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By *corpio_juice420 OP   Man
52 weeks ago

Birmingham

I find is so off putting seeing a profile full of I don't wants.

I don't want a hairy man

I don't want a man in tracksuits

I don't want a dad bod

I'm a firm believer in you get what you put out to the universe.

Try telling the folks of fab what you do want.

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By *ycanNightsMan
52 weeks ago

Workington

If people don't want what they don't want.

Leave em to it and concentrate on the ones your compatible with

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

I like negative…. I use it as a filter.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
52 weeks ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Nah cos they they say they are just to get a meet with me, I'd rather chat and see how it goes

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By *ACOLCouple
52 weeks ago

limerick


"I like negative…. I use it as a filter. "

Cheesy!!!

Lina.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
52 weeks ago

East Sussex

So you don't want people saying they don't want.

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

A negative preference is easier than a positive.

Take the I don’t want tracksuits

What is the opposite of this?

I want someone who wears a suit Monday to Friday, jeans on a weekend and shorts in the evening

Surely easier to say I don’t want someone who wears tracksuits

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
52 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

I'll make a note to add more I don't wants to my profile then

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By *issmorganWoman
52 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Then people would just say what they think you want to hear.

I state what I don't want on my profile & it works for me, because it's a good filter.

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By *corpio_juice420 OP   Man
52 weeks ago

Birmingham


"So you don't want people saying they don't want. "

Try flipping on its head. And put a list of likes and desires that's all. As soon as I see must have face pic to a profile pic of heels is is besides me.

Like mentioned earlier I would much rather a convo see if things flow well.

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By *heekyDemandCouple
52 weeks ago

Leicester


"I'll make a note to add more I don't wants to my profile then "

I don't want that, you should respect my preferences too

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
52 weeks ago

Leeds


"I find is so off putting seeing a profile full of I don't wants.

I don't want a hairy man

I don't want a man in tracksuits

I don't want a dad bod

I'm a firm believer in you get what you put out to the universe.

Try telling the folks of fab what you do want.

"

You don't want people saying what they dont want? You don't want........

Mrs

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By *eyond PurityCouple
52 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

The only thing we ask for is that you consider us both when sending a message.

The rest is open as we don’t really want people jumping through hoops. But at the same time, I’d prefer if only people we really want to meet only message us

K

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago


"I like negative…. I use it as a filter.

Cheesy!!!

Lina. "

It’s true though, everything we read on here we take in, in a positive way or negative way. We will judge even if we don’t care to admit it.

For every profile I’ve read that projects they are really negative about all this, I just assume we won’t get along, and I won’t message. It’s that simple.

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

I don't want.. People telling me what to do on my profile

T

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

I do want to never see cock pics.

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By *ealitybitesMan
52 weeks ago

Belfast


"I find is so off putting seeing a profile full of I don't wants.

I don't want a hairy man

I don't want a man in tracksuits

I don't want a dad bod

I'm a firm believer in you get what you put out to the universe.

Try telling the folks of fab what you do want.

"

I actually find all that a turn on because then I get to mouth silently at my screen..."It's your loss" and if I'm really aroused I might even whisper "I don't want you either".

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

Probably on the hopes that people actually read their profile first and dont waste eithers time and don't get inundated with crap messages.

But that still doesn't work does it.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
52 weeks ago

Portsmouth

I do.... And they still ignore it

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
52 weeks ago

Staffordshire

I don’t want nobody

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
52 weeks ago

Staffordshire


"I don’t want nobody "

I don’t want nobody baby

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
52 weeks ago

Staffordshire


"I don’t want nobody

I don’t want nobody baby"

But you.

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By *naswingdressWoman
52 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Probably on the hopes that people actually read their profile first and dont waste eithers time and don't get inundated with crap messages.

But that still doesn't work does it. "

Indeed. The barrage of stupid messages can be disheartening.

But it doesn't matter what you put on the profile, really, as a woman. Anyone who sends stupid messages hasn't read it.

I have some don'ts. It deters those who do read it, and is an easy filter for those who ignore them

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago


"Probably on the hopes that people actually read their profile first and dont waste eithers time and don't get inundated with crap messages.

But that still doesn't work does it.

Indeed. The barrage of stupid messages can be disheartening.

But it doesn't matter what you put on the profile, really, as a woman. Anyone who sends stupid messages hasn't read it.

I have some don'ts. It deters those who do read it, and is an easy filter for those who ignore them"

I think my one don't is " don't be a cunt ".

It's never worked

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago


"I don’t want nobody

I don’t want nobody baby

But you."

Thank you for that worm in my ear

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago


"I don’t want nobody

I don’t want nobody baby

But you Outsider."

Omg

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By *inkyguyUKMan
52 weeks ago

worcester

I do most things once

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
52 weeks ago

Staffordshire


"I don’t want nobody

I don’t want nobody baby

But you.

Thank you put that beautiful worm in my vag "

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
52 weeks ago

Staffordshire


"I don’t want nobody

I don’t want nobody baby

But you Outsider.

Omg "

You cheeky bugger!

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By *naswingdressWoman
52 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Probably on the hopes that people actually read their profile first and dont waste eithers time and don't get inundated with crap messages.

But that still doesn't work does it.

Indeed. The barrage of stupid messages can be disheartening.

But it doesn't matter what you put on the profile, really, as a woman. Anyone who sends stupid messages hasn't read it.

I have some don'ts. It deters those who do read it, and is an easy filter for those who ignore them

I think my one don't is " don't be a cunt ".

It's never worked "

"Won't meet smokers" doesn't work. An explanation of why no smokers and vapers sometimes works. Anyone who disregards that (I explain it's for my health) is definitely a cunt.

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago


"Probably on the hopes that people actually read their profile first and dont waste eithers time and don't get inundated with crap messages.

But that still doesn't work does it.

Indeed. The barrage of stupid messages can be disheartening.

But it doesn't matter what you put on the profile, really, as a woman. Anyone who sends stupid messages hasn't read it.

I have some don'ts. It deters those who do read it, and is an easy filter for those who ignore them

I think my one don't is " don't be a cunt ".

It's never worked

"Won't meet smokers" doesn't work. An explanation of why no smokers and vapers sometimes works. Anyone who disregards that (I explain it's for my health) is definitely a cunt."

I’ve had people swear blind they don’t smoke then turn up smelling smokey

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By *naswingdressWoman
52 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Probably on the hopes that people actually read their profile first and dont waste eithers time and don't get inundated with crap messages.

But that still doesn't work does it.

Indeed. The barrage of stupid messages can be disheartening.

But it doesn't matter what you put on the profile, really, as a woman. Anyone who sends stupid messages hasn't read it.

I have some don'ts. It deters those who do read it, and is an easy filter for those who ignore them

I think my one don't is " don't be a cunt ".

It's never worked

"Won't meet smokers" doesn't work. An explanation of why no smokers and vapers sometimes works. Anyone who disregards that (I explain it's for my health) is definitely a cunt.

I’ve had people swear blind they don’t smoke then turn up smelling smokey "

Yup. Cigarette smoke gives me nosebleeds. My nasal lining starts to hurt before I register the smell.

And I tell them to fuck off

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