FabSwingers.com forum: Hotel or home

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What’s everyone’s preference? Hotels seem to do it for me

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Hotel. Never home. Not a soul on here knows where I live and never will. I’ve always used a nearby town when people ask where I live.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hotel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always a hotel.

Going to a guys house, oh no, I've seen enough horror movies thanks.

As as the wise one says above, no one is gonna know where I live!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely Hotel

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By *dward_TeagueMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

There’s something deliciously sexy about hotel meets, particularly day use hotels when everyone else is at work

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

As a man it’s a different dynamic I guess, would you rather go to room together, after or get there first and wait for a knock?

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Hotel. I've turned down offers from well verified women who insisted on only meeting in their own homes.

My thinking was that if they had such little concern for their own personal safety that they were happy to give me as a complete stranger their address and allow me into their home having never met before, they weren't women I wanted anything to do with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hotel. I've turned down offers from well verified women who insisted on only meeting in their own homes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hotel

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By *otlovefun42Couple
over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...

Neither.

In all the years on here we have never invited anyone home for sex, and never will.

We've done hotel meets a handful of times in the past but not really keen on that either.

We stick to clubs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hotel a lot more fun and safer than meeting at home.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What’s everyone’s preference? Hotels seem to do it for me "

Hotel, motel holiday Inn. But ideally a nice hotel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hotel please. Let's go

Mrs C

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

Hotel. It's neutral territory.

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By *ensman100Man
over a year ago

Hounslow

Hotel.. definitely

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

Hotel 100%. It's a sexy neutral space and we don't have to tidy up before hand (or after).

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

Hotel or club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hotel please. Let's go

Mrs C "

Name the time and place xx

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

Love hotel fun, well technically I would if I did have fun in hotels

lol

Bar meet, chat, few drinks, bit of a Giggle, flirting then move to the room

Perfect just need a partner in crime lol

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By *LiamMan
over a year ago

Midlands

Hotels for me

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Depends on my mood really and who it is. Trusted fwb will always be welcome at my home, I prefer first time meets at a hotel as neutral ground and I know I can leave at any point if it's not working out.

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

Wherever I lay my hat

I like the convenience of home as I don't have to lug a bag full of toys around, but a hotel meet (particularly with a bit of a warm up in the bar first) is totally delicious

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

Hotel unless it’s one of my FWBs

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By *ove2watchMan
over a year ago

weymouth

Hotel as it's neutral ground so both sides feel comfortable

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
over a year ago

A den in the Glen

Hotel for me. You can steal the soaps, watch QVC, leave the place upside down and keep next door awake well into the early hours with the headboard banging and moaning.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both, at risk of sounding like a cop out, each has it benefits and drawbacks. Clearly I trust people that come to my home and would only go to these people's homes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like the convenience of home as I don't have to lug a bag full of toys around, but a hotel meet (particularly with a bit of a warm up in the bar first) is totally delicious"

Tell us what toys you’re lugging in that bag for your hotel meets The people need to know!

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

"I like the convenience of home as I don't have to lug a bag full of toys around, but a hotel meet (particularly with a bit of a warm up in the bar first) is totally delicious"

Awww I think it’s great to keep us guys entertained with toys after we’ve finished, please tell me you take Lego

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Why go to a hotel when I’ve got a nice house? Unnecessary expense Always works for me.

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By *rozac_fairyCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Club.

We've been burnt with home & hotel so we stick to clubs

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By *enk15Man
over a year ago

Evesham

Hotel.

Home would be reserved for someone I knew really really really well, had run a DBS check on and had acquired two written references for.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Mostly home, because I build up trust with people before I meet them, and meet them socially first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I quite like a hotel as it's nice and neutral and in addition to that, I love having a drink at the bar to put me at ease before (or if) the main event happens.

I do also like the intimacy of meeting at someone's home though but would only do that if I felt like I could trust them

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By *S-cardiffiansCouple
over a year ago

cardiff

I would say hotel x

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

Wherever I lay my hat

"I like the convenience of home as I don't have to lug a bag full of toys around, but a hotel meet (particularly with a bit of a warm up in the bar first) is totally delicious

Tell us what toys you’re lugging in that bag for your hotel meets The people need to know!

Probably quicker to tell you what I don't have.

An orgasm tower

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By *inacolada3Couple
over a year ago

kettering

Option 3 : clubs only, and its rather good fun being watched x

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By *lansmanMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

Blimey , I am honestly surprised by the positive repies to hotel meets.

At one time suggesting a hotel meet would mean you where married and therefore rejected.

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I’m most comfortable at a hotel for a first meet. But never say never

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like the convenience of home as I don't have to lug a bag full of toys around, but a hotel meet (particularly with a bit of a warm up in the bar first) is totally delicious

Tell us what toys you’re lugging in that bag for your hotel meets The people need to know!

Probably quicker to tell you what I don't have.

An orgasm tower"

I need to google what an orgasm tower is lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

googled it! Omg!

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By *iberatedduoCouple
over a year ago

Ashbourne

As you can see from our uploaded photos all of our meets arranged through fab have taken place at home without any problems. No one has ever objected to visiting us at home be it a couple or single.

We’ve never had anyone turn up unannounced either.

We find it a more intimate experience playing in our own bed as opposed to a hotel.

We wouldn’t rule out a hotel meet should the opportunity come along.

Meeting at home you don’t have to splash out on drinks, fuel or paying for the room.

How many on here have traveled only to be stood up ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Home I value my safety to much to meet in a hotel.

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By *iberatedduoCouple
over a year ago

Ashbourne

I suppose accommodating as a couple is different to someone who is on their own.

Having said that as a male I wouldn’t have any qualms inviting someone over if I was on my own whereas Kat wouldn’t accom alone unless she knew them well enough.

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By *ilverjagMan
over a year ago

swansea

Mostly home or at one of my other tastefully furnished properties, that way I can accommodate several people, overnight if required.

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By *erriman69Couple
over a year ago

highworth

Airbnb.

Hotel rooms are too small unless you get a suite.

We like to play in lots of different rooms! In the kitchen, over the table, sofa etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hotel

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By *D - CharlieMan
over a year ago

wirral

Used to accom, however the clean up can be a pain in the ass and a friend on here told me about a bad experience of a one off meet turning up out of the blue at night when her kids were home

So moved to hotel meets for the foreseeable

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By *ove2pleaseseukMan
over a year ago

Hastings

"Used to accom, however the clean up can be a pain in the ass and a friend on here told me about a bad experience of a one off meet turning up out of the blue at night when her kids were home

So moved to hotel meets for the foreseeable "

Yep hotels leave the mess behind.

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Neither. I prefer a club setting.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

After having stalkers I will never bring fab fucks to my home.

Hotels are safe and if I book the hotel I know staff so just let them know I am meeting and they will check on me later on at an agreed time

Clubs are ok as well but never as relaxed

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By *xfordjohnMan
over a year ago

Oxford

I've never met in a hotel as I can accommodate and no-one so far has suggested anything else. Perhaps the time will come.......

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I've been meeting in my hotel room for a few years. I get the benefits of the stay plus the sexual action and safety

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By *hunky ChefMan
over a year ago

Norwich

Never had sex in a hotel, but I would for sure.

I've got fucked often when I used to be a chef in a hotel though.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Hotel. Don’t have to run around with a hoover beforehand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hotel

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