FabSwingers.com forum: Pics -Old and New

By *rixie_Blonde OP Woman
50 weeks ago

London (She/Her)

How frequently do you update your pics? Does it matter to you how recent the pics are in someone else’s profile when you’re checking them out?

I always look at a profile’s pics to get an idea of who I’m talking to, and it surprises me when they have pics still on there that are a decade or so old.

At what point do pics become so old they’re out of date and irrelevant, or is it always interesting to see someone’s history ?

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By (user no longer on site)
50 weeks ago

All new pictures need to be in the current year at least. I'm not going to meet someone still running with 2016 pictures

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
50 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

I like to keep them within the last year or so.

If I see someone and their pictures are from last decade I just don't bother with them

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By *rixie_Blonde OP Woman
50 weeks ago

London (She/Her)

"All new pictures need to be in the current year at least. I'm not going to meet someone still running with 2016 pictures

Right, that’s how I feel! I can understand using old pics to demonstrate a particular sexual interest but I need something more recent to know how you look

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By *rixie_Blonde OP Woman
50 weeks ago

London (She/Her)

"I like to keep them within the last year or so.

If I see someone and their pictures are from last decade I just don't bother with them

Do you think they just don’t bother to update their pics or do you think some people are trying to fool perspective meets - like an age catchfish

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
50 weeks ago

I rarely post any pics now, Latest being April 2023, My profile pic is from December 2016, Old pic but a favourite

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
50 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

"I like to keep them within the last year or so.

If I see someone and their pictures are from last decade I just don't bother with them

Do you think they just don’t bother to update their pics or do you think some people are trying to fool perspective meets - like an age catchfish "

Weight gain predominantly.

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By *rixie_Blonde OP Woman
50 weeks ago

London (She/Her)

"I rarely post any pics now, Latest being April 2023, My profile pic is from December 2016, Old pic but a favourite"

Do you feel your 2016 pics are still a fair representation of how you look now ?

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
50 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

"I like to keep them within the last year or so.

If I see someone and their pictures are from last decade I just don't bother with them

Do you think they just don’t bother to update their pics or do you think some people are trying to fool perspective meets - like an age catchfish "

Could be any number of reasons. But I'm very aware of how much my body has changed over the past year.

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By *rixie_Blonde OP Woman
50 weeks ago

London (She/Her)

"I like to keep them within the last year or so.

If I see someone and their pictures are from last decade I just don't bother with them

Do you think they just don’t bother to update their pics or do you think some people are trying to fool perspective meets - like an age catchfish

Weight gain predominantly."

It’s kinda sad that even on a site like this people are ashamed of their bodies

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By *ealitybitesMan
50 weeks ago

Belfast

All of my pics have been taken in the last 4 years and I post new ones just whenever I feel in the mood to do so rather than as a regular thing and rotate them.

I don't mind if someone has older pics on their profile as long as they still add new ones now and again but I've seen profiles here with only pics from 2011 so that would be a red flag immediately

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
50 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

"I like to keep them within the last year or so.

If I see someone and their pictures are from last decade I just don't bother with them

Do you think they just don’t bother to update their pics or do you think some people are trying to fool perspective meets - like an age catchfish

Weight gain predominantly.

It’s kinda sad that even on a site like this people are ashamed of their bodies

I know. Regardless of how we look there is no point in showing old photos of you don't resemble what you look like.

Says me using monochrome because it falsely makes you look better lol.

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By *rixie_Blonde OP Woman
50 weeks ago

London (She/Her)

"All of my pics have been taken in the last 4 years and I post new ones just whenever I feel in the mood to do so rather than as a regular thing and rotate them.

I don't mind if someone has older pics on their profile as long as they still add new ones now and again but I've seen profiles here with only pics from 2011 so that would be a red flag immediately"

Yeah I agree with this. I feel if they’re not updating them there’s a reason, either they aren’t serious about meeting or they aren’t respectful of perspective partners right to informed choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
50 weeks ago

Guess I should get some new ones

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
50 weeks ago

"I rarely post any pics now, Latest being April 2023, My profile pic is from December 2016, Old pic but a favourite

Do you feel your 2016 pics are still a fair representation of how you look now ?"

I've obviously aged in the face but I don't post face pics anyway, my body hasn't changed that much so yes they're still relevant

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By *rixie_Blonde OP Woman
50 weeks ago

London (She/Her)

"I like to keep them within the last year or so.

If I see someone and their pictures are from last decade I just don't bother with them

Do you think they just don’t bother to update their pics or do you think some people are trying to fool perspective meets - like an age catchfish

Could be any number of reasons. But I'm very aware of how much my body has changed over the past year. "

Changed all for the better !

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
50 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

"I like to keep them within the last year or so.

If I see someone and their pictures are from last decade I just don't bother with them

Do you think they just don’t bother to update their pics or do you think some people are trying to fool perspective meets - like an age catchfish

Could be any number of reasons. But I'm very aware of how much my body has changed over the past year.

Changed all for the better !

I miss some of my butt fat.

But overall, definitely

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By *rixie_Blonde OP Woman
50 weeks ago

London (She/Her)

"Guess I should get some new ones "

Have you got new underwear to show us???

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By (user no longer on site)
50 weeks ago

"Guess I should get some new ones

Have you got new underwear to show us???

That would be telling

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By *rixie_Blonde OP Woman
50 weeks ago

London (She/Her)

"I like to keep them within the last year or so.

If I see someone and their pictures are from last decade I just don't bother with them

Do you think they just don’t bother to update their pics or do you think some people are trying to fool perspective meets - like an age catchfish

Could be any number of reasons. But I'm very aware of how much my body has changed over the past year.

Changed all for the better !

I miss some of my butt fat.

But overall, definitely

Less comfy to sit on now?

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By *rixie_Blonde OP Woman
50 weeks ago

London (She/Her)

"I like to keep them within the last year or so.

If I see someone and their pictures are from last decade I just don't bother with them

Do you think they just don’t bother to update their pics or do you think some people are trying to fool perspective meets - like an age catchfish

Weight gain predominantly.

It’s kinda sad that even on a site like this people are ashamed of their bodies

I know. Regardless of how we look there is no point in showing old photos of you don't resemble what you look like.

Says me using monochrome because it falsely makes you look better lol."

No way you’re falsifying how smart your watch and shiny shoes combo are! Very dapper!

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By *rixie_Blonde OP Woman
50 weeks ago

London (She/Her)

"Guess I should get some new ones

Have you got new underwear to show us???

That would be telling "

Well, this is the chat forum ..

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By *ittlebirdWoman
50 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

I’ve been bitten once before by people with old pics.

Now unless they have a clear recent pic I just delete their messages tbh OP. Same goes for action pictures on single profiles. Instant delete for me

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
50 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

"Less comfy to sit on now? "

That has less to do with the lack of buttfat and more to do with Lycan making use of his presents early

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By (user no longer on site)
50 weeks ago

Would be hard to tell what’s new and what’s not with my picture or in less I used a really old one for instance

30 November 2023 Purple skirt set was took in 2022

29 November 2023 Red leggings set was take on the 29 November 2023

You wouldn’t be able to tell there is a year off difference

I do reframe from useing really old pictures

My profile picture the now say it all why I don’t ha ha

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
50 weeks ago

chichester

Rishi sunsk / Suella cosplay ideas

Only fans login

Warhammer community website

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
50 weeks ago

chichester

Whoops wrong topic lol

ignore me. This was for last googles topic

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By (user no longer on site)
50 weeks ago

6 of my public pics were taken in the last 4-5 weeks, whenever i rejoined... But i am rebuilding my profile so I'm definitely adding some of my favourites from the last few years.

Some of the older ones, such as 'that bow' I'm considering recreating

when I cba

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By (user no longer on site)
50 weeks ago

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By (user no longer on site)
50 weeks ago

"Rishi sunsk / Suella cosplay ideas

Only fans login

Warhammer community website "

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By (user no longer on site)
50 weeks ago

I don't display my old ones because of weight gain and it would be fake of me. My pictures are usually posted within a week of them being taken. But evidently my current selection should be obsolete due to a name change

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By *rixie_Blonde OP Woman
50 weeks ago

London (She/Her)

"Whoops wrong topic lol

ignore me. This was for last googles topic "

No bother, those it was entertaining as I was trying to imagine how those old and new pics would look hahaha xx

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By (user no longer on site)
50 weeks ago

There's no specific time limit for me if they also have recent pics up.

If you don't have more recent ones then pictures are too old when they no longer accurately represent what you look like today, as that is misrepresentation IMO. But that could be 6 months or 6 years depending on many factors.

I do see some men have a 5+ year old profile pic of them looking lean or ripped and more recent ones on the profile show a drift towards a softer or bigger dad bod. I think that's misrepresentating the truth a little too and the profile pic should be the most accurate.

If you don't look like your photos and actually want to meet - you're selling disappointment as a first impression and that's not a good look.

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By (user no longer on site)
50 weeks ago

"Guess I should get some new ones

Have you got new underwear to show us???

That would be telling

Well, this is the chat forum ..

Some things are best not shared

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
50 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

"Whoops wrong topic lol

ignore me. This was for last googles topic

No bother, those it was entertaining as I was trying to imagine how those old and new pics would look hahaha xx "

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By *avexxMan
50 weeks ago

cheshire

i keep a few updated show that i am still in good nick for an old guy,,

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By (user no longer on site)
50 weeks ago

Generally as and when I feel like taking them to be honest. Could be weeks, days or months apart but always try to make them accurate. I have a lot of old ones though that I should probably get rid of

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
50 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

Sometimes I have an older pic that fits a forum thread topic. Y’know, the monochrome Monday, torso Tuesday, etc … but otherwise I think I’m fairly up to date.

Yes, I have some older pics - but I also have brand-new ones. I’m not hiding anything.

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By *ilthycoupleabzCouple
50 weeks ago

Aberdeen

Prehaps people like a particular set of old photos or are simply lazy and don't delete them?

I don't particularly judge anyone for having old pics available so long as there are a few recent ones.

Each to their own really.

MrsAbz

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By (user no longer on site)
50 weeks ago

I put a disclaimer in my bio so as not to mislead as some pics are a couple of years old.

I have had a number of user names but don't carry the pics over, just start again as usual represents a change.

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By *exycarlashane181Couple
50 weeks ago

Leamington Spa

I'm obsessed with taking pics lol

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
50 weeks ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

The old ones are there as an archive, but there are plenty of new ones for people to enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
50 weeks ago

"How frequently do you update your pics? Does it matter to you how recent the pics are in someone else’s profile when you’re checking them out?

I always look at a profile’s pics to get an idea of who I’m talking to, and it surprises me when they have pics still on there that are a decade or so old.

At what point do pics become so old they’re out of date and irrelevant, or is it always interesting to see someone’s history ? "

Well one guy chatted to me with a photo of him as 20 years ago come on fab guys. You will be found out. In fact none of the photos he had looked genuine

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