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By *ourtney Cocks OP   Woman
over a year ago

Cardiff

Some of the guys on here moaning they can’t get a meet did you think this site was insta-shag ? You do actually have to put some work in to get a meet not just the FAF messages what do you think us women are as if we’d let a complete stranger in to our safe havens a build of trust got to happen first or go on a social jeez some have no clue guys if you want instant shag go see a w0rking girl

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

Do you feel better now?

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By *ourtney Cocks OP   Woman
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Do you feel better now? "
a bit it’s everyday someone is asking “what can they do to get a meet” mun

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

I love your form of catharsis OP.

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

op does not apply if the guy is like "him off the telly".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

New to the forum but it does seem like there's a portion of new sign ups who see this as the "all the women appear to be broken, they won't shag me" reporting line

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow


"Some of the guys on here moaning they can’t get a meet did you think this site was insta-shag ? You do actually have to put some work in to get a meet not just the FAF messages what do you think us women are as if we’d let a complete stranger in to our safe havens a build of trust got to happen first or go on a social jeez some have no clue guys if you want instant shag go see a w0rking girl "

I'm sick of all these threads moaning about men moaning Actually I set up one up a few weeks ago and it got closed quickly as too much man bashing recently.

Saying that it may surprise you that you don't speak for all ladies and there are quite a few that do want insta-shag and post meets to that effect. There is at least one on my local updates almost every day. That may shape the attitude of some men.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"Some of the guys on here moaning they can’t get a meet did you think this site was insta-shag ? You do actually have to put some work in to get a meet not just the FAF messages what do you think us women are as if we’d let a complete stranger in to our safe havens a build of trust got to happen first or go on a social jeez some have no clue guys if you want instant shag go see a w0rking girl "

Don’t be sick be grateful that it’s filtering them out for you

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By *ourtney Cocks OP   Woman
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Some of the guys on here moaning they can’t get a meet did you think this site was insta-shag ? You do actually have to put some work in to get a meet not just the FAF messages what do you think us women are as if we’d let a complete stranger in to our safe havens a build of trust got to happen first or go on a social jeez some have no clue guys if you want instant shag go see a w0rking girl

I'm sick of all these threads moaning about men moaning Actually I set up one up a few weeks ago and it got closed quickly as too much man bashing recently.

Saying that it may surprise you that you don't speak for all ladies and there are quite a few that do want insta-shag and post meets to that effect. There is at least one on my local updates almost every day. That may shape the attitude of some men. "
really I certainly wouldn’t take that chance

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By *archelCouple
over a year ago

A field somewhere

On point OP

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow


"

Saying that it may surprise you that you don't speak for all ladies and there are quite a few that do want insta-shag and post meets to that effect. There is at least one on my local updates almost every day. That may shape the attitude of some men. really I certainly wouldn’t take that chance "

Totally understand that and think most would agree. Just saying there is a chunk of ladies who feel differently. Don't tend to see then on Forum. I am here as a couple now and generally chat for a while and meet at parties etc. However, in the past I have sampled the instashag world and met ladies posting for meets today within an hour or two of saying hello....including going to their homes, ranging from tiny flat to large country house. There really are all kinds on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some of the guys on here moaning they can’t get a meet did you think this site was insta-shag ? You do actually have to put some work in to get a meet not just the FAF messages what do you think us women are as if we’d let a complete stranger in to our safe havens a build of trust got to happen first or go on a social jeez some have no clue guys if you want instant shag go see a w0rking girl "

Sometimes it's easier just to block all the moaners and look at all the positives.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you telling me you don't work, OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some of the guys on here moaning they can’t get a meet did you think this site was insta-shag ? You do actually have to put some work in to get a meet not just the FAF messages what do you think us women are as if we’d let a complete stranger in to our safe havens a build of trust got to happen first or go on a social jeez some have no clue guys if you want instant shag go see a w0rking girl "

Equally tiresome hearing women moan about men continuously on these forums...and the blatant double standards towards having a moan

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you feel better now? a bit it’s everyday someone is asking “what can they do to get a meet” mun "

Everyday I’m hearing women moan about getting messages for sex on a sex themed site ….

Swings and roundabouts!!!!

*second time I’ve said this today.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you feel better now? a bit it’s everyday someone is asking “what can they do to get a meet” mun

Everyday I’m hearing women moan about getting messages for sex on a sex themed site ….

Swings and roundabouts!!!!

*second time I’ve said this today. "

Lol

The hypocrisy and lack of awareness is genuinely laughable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you feel better now? a bit it’s everyday someone is asking “what can they do to get a meet” mun

Everyday I’m hearing women moan about getting messages for sex on a sex themed site ….

Swings and roundabouts!!!!

*second time I’ve said this today. "

Try oscillating and revolving for variety

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did anyone else try reading that out loud and pass out?

*PW decides to make a note of all the men that can last on one breath that long*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you feel better now? a bit it’s everyday someone is asking “what can they do to get a meet” mun

Everyday I’m hearing women moan about getting messages for sex on a sex themed site ….

Swings and roundabouts!!!!

*second time I’ve said this today.

Try oscillating and revolving for variety "

If someone is a swinger. Can they a roundabouter the week after?

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Same girl, same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP we can’t give profile advice without you first asking, so many just review your profile and ask what about it is attracting these types of guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Same girl, same."

I love you, man

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere else


"Did anyone else try reading that out loud and pass out?

*PW decides to make a note of all the men that can last on one breath that long* "

Why are you so mean to the men, PW?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Did anyone else try reading that out loud and pass out?

*PW decides to make a note of all the men that can last on one breath that long* "

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By *uffolkcouple-bi onlyCouple
over a year ago

West Suffolk/Essex

Well we just got accused of being racist cos we pointed out to an Asian guy that he lived two hours drive away and that he was looking for a guy to fuck him, which the exact opposite of what we look for.

Some people eh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suppose a blow job is out of the question then?

I’m sorry, j/k, I couldn’t help but live up to the stereotype…

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset


"Same girl, same.

I love you, man"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

MUN.. lol.. love it mun x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Did anyone else try reading that out loud and pass out?

*PW decides to make a note of all the men that can last on one breath that long*

Why are you so mean to the men, PW?"

I just got it voice noted to me in one breath by a guy ...he gets my sense of humour and doesn't mistake it for meanness.

Is that even a word?

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By *ourtney Cocks OP   Woman
over a year ago

Cardiff


"OP we can’t give profile advice without you first asking, so many just review your profile and ask what about it is attracting these types of guys "
I’m not asking for advice it was just a statement!

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By *ourtney Cocks OP   Woman
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Are you telling me you don't work, OP?"
not that way no I couldn’t put the word I wanted to use as it goes against forum rules

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you feel better now? a bit it’s everyday someone is asking “what can they do to get a meet” mun

Everyday I’m hearing women moan about getting messages for sex on a sex themed site ….

Swings and roundabouts!!!!

*second time I’ve said this today.

Try oscillating and revolving for variety

If someone is a swinger. Can they a roundabouter the week after? "

Ask me next week when the same threads start again.

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere else


"Did anyone else try reading that out loud and pass out?

*PW decides to make a note of all the men that can last on one breath that long*

Why are you so mean to the men, PW?

I just got it voice noted to me in one breath by a guy ...he gets my sense of humour and doesn't mistake it for meanness.

Is that even a word?"

Men deserve more kindness. It’s hard for them. We should try to see it their way more often. Then they’ll be much nicer to us.

We don’t want them to be jaded here, you know. It’s our responsibility to make sure they’re comfortable.

You get what you give out, after all.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

In

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP we can’t give profile advice without you first asking, so many just review your profile and ask what about it is attracting these types of guys I’m not asking for advice it was just a statement!"

Have you tried fully reading people’s bio?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to say on my updates inbrhe last hour 33 profiles, 4 of them are women asking for their holes to be filled tonight and 2 profiles are couples asking for any1 free later?

So it's not just men that have that insta mindset on the site

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By *ourtney Cocks OP   Woman
over a year ago

Cardiff


"MUN.. lol.. love it mun x "
it’s a Welsh thing

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By *uffolkcouple-bi onlyCouple
over a year ago

West Suffolk/Essex

I see this site as a sex site, men and woman come on here to get sex, it’s far from a dating site lol.

We personally don’t offer sex with the Mrs, we only look for men for Mr as meet now type meets.

Mrs

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By *arynBrianCouple
over a year ago

Epping


"Some of the guys on here moaning they can’t get a meet did you think this site was insta-shag ? You do actually have to put some work in to get a meet not just the FAF messages what do you think us women are as if we’d let a complete stranger in to our safe havens a build of trust got to happen first or go on a social jeez some have no clue guys if you want instant shag go see a w0rking girl "

What she said…

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By *orny-DJMan
over a year ago

Leigh-on-Sea


"Some of the guys on here moaning they can’t get a meet did you think this site was insta-shag ? You do actually have to put some work in to get a meet not just the FAF messages what do you think us women are as if we’d let a complete stranger in to our safe havens a build of trust got to happen first or go on a social jeez some have no clue guys if you want instant shag go see a w0rking girl "

Wouldn't kill them to do a quick forum search to see if the question has already been asked now, would it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have to say on my updates inbrhe last hour 33 profiles, 4 of them are women asking for their holes to be filled tonight and 2 profiles are couples asking for any1 free later?

So it's not just men that have that insta mindset on the site"

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset


"Are you telling me you don't work, OP? not that way no I couldn’t put the word I wanted to use as it goes against forum rules "

Sex workers is perfectly fine.

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