FabSwingers.com forum: Why it so hard

By (user no longer on site) OP
52 weeks ago

Why is it so hard to get a reply let alone a meet

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By *layfullsamMan
52 weeks ago

Solihull

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

Looking what you called them in a previous thread you started may help you answer this

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By *layfullsamMan
52 weeks ago

Solihull

"Why is it so hard to get a reply let alone a meet"

I’m no Sherlock Holmes but could it Possibly be because You called all the women you messaged stuck up in another thread ?

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

*facepalm.

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

And check out the answers you get from your other profiles threads.

Jeez, how much ‘advice’ do you really need?

Fab isn’t hard.

Work it out for yourself.

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By *imisugarWoman
52 weeks ago

Rugby

"Why is it so hard to get a reply let alone a meet

I’m no Sherlock Holmes but could it Possibly be because You called all the women you messaged stuck up in another thread ?"

Agreed

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By *illan-KillashMan
52 weeks ago

London/Sussex/Surrey/Berks/Hants

"Why is it so hard to get a reply let alone a meet"

Because you're not what the people you message are looking for.

Because you're not offering what the people you message are looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

* air fryer face palm

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

Same as last time

Ratios

1000 to 1 = very hard to stand out and get a meet

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By *eyond PurityCouple
52 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

Fab is easier if you spend time on your profile at the start with at outline of what you are about and can offer and what you want.

Decent pics help.

And not being a dick.

If you can’t do any of the above I’d say get out and meet people face to face as your time on here will be pointless

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By *orny-DJMan
52 weeks ago

Leigh-on-Sea

"Why is it so hard to get a reply let alone a meet

I’m no Sherlock Holmes but could it Possibly be because You called all the women you messaged stuck up in another thread ?"

Yep, certainly not done yourself any favours there

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

Decide if you’re 38 or 47……

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By *imi_RougeWoman
52 weeks ago

Portsmouth

Again... Green arrow

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By *empest2KMan
52 weeks ago

Derby

"Again... Green arrow"

100% this

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By *issmorganWoman
52 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

More pics op and smile maybe.

Also what do you offer a meet, you've not given people much to go on,so you don't stand out.

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By *r_PinkMan
52 weeks ago

london stratford

"Why is it so hard to get a reply let alone a meet"

Coz you have a cock !!!!!!!

Us single men are 158965874123565 to a penny mate.

I usually only get replies after I have met someone at a social.

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

Usually I just assume it’s because there’s something wrong with me.

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By *abioMan
52 weeks ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"Why is it so hard to get a reply let alone a meet

I’m no Sherlock Holmes but could it Possibly be because You called all the women you messaged stuck up in another thread ?"

Call it the power of the green arrow… people can see what you have written about previously

I am all for helping people… but if you don’t help yourself “help yourself!” Then no amount of answers in this thread can help you

Think of it as the “common sense” scale…for example, you only get one chance to make a great first impression! So If people have given up answers and your reaction to that is abuse, what do you think that says?

Thinking with the little brain rather than the big brain so that to speak….

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

"Why is it so hard to get a reply let alone a meet"

It must be your approach, I’ve only been here a few weeks, I have three friends and just got back from my second meet.

Just be nice, have zero expectations and learn to move along.

If a short, tubby, ginger geek like me can find nice people to interact with it can’t be that hard

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By *orbidden eastMan
52 weeks ago

london dodging electric scooters

"Same as last time

Ratios

1000 to 1 = very hard to stand out and get a meet "

This and this is only the beginning. It takes hard work and patience just to get a social. And don’t even think about taking your socks off yet

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By *rozac_fairyCouple
52 weeks ago

Tamworth

It's only as hard as you make it on yourself...

When sooooo many others successfully use this site, a wide variety of people, maybe it's worth starting to consider how you conduct yourself?

Things like not calling people stuck up because you weren't compatible with them would be a start, ya know, not acting entitled

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By *oofy321Man
52 weeks ago

moon base zero

Maybe don't be so desperate for a meet and slow down and maybe 1 will turn up

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

Did anyone else get deja vu?

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By *eroLondonMan
52 weeks ago

Covent Garden

I think the green » arrow has proved to be a very useful feature today.

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

"Why is it so hard to get a reply let alone a meet"

Poor grammar on your profile

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By *2000ManMan
52 weeks ago

Worthing

More women than men. Women are fussier and will only meet if you are similar to that bloke "in that film".

Makes us work harder though!

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
52 weeks ago

Bristol

"Why is it so hard to get a reply let alone a meet"

Definitely because the women are all stuck up...

There is no other possible reason.

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By *issmorganWoman
52 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

"Decide if you’re 38 or 47……"

Oh yeah I've just noticed that too

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

Supply & demand

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By *rincess1988Woman
52 weeks ago

South Oxfordshire

Apart from your green arrow issues; maybe upload some pictures that were not taken with a toaster.

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
52 weeks ago

Neath valley.

"* air fryer face palm "

Bet he hasn't got one

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

Waittasec ... Is this a second profile?

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By *eroLondonMan
52 weeks ago

Covent Garden

"Apart from your green arrow issues; maybe upload some pictures that were not taken with a toaster."

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I've never heard that expression before!

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
52 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Because we're all stuck up apparently

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By *imi_RougeWoman
52 weeks ago

Portsmouth

"Waittasec ... Is this a second profile?"

I thought that too... Unless Wiltshire has a severe case of dopplegangers

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

"Waittasec ... Is this a second profile?"

Yep. That’s what I’m seeing.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
52 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

"Decide if you’re 38 or 47……"

Doesn't 81 make him more likely 42 anyway?

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By *cnugatugMan
52 weeks ago

Chatham

Dude you've been here for 5 month's what did you expect when joining an influx of ladies begging for you sadly that isn't how fab works a good solid well written profile and tastefully taken photos as well as banter and knowing when to accept rejection also helps what doesn't work is a bad profile worse pics and an attitude that sounds whiney and moany I am not saying your profile is bad btw I haven't looked I'm just pointing out the obvious

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By *cnugatugMan
52 weeks ago

Chatham

"Dude you've been here for 5 month's what did you expect when joining an influx of ladies begging for you sadly that isn't how fab works a good solid well written profile and tastefully taken photos as well as banter and knowing when to accept rejection also helps what doesn't work is a bad profile worse pics and an attitude that sounds whiney and moany I am not saying your profile is bad btw I haven't looked I'm just pointing out the obvious "
I uhhh I retract my previous statement

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By *hrimper36Couple
52 weeks ago

Central France dept 36

"Decide if you’re 38 or 47……

Doesn't 81 make him more likely 42 anyway?

If you check out another thread today on the same subject by a different profile from the same area exactly I believe there may be two profiles by the op and both of them are getting none.

The use of “ne” gave it away for me

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By *ememberTheNameMan
52 weeks ago

barnsley

"Why is it so hard to get a reply let alone a meet"

It’s usually because you’re either ugly as fuck