FabSwingers.com forum: Hi meets

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Why is it so hard to get a meet even tho nice n also well endowed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dunno, I don’t have that problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I chat but not with a blank profile

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

You don't have a profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

7 weeks in. Blank profile.

If what you're doing isn't working, try a new approach

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm nice honest guv

And I have a big cock

Where am I going wrong?

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By *orny-DJMan
over a year ago

Leigh-on-Sea

You've only been here 7 weeks OP.

What were your expectations on joining the site?

That all you need do is knock up a quick profile and be fighting off the ladies by lunch time?

Most single men can wait up to a year to get their first meet. Some fair better, while some others struggle.

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By *ust want fun 888Man
over a year ago

nearby

I think although technically upon site, women are too picky on here

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

"I think although technically upon site, women are too picky on here"

Sorry. Bending over now.

Mrs TMN x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think although technically upon site, women are too picky on here"

Nope, just able to choose exactly who they want.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

"I think although technically upon site, women are too picky on here"

Oh I know,how dare women be picky about who they get naked with. The cheek of women on here do they not know the site we are on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think although technically upon site, women are too picky on here"

You’d fuck someone you didn’t find attractive?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Women are extremely outnumbered on here. Lots of choice.

You need to work out how to get their attention (constructively) and appeal to them.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Green arrow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is it so hard to get a meet even tho nice n also well endowed "

How do they know you are "nice n also well endowed"?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think although technically upon site, women are too picky on here"

I think comments like this and threads like these come from blank profiles with zero info

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By *assy LassieWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

It's not all about the cock.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is it so hard to get a meet even tho nice n also well endowed "

Haha. You could have added rich too, and realy gone for it!!

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch

Don't tell the forum that you are nice and well endowed.

Try putting the same effort into your profile.

Currently, it says where you are, and you want fun.

The first is already in your profile,

And the second is the reason everybody is here.

Try filling in your "interests".

Tell people why they should pick you rather than one of the 50 other blokes in your area online right now.

I'm a chunky monkey, with an average endowment, but my profile gets me messages and occasionally meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you work for sydney uni by any chance. Have a rubbish profile and count the odds of getting a meet. Put some effort in is my advice

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Why is it so hard to get a meet even tho nice n also well endowed

Haha. You could have added rich too, and realy gone for it!!

I was going to say show don't tell, but show probably doesn't apply to wealth. That's a bit cringe in this context.

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By *omblingFreeCouple
over a year ago

The Village

oh god...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Profile updated

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

"I think although technically upon site, women are too picky on here"

We do have a choice who we want to meet lovely. This is not a pussy on a plate for you site. You get back what you put in.

Mrs

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere else

"I think although technically upon site, women are too picky on here

Oh I know,how dare women be picky about who they get naked with. The cheek of women on here do they not know the site we are on.

*spreads legs wide* Is that better?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm trying hard xx

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

"Why is it so hard to get a meet even tho nice n also well endowed

Haha. You could have added rich too, and realy gone for it!!

Or he ownes an air fryer

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think although technically upon site, women are too picky on here

Oh I know,how dare women be picky about who they get naked with. The cheek of women on here do they not know the site we are on.

*spreads legs wide* Is that better?"
lol if only u could

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is it so hard to get a meet even tho nice n also well endowed "

You outnumber women 1000 to 1 on here

It’s literally impossible for every guy to get a meet with those ratios

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is it so hard to get a meet even tho nice n also well endowed

Haha. You could have added rich too, and realy gone for it!!

I was going to say show don't tell, but show probably doesn't apply to wealth. That's a bit cringe in this context."

Even if he wanks onto a pile of 50s? (Money not people , just to be clear)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Green arrow"

lol was gonna say this

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By *enSiskoMan
over a year ago

Cestus 3

"Why is it so hard to get a meet even tho nice n also well endowed "

It is always good to be a jumper, especially through hoops.

If you can jump high enough who knows.

Did you not know that you cannot comment on what a lot of other guys on here state about meets.

As you can see it will only bring you put downs and mocking comments, not something you would want to put yourself through, instead goto a club or social and then these people can mock you to your face. Fab the advertising is not welcoming you wouldn't want to buy due to these kind of threads.

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch

"Profile updated "

Better.

Still think that asking ladies to email you questions is going to work against you, compared to another profile where the info is there already.

Photos are good, but maybe smile in one.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m hoping there’s more than just being well endowed to getting meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is it so hard to get a meet even tho nice n also well endowed

Haha. You could have added rich too, and realy gone for it!!

Or he ownes an air fryer

If you haven’t got an air fryer, can you even invite someone to your house? ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I need to start my own can’t get meets men are all stuck up thread. The fomo is raging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is it so hard to get a meet even tho nice n also well endowed

Haha. You could have added rich too, and realy gone for it!!

Or he ownes an air fryer

If you haven’t got an air fryer, can you even invite someone to your house? ?

Are you implying you like to air fry people?

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

"Why is it so hard to get a meet even tho nice n also well endowed

Haha. You could have added rich too, and realy gone for it!!

Or he ownes an air fryer

If you haven’t got an air fryer, can you even invite someone to your house? ?

I'm thinking of changing my username to Tina has an air fryer Titz

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By *imisugarWoman
over a year ago

Rugby

"I think although technically upon site, women are too picky on here"

What does this mean? Should fuck whoever shows an interest?

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

"Why is it so hard to get a meet even tho nice n also well endowed

Haha. You could have added rich too, and realy gone for it!!

Or he ownes an air fryer

If you haven’t got an air fryer, can you even invite someone to your house? ?

I'm thinking of changing my username to Tina has an air fryer Titz

Now your talking. But can you make tidy chips with it

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

"Why is it so hard to get a meet even tho nice n also well endowed

Haha. You could have added rich too, and realy gone for it!!

Or he ownes an air fryer

If you haven’t got an air fryer, can you even invite someone to your house? ?

Are you implying you like to air fry people? "

Now that's an idea

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By *cnugatugMan
over a year ago

Chatham

7 weeks in 2 average selfies and a severe lack in a profile bio could be the reason on here you have to put in the effort to get meets and also decent pics help maybe attend a social meet make a connection with members the trick is to not expect an influx of ladies wanting it because that isn't going to happen be yourself be friendly and most importantly don't be a whiney moron when you do get rejected

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

"Why is it so hard to get a meet even tho nice n also well endowed

Haha. You could have added rich too, and realy gone for it!!

Or he ownes an air fryer

If you haven’t got an air fryer, can you even invite someone to your house? ?

Nada

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is it so hard to get a meet even tho nice n also well endowed

Haha. You could have added rich too, and realy gone for it!!

Or he ownes an air fryer

If you haven’t got an air fryer, can you even invite someone to your house? ?

Are you implying you like to air fry people? "

Taking notes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think although technically upon site, women are too picky on here"

Or maybe, just maybe, we aren't attracted to whats on offer

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

"Why is it so hard to get a meet even tho nice n also well endowed

Haha. You could have added rich too, and realy gone for it!!

Or he ownes an air fryer

If you haven’t got an air fryer, can you even invite someone to your house? ?

Are you implying you like to air fry people? "

Jo wonders if they make one that big

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

It's all about reverse psychology.

I'm not nice or well endowed and my dance card is as full as I want it to be.

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By *orny-DJMan
over a year ago

Leigh-on-Sea

"I think although technically upon site, women are too picky on here

What does this mean? Should fuck whoever shows an interest? "

Sadly, it seems that's what a lot of men who join seem to be expecting

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I think although technically upon site, women are too picky on here

What does this mean? Should fuck whoever shows an interest? "

(Sarcasm)

This is what happens when we airheads don't read the terms and conditions. Travel to all horny men, open the doors, 24/7. It's a term of service. No exceptions for attraction. Sheesh!

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By *imisugarWoman
over a year ago

Rugby

"I think although technically upon site, women are too picky on here

What does this mean? Should fuck whoever shows an interest?

Sadly, it seems that's what a lot of men who join seem to be expecting"

I think you could be right. I personally couldn't have sex with anyone I wasn't attracted to. I'd hate to think people were just fucking me to scratch an itch.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

You've asked similar before op and being given advice, but if you choose not to take it, nothings going to change.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think although technically upon site, women are too picky on here

What does this mean? Should fuck whoever shows an interest?

Sadly, it seems that's what a lot of men who join seem to be expecting

I think you could be right. I personally couldn't have sex with anyone I wasn't attracted to. I'd hate to think people were just fucking me to scratch an itch."

I don’t think they mean that, I think it’s just poorly worded

Most likely it’s the contrast between real life and fabs

Most guys in real life could walk up to a woman, smile and say hi, and get a conversation. That’s how most people pull on a Friday or Saturday night

But the expectations of men on fabs are much higher. Great profile, great bio, great pics, great opening message. It seems you need to be extraordinary to get to even chatting

That’s what I think they mean

Not “you should fuck anyone that says hi”

But “why is it I need to put in 20x as much effort to get even 1/10 the response I get in a pub”

But maybe I’m being overly optimistic here, I’m sure plenty of guts would like women to fuck whoever asks

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By *illan-KillashMan
over a year ago

London/Sussex/Surrey/Berks/Hants

"Why is it so hard to get a meet even tho nice n also well endowed "

Because you're not what the people you message are looking for.

Because you're not offering what the people you message are looking for.

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

I hooked up with a meet 100 ft underground on a visit to an old slate mine.

It wasn’t a hi meet it was a low one.

I know I know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is it so hard to get a meet even tho nice n also well endowed "

Keep it to the forum

No need to private message me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You've asked similar before op and being given advice, but if you choose not to take it, nothings going to change. "
what advice

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"You've asked similar before op and being given advice, but if you choose not to take it, nothings going to change. what advice"

Find the green arrow next to your name in this page, and click on it. You'll see every post you posted on.

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By *arker secrets 321Man
over a year ago

West Bromwich

M8 uv only been here short time .sadly if u think it insta shag ur wrong. Give it time my friend ad few more pics and maybe bit more about urself .join in on forums so people notice u that way ..always be polite and if u get a no thank u move on ..there must be 100 men 2 every single woman on here .avin a big cock won't always cut it ..x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think although technically upon site, women are too picky on here

What does this mean? Should fuck whoever shows an interest?

Sadly, it seems that's what a lot of men who join seem to be expecting

I think you could be right. I personally couldn't have sex with anyone I wasn't attracted to. I'd hate to think people were just fucking me to scratch an itch.

I don’t think they mean that, I think it’s just poorly worded

Most likely it’s the contrast between real life and fabs

Most guys in real life could walk up to a woman, smile and say hi, and get a conversation. That’s how most people pull on a Friday or Saturday night

But the expectations of men on fabs are much higher. Great profile, great bio, great pics, great opening message. It seems you need to be extraordinary to get to even chatting

That’s what I think they mean

Not “you should fuck anyone that says hi”

But “why is it I need to put in 20x as much effort to get even 1/10 the response I get in a pub”

But maybe I’m being overly optimistic here, I’m sure plenty of guts would like women to fuck whoever asks "

I don't think it's a case of women expecting men to work 20 times harder.

In a pub you get a feel for that person in the few sentences, see their face at the same time, hear the tones in their voice and get the body language etc at the same time.

It just means that to carry off the equivalent means typing a lot more words and posting pics so that women can see what they'd have seen in the pub but that's still without the sound.

Showing a cock pic and saying I'm a man that wants to fuck women is the equivalent of a man getting is cock out in a pub and saying he wants to fuck. It's crass and wouldn't work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think although technically upon site, women are too picky on here

What does this mean? Should fuck whoever shows an interest?

Sadly, it seems that's what a lot of men who join seem to be expecting

I think you could be right. I personally couldn't have sex with anyone I wasn't attracted to. I'd hate to think people were just fucking me to scratch an itch.

I don’t think they mean that, I think it’s just poorly worded

Most likely it’s the contrast between real life and fabs

Most guys in real life could walk up to a woman, smile and say hi, and get a conversation. That’s how most people pull on a Friday or Saturday night

But the expectations of men on fabs are much higher. Great profile, great bio, great pics, great opening message. It seems you need to be extraordinary to get to even chatting

That’s what I think they mean

Not “you should fuck anyone that says hi”

But “why is it I need to put in 20x as much effort to get even 1/10 the response I get in a pub”

But maybe I’m being overly optimistic here, I’m sure plenty of guts would like women to fuck whoever asks

I don't think it's a case of women expecting men to work 20 times harder.

In a pub you get a feel for that person in the few sentences, see their face at the same time, hear the tones in their voice and get the body language etc at the same time.

It just means that to carry off the equivalent means typing a lot more words and posting pics so that women can see what they'd have seen in the pub but that's still without the sound.

Showing a cock pic and saying I'm a man that wants to fuck women is the equivalent of a man getting is cock out in a pub and saying he wants to fuck. It's crass and wouldn't work.

Personally, I disagree

If a smile and a hi works really well, really often at the pub, and almost never on here, it’s just a fact that guys are needing to put more effort in on here

And my position isn’t that it’s a good or a bad thing. It’s just a thing

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Here's my total sum of advice that I'd give to you (or anyone in a similar situation).

Fab is, like many sexually oriented sites, mostly men. Other demographics get to be much pickier, especially women. That's just life.

In order to overcome this, you need a good profile and a good opening message. Not "hi how are you" and not "hey wanna suck on this" or stuff like that. Something that shows you read their profile and are respecting their wishes. (Not "I read your profile" either. Lots of people lie)

You need more profiles and more profile text. More about you and what you have to offer, and what you're looking for. Pictures - you don't have to show your face or your penis (you can if you want to), but have a variety of pictures that show off your body.

It takes time, patience, and you may have to get yourself verified by going to a swinging club or social. You might also get yourself noticed by interacting in the forum or the cam rooms.

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By *hrimper36Couple
over a year ago

Central France dept 36

"Green arrow"

An amazing read and a good pointer as to why the op is struggling on here even though he is nice and packing!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to have photos looking like a deflated sock puppet too. The look never did me any good.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

"Green arrow

An amazing read and a good pointer as to why the op is struggling on here even though he is nice and packing!!!!

And his twin brothers profile and thread...

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By *hrimper36Couple
over a year ago

Central France dept 36

"Green arrow

An amazing read and a good pointer as to why the op is struggling on here even though he is nice and packing!!!!

And his twin brothers profile and thread..."

Indeed.

I noticed that and posted the same on the other thread.

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By *D productionsMan
over a year ago

London

I’ve read your profile and the Tea and Snooker reference was funny. It’s interesting to read profiles. The woman does the choosing. Enjoy the journey.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve read your profile and the Tea and Snooker reference was funny. It’s interesting to read profiles. The woman does the choosing. Enjoy the journey.

Who's profile did you read? The OP doesn't have snooker or tea on it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think although technically upon site, women are too picky on here"

Hahahahaha. What we are now allowed to be picky about who we are intimate with? Geeze

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

"I think although technically upon site, women are too picky on here

You’d fuck someone you didn’t find attractive? "

To be honest I think a lot of men would fuck who is available to them, and are surprised when a lot of women aren't the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Green arrow

An amazing read and a good pointer as to why the op is struggling on here even though he is nice and packing!!!!

Having experienced his approach, it's more than the green arrow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think although technically upon site, women are too picky on here

You’d fuck someone you didn’t find attractive?

To be honest I think a lot of men would fuck who is available to them, and are surprised when a lot of women aren't the same"

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere else

"I need to start my own can’t get meets men are all stuck up thread. The fomo is raging. "

*dies laughing*

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By *assy LassieWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

"Profile updated

Better.

Still think that asking ladies to email you questions is going to work against you, compared to another profile where the info is there already.

Photos are good, but maybe smile in one.

Good luck"

Better. Really?

I despair!!

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch

"Profile updated

Better.

Still think that asking ladies to email you questions is going to work against you, compared to another profile where the info is there already.

Photos are good, but maybe smile in one.

Good luck

Better. Really?

I despair!!"

It was worse before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Profile updated

Better.

Still think that asking ladies to email you questions is going to work against you, compared to another profile where the info is there already.

Photos are good, but maybe smile in one.

Good luck

Better. Really?

I despair!!"

I thought the same. It must have been empty.

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