FabSwingers.com forum: Christmas present dilemma, HELP!

By *ools and the brain OP Couple
51 weeks ago

couple, us we him her.

Posting this on here as jools rarely comes on the forum so happy that she won't read this.

She absolutely loves Christmas and loves giving and opening pressies.

I'm shit at Christmas I usually go to small or two big.

Here's my dilemma given that she loves Christmas I'm torn between 1 really expensive present ( I won't say exactly what just in case) it's small but I know she'll love it,

Do I go for lot's of presents that she can unwrap.

Cost isn't the issue it's meaning and sentiment, she'd love it if I got her a potato and wrapped it up if I said I'd grown it especially.

Thoughts please

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By *ools and the brain OP Couple
51 weeks ago

couple, us we him her.

Too small,too big

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By *exycarlashane181Couple
51 weeks ago

Leamington Spa

Get her the big present and lots of well thought out cheaper things to unwrap.

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

If the loads of small presents are things she will equally love the same way you know she’d love the one large present, I think you have your answer.

If they are just things to say you’ve given her lots then skip them and do the one large thing you know she will absolutely love.

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

"If the loads of small presents are things she will equally love the same way you know she’d love the one large present, I think you have your answer.

If they are just things to say you’ve given her lots then skip them and do the one large thing you know she will absolutely love. "

If it were me, I’d give the one large present and lots of well thought of small ones too if she’s overly joyful about opening presents.

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By *ickshawedCouple
51 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

You could put the expensive one in lots of layers of wrapping and boxes. If that would annoy her rather than amuse her, get lots of little things from the £ shop, so she has lots to unwrap.

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By *inkForLifeCouple
51 weeks ago

North Shields

Personally I'd give her a big present if she isn't going to feel disappointed she only has one or two things to open. As well as the day itself you need to consider the practical side of having loads of things she wants to keep! Do you have the space etc.

I bought Miss a bracelet off the diamond store recently which was very nice, if money really isn't a problem, have a look there, they've got some lovely things.

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By *ools and the brain OP Couple
51 weeks ago

couple, us we him her.

Thanks all, good ideas

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
51 weeks ago

Bristol

Dick in a box

- Acquire box

- Cut hole in box

- Make box look pretty

- Insert penis

- Give to wife

Classic.

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By *hippy200Woman
51 weeks ago

leeds

"Get her the big present and lots of well thought out cheaper things to unwrap. "

This!!

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By *ools and the brain OP Couple
51 weeks ago

couple, us we him her.

"Dick in a box

- Acquire box

- Cut hole in box

- Make box look pretty

- Insert penis

- Give to wife

Classic. "

Hmmmm not sure the family would be impressed on Xmas day

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

I’m slightly different.

We used to set a budget. Sometimes £20.

Buy something personal that means something.

Given enough money we can all find something. But something small that has meaning

That said that’s maybe why I’m single

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By *ools and the brain OP Couple
51 weeks ago

couple, us we him her.

"I’m slightly different.

We used to set a budget. Sometimes £20.

Buy something personal that means something.

Given enough money we can all find something. But something small that has meaning

That said that’s maybe why I’m single

We celebrate our 38th year together next year, I'm getting sentimental.

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
51 weeks ago

Bristol

"Dick in a box

- Acquire box

- Cut hole in box

- Make box look pretty

- Insert penis

- Give to wife

Classic.

Hmmmm not sure the family would be impressed on Xmas day

Well you didn't get it for them did you?

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

Grow a potato.

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

"Dick in a box

- Acquire box

- Cut hole in box

- Make box look pretty

- Insert penis

- Give to wife

Classic. "

Quite like this

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By *arla SwingerWoman
51 weeks ago

Somewhere

"Posting this on here as jools rarely comes on the forum so happy that she won't read this.

She absolutely loves Christmas and loves giving and opening pressies.

I'm shit at Christmas I usually go to small or two big.

Here's my dilemma given that she loves Christmas I'm torn between 1 really expensive present ( I won't say exactly what just in case) it's small but I know she'll love it,

Do I go for lot's of presents that she can unwrap.

Cost isn't the issue it's meaning and sentiment, she'd love it if I got her a potato and wrapped it up if I said I'd grown it especially.

Thoughts please "

I'm not a very Christmassy person. But I'd go with a shit ton of presents she can unwrap, fun, silly, low value stuff. Keep the 'item' held back till last, and play it out as an afterthought. As in. Oh, and there's one left at the back of the tree... Core memory right there

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By *ools and the brain OP Couple
51 weeks ago

couple, us we him her.

"Posting this on here as jools rarely comes on the forum so happy that she won't read this.

She absolutely loves Christmas and loves giving and opening pressies.

I'm shit at Christmas I usually go to small or two big.

Here's my dilemma given that she loves Christmas I'm torn between 1 really expensive present ( I won't say exactly what just in case) it's small but I know she'll love it,

Do I go for lot's of presents that she can unwrap.

Cost isn't the issue it's meaning and sentiment, she'd love it if I got her a potato and wrapped it up if I said I'd grown it especially.

Thoughts please

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By *uri00620Woman
51 weeks ago

Croydon

"I’m slightly different.

We used to set a budget. Sometimes £20.

Buy something personal that means something.

Given enough money we can all find something. But something small that has meaning

That said that’s maybe why I’m single

Ha, me too. Well I don't do presents at all nor do I want them! Definitely why I'm single

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By *icecouple561Couple
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51 weeks ago

East Sussex

If she loves unwrapping gifts get loads of little ones.

That's what we do

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By *naswingdressWoman
51 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

One big present. And

A few boxes of a variety of sizes (wrapped), with a hand written note in each one talking about why she means so much to you.

Put stuff in there to make the weight different. Like a giant box that weighs nothing will be suspicious, so "borrow" the baked beans for a big box with a note

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
51 weeks ago

ashford

Lots to unwrap x

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

Lots it's awkward unwrapping just a few or just get her the big present and a bunch of heartfelt silly little ones.

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