FabSwingers.com forum: Hows your year been?

By *asycouple1971 OP Couple
50 weeks ago

midlands

In general, how was this year?

We had a good few meets and ticked off some naughty bucket list.

Been a tough year at home with family life.

Glad to see the back of this year.

Good riddence 2023.

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By *alandNitaCouple
50 weeks ago

Scunthorpe

"In general, how was this year?

We had a good few meets and ticked off some naughty bucket list.

Been a tough year at home with family life.

Glad to see the back of this year.

Good riddence 2023."

It's not over yet, ask me again in 31 days

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By (user no longer on site)
50 weeks ago

Personal life has had its ups and downs this year but ok now

Sexual life has been wild clocked my most miles up in a year ever and I don’t mean traveling ha ha

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By *ouple4voyeurCouple
50 weeks ago

Birmingham

2023 has been totally and utterly cr@p to put it lightly

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By *pYaMan
50 weeks ago

Ready…

This year has been shit and the outlook for end of year is not good, could be time for a big change!

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By (user no longer on site)
50 weeks ago

Meh, almost through it, and can chalk off another year at the coalface. That’s about as good as it gets.

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By *ickyKlungespeareMan
50 weeks ago

St Leonards

I expect it to number 365 days, although predictive uncertainty always gives me a hard-on.

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By *torm in a G cupWoman
50 weeks ago

Land of the Long White Cloud

Lost my club virginity and some adventures.

Been an extremely busy year work wise and family life has brought some challenging times, but things seem to be calming down again now.

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By *mooth tongue 4uMan
50 weeks ago

edinburgh

It’s been a testing year , I’ve lost a few family members , had some rotten luck with cars and had a fair few jobs needed done to the house

I’m keeping positive and hoping for a better year ahead

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
50 weeks ago

Leeds

Overall not too bad, bit of a hectic last 3 months but otherwise all good, except the me piling on the weight

Mrs

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
50 weeks ago

Southampton

Really a mixed bag... lost my dad at the end of January, so having to deal with that as well as struggling with my mental health, lost one of my late dad's sisters recently too... but on a positive note I've had lots of adventures and met some great people xx

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By (user no longer on site)
50 weeks ago

It’s been a busy year for me, I have been out of the country for 30 weeks for work visiting Brisbane, Denver, Riga, Tallinn, Vilnius, Zwolle, Frankfurt and Stockholm.

I have two quiet(ish) weeks of work left before I finish for the year. Then hitting the travel hard again in January spending most of the month back in Brisbane. It’s a hard life

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By *ora the explorerWoman
50 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

Not bad. Could be worse, could be better.

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By *aughty but nice...Man
50 weeks ago

Staffs

"Not bad. Could be worse, could be better. "

Exactly what I was going to say

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By (user no longer on site)
50 weeks ago

It’s been a mix of good, bad and very bad.

Having to pick myself up from a very dark place, which I did.

- “Life?!! Is that the best you’ve got?!”

A lot of good luck, a new job that I love. A house when all I needed was a flat. Ma few good friends helping me when I needed it the most.

And for a short time, I found a little love from a beautiful woman who made me believe that you can believe and find happiness once again in life.

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By *gent CoulsonMan
50 weeks ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

2023 gets a huge thumbs up from me

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By *Cups32Woman
50 weeks ago

Colne

I thought after having health issues for the past couple of years, I might get a break this year but no. That's all limited play too... An easier year next year would be nice.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
50 weeks ago

Portsmouth

A bit of a rollercoaster! And next year is already looking like it could be the same.

Grateful for the friends in my life though, old and new.

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By (user no longer on site)
50 weeks ago

It's been very up and down for me and maybe a lot of that is because I'm too emotional so treat the highs as euphoric and the downs as depressing.

I still don't feel settled in the job in started last year leading to my impostor syndrome seriously kicking in and wondering whether I'm up for it.

Family has been challenging in terms of feeling like I have to meet their expectations of me to seem like I'm contributing.

The gym has been very good after a slow start and have that balance right now I'm allowed to go at lunch instead of waking up early in the morning like I did in the first half of the year.

My friends have been amazing to hang out with when needed and always have a good laugh and I'm probably at my happiest when I'm with them.

I lost my mojo, probably due to always feeling tired because of waking up early to go to the gym, but even then I still had some wonderful meets which have been the absolute highlight of my Fab journey so far and even though I found it later this year, I've had some realisations which have been very, very tough to face but something I needed to do so very up and down there.

Sorry for the essay

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
50 weeks ago

ashford

Swings and roundabouts retired in July! Had some nice holidays! On the down side lost my beloved spaniel in June and my cat (she was 15) last Saturday x

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By *hunderace...Man
50 weeks ago

Dudley

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By *penbicoupleCouple
50 weeks ago

Northampton

When I think about how my year has been, Fab doesn't even cross my mind.

I married the love of my life. Pretty fucking awesome year.

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By *ornycougaWoman
50 weeks ago

Wherever I lay my hat

I posted a long response on the other thread on this topic so I'll just say that there were a couple of low points but generally a frickin awesome year for me

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By *ittlebirdWoman
50 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

It’s been… one of those years. Good and bad. Mostly smiled through it. Will definitely do the same for next year

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By *zeroMan
50 weeks ago

Glasgow

Started off great had a few adventures and met loads of new freinds.

Then lots of things happened in my personal life such as my dad getting dementia and my mum getting admitted to hospital and my depression coming back with a vengeance.

Things are stable now so hoping 2024 will be good.

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
50 weeks ago

Transsexual Transylvania

Nearly as crap as last year, and that was fucking awful.

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By (user no longer on site)
50 weeks ago

"I posted a long response on the other thread on this topic so I'll just say that there were a couple of low points but generally a frickin awesome year for me"

I just saw the other thread too and thought "I can't be arsed copying and pasting from this thread"

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By *urious8240Man
50 weeks ago

Ammanford

All in all a great year, business has doubled in size which unfortunately has impacted on my social availability but hopefully looking to get back to some naughty fun times next year now thinks have settled

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By *IG G77Man
50 weeks ago

GATLEY

It's been the toughest year yet TBF

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
50 weeks ago

Southampton

Giving everyone a big hug who needs it's xx

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By *zeroMan
50 weeks ago

Glasgow

"Giving everyone a big hug who needs it's xx"

And you too

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By (user no longer on site)
50 weeks ago

The glib answer would be I am still alive so for some that counts as a success. It's being an up and down yea, esp with two close deaths in the last few months. Hopefully new year we can hit the reset button again and try to figure out a way forward that leads to me wanting to be here.

As did this site, not had much success meet wise but had some good times on the forums and talked to a few who care so am thankful for that.

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By *assy69Man
50 weeks ago

West Sussex and Wales

"In general, how was this year?

We had a good few meets and ticked off some naughty bucket list.

Been a tough year at home with family life.

Glad to see the back of this year.

Good riddence 2023."

This year has been a rollercoaster…… achieved some things I’d wanted to get to, but now life is running away from me and I am having trouble holding onto my mojo……, overall though, it has been a good one

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By (user no longer on site)
50 weeks ago

"Giving everyone a big hug who needs it's xx"

Yeh. Listening to everyone always makes me feel like shit when I say how hard my life is. We are all dealing with something.

Big hugs.

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By *r_PinkMan
50 weeks ago

london stratford

This year has comprised of a few highs but way too many lows,

fingers crossed though, I am on the upward bounce. So will go into the new year up the way up

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By *aughty but nice...Man
50 weeks ago

Staffs

Bump

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By (user no longer on site)
50 weeks ago

Standard really, some nice highs, and some absolutely shitty lows. But mostly somewhere in the middle. Same as most years.

You’ve just got to soak up the highs and not wallow in the lows.. simple, really.

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
50 weeks ago

Southampton

"Giving everyone a big hug who needs it's xx

And you too

Thank you x

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By *an de LyonMan
50 weeks ago

welling

"In general, how was this year?

We had a good few meets and ticked off some naughty bucket list.

Been a tough year at home with family life.

Glad to see the back of this year.

Good riddence 2023."

Fucked up.

Some absolute shit and utter darkness. Some lighter moments. And now some genuine joy and light, which is paradoxically causing me untold stress

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By *inky ChefMan
50 weeks ago

Norwich

It was crap, but still better than lock down.

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By (user no longer on site)
50 weeks ago

Had an indifferent year, nothing sexually happened but felt good about taking the time to mentally and physically heal after what was a very sorrowful 2022

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By (user no longer on site)
50 weeks ago

More highs than lows, I'm happy..

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By *obilebottomMan
50 weeks ago

All over

There are always ups and downs in life for most people I think.

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By *C79Man
50 weeks ago

Caterham

2023 can get in the bin. I went on holiday in March, got COVID. Work has been a shit show & I still can't move into my house 3 years after buying it (massive renovation). I did go to 1 or 2 good social events so it wasn't all doom & gloom

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By *inkyycurvyyWoman
50 weeks ago

Manchester

First half of the year was the end of the worst 12 months of my life. This has been a tough one, but things have been a bit better the last few months and sexually it's been some of the best times of my life. Mixed to say the least.

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By *ot-AshMan
50 weeks ago

London

I won 5 quid on Clacton pier so I can't complain really.

(I did spend 4 quid on 2 p coins to win it)

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By *ellhungvweMan
50 weeks ago

Cheltenham

It has been a good year for me. Vanilla life started bumpily but has ended well. Fab has just been a blast all year - met some really nice people and had lots of fun

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By *o scandalousWoman
50 weeks ago

Glasgow

A bit meh. In all areas. Some surprises that were lovely but didn’t turn out the way I’d hoped.

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By *uscle88Man
50 weeks ago

Potters Bar

This years been eventful in its own right, but has lacked consistency in many aspects and hasn’t lived up to expectations in many respects for myself

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By *mber SkiesWoman
50 weeks ago

Cwmderi

This year has shown me what I don’t want it to be next year

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By *ddie1966Man
50 weeks ago

Paper Town Central, Essex.

Pants...

Hopefully 2024 will be a vast improvement

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By *coobyBoobyDooWoman
50 weeks ago

Markfield

Very difficult year health wise but all of dealwithable so far.

Attempted a relationship with someone from fab in jan and feb but gave up on that, I’m just not designed for it, developed a fwb thing, again with someone from here but it’s been off and on since march and I’m thinking it’s permanently off for at least the rest of this year!

Grafted with a few friendships from here and have some potential new meets pending which is always exciting. Had the usual vast amount of time wasters too, so I must improve on my dicktector skills!

I’ll save the New Year’s resolutions for the end of the month?

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By (user no longer on site)
50 weeks ago

Gone through the floor this week

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By *coobyBoobyDooWoman
50 weeks ago

Markfield

"Gone through the floor this week

Sending condolences wonko x

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By *olacolaMan
50 weeks ago

lincoln

Great! Finally gave up my job to expand my erotic writing career together with singing pubs and weddings, and it’s going great!

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