FabSwingers.com forum: What are you looking for?

By *nightsoftheCoffeeTable OP Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

This is probably the most commonly asked question in our inbox.

So what are you looking for on fab? A quick fuck? A FWB?

Something else?

Has what you're looking for changed over the course of your fab journey?

I can honestly say I don't quite know right now what I'm looking for, I don't think I'm looking for anything at the moment, fabs a hard place to form a connection & that's something I need.

Mrs

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By *atch1982Man
over a year ago

Abingdon

Chats, fun (both in person and online) and generally people who enjoy sex and playing as much as I do

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By *d4fun73Man
over a year ago

Shipley

The dream woman!!

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By *llred1Man
over a year ago

the north

It depends on the mood I suppose, mine changes weekly. I often look back and wander why I went through a period of wanting something particular.

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By *uffolkcouple-bi onlyCouple
over a year ago

Cwmbran

Cock for Mr

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By *ulfilthmentMan
over a year ago

Just around the corner

I thought this was going to be another “I wish people wouldn’t ask…” thread. You can read someone’s profile a dozen times and still not know what they actually want, so I’m not sure why some people get so would up about being asked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve probably found all that I currently have space for in terms of deeper connections. But I’m open to casual fb local situations.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I had no expectations when I first joined apart from exploring the unexplored.

Over the years that hasn't really changed but I decided I could have as much fun doing that with someone on a regular basis.

I have met a wonderful friend and the benefits are just a bonus.

If I was just looking for sex I could have met a lot more people than I actually have but I'm very picky about who I choose to get naked with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What I'm looking for has changed over time from when I first joined.

Took a few years off and came back with different want/needs.

I'm more in an exploratatory phase now. More selective meets, maybe more singles. Still working it all out myself but keeping a loose mindset about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A light entertainment mostly. The rest is stumbling upon things/people and playing along or moving on

Searching can be tiresome and sometimes it's good to just let things happen.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I no longer know. But what will be will be.

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

Sexy sex with sexy people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know. Something amazing I guess.

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
over a year ago

Transsexual Transylvania

I was looking for a distraction.

I told myself that would eventually develop into perhaps a meeting or two, but actually, I'm happy with the distraction and chatting part.

When people ask me what I'm looking for, I tell them I'm just chatting on the forums. A couple of guys have told me it's a shame or a waste - like I'm some sort of commodity. I'm not really worried; I don't owe anyone a shag.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTable OP Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

"The dream woman!!"

Does she even exist?

Mrs

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTable OP Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

"I no longer know. But what will be will be."

I'm right with you here.

Mrs

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By *glyBettyTV/TS
over a year ago

About 3 feet away from the fence

What I want probably has changed a bit over time, and whenever it does change I'll be sure to put it in the profile so anyone asking me this lazy, nothingy, milktoast question in a message, expecting me to just spoonfeed them all the information they need to get into my knickers, will have demonstrated that they didn't have enough respect for my time to just read the damn profile anyway & find out

Not in the spirit of the thread, but I just find this question infuriating.

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By *andy CanesWoman
over a year ago

south

I’m looking to what’s going on in the club chameleons & parties

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"…

So what are you looking for on fab? A quick fuck? A FWB?

Something else?

…..,

I can honestly say I don't quite know right now what I'm looking for, I don't think I'm looking for anything at the moment, fabs a hard place to form a connection & that's something I need.

Mrs "

A connection. ? That’s a thing I need. It can be superficial one for something that’s just superficial sex for a good time we both can share.

Right now, I don’t want nothing more than good conversations that are open and honest, I’m not looking for sex. Fab is a good place with lots of good people, and it’s my social media. If I find something, or someone (which does happen) good socials are always good. I’ll stick to them for a bit.

I’ll come back to this question op, which is always good to ask. you sound like you’re in a similar place like me. A little bit, ‘what am I doing here?’

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTable OP Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

"…

So what are you looking for on fab? A quick fuck? A FWB?

Something else?

…..,

I can honestly say I don't quite know right now what I'm looking for, I don't think I'm looking for anything at the moment, fabs a hard place to form a connection & that's something I need.

Mrs

A connection. ? That’s a thing I need. It can be superficial one for something that’s just superficial sex for a good time we both can share.

I’ll come back to this question op, which is always good to ask. you sound like you’re in a similar place like me. A little bit, ‘what am I doing here?’

Yes I totally am with you Woody.

This at the moment is also my social media, I love the social events & find them much easier in terms of future meets but right now I'm just meh......

I'm sure if the right person came along I wouldn't say no but I'm not looking.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know what I am looking for particularly on here ...I think I'm ok to just browse the forums or find a F sidekick to visit clubs with.

TBH my experiences on here have severely lessened my desire to do meets.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

anthropological research

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By *picyrodMan
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Regular lady

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I know longer want anything I'm just here for the forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A fwb who I can also go clubs with would be great

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

I’m looking for the ‘Chamber of secrets’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"anthropological research"

A bit of this.

A bit of procrastination and mucking about on forums.

A bit of hope for finding some longer term play partners to explore some kinks with.

Quick fucks are easily found in the real world and party scene, and now bore me. I need connection now and depth and a challenge.

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By *ircumalot00Man
over a year ago

London

A connection is top and who enjoys trying different things and trying outdoor fun

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By *Cups32Woman
over a year ago

Colne

A FwB with a good connection

Also searching for a miracle... A LTR.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Just socials, I have everything else I want on fab

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By *pstanding CitizenMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

A fwb would be great right about now...

A lovely female to cuddle up with or snuggle up with in bed and keep warm during winter

Too much to ask?

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By *obilebottomMan
over a year ago

All over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I’m honest the elusive connection but if not then just some good forum chat

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

Great chats and banter. Of course FWB would be the ultimate topping

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By *entlemanrogueMan
over a year ago

Motherwell

Currently a local FWB, FB or potential long term play partner.

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By *ary69321Man
over a year ago

Newcastle upon tyne

I would like to meet a fwb, if something was to happen further down the line great, but I'm not getting any younger, I don't think I'm in the right place to meet someone I could call a girlfriend.

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By *ll 4 herCouple
over a year ago

Bury/Bolton

We were looking for single guys or male half of a couple for Mrs to have fun with.

It all seemed so simple back then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone with a healthy to high sex drive, that will do affection, cuddles, sex, kink, going out, bonus points for a night or weekend away somewhere, going Dutch if course throughout, that is also open to doubling up for club occasionally, yet understands it's not a relationship and doesn't push for that or exclusivity, yet keeps contact going without being needy or demanding and generally being somewhat invested.

I'm asking a lot. But that would be the ideal. I kinda imagined guys that are married to their job or travel a lot and unable to maintain a relationship would be well suited.

I can dream.

A respectful fuck buddy would be good too. One that doesn't play games.

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By *tanley FunseekerMan
over a year ago

stanley

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By *hagTonightMan
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

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By *hagTonightMan
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

I am looking for a shag buddie, someone to get naughty with, both in and out of the bedroom, not just sex, but also to go out for a coffee and go for walks with, get in touch

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

A spooning partner

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By *moothshaftMan
over a year ago

Coventry

A discreet meet, just once a month, with a woman, young or old, who is in the same non sexual marriage as I am.

I'd love to feel wanted again.

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By *d4fun73Man
over a year ago

Shipley

"The dream woman!!

Does she even exist?

Mrs "

Probably not!

Reading this thread we're mostly looking for the same thing, yet no one is finding it!

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

A couple more friends with benefits would be amazing... They just need to live up to the first one. He's set the bar really high! And then maybe we can all get together

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By *ycanNightsMan
over a year ago

Workington

Looking for right now ...

Spreader bars...

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By *arryandhedgehogCouple
over a year ago

Thurrock

Our ideal would be to find a couple we can be friends with and do lots of social things with but have that added element of adventurous sex and exploring, we are open with our friends about what we do and our sex life but they don’t understand it so would be good to have people who do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No idea.

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By *heekyDemandCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

Couples or singles, that we can share ourselves with.

Bi preferred, straight is fine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone to marry, settle down, and have kids with..

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"anthropological research"
don’t think Margaret Mead is on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking to explore new things with interesting people, ideally single ladies and couples who'd be interested in helping me tick off all my naughty list items

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Giant clits that'll put Mandingo to shame.

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By *929Man
over a year ago

newcastle

Honestly haven’t a clue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely nothing. There's some nice men on here but the others....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

“When you were here before

Couldn't look you in the eye

You're just like an angel

Your skin makes me cry

You float like a feather

In a beautiful world

I wish I was special

You're so fuckin' special!

But I'm a creep

I'm a weirdo

What the hell am I doin' here?

I don't belong here… “

Sometimes I feel like that. But then I think, maybe I do, I’m with other people who probably feel the same. It’s like how you found people to hang around with in school, you just gravitate towards each other, you know.

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

I’m looking for our username on a very specific thread in the lounge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everything has changed for me, I went a bit wild when I first came out as swinger 20+ years ago, now I don't meet at all

I'm just here for the forums and chats

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

Over the course of the last five and a bit years what I was seeking and had definitely changed. From wanting NSA to being in a relationship with someone from here which was totally unexpected.

Now I’m really not sure what I’m looking for but I do know I don’t want one offs.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

I’ve only ever been looking for FWBs. That’s never changed and won’t change either x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly … just spending time with people I enjoy being around … nothing more … nothing less

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A side of myself that has been neglected for too long.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I came here looking for a coffee loving, intriguing conversationalist.

I discovered most want coffee and sex. The audacity!

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By *d4fun73Man
over a year ago

Shipley

"I came here looking for a coffee loving, intriguing conversationalist.

I discovered most want coffee and sex. The audacity! "

Don't they talk to you over a coffee and through sex?!

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

Right now to make connections/friends with people on the same wavelength and if it leads to more then great!

Tinder x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I came here looking for a coffee loving, intriguing conversationalist.

I discovered most want coffee and sex. The audacity!

Don't they talk to you over a coffee and through sex?!"

No, I’m too sensible. A hot drink in hand during sex would make for skin burns.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not looking

Not meeting too hard to decipher

I not changed in my outlook.

Not here to make friends.

Watching masterchef.. They look for perfect tastes in all manners. I believe that is me. Layers of connections, taste that lingers and enjoys marinating well mating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not really looking for anything at the minute. I feel like looking for something only leads to disappointment when you can't find it so I just plod along doing my own thing and if something or someone pops up to take my fancy, I decide what I want from there

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I joined looking to revamp my sex life and I found a best friend who is pretty damn good at the sexy stuff as well. So I have been very happy with my journey so far

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

Friendships,connections and good sex all round

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

"This is probably the most commonly asked question in our inbox.

So what are you looking for on fab? A quick fuck? A FWB?

Something else?

Has what you're looking for changed over the course of your fab journey?

I can honestly say I don't quite know right now what I'm looking for, I don't think I'm looking for anything at the moment, fabs a hard place to form a connection & that's something I need.

Mrs "

It might not be clear but it's on my profile

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By *hriscooperMan
over a year ago

Warrington

A FB that's somewhere in the NW, someone who I can arrange to meet up with as and when it suits us both. Preferably in the daytime in the week as I work nights through the week.

No strings, no pressure, just lots of enjoying each other's presence and bodies, and lots of laughter and smiles.

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

Mines changed over time.

I used to 1:1 meet so was looking for hot single men for hotel meets.

Now I only club I don’t particularly look for anything x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not going to flower it up, I'm looking for "something else"

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By *ot to giggleWoman
over a year ago

Coventry

mmm to rediscover part of myself that has been dormant for a while - the rest is a unicorn !!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"mmm to rediscover part of myself that has been dormant for a while - the rest is a unicorn !!!!"

I'm guessing more than 25 mins of attention then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't know. Something amazing I guess. "

Is that from the incredibles?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve only ever been looking for FWBs. That’s never changed and won’t change either x"

I’m young and short and we don’t see eye to eye but other than those important factors I think we’re literally perfect for each other init

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By *coobyBoobyDooWoman
over a year ago

Markfield

Dick pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dick pics "

Your fire alarm gone off yet? Because I can smell burning

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By *coobyBoobyDooWoman
over a year ago

Markfield

"Dick pics

Your fire alarm gone off yet? Because I can smell burning

It must be what I’m looking for because I get so many of them! The reverse logic approach is to support my attempt at remaining positive here

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By *ostindreamsMan
over a year ago

London

A relationship with someone in the scene

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By *ot to giggleWoman
over a year ago

Coventry

"mmm to rediscover part of myself that has been dormant for a while - the rest is a unicorn !!!!

I'm guessing more than 25 mins of attention then

oh god yes! Unicorn searching continues! Obviously he wont get a recall!

Oh yea - your profile probably coukd do with a re-write

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By *annessaTV/TS
over a year ago

Denham

Mutual respect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex and nice chat ..

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By *undayGirl 69Woman
over a year ago

Coalville

At this point I don’t know.

I still like to meet and have fun but I’ll be honest I had a brief taste of somebody being in my life and it was good. I liked it.

If only I could get that with someone who would be happy to share me, enjoyed loud noisy gigs often proceeded by a road trip and that I fancied then that’s the dream. Until then I’ll muddle along like everyone else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"At this point I don’t know.

I still like to meet and have fun but I’ll be honest I had a brief taste of somebody being in my life and it was good. I liked it.

Hope you find what you want

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I think most of the time nothing! Occasionally, waiting to be pleasantly surprised.

it can be a really tough question to answer. Using a creative approach, you could start by listing all the things you’re definitely not looking for, it might help.

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By *he Gentleman 84Man
over a year ago

North East

I would say I sway more to a FWB but open to options!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m looking for a red head. A brunette. And a blonde.

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By *rettyflamingoWoman
over a year ago

Where the flamboyance of flamingos live

Wasn’t t looking for anything for anything other than great sex with lovely people. As I said on my profile to ask me what I’m looking for demonstrates a lack of understanding for what swinging is.

That’s changed as I stumbled upon someone on here and we’re now in a relationship and very happy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"…

That’s changed as I stumbled upon someone on here and we’re now in a relationship and very happy. "

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

There's not a particular thing. I don't think I've ever really looked for something whilst being on here. People. Seeing whatever unfolds, whether it's platonic, sexual or even romantic.

Right now? I'm the furthest away from looking for something on Fab than I've been in the past few years. And that works for me, beautifully.

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By *RWoodyCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

"This is probably the most commonly asked question in our inbox.

So what are you looking for on fab? A quick fuck? A FWB?

Something else?

Has what you're looking for changed over the course of your fab journey?

I can honestly say I don't quite know right now what I'm looking for, I don't think I'm looking for anything at the moment, fabs a hard place to form a connection & that's something I need.

Mrs "

Its a good question Mrs Knights!

Our living situation has changed a fair bit since joining Fab, which has made us change a little too I think.

I've also very recently discovered that I'm much more nervous in the company of a third (unknown/stranger) than I thought I would be. Has that changed things? Not really sure yet.

I do like the distraction from everyday life on here, and I've had some chats with some great people. I think for now that'll be ok.

It's been really interesting to read everyones posts on this topic.

J x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would like someone to go to a club with... I wanna go to entice on 8th Dec!

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By *aggy dollsCouple
over a year ago

hornsea

Bi Friends with benefits as we're not really interested in hook ups and one offs.

Mr H

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

I'm just here for good connections. Whether that be for purely social reasons or lots of kinky fuckery I don't mind - just depends on the connection we have

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

Today I’m looking for the garden shed keys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Consistentency, Communication and Cock.

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By *ot to giggleWoman
51 weeks ago

Coventry

Think my reality changes regularly!

Real people, fun sex and friendship that you want whoever back again and again.

Dont want the dramatic people who promise and consistently hide.

How hard can it be!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

Here for a bit of banter and a bit of NSA fun

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By *azzler2Man
51 weeks ago

halifax

Good conversation and sex what else would you want

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
51 weeks ago

Somewhere else

Mr Goodbar

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By *ora the explorerWoman
51 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

Freddie Flintoff. He must be here somewhere

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

Well since you asked

A woman who still has it together Despite the crap life has thrown at her .kind ,funny ,oh looks good in LBD when the need arises. Likes sex

OH lives in Norther Ireland

Wow pig just few passed my bedroom window things looking up LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

If I told you, I would have to.........well we know how this ends ....... or do we?

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
51 weeks ago

Gloucestershire

Tea, cake, humour, snuggles and sex

Not necessarily in that order

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

Dear Santa….

"I’m looking for a red head. A brunette. And a blonde.

Haha. FIFM

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By *TG3Man
51 weeks ago

Dorchester

"This is probably the most commonly asked question in our inbox.

So what are you looking for on fab? A quick fuck? A FWB?

Something else?

Has what you're looking for changed over the course of your fab journey?

I can honestly say I don't quite know right now what I'm looking for, I don't think I'm looking for anything at the moment, fabs a hard place to form a connection & that's something I need.

Mrs "
I'm looking for my wallet

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By *aughtyPeepzMan
51 weeks ago

London

At first I joined fab for the forums and to perv to kill time. I use other apps for meets and would only do ONS.

But now I've changed my mind. I'm game for making friends to attend clubs, socials and of course meets for sex - FWB scenario....until I meet someone Long term

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By *TG3Man
51 weeks ago

Dorchester

"Freddie Flintoff. He must be here somewhere "
tall blonde and handsome

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By *isterE ManMan
51 weeks ago

Taunton

Genuine frendships, some that are physical, some that are platonic.

To meet interesting open, honest and different people.

Conversations, silliness, compassion and mutual acceptance.

Not much...

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By *eyond PurityCouple
51 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

A genuine connection with someone who wants to converse too.

The amount of people who make FAB hard work is amazing!

No pics, just dick pics, couples with only the woman in pics and a cock pic. Single guys who are just after a quick fuck and single women who don’t reply after one/two messages as your message is lost in the sea of messages!

So someone who genuinely wants to connect with a couple would be lovely

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

A sexy connection with someone who rattles my brain

Lots of pleasures not just sex

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By *carlet SeductionWoman
51 weeks ago

Maidstone

Someone to share knitting patterns with. Where's Knitter gone?

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

Ultimately a sex soul mate, no more, no less...

Today someone to ride me

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTable OP Couple
51 weeks ago

Leeds

"A genuine connection with someone who wants to converse too.

The amount of people who make FAB hard work is amazing!

So someone who genuinely wants to connect with a couple would be lovely

I'm with you on all of this, I think it's why I've given up on here a bit.

Mrs

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By *eneralKenobiMan
51 weeks ago

North Angus

The high ground

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By *odders88Man
51 weeks ago

Northampton

My car keys

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By *affron40Woman
51 weeks ago

manchester

Coffee with friends… that’s literally it right now.

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

I'm not actively looking for anything but if something comes along then happy to explore

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By *aitonelMan
51 weeks ago

Travelling

My glasses. Have you seen them?

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By *enk15Man
51 weeks ago

Evesham

Sexually open and liberated friends.

To do all the things friends normally do but with added sex and adult parties.

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By *he turned me GreyCouple
51 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry

What I thought I was looking for, isn't what I found, and I'm glad about that, because who I found, she turned out to be more than I ever expected, and enhances my life beyond words.....

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By *BWLOVER1965Man
51 weeks ago

My Own Little World

BBW

More of

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By *each_PittWoman
51 weeks ago

Belfast

Ultimately just some attention

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

Hmm a little confidence really, I know that probably sounds a little selfish but fuck it. Also if that leads to great experiences with awesome people then that's brilliant

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTable OP Couple
51 weeks ago

Leeds

"What I thought I was looking for, isn't what I found, and I'm glad about that, because who I found, she turned out to be more than I ever expected, and enhances my life beyond words.....

Mr "

Ahhh this is lovely.

Mrs

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By *ot to giggleWoman
51 weeks ago

Coventry

"Tea, cake, humour, snuggles and sex

Not necessarily in that order "

Biscuit? I got Biscoff!!

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
51 weeks ago

Gloucestershire

"Tea, cake, humour, snuggles and sex

Not necessarily in that order

Biscuit? I got Biscoff!!

I’ll grab my car keys

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

Friends and friends with benefits mostly. Funnily enough the only people that ever ask that question are men in my DMs so I simply say "Women and femboys" and they never message me again for some reason!

My sights have never changed as I simply have no interest in normal men, I like my men to be man up and put on the skirt but so many are scared to.

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By *ohntall123Man
51 weeks ago

Biggleswade

"This is probably the most commonly asked question in our inbox.

So what are you looking for on fab? A quick fuck? A FWB?

Something else?

Has what you're looking for changed over the course of your fab journey?

I can honestly say I don't quite know right now what I'm looking for, I don't think I'm looking for anything at the moment, fabs a hard place to form a connection & that's something I need.

Mrs "

It started off to have fun but as time goes on it would be cool to meet someone that enjoys this life style as well and share that . But I do love chatting with friends I’ve made on here

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By *entleman JayMan
51 weeks ago

Wakefield

I’d like a FWB. Plenty of emphasis on the friend. Lots of stuff to do away from Fab.

In the meantime, I’m going to continue meeting the couples I’ve met so far.

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

Good consistent regular kinky sexy fun times.

I've only been here a few months so not changed my fab goals yet, and have found one lovely new playmate already. Although the regular part isn't as regular as I'd like so far because we've had conflicting travels.

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
51 weeks ago

Somewhere else

They know who they are

(Maybe)

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
51 weeks ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

"What I thought I was looking for, isn't what I found, and I'm glad about that, because who I found, she turned out to be more than I ever expected, and enhances my life beyond words.....

Mr "

Oh this makes my heart happy

Tinder

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
51 weeks ago

Somewhere else

"What I thought I was looking for, isn't what I found, and I'm glad about that, because who I found, she turned out to be more than I ever expected, and enhances my life beyond words.....

Mr "

Aw (heart grows three sizes)

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By *oxesMan
51 weeks ago

Southend, Essex

"What I thought I was looking for, isn't what I found, and I'm glad about that, because who I found, she turned out to be more than I ever expected, and enhances my life beyond words.....

Oh this makes my heart happy

Tinder "

I'm glad you found someone on fab who turned it to be that special one.

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By *ittlemissTinselTitsCouple
51 weeks ago

Southampton

"Hmm a little confidence really, I know that probably sounds a little selfish but fuck it. Also if that leads to great experiences with awesome people then that's brilliant

Well if it helps I think you're gorgeous

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

"What I thought I was looking for, isn't what I found, and I'm glad about that, because who I found, she turned out to be more than I ever expected, and enhances my life beyond words.....

Faith you’re so beautiful

Aw (heart grows three sizes)

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By *xfordjohnMan
51 weeks ago

Oxford

I was looking for a couple and I found a lovely one I meet regularly. I wasn't looking for more friends but I've found those too and they've really added something to my life, especially over the last year when I've been through quite a hard time and my Fab friends turned out to be most supportive.

Thanks!!

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By *atch1982Man
51 weeks ago

Abingdon

"I was looking for a couple and I found a lovely one I meet regularly. I wasn't looking for more friends but I've found those too and they've really added something to my life, especially over the last year when I've been through quite a hard time and my Fab friends turned out to be most supportive.

Thanks!!"

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By *atch1982Man
51 weeks ago

Abingdon

Thanks!!"

Please introduce me!!!

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By *inamicMan
51 weeks ago

Blackpool

Easy going see where things go I never say never to anything just depends what happens on the journey. Probably friendship and fun and go from there that would be how I start out with anyone. Then whatever comes to be will be.

Que sera sera

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

Intelligence, kindness, big heart, big boobs and bum, would be very nice.

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By *viatrixWoman
51 weeks ago

Redhill

I want a boyfriend, haha.

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By *ohntall123Man
51 weeks ago

Biggleswade

"I want a boyfriend, haha.

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By *ubcdverykinkyMan
51 weeks ago

Bourne lincs

I want a Dom mistress x. To peg me with my strap on 13 inches and can take it all x and her to use me for ur pleasure on a reg basis xx

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

Fun and friends

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By *erces LetiferMan
51 weeks ago

Somewhere off the edge of the map... 'ere there be monsters

I used to think it was to learn, have a laugh and possible make some friends (oh, you sweet summer child).

Now I realise it's mostly to keep my self-esteem in check. I just log on whenever the ol' ego needs a good knock or two. Works like a charm

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By *r K and Mrs LCouple
51 weeks ago

Leicester

We’re looking for a genuine bi couple to fwb ..

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

"Someone with a healthy to high sex drive, that will do affection, cuddles, sex, kink, going out, bonus points for a night or weekend away somewhere, going Dutch if course throughout, that is also open to doubling up for club occasionally, yet understands it's not a relationship and doesn't push for that or exclusivity, yet keeps contact going without being needy or demanding and generally being somewhat invested.

I'm asking a lot. But that would be the ideal. I kinda imagined guys that are married to their job or travel a lot and unable to maintain a relationship would be well suited.

I can dream.

A respectful fuck buddy would be good too. One that doesn't play games."

Yep I would that thanks for reminding me .Oh Merry Christmas

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By *irtydevil666Man
51 weeks ago

bristol

The Exit.....

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

Chats, maybe fun if discreet.

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By *inAndTonic21Couple
51 weeks ago

Merseyside

For us we always want a connection, our main focus is couples (but happy to connect with single men or women) but we don’t have much free time to meet so happy chattering and doing pics until the time is available as well as the right person/s!

But our minds are always open as don’t need to be too prescriptive

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By *rispyDuckMan
51 weeks ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

Your home addresses!

How am I supposed to deliver all these ‘dildos & pocket pussy) I got you lot for Christmas hahaha

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By *handlerMonicaCouple
51 weeks ago

Leicester

People we could have fun with and enjoy their company, in and out of the bedroom.

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By *andyman111Man
51 weeks ago

St Helens

Just a nice lady to help a older man

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