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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So you're in the middle of sex, or foreplay and the other person stops.

What's your immediate thought?

Is it...

What's wrong?

What did I do wrong?

Am I not doing it right?

Don't they like what I'm doing?

Does it throw you off completely and start a negative thought process?

I've encountered it throwing a man off completely when I've 'adjusted'. And adjustments can be anything from freeing up a body part that's been squished, or in an uncomfortable position to slightly adjusting an angle because it'll just hit that spot a bit more.

So what sort of sort of adjustments do men and women make that the other gender might not understand? And what adjustments do both genders make? Let's help each other out with understanding.

I'll start.

Squashing my implants that much is a bit uncomfortable and I need to free them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I'd usually just ask if they were ok, no speedbump

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not that it’s a request but if you read my profile you’ll see mine

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
over a year ago

A den in the Glen

Oh God so many answers to this and each and everyone of them will have me banned, shot, blocked or outcast.

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By *rixie_BlondeWoman
over a year ago

London (She/Her)

My last Daddy Dom always made a point of caring for my [big] boobs - moving them when he or I were about to roll over or cuddle or whatever so that they didn’t get trapped and hurt. It sounds ridiculously simple but I never had to ask him and it felt really nice that he gave a shit. Plus it was great my boobs didn’t get squashed beneath him lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Leg cramp.. if you're gonna fold me in half like an ironing board, expect adjustments.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Oh God so many answers to this and each and everyone of them will have me banned, shot, blocked or outcast."

Oh you can't do this and not share

DM me

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
over a year ago

A den in the Glen


"Oh God so many answers to this and each and everyone of them will have me banned, shot, blocked or outcast.

Oh you can't do this and not share

DM me "

Hahaha not a chance. The Fab police will still catch me!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'll add another ....

My left labia got slightly tucked in at that angle so I'm just freeing it

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal


"So you're in the middle of sex, or foreplay and the other person stops.

What's your immediate thought?

Is it...

What's wrong?

What did I do wrong?

Am I not doing it right?

Don't they like what I'm doing?

Does it throw you off completely and start a negative thought process?

I've encountered it throwing a man off completely when I've 'adjusted'. And adjustments can be anything from freeing up a body part that's been squished, or in an uncomfortable position to slightly adjusting an angle because it'll just hit that spot a bit more.

So what sort of sort of adjustments do men and women make that the other gender might not understand? And what adjustments do both genders make? Let's help each other out with understanding.

I'll start.

Squashing my implants that much is a bit uncomfortable and I need to free them.

"

I needed her off to press the brake pedal

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
over a year ago

A den in the Glen


"I'll add another ....

My left labia got slightly tucked in at that angle so I'm just freeing it "

WTAF - does that actually happen?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll add another ....

My left labia got slightly tucked in at that angle so I'm just freeing it "

Sounds like a lot of stopping from your direction....anyone complained of cock cramp?

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By *hatsWhatCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

I think “shit, they’ve woken up”!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I'm adjusting I'll communicate why..

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Usually a sudden pause from them means they're deliberately edging or about to say something absurd.

I usually pause briefly to move hair out of my face, or shift weight if I'm getting a cramp

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)


"I'll add another ....

My left labia got slightly tucked in at that angle so I'm just freeing it

WTAF - does that actually happen?"

If you've got big lips then yes quite often

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
over a year ago

A den in the Glen


"I'll add another ....

My left labia got slightly tucked in at that angle so I'm just freeing it

WTAF - does that actually happen?

If you've got big lips then yes quite often "

Jeez. Is it dangerous or just uncomfortable?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll add another ....

My left labia got slightly tucked in at that angle so I'm just freeing it

WTAF - does that actually happen?

If you've got big lips then yes quite often "

.. Big lips.... *swoon*

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
over a year ago

kent

Nothing is ever a big deal. Adjusting for comfort is kinda obvious - who doesn’t want to be comfortable? And if we’ve reached the point in our friendship where we’re fucking, then communication between us is good and trust is high. Most things will just make us giggle and carry on Xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'll add another ....

My left labia got slightly tucked in at that angle so I'm just freeing it

WTAF - does that actually happen?

If you've got big lips then yes quite often

.. Big lips.... *swoon* "

I should have seen that coming

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll add another ....

My left labia got slightly tucked in at that angle so I'm just freeing it

WTAF - does that actually happen?

If you've got big lips then yes quite often

.. Big lips.... *swoon*

I should have seen that coming "

I'm sure he wouldn't say "no"

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal


"I think “shit, they’ve woken up”!

"

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By *he ass man 666Man
over a year ago

paradise city

When you feel the cramp coming in , that’s always a killer

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere else

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere else


"So you're in the middle of sex, or foreplay and the other person stops.

What's your immediate thought?

Is it...

What's wrong?

What did I do wrong?

Am I not doing it right?

Don't they like what I'm doing?

Does it throw you off completely and start a negative thought process?

I've encountered it throwing a man off completely when I've 'adjusted'. And adjustments can be anything from freeing up a body part that's been squished, or in an uncomfortable position to slightly adjusting an angle because it'll just hit that spot a bit more.

So what sort of sort of adjustments do men and women make that the other gender might not understand? And what adjustments do both genders make? Let's help each other out with understanding.

I'll start.

Squashing my implants that much is a bit uncomfortable and I need to free them.

"

The meter must’ve run out. I’d better put more money in it.

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal


"So you're in the middle of sex, or foreplay and the other person stops.

What's your immediate thought?

Is it...

What's wrong?

What did I do wrong?

Am I not doing it right?

Don't they like what I'm doing?

Does it throw you off completely and start a negative thought process?

I've encountered it throwing a man off completely when I've 'adjusted'. And adjustments can be anything from freeing up a body part that's been squished, or in an uncomfortable position to slightly adjusting an angle because it'll just hit that spot a bit more.

So what sort of sort of adjustments do men and women make that the other gender might not understand? And what adjustments do both genders make? Let's help each other out with understanding.

I'll start.

Squashing my implants that much is a bit uncomfortable and I need to free them.

The meter must’ve run out. I’d better put more money in it. "

Shit tends to happen..

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By *hunky ChefMan
over a year ago

Norwich

Call me weird, but actually I like the adjustments.

Well, as long as we are not ending up with the same (other than doggie) position for the whole time.

I love to start and finish with doggie position, but anything between.

Love the legs on my shoulders, but I know it gets uncomfortable for the ladies.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

I usually warn people before hand that'll I'll probably need to switch positions, having a dodgy back/leg.

I usually say "I just need to move"

It's either that or I've got too hot and need to stop a minute, and tie my hair up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If people are noticing the 'adjustments' then they aren't that into it.

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By *hunky ChefMan
over a year ago

Norwich


"If people are noticing the 'adjustments' then they aren't that into it.

"

***

It usually involves a full stop or my cock slips out.

Kind of hard not noticing it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If people are noticing the 'adjustments' then they aren't that into it.

***

It usually involves a full stop or my cock slips out.

Kind of hard not noticing it.

"

My point been if you're in the moment it wouldn't really register enough to stop and think about it if someone moved.

Unless I've just been doing sex wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If people are noticing the 'adjustments' then they aren't that into it.

"

Does that explain pins and needles in right hand then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Repositioning her slightly towards me when she's on top and grinding so she doesn't snap my cock the other way

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By *hunky ChefMan
over a year ago

Norwich


"If people are noticing the 'adjustments' then they aren't that into it.

***

It usually involves a full stop or my cock slips out.

Kind of hard not noticing it.

My point been if you're in the moment it wouldn't really register enough to stop and think about it if someone moved.

Unless I've just been doing sex wrong.

"

***

You are right.

Mostly it doesn't at that moment.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Men that suffer with ED and other problems in the bedroom will notice even if they are really into it.

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal


"Men that suffer with ED and other problems in the bedroom will notice even if they are really into it."

what if not?

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I adjust my body to get different angles. But if he just stopped that would be weird.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I adjust my body to get different angles. But if he just stopped that would be weird. "

But don't men stop to allow women to feel more in different angles?

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By *hunky ChefMan
over a year ago

Norwich


"Men that suffer with ED and other problems in the bedroom will notice even if they are really into it."

***

What are you trying to imply?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When he stops, I must pull some God awful face because he’s either laughed or asked me what’s wrong.

Lately I’ve been the one stopping to reposition sadly as I’ve a wonky leg that likes to spasm when left in the same position for too long. I try to hold out until the pain is completely intolerable because stopping. When my leg is not wonky, I’ve only stopped the times I’ve had a massive leg cramp.

When my labia gets folded in, I try to sort it without stopping the sex. If I’m getting squished, the same. If I can’t, I purposely push him out and rearrange.

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By *o scandalousWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Leg cramps! It’s the worst feeling.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When he stops, I must pull some God awful face because he’s either laughed or asked me what’s wrong.

Lately I’ve been the one stopping to reposition sadly as I’ve a wonky leg that likes to spasm when left in the same position for too long. I try to hold out until the pain is completely intolerable because stopping. When my leg is not wonky, I’ve only stopped the times I’ve had a massive leg cramp.

When my labia gets folded in, I try to sort it without stopping the sex. If I’m getting squished, the same. If I can’t, I purposely push him out and rearrange. "

But does that mean you're not into it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Men that suffer with ED and other problems in the bedroom will notice even if they are really into it.

***

What are you trying to imply?

"

I'm not implying anything. I'm just stating a fact. It's not at anyone, it's a comment about a group of people that suffer with ED and not aimed at anyone specifically.

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By *illy IdolMan
over a year ago

Midlands

If my bladder is full I'm going to make a slight adjustment so you're not bouncing up and down on it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

“Adjustments” are inevitable and just a sign of someone wanting to enjoy what they’re doing.. it’s just another form of communication and that’s got to be good right? Anything that leads to everyone involved enjoying themselves more fully sounds pretty good…

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By *heekyDemandCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

Cramp is the number 1 occupational hazard, just need to laugh it off and get on with it when it subsides

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By *ddie1966Man
over a year ago

Paper Town Central, Essex.

I suppose this falls into the Mid Care category of Pre/Mid/Post care.

It's no big dealing should be accepted as normal. It's never put me off, and of course, it cuts both ways...

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"I'll add another ....

My left labia got slightly tucked in at that angle so I'm just freeing it

WTAF - does that actually happen?

If you've got big lips then yes quite often "

Happens with smaller lips too. It's just where they are and the fact they're flappy.

To answer an earlier question, trapped labia are mainly just uncomfortable but if you're low on oestrogen or someone is being rough, you can get torn labia tissue. That hurts quite a lot and will sting like hell until healed.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'll add another ....

My left labia got slightly tucked in at that angle so I'm just freeing it

WTAF - does that actually happen?

If you've got big lips then yes quite often

Happens with smaller lips too. It's just where they are and the fact they're flappy.

To answer an earlier question, trapped labia are mainly just uncomfortable but if you're low on oestrogen or someone is being rough, you can get torn labia tissue. That hurts quite a lot and will sting like hell until healed. "

This makes me wince!

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