the block enough times with other folk to know who they are, and what they want. | |||
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"It matters to me because I don’t want a long term thing with someone that’s been ruined by a tonne of bad experiences with men Basically, baggage The higher a woman’s body count is, the more negativity/baggage around men they tend to have My last serious partner was 27 with a body count of 1 and she was by far the least amount of anti-man baggage You only need one person to give you that bad experience The more it happens the deeper its ingrained, the more it takes to get past it Would women want to date a guy that had a a bunch of bad interactions with women and now places that burden on the new women he dates?" Interesting point of view, why is there no option here of a woman that's had bad experiences but is stronger for it and less likely to take any crap and has god level of emotional intelligence/maturity? A woman with less bad experiences could be pushed around more easily too couldn't she? | |||
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"It matters to me because I don’t want a long term thing with someone that’s been ruined by a tonne of bad experiences with men Basically, baggage The higher a woman’s body count is, the more negativity/baggage around men they tend to have My last serious partner was 27 with a body count of 1 and she was by far the least amount of anti-man baggage You only need one person to give you that bad experience The more it happens the deeper its ingrained, the more it takes to get past it Would women want to date a guy that had a a bunch of bad interactions with women and now places that burden on the new women he dates? Interesting point of view, why is there no option here of a woman that's had bad experiences but is stronger for it and less likely to take any crap and has god level of emotional intelligence/maturity? A woman with less bad experiences could be pushed around more easily too couldn't she? " Good not god. Bad typo! | |||
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"It matters to me because I don’t want a long term thing with someone that’s been ruined by a tonne of bad experiences with men Basically, baggage The higher a woman’s body count is, the more negativity/baggage around men they tend to have My last serious partner was 27 with a body count of 1 and she was by far the least amount of anti-man baggage You only need one person to give you that bad experience The more it happens the deeper its ingrained, the more it takes to get past it Would women want to date a guy that had a a bunch of bad interactions with women and now places that burden on the new women he dates? Interesting point of view, why is there no option here of a woman that's had bad experiences but is stronger for it and less likely to take any crap and has god level of emotional intelligence/maturity? A woman with less bad experiences could be pushed around more easily too couldn't she? " Probably because we never actually see that happen We hear women say it a lot. How strong they are from past experiences It’s just talk though. Most break and don’t recover from a bunch of bad experiences So I just pick the ones that haven’t been broken yet | |||
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"It matters to me because I don’t want a long term thing with someone that’s been ruined by a tonne of bad experiences with men Basically, baggage The higher a woman’s body count is, the more negativity/baggage around men they tend to have My last serious partner was 27 with a body count of 1 and she was by far the least amount of anti-man baggage You only need one person to give you that bad experience The more it happens the deeper its ingrained, the more it takes to get past it Would women want to date a guy that had a a bunch of bad interactions with women and now places that burden on the new women he dates? Interesting point of view, why is there no option here of a woman that's had bad experiences but is stronger for it and less likely to take any crap and has god level of emotional intelligence/maturity? A woman with less bad experiences could be pushed around more easily too couldn't she? Probably because we never actually see that happen We hear women say it a lot. How strong they are from past experiences It’s just talk though. Most break and don’t recover from a bunch of bad experiences So I just pick the ones that haven’t been broken yet " Surely in some way we are all broken, the one that got away, the one that passed away, the one that didn’t like us as much as we did them. Then there’s the different level of broken which can come from physical or mental abuse from either side. For me it’s about understanding a situation and that comes with time and trust and small steps. However broken someone is I really hope there is a way back to happiness, whatever that looks like | |||
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"It matters to me because I don’t want a long term thing with someone that’s been ruined by a tonne of bad experiences with men Basically, baggage The higher a woman’s body count is, the more negativity/baggage around men they tend to have My last serious partner was 27 with a body count of 1 and she was by far the least amount of anti-man baggage You only need one person to give you that bad experience The more it happens the deeper its ingrained, the more it takes to get past it Would women want to date a guy that had a a bunch of bad interactions with women and now places that burden on the new women he dates? Interesting point of view, why is there no option here of a woman that's had bad experiences but is stronger for it and less likely to take any crap and has god level of emotional intelligence/maturity? A woman with less bad experiences could be pushed around more easily too couldn't she? Probably because we never actually see that happen We hear women say it a lot. How strong they are from past experiences It’s just talk though. Most break and don’t recover from a bunch of bad experiences So I just pick the ones that haven’t been broken yet Surely in some way we are all broken, the one that got away, the one that passed away, the one that didn’t like us as much as we did them. Then there’s the different level of broken which can come from physical or mental abuse from either side. For me it’s about understanding a situation and that comes with time and trust and small steps. However broken someone is I really hope there is a way back to happiness, whatever that looks like " So do I, lots of broken people But I can’t waste my time on someone that’s broke and either can’t be fixed, doesn’t want to be fixed, or doesn’t even think they are broken to start with The best relationships (for me) come from girls that have fairly low body counts and a really good relationship with their dad | |||
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"It matters to me because I don’t want a long term thing with someone that’s been ruined by a tonne of bad experiences with men Basically, baggage The higher a woman’s body count is, the more negativity/baggage around men they tend to have My last serious partner was 27 with a body count of 1 and she was by far the least amount of anti-man baggage You only need one person to give you that bad experience The more it happens the deeper its ingrained, the more it takes to get past it Would women want to date a guy that had a a bunch of bad interactions with women and now places that burden on the new women he dates? Interesting point of view, why is there no option here of a woman that's had bad experiences but is stronger for it and less likely to take any crap and has god level of emotional intelligence/maturity? A woman with less bad experiences could be pushed around more easily too couldn't she? Probably because we never actually see that happen We hear women say it a lot. How strong they are from past experiences It’s just talk though. Most break and don’t recover from a bunch of bad experiences So I just pick the ones that haven’t been broken yet " Haven't broken yet? Yet? So you're going to discard them and in the process break them? So you're only after perfect women? | |||
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"It matters to me because I don’t want a long term thing with someone that’s been ruined by a tonne of bad experiences with men Basically, baggage The higher a woman’s body count is, the more negativity/baggage around men they tend to have My last serious partner was 27 with a body count of 1 and she was by far the least amount of anti-man baggage You only need one person to give you that bad experience The more it happens the deeper its ingrained, the more it takes to get past it Would women want to date a guy that had a a bunch of bad interactions with women and now places that burden on the new women he dates? Interesting point of view, why is there no option here of a woman that's had bad experiences but is stronger for it and less likely to take any crap and has god level of emotional intelligence/maturity? A woman with less bad experiences could be pushed around more easily too couldn't she? Probably because we never actually see that happen We hear women say it a lot. How strong they are from past experiences It’s just talk though. Most break and don’t recover from a bunch of bad experiences So I just pick the ones that haven’t been broken yet Surely in some way we are all broken, the one that got away, the one that passed away, the one that didn’t like us as much as we did them. Then there’s the different level of broken which can come from physical or mental abuse from either side. For me it’s about understanding a situation and that comes with time and trust and small steps. However broken someone is I really hope there is a way back to happiness, whatever that looks like So do I, lots of broken people But I can’t waste my time on someone that’s broke and either can’t be fixed, doesn’t want to be fixed, or doesn’t even think they are broken to start with The best relationships (for me) come from girls that have fairly low body counts and a really good relationship with their dad "  | |||
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"It is not a question i would ask nor would i expect to be asked. Its history." Yes, you are right there, it is not a question one would ask on a date, if one did it, no doubt one would be taken by surprise by it | |||
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"It matters to me because I don’t want a long term thing with someone that’s been ruined by a tonne of bad experiences with men Basically, baggage The higher a woman’s body count is, the more negativity/baggage around men they tend to have My last serious partner was 27 with a body count of 1 and she was by far the least amount of anti-man baggage You only need one person to give you that bad experience The more it happens the deeper its ingrained, the more it takes to get past it Would women want to date a guy that had a a bunch of bad interactions with women and now places that burden on the new women he dates? Interesting point of view, why is there no option here of a woman that's had bad experiences but is stronger for it and less likely to take any crap and has god level of emotional intelligence/maturity? A woman with less bad experiences could be pushed around more easily too couldn't she? Probably because we never actually see that happen We hear women say it a lot. How strong they are from past experiences It’s just talk though. Most break and don’t recover from a bunch of bad experiences So I just pick the ones that haven’t been broken yet Surely in some way we are all broken, the one that got away, the one that passed away, the one that didn’t like us as much as we did them. Then there’s the different level of broken which can come from physical or mental abuse from either side. For me it’s about understanding a situation and that comes with time and trust and small steps. However broken someone is I really hope there is a way back to happiness, whatever that looks like "  | |||
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"It matters to me because I don’t want a long term thing with someone that’s been ruined by a tonne of bad experiences with men Basically, baggage The higher a woman’s body count is, the more negativity/baggage around men they tend to have My last serious partner was 27 with a body count of 1 and she was by far the least amount of anti-man baggage You only need one person to give you that bad experience The more it happens the deeper its ingrained, the more it takes to get past it Would women want to date a guy that had a a bunch of bad interactions with women and now places that burden on the new women he dates? Interesting point of view, why is there no option here of a woman that's had bad experiences but is stronger for it and less likely to take any crap and has god level of emotional intelligence/maturity? A woman with less bad experiences could be pushed around more easily too couldn't she? Probably because we never actually see that happen We hear women say it a lot. How strong they are from past experiences It’s just talk though. Most break and don’t recover from a bunch of bad experiences So I just pick the ones that haven’t been broken yet Haven't broken yet? Yet? So you're going to discard them and in the process break them? So you're only after perfect women? " No I just won’t date them Aren’t you only looking for the best? I wouldn’t say being not broken = perfect | |||
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"I watched a fun video from coach greg, here it is: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CK_6NV-MY8M In the video he reviewed another video and commented of what he thought about if it matters of how many you have slept with before getting together with someone for a relationship and apparently yes, it does, well it depends who you are asking, according to the video it would matter more to the woman how many the guy have slept with and for the guy it wouldnt matter so much of how many the woman have slept with. Before I watched the video. I got the general feeling that there seemed to be more of an acceptance towards the women than the men. What is your view about it? Would it matter to you how many your potential partner have slept with? Mind you, one can lie about it too, so it would be hard to know, personally. I wouldnt mind how many she would of slept with "Hi op, In my experience its not an issue. Past is past. Experience is key. Quantity surveyor of sex partners, new job Shag? Exactly people can lie about how many penetrative partners. ... I do not tell as no need to | |||
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"I've seen this type of question pop up on here before and it's been a mixed bag of answers. Personally, it's not a question I've ever asked a woman I've liked. If I like her then I like her. Sure, I want to know some things about her life, how ex relationships have gone is certainly good to know for a better insight into what she likes and will we be compatible in the long run, but as for numbers I don't care. If I like you, I like you
Morning Shag! "Morning and yes, it have come up here before, that is good and yes, the numbers wouldnt be so important, as it is the person one likes it is all about too | |||
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"Numbers mean very little. You could have been with someone for 30 years so you could have only slept with one person. You could have been single for 30 years and slept with 5 a year so 150 people. Any numbers or statistics can be turned in any favour" You are right there too and those are also good examples of it | |||
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"I watched a fun video from coach greg, here it is: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CK_6NV-MY8M In the video he reviewed another video and commented of what he thought about if it matters of how many you have slept with before getting together with someone for a relationship and apparently yes, it does, well it depends who you are asking, according to the video it would matter more to the woman how many the guy have slept with and for the guy it wouldnt matter so much of how many the woman have slept with. Before I watched the video. I got the general feeling that there seemed to be more of an acceptance towards the women than the men. What is your view about it? Would it matter to you how many your potential partner have slept with? Mind you, one can lie about it too, so it would be hard to know, personally. I wouldnt mind how many she would of slept with "it matters a lot I'd say to a lot of people. I've been told to my face that I'd make the perfect gf, if only I'd been less promiscuous | |||
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"I watched a fun video from coach greg, here it is: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CK_6NV-MY8M In the video he reviewed another video and commented of what he thought about if it matters of how many you have slept with before getting together with someone for a relationship and apparently yes, it does, well it depends who you are asking, according to the video it would matter more to the woman how many the guy have slept with and for the guy it wouldnt matter so much of how many the woman have slept with. Before I watched the video. I got the general feeling that there seemed to be more of an acceptance towards the women than the men. What is your view about it? Would it matter to you how many your potential partner have slept with? Mind you, one can lie about it too, so it would be hard to know, personally. I wouldnt mind how many she would of slept with "It matters if it bothers you. If it does become a catholic priest. | |||
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"I'm in my 50s so I'm gonna assume any man I meet has a sexual history. I wouldn't entertain a discussion around actual numbers " This. I don’t need to know details. It’s going forward that would matter, not their sexual past. | |||
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"I watched a fun video from coach greg, here it is: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CK_6NV-MY8M In the video he reviewed another video and commented of what he thought about if it matters of how many you have slept with before getting together with someone for a relationship and apparently yes, it does, well it depends who you are asking, according to the video it would matter more to the woman how many the guy have slept with and for the guy it wouldnt matter so much of how many the woman have slept with. Before I watched the video. I got the general feeling that there seemed to be more of an acceptance towards the women than the men. What is your view about it? Would it matter to you how many your potential partner have slept with? Mind you, one can lie about it too, so it would be hard to know, personally. I wouldnt mind how many she would of slept with
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In my experience its not an issue. Past is past.
Experience is key.
Quantity surveyor of sex partners, new job Shag?
Exactly people can lie about how many penetrative partners.
... I do not tell as no need to "Hi becs, you are right there as well, it is down to experience, not a new job, but yes, that would be a good job too to and same here. I dont tell either how many I have had | |||
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"It matters to me because I don’t want a long term thing with someone that’s been ruined by a tonne of bad experiences with men Basically, baggage The higher a woman’s body count is, the more negativity/baggage around men they tend to have My last serious partner was 27 with a body count of 1 and she was by far the least amount of anti-man baggage You only need one person to give you that bad experience " It takes 1 bad experience to create "baggage" and 1 good therapist to get your head straight. Numbers mean nothing. | |||
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"What is your view about it? Would it matter to you how many your potential partner have slept with? Mind you, one can lie about it too, so it would be hard to know, personally. I wouldnt mind how many she would of slept with "Doesn't matter in the slightest. We discussed our numbers on our first date and even now we turn each other on by re-telling some of our earlier exploits. | |||
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"I'm just happy to have conquest number greater than my age But I'll either need to die at an early age Or Boost these numbers. Any takers?" Yep!  | |||
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"It matters to me because I don’t want a long term thing with someone that’s been ruined by a tonne of bad experiences with men Basically, baggage The higher a woman’s body count is, the more negativity/baggage around men they tend to have My last serious partner was 27 with a body count of 1 and she was by far the least amount of anti-man baggage You only need one person to give you that bad experience The more it happens the deeper its ingrained, the more it takes to get past it Would women want to date a guy that had a a bunch of bad interactions with women and now places that burden on the new women he dates? Interesting point of view, why is there no option here of a woman that's had bad experiences but is stronger for it and less likely to take any crap and has god level of emotional intelligence/maturity? A woman with less bad experiences could be pushed around more easily too couldn't she? Probably because we never actually see that happen We hear women say it a lot. How strong they are from past experiences It’s just talk though. Most break and don’t recover from a bunch of bad experiences So I just pick the ones that haven’t been broken yet Surely in some way we are all broken, the one that got away, the one that passed away, the one that didn’t like us as much as we did them. Then there’s the different level of broken which can come from physical or mental abuse from either side. For me it’s about understanding a situation and that comes with time and trust and small steps. However broken someone is I really hope there is a way back to happiness, whatever that looks like " My faith in men is somewhat restored by your comment! Not so much by the others 
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"I watched a fun video from coach greg, here it is: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CK_6NV-MY8M In the video he reviewed another video and commented of what he thought about if it matters of how many you have slept with before getting together with someone for a relationship and apparently yes, it does, well it depends who you are asking, according to the video it would matter more to the woman how many the guy have slept with and for the guy it wouldnt matter so much of how many the woman have slept with. Before I watched the video. I got the general feeling that there seemed to be more of an acceptance towards the women than the men. What is your view about it? Would it matter to you how many your potential partner have slept with? Mind you, one can lie about it too, so it would be hard to know, personally. I wouldnt mind how many she would of slept with "Personally I wouldn't mind, it's natural to want to have sex with lots of different people... As long as they don't have a am active history of cheating haha | |||
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"As long as it's at least one, I couldn't care less. Training virgins isn't my scene "We’re so sexually incompatible  | |||
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"I'm in my 50s so I'm gonna assume any man I meet has a sexual history. I wouldn't entertain a discussion around actual numbers " This I don't think it matters | |||
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"As long as it's at least one, I couldn't care less. Training virgins isn't my scene
We’re so sexually incompatible "Honey you don't like fishnets or lipstick and that's pretty much all I have going for me. It was a bust from the get go | |||
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"Body count discussions are my favourite discussions" Really wow.. How many shags are acceptable to want to shag another | |||
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"I watched a fun video from coach greg, here it is: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CK_6NV-MY8M In the video he reviewed another video and commented of what he thought about if it matters of how many you have slept with before getting together with someone for a relationship and apparently yes, it does, well it depends who you are asking, according to the video it would matter more to the woman how many the guy have slept with and for the guy it wouldnt matter so much of how many the woman have slept with. Before I watched the video. I got the general feeling that there seemed to be more of an acceptance towards the women than the men. What is your view about it? Would it matter to you how many your potential partner have slept with? Mind you, one can lie about it too, so it would be hard to know, personally. I wouldnt mind how many she would of slept with "Body count.. how many you done away with Shag | |||
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"I’d like a man with a high body count. That way he’s been properly trained before he gets to me "Hi chicken, that sounds good to me | |||
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"It’s never been an issue for us as we discovered the sexual part of relationships together many many years ago. That’s not very helpful for your thread shag but it’s all we can really add." Hi spitroastofchristmaspast, that is good that it have never have been an issue, as you discovered the sexual part years ago | |||
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hahaha.
But thank goodness I’m no virgin or strictly religious  . I’ve had my fair share of Kit Kat. Body count doesn’t matter to me as it would be hypocritical to judge someone least I be judge too. If I met someone & it did matter to them, then it would be a short date for sure  . And if they said they don’t mind they just curious ‘I would probably lie’ cause people ask for the truth but can’t handle the truth lol & I’m very skeptical person so I probably won’t believe their body count number either cause people lie, it’s just in our nature! And how can I 100% confirm they telling the truth? And what 1 person might call a high count, might be beginner level to someone else | |||
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"Body count discussions are my favourite discussions Really wow.. How many shags are acceptable to want to shag another "Body counts and who should pay on a first date are definitely my top 2 | |||
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"Thou shalt never ask a woman how many men she has fucked, or a man how much he earns. " Bollocks. | |||
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"Thou shalt never ask a woman how many men she has fucked, or a man how much he earns. Bollocks." If the sex is good and the bills are paid, why do either matter? | |||
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"...I wouldn’t have wanted to merry someone who’s had more dick than I’ve had hot dinners hahaha.
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"Thou shalt never ask a woman how many men she has fucked, or a man how much he earns. Bollocks. If the sex is good and the bills are paid, why do either matter? " I didn't say they matter. I just disagreed with your prohibition. | |||
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"I watched a fun video from coach greg, here it is: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CK_6NV-MY8M In the video he reviewed another video and commented of what he thought about if it matters of how many you have slept with before getting together with someone for a relationship and apparently yes, it does, well it depends who you are asking, according to the video it would matter more to the woman how many the guy have slept with and for the guy it wouldnt matter so much of how many the woman have slept with. Before I watched the video. I got the general feeling that there seemed to be more of an acceptance towards the women than the men. What is your view about it? Would it matter to you how many your potential partner have slept with? Mind you, one can lie about it too, so it would be hard to know, personally. I wouldnt mind how many she would of slept with
Body count.. how many you done away with Shag "Hi becs, it is only 30 so far | |||
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"I'm in my 50s so I'm gonna assume any man I meet has a sexual history. I wouldn't entertain a discussion around actual numbers " Pretty simple | |||
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"Honestly here only 6 None for last 3-4years. Count them on my hands. No white lie... " Hi becs, it is the same here, this was years ago as well | |||
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"No, it doesn’t matter, and if anyone asked me I’d find it seriously weird and wouldn’t take things further with them. In my experience the guys that are preoccupied with that question are usually too insecure and immature for me. " Excellently conveyed, nail on the head! | |||
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"No, but I wouldn't date anyone who wouldn't talk about it. Not willing to be in a relationship with someone who can't be open about every aspect of their life. " | |||
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"I always love replies from WokinghamGlory. "Saying the thing most guys are thinking because I’m not here to meet so don’t care who it annoys | |||
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"I always love replies from WokinghamGlory. "Me too. At least he’s honest and probably does say what a lot are thinking. Give me that any day before the men who just agree with anything any woman says in case it reduces their chances of a shag. | |||
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"Interesting views so far, would you say that having a person with a high body count would improve the sex as they would have more experience? "Body count doesn’t necessarily = experience We encounter lots of men with “high” Body counts and they couldn’t find the A from the G spot. | |||
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"It matters to me because I don’t want a long term thing with someone that’s been ruined by a tonne of bad experiences with men Basically, baggage The higher a woman’s body count is, the more negativity/baggage around men they tend to have My last serious partner was 27 with a body count of 1 and she was by far the least amount of anti-man baggage " It’s must be nice to have such simple understanding of things. | |||
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"It matters to me because I don’t want a long term thing with someone that’s been ruined by a tonne of bad experiences with men Basically, baggage The higher a woman’s body count is, the more negativity/baggage around men they tend to have My last serious partner was 27 with a body count of 1 and she was by far the least amount of anti-man baggage It’s must be nice to have such simple understanding of things. " Maybe if more people had thus understanding we’d see less relationship drama Stop. Dating. Broken. People. | |||
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"Interesting views so far, would you say that having a person with a high body count would improve the sex as they would have more experience? "Nope. Folk can easily get away with being an easy shit lay. If all you have are ONS no one is around long enough to teach you anything. And the worse you are the more likely it is you'll only get ONS's, as who's coming back for seconds with the pillow princess with the toothy BJ, or Mr 2 licks n 2 pumps? | |||
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"If someone asked me on a first date I wouldn't meet them again" Don’t care about numbers at all. I date around my age so assume they have history behind. I am happy to talk about it at a later stage of relationship as a part of getting to know each other but not in how many direct question rather talking about experience, naughtiness and fantasies. Interestingly enough in vanilla dating word it’s a lady who asks the question. I am open about it and don’t want any lie in potential relationship. In 50% cases they are shocked and judgemental. | |||
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"It matters to me because I don’t want a long term thing with someone that’s been ruined by a tonne of bad experiences with men Basically, baggage The higher a woman’s body count is, the more negativity/baggage around men they tend to have My last serious partner was 27 with a body count of 1 and she was by far the least amount of anti-man baggage It’s must be nice to have such simple understanding of things. Maybe if more people had thus understanding we’d see less relationship drama Stop. Dating. Broken. People. " Guessing you’re happily married with a completely balanced mental state? Because by your own standards surely if you’re not then that means there is an issue with you and you are also broken!? | |||
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"It matters to me because I don’t want a long term thing with someone that’s been ruined by a tonne of bad experiences with men Basically, baggage The higher a woman’s body count is, the more negativity/baggage around men they tend to have My last serious partner was 27 with a body count of 1 and she was by far the least amount of anti-man baggage It’s must be nice to have such simple understanding of things. Maybe if more people had thus understanding we’d see less relationship drama Stop. Dating. Broken. People. Guessing you’re happily married with a completely balanced mental state? Because by your own standards surely if you’re not then that means there is an issue with you and you are also broken!? " Being not married doesn’t mean you’re broken. Where did you get that idea | |||
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"It matters to me because I don’t want a long term thing with someone that’s been ruined by a tonne of bad experiences with men Basically, baggage The higher a woman’s body count is, the more negativity/baggage around men they tend to have My last serious partner was 27 with a body count of 1 and she was by far the least amount of anti-man baggage It’s must be nice to have such simple understanding of things. Maybe if more people had thus understanding we’d see less relationship drama Stop. Dating. Broken. People. Guessing you’re happily married with a completely balanced mental state? Because by your own standards surely if you’re not then that means there is an issue with you and you are also broken!? Being not married doesn’t mean you’re broken. Where did you get that idea" Will rephrase it then, so you are in a stable relationship with a balanced mental state? | |||
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"It matters to me because I don’t want a long term thing with someone that’s been ruined by a tonne of bad experiences with men Basically, baggage The higher a woman’s body count is, the more negativity/baggage around men they tend to have My last serious partner was 27 with a body count of 1 and she was by far the least amount of anti-man baggage It’s must be nice to have such simple understanding of things. Maybe if more people had thus understanding we’d see less relationship drama Stop. Dating. Broken. People. " Body count has nothing to do with baggage. Mine is lower than average and I have a whole hold full of baggage. Some guys can do it all on their own with no help. But I kinda get what you mean, I wouldn't wanna date me. It depends what you want i guess, an easy carefree relationship, then yeah don't date anyone with "baggage". | |||
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"Ok so would a high number of previous sexual partners put people off of a long term relationship or perhaps marriage??" it wouldn't me, but as I've said. Its been pointed out to me, that my number means I'm not gf material | |||
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"It matters to me because I don’t want a long term thing with someone that’s been ruined by a tonne of bad experiences with men Basically, baggage The higher a woman’s body count is, the more negativity/baggage around men they tend to have My last serious partner was 27 with a body count of 1 and she was by far the least amount of anti-man baggage It’s must be nice to have such simple understanding of things. Maybe if more people had thus understanding we’d see less relationship drama Stop. Dating. Broken. People. Body count has nothing to do with baggage. Mine is lower than average and I have a whole hold full of baggage. Some guys can do it all on their own with no help. But I kinda get what you mean, I wouldn't wanna date me. It depends what you want i guess, an easy carefree relationship, then yeah don't date anyone with "baggage"." I left my partner of 30 years with very little sexual experience and a whole cart full of baggage. It's my baggage and I don't expect anyone else to carry it. We're all someone's baggage. | |||
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"It matters to me because I don’t want a long term thing with someone that’s been ruined by a tonne of bad experiences with men Basically, baggage The higher a woman’s body count is, the more negativity/baggage around men they tend to have My last serious partner was 27 with a body count of 1 and she was by far the least amount of anti-man baggage It’s must be nice to have such simple understanding of things. Maybe if more people had thus understanding we’d see less relationship drama Stop. Dating. Broken. People. Body count has nothing to do with baggage. Mine is lower than average and I have a whole hold full of baggage. Some guys can do it all on their own with no help. But I kinda get what you mean, I wouldn't wanna date me. It depends what you want i guess, an easy carefree relationship, then yeah don't date anyone with "baggage"." I’d bet if you could plot on a graph body count vs baggage that they’re directly correlated Always outliers of course. And it’s all about what you want and what your willing to accept from someone | |||
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"I always love replies from WokinghamGlory.
Me too. At least he’s honest and probably does say what a lot are thinking. Give me that any day before the men who just agree with anything any woman says in case it reduces their chances of a shag. " | |||
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"Ok so would a high number of previous sexual partners put people off of a long term relationship or perhaps marriage?? it wouldn't me, but as I've said. Its been pointed out to me, that my number means I'm not gf material " No, it just means you're not gf material with them.
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"It matters to me because I don’t want a long term thing with someone that’s been ruined by a tonne of bad experiences with men Basically, baggage The higher a woman’s body count is, the more negativity/baggage around men they tend to have My last serious partner was 27 with a body count of 1 and she was by far the least amount of anti-man baggage It’s must be nice to have such simple understanding of things. Maybe if more people had thus understanding we’d see less relationship drama Stop. Dating. Broken. People. Body count has nothing to do with baggage. Mine is lower than average and I have a whole hold full of baggage. Some guys can do it all on their own with no help. But I kinda get what you mean, I wouldn't wanna date me. It depends what you want i guess, an easy carefree relationship, then yeah don't date anyone with "baggage". I’d bet if you could plot on a graph body count vs baggage that they’re directly correlated Always outliers of course. And it’s all about what you want and what your willing to accept from someone " Well mine definitely isn't. Only takes one dick to give you 'baggage'. | |||
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"Interesting views so far, would you say that having a person with a high body count would improve the sex as they would have more experience?
Body count doesn’t necessarily = experience
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Body counts and they couldn’t find the A from the G spot."You are right there and yes, it doesnt necessarily equals to experience | |||
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"Interesting views so far, would you say that having a person with a high body count would improve the sex as they would have more experience?
Nope. Folk can easily get away with being an easy shit lay. If all you have are ONS no one is around long enough to teach you anything. And the worse you are the more likely it is you'll only get ONS's, as who's coming back for seconds with the pillow princess with the toothy BJ, or Mr 2 licks n 2 pumps?"Yes, you are right there, one can get away with that too | |||
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"It matters to me because I don’t want a long term thing with someone that’s been ruined by a tonne of bad experiences with men Basically, baggage The higher a woman’s body count is, the more negativity/baggage around men they tend to have My last serious partner was 27 with a body count of 1 and she was by far the least amount of anti-man baggage " How's your baggage or is it just a womans thing? | |||
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"It matters to me because I don’t want a long term thing with someone that’s been ruined by a tonne of bad experiences with men Basically, baggage The higher a woman’s body count is, the more negativity/baggage around men they tend to have My last serious partner was 27 with a body count of 1 and she was by far the least amount of anti-man baggage How's your baggage or is it just a womans thing? " Tried to call him out on this but he swerved it. We should all ignore the opinions of misogynists. | |||
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"It matters to me because I don’t want a long term thing with someone that’s been ruined by a tonne of bad experiences with men Basically, baggage The higher a woman’s body count is, the more negativity/baggage around men they tend to have My last serious partner was 27 with a body count of 1 and she was by far the least amount of anti-man baggage How's your baggage or is it just a womans thing? Tried to call him out on this but he swerved it. We should all ignore the opinions of misogynists." Maybe he is a virgin? | |||
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"It matters to me because I don’t want a long term thing with someone that’s been ruined by a tonne of bad experiences with men Basically, baggage The higher a woman’s body count is, the more negativity/baggage around men they tend to have My last serious partner was 27 with a body count of 1 and she was by far the least amount of anti-man baggage How's your baggage or is it just a womans thing? " Baggage applies to everyone. I’m sure I’ve got baggage and I’m sure I’ve been rejected by women that didn’t want to deal with my baggage. That’s the way it is | |||
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"It matters to me because I don’t want a long term thing with someone that’s been ruined by a tonne of bad experiences with men Basically, baggage The higher a woman’s body count is, the more negativity/baggage around men they tend to have My last serious partner was 27 with a body count of 1 and she was by far the least amount of anti-man baggage How's your baggage or is it just a womans thing? Tried to call him out on this but he swerved it. We should all ignore the opinions of misogynists." Your comment didn’t make sense so I passed on it | |||
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"It matters to me because I don’t want a long term thing with someone that’s been ruined by a tonne of bad experiences with men Basically, baggage The higher a woman’s body count is, the more negativity/baggage around men they tend to have My last serious partner was 27 with a body count of 1 and she was by far the least amount of anti-man baggage How's your baggage or is it just a womans thing? Tried to call him out on this but he swerved it. We should all ignore the opinions of misogynists. Your comment didn’t make sense so I passed on it " Do you think you've got baggage from previous partners? Also, can you explain the kind of baggage that would deter you? | |||
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"I have never asked anyone this question before, I just assume most have a sexual history and it doesn't impact me. I wouldn't entertain a conversation around numbers to me it's pointless. " That is good and same here. I have never asked it either and yes, as you say there, most have a sexual history too | |||
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"So what about a woman who doesn't want a man with a high count? Do you on the 1st date ask them thier body count and tell them yours? Lol Yet u admit u are after lots of sex and a sexoholic on ur profile lol Sounds like u want to be a 'stud' but won't accept a woman who's a 'sexoholic' Maybe it's guys like you that 'break' women. U get what u want and dump them. That's just the feeling we get from your post vs your profile" That's a very good shout. If ever a post was to go off on a misogynistic tangent this was it. I'm not surprised. I'm not even disappointed. To be disappointed would assume you were expecting a different result. I apologise to all the ladies reading this thread, now believing that cave men still exist in abundance. And unfortunately, he does. There's some good news though. We're not all like that. Some of us have balanced and sensible reasoning when it comes to choosing their partner. And applying a numerical value to it is nothing short of stupidity. Its as mad as saying I won't date her because she's a size 14, and 12 is my limit. And for balance... you've got to be 10" or bigger. X | |||
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"No it doesn’t matter. We were both young when we got together so there’s not really a big body count but if there had been then that’s none of my business but I have seen others get twisted out of shape for it or actually quite upset x mrs x" Hi _he kinkys, that is good that it doesnt matter and you are right there, as you both were young, the count wouldnt be so high there x | |||
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