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Who are more competive sexually

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By *etillante OP   Woman
over a year ago

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Men or Women?

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By *etillante OP   Woman
over a year ago

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Sorry Competitive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always cum first

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

Men!!!

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Is it a competition?

I do find that men count more than women: how many orgasms, how many playing, how many times.

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

In the forum I have seen quite a lot of competitiveness from women chasing the same men. I'm sure it's the same the other way around though.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"In the forum I have seen quite a lot of competitiveness from women chasing the same men. I'm sure it's the same the other way around though. "

That's an interesting observation, especially when lots of posts from men are about women not showing any interest, outside side of the forum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it a competition?

I do find that men count more than women: how many orgasms, how many playing, how many times."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends how long they haven't had a bonk for

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Im not a competitive person, i get on with what im doing, quite happy to plod along. Those that think they are the best will always come across someone that is better

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I always cum first "

Could you two give your wit a rest for a couple of days to give the slower guys like me a chance?

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Men to stroke their own ego's

Some women to stroke a man's ego

Some women to stroke their own ego

Some don't, they just enjoy NSA

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

women r in charge in this game there miles a head it is so true

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By *hris148Man
over a year ago

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How many women buy cars or motorbikes with the expectation it will make them more attractive to men?

Men are easily more competitive than women when it comes to getting laid

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By *etillante OP   Woman
over a year ago

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"How many women buy cars or motorbikes with the expectation it will make them more attractive to men?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we are led to believe .....

ladies should not be allowed to drive..ooops

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you mean between the sheets or on the site?

I am very competitive in my normal everyday life... But not on here!

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"How many women buy cars or motorbikes with the expectation it will make them more attractive to men?

Men are easily more competitive than women when it comes to getting laid

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I can see your point - having said that some women (and I include myself) can be competitive in some areas of life. For example I love being faster and try to be as strong in the gym as a man who is comparable in age and frame. It is not seriously competitive just a bit of fun.

When playing certain games where you have to use wit I am competitive but again more for fun.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Men!!!"

I bet that's not true!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you mean between the sheets or on the site?

I am very competitive in my normal everyday life... But not on here!

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To be fair you don't need to be competitive on here everyone can see your pics and come to you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First of all:

How does one compete, sexually?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

now this is drifting away from the original question the ladies taking over and hijackingt

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Do you mean between the sheets or on the site?

I am very competitive in my normal everyday life... But not on here!

To be fair you don't need to be competitive on here everyone can see your pics and come to you x "

Yes but who will look first?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In the forum I have seen quite a lot of competitiveness from women chasing the same men. I'm sure it's the same the other way around though. "

Do women chase men on here

i didnt think they would need too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In the forum I have seen quite a lot of competitiveness from women chasing the same men. I'm sure it's the same the other way around though. "

Surely not?

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"In the forum I have seen quite a lot of competitiveness from women chasing the same men. I'm sure it's the same the other way around though.

Do women chase men on here

i didnt think they would need too. "

Only the competitive ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can understand the guys being competitive as there are so many on here.... I guess it does occur on here!

I have seen female posters being competitive in the forums...

Am I on the right track?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How many women buy cars or motorbikes with the expectation it will make them more attractive to men?

Men are easily more competitive than women when it comes to getting laid

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How many men go on ridiculous diets, spend fortunes on beauty treatments and wear bloody uncomfortable shoes and incomprehensible undergarments to make them more attractive to women?

I don't think it's a matter of competitiveness between sexes, but the level of perceived attractiveness.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely it is an individual thing ?

Some people are naturally more competitive than others and this will extend into their sex lives too.

So, I dare say there is sexual competitiveness within both sexes.

Where the lines become blurred is when competitiveness is really used as a pseudonym for point scoring and / or getting one over on someone (or at least attempting to).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

drifting again

are we talking notches?

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"How many women buy cars or motorbikes with the expectation it will make them more attractive to men?

Men are easily more competitive than women when it comes to getting laid

How many men go on ridiculous diets, spend fortunes on beauty treatments and wear bloody uncomfortable shoes and incomprehensible undergarments to make them more attractive to women?

I don't think it's a matter of competitiveness between sexes, but the level of perceived attractiveness."
Good point - I was just thinking they dont need to, do they?

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By *hris148Man
over a year ago

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"How many women buy cars or motorbikes with the expectation it will make them more attractive to men?

Men are easily more competitive than women when it comes to getting laid

How many men go on ridiculous diets, spend fortunes on beauty treatments and wear bloody uncomfortable shoes and incomprehensible undergarments to make them more attractive to women?

I don't think it's a matter of competitiveness between sexes, but the level of perceived attractiveness.Good point - I was just thinking they dont need to, do they?"

I can't argue with that logic

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By *orkieMan
over a year ago

Who knows

Women complain that guys are competitive, yet how many of them will admit to either conciously or subconciously, slipping into conversation a past occurrence with another guy.

The nature of the beast with guys is that every one wants to be top dog..... go figure

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


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The nature of the beast with guys is that every one wants to be top dog..... go figure "
and maybe we (humans) a re a bit programmed that way, that the "strongest" is perceived to be the fittest, the most attractive and thus gets the girl and ensures procreation. Maybe that is why at some level many women look for that competitive "alpha" male BS ...? Maybe we cannot help it at some level? Just a thought...

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By *hris148Man
over a year ago

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The nature of the beast with guys is that every one wants to be top dog..... go figure and maybe we (humans) a re a bit programmed that way, that the "strongest" is perceived to be the fittest, the most attractive and thus gets the girl and ensures procreation. Maybe that is why at some level many women look for that competitive "alpha" male BS ...? Maybe we cannot help it at some level? Just a thought..."

I agree, I can't help it, it's genetic programming.

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By *etillante OP   Woman
over a year ago

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The nature of the beast with guys is that every one wants to be top dog..... go figure "

Are you exhibiting at Crufts?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men to stroke their own ego's

Some women to stroke a man's ego

Some women to stroke their own ego

Some don't, they just enjoy NSA"

just enjoy the stroking idea mesel. competition? naaa I would bail out and have a cuppa.

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