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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If you had sex and they climaxed and you didn’t and you felt disappointed, would you let them try again?…..

asking for a friend

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
over a year ago

A den in the Glen

"If you had sex and they climaxed and you didn’t and you felt disappointed, would you let them try again?…..

asking for a friend

It's usually the person who has climaxed that feels disappointed in the fact they haven't been able to reciprocate.

So a friend told me.

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

I (Jack) wouldn't feel disappointed in the slightest. People who treat sex like it's all about the orgasm are completely missing out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is climaxing together important part of sex?

If you did not climax together is something you hold against them?

Maybe the mind was elsewhere shagging someone you know who makes you climax.. Who knows only you know that answer

Climax every mountain

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I (Jack) wouldn't feel disappointed in the slightest. People who treat sex like it's all about the orgasm are completely missing out. "

Oooh. Whats it about then?

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I remember the first time I reconnected with someone after a few years and he kept edging himself and then got that stupid mental block on it. I knew it wasn't my fault but I still felt like a massive disappointment and was worried that it would matter.

It didn't. We still both had an amazing time together and continue to do so

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Are we talking a few minutes later or on another occasion?

Only I’ve places to go and people to see!

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By *ourtney CocksWoman
over a year ago

fabland

No!

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

I rarely cum through sex.

So more often than not the other person pops, but I don't.

I felt disappointment at first, but I quickly grew out of that.

I'm more likely to feel a sense of disappointment if I'm not able to make them cum, but I also understand how it isn't the biggest deal through my own struggles with reaching the big O... and I know I don't care (much) if I don't cum.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Wouldn't bother me, sometimes I do, sometimes I don't.

With meets it's very rare for me to orgasm unless the Mr has done it.

It doesn't bother me in the slightest but it does bother me if they keep trying to make me cum, I can have amazing sex without the orgasm & the added pressure of "them" wanting me to cum just makes it impossible when they make a point of it.

Mrs

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"If you had sex and they climaxed and you didn’t and you felt disappointed, would you let them try again?…..

asking for a friend

It’s easy to say things like ‘sex isn’t just orgasms’ but I think the point here is the part about feeling disappointed.

If the sex was disappointing (for any reason, not just the climax reason) then maybe you *don’t* want to go there again.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

For me, it doesn't really matter if I do or don't, because I don't very often. It's more about the whole experience.

I don't know if it would ever stop anyone coming back, if they couldn't make me cum, they're still getting theirs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I (Jack) wouldn't feel disappointed in the slightest. People who treat sex like it's all about the orgasm are completely missing out. "

This.

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By *ddie1966Man
over a year ago

Paper Town Central, Essex.

Nah.

It's never bothered me if I didn't climax, so long as my partner enjoyed it.

I'm a giver...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the company is good I don’t mind either way

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Nah.

It's never bothered me if I didn't climax, so long as my partner enjoyed it.

I'm a giver..."

I liken it to the dry humping snogging you used to do …. And I still like. Just a proper grope and fumble with each other for the sake of enjoying their body.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Nah.

It's never bothered me if I didn't climax, so long as my partner enjoyed it.

I'm a giver...

I liken it to the dry humping snogging you used to do …. And I still like. Just a proper grope and fumble with each other for the sake of enjoying their body. "

I love that I does

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s never bothered me tbh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is going to be cliche as fuck but as long as they're satisfied, I tend to be fairly happy, although if I was on the edge and they said they were done as I was about to cum, I woukd bebrather miffed

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Erm... it would be really difficult for me not to climax if we had sex (a general we).

I do think there's a lot of unnecessary pressure surrounding orgasms. That if you don't have multi as a woman you're somehow failing. If you don't come you're somehow broken. Coming too quickly or not soon enough.

I think people should come, or not come, as they are. Do away with this idea that orgasms signify the level of enjoyment shared between two or more people. This coming from a woman who loves... come.

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