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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you ever look at your block list and wonder why you blocked them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No....I know exactly why the 3 people on my block list are blocked

But if a person is block button trigger happy I can understand why they don't know why they have certain people blocked ....I think some have 1,000s blocked ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I know why I blocked every single one of the [redacted].

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Nope that's what private notes are for

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By *olden PoleMan
over a year ago

Kent

I don’t need to look at my blocked list and ponder it. Those there were blocked for a good reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. Everyone on my blocklist is a local who I’m not compatible with. It’s a very long list but they are only blocked so that they don’t pointlessly clutter up my home feed.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

I have no need to look at my blocklist OP. Because they’re blocked. So it would be like looking at all the rubbish in the wheelie bin after I’ve binned it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m always courteous and polite when I message people,if there’s no reply I block them so I don’t waste my time messaging them in future….right or wrong I’m quite happy with my list.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have no need to look at my blocklist OP. Because they’re blocked. So it would be like looking at all the rubbish in the wheelie bin after I’ve binned it "

That’s a wheelie good way of looking at it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Nope, they've all been blocked for a reason I don't need to remember that reason.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have no need to look at my blocklist OP. Because they’re blocked. So it would be like looking at all the rubbish in the wheelie bin after I’ve binned it

That’s a wheelie good way of looking at it "

I'm going to recycle that line

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

No i trust i had a good reason at the time but its not committed to memory.

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman
over a year ago

Manchester(ish).


"I have no need to look at my blocklist OP. Because they’re blocked. So it would be like looking at all the rubbish in the wheelie bin after I’ve binned it "

This

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

They've irritated me, or their constant status updates put me off

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere else


"I have no need to look at my blocklist OP. Because they’re blocked. So it would be like looking at all the rubbish in the wheelie bin after I’ve binned it "

Pretty much this

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere else


"I have no need to look at my blocklist OP. Because they’re blocked. So it would be like looking at all the rubbish in the wheelie bin after I’ve binned it

That’s a wheelie good way of looking at it "

D’oh…

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By *andadbodMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

nope

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By *rRiosMan
over a year ago

dublin


"Do you ever look at your block list and wonder why you blocked them?"
Someone pointed out to me recently that you can actually leave private notes on other peoples profiles. Rather than block you could a note that says “cockwomble” or something…

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By *ourisfunCouple
over a year ago

Central

Nope, I know why those in our list are blocked, it's not too big a list.

Abusive messages, pushiness, or we might have read/seen something on their profile that we didn't like... If we recognise anyone from daily life, then we block too.

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By *rRiosMan
over a year ago

dublin


"Do you ever look at your block list and wonder why you blocked them?Someone pointed out to me recently that you can actually leave private notes on other peoples profiles. Rather than block you could a note that says “cockwomble” or something… "
Or do both, leave the note then block

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By *rozac_fairyCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Nope, we haven't blocked many but the few that are on there are for good reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have no need to look at my blocklist OP. Because they’re blocked. So it would be like looking at all the rubbish in the wheelie bin after I’ve binned it "

Bin man on his route notices a hiuse hasn't put its bin out so he walks over to the house and knocks at the door.

A couple of minutes later achinese guy ooens the door.

"Harro"..says the chinese guy"wa yoo wan?"

"Wheres ya bin mate" says the bin man.

"Har" says the chinese guy "I bin upstairs!!"

"No mate" says the bin man "wheres ya dustbin?"

"Hi toll yoo" says the chinese guy "I bin upstairs!!".

"Mate!" Says the bin man "wheres ya wheelie bin ?!"

"Awww..ok.." says the chinese guy "I wheelie bin avin a wa*k"

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By *ir SupremacyMan
over a year ago

Bolton

When im blocked I always counter block anyway so it's like a double block in effect .

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By *uliette500Woman
over a year ago

Hull

My blocked list is fairly large and I can remember the exact reason why each is blocked but since I only block for being abusive, rude, overly pushy or have said something I really don't agree with in the forum or on status they all deserve to be there.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Doesn't really matter why they are blocked. Not as if they are ever going to be unblocked.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Sometimes but for some we make a private note.

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By *obilebottomMan
over a year ago

All over


"Sometimes but for some we make a private note."

Can I please exercise my GDPR rights and request a copy of those notes

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Sometimes but for some we make a private note.

Can I please exercise my GDPR rights and request a copy of those notes "

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By *tirling DarkCouple
over a year ago

Stirling

We've blocked them for a reason, why do we have to challenge our own decisions?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"We've blocked them for a reason, why do we have to challenge our own decisions? "

We only notice when we go to look at a profile and find we blocked it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I put notes when I can as to why they were blocked if I blocked for a reason which could change. If I don't have notes then it means just blocked and no reason to remember why.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

No, I use private notes to write the reason why on their profile.

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By *hrimper36Couple
over a year ago

Central France dept 36

Mostly we block because we have no interest or they haven’t read our profile so it’s to save them wasting their time and ours.

T

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By *ddie1966Man
over a year ago

Paper Town Central, Essex.

Nope... when they're gone, there's no coming back.

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By *hinstrapMan
over a year ago

Barnsley

I don't have anyone on mine

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

No because it must have been for a good reason at the time

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

No.

It grows every day with people I have no desire to have direct contact with. The specific reasons are less relevant than the fact that I simply don't want to hear from them

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

When I block someone they are blocked for perpetuity and I use the "Your Private Notes" function. The notes are written in cobalt blue from a quill, on parchment paper and sealed with wax. You see - even the people I block are treated with courtesy.

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By *con7Man
over a year ago

BARNET

No, never. There’s always a very good reason for me to block someone, mainly them being rude.

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
over a year ago

A den in the Glen


"No. Everyone on my blocklist is a local who I’m not compatible with. It’s a very long list but they are only blocked so that they don’t pointlessly clutter up my home feed."

^this. Saves me typing loads.

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By *ourtney CocksWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

No I’ve blocked because the person recognised me or the person have been to smutty while messaging me it’s a big turn off for me

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By *S chanel demarTV/TS
over a year ago

peterborough

My list is MASSIVE. I block any profile if they have blocked trans from contacting them. I get loads looking at my profile, so I block them. Its become a hobby.....

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

They are on the block list for a reason & thou after a while I might forget why they are there lol.

that’s where they shall forever remain lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They're there because I don't want to talk to them and I don't want them wasting their energy trying to talk to me when I'm not interested. The specific why is not important.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Some of mine are from 15 years ago and I've no idea why, but there would be a reason

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By *obilebottomMan
over a year ago

All over

I only blick for totally inappropriate messages or for extreme attitudes in forums that I may find abhorrent in some way

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By *obilebottomMan
over a year ago

All over


"I only blick for totally inappropriate messages or for extreme attitudes in forums that I may find abhorrent in some way"

block*

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By *S chanel demarTV/TS
over a year ago

peterborough

Pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you ever look at your block list and wonder why you blocked them?"
no my profile states quite clearly why you'd be blocked ...so

...outside of that I block for cringy/desperate/ questionable stats or comments.

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By *4bimMan
over a year ago

Farnborough Hampshire


"No....I know exactly why the 3 people on my block list are blocked

But if a person is block button trigger happy I can understand why they don't know why they have certain people blocked ....I think some have 1,000s blocked ha"

Fascinating. Trigger happy block I never considered before

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

I just block, simply because when I read all the way down to the bottom of the profile, I am not their preference so there’s no point even trying and wasting time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, they got blocked for a reason so they stay there.

Usually for being a dick or a bully. Takes a lot usually for me to block people , but those two things cross a line for me.

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By *he Naked VoyeurMan
over a year ago

Rock Ferry

Only block people that are over 15 miles away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have no need to look at my blocklist OP. Because they’re blocked. So it would be like looking at all the rubbish in the wheelie bin after I’ve binned it

Bin man on his route notices a hiuse hasn't put its bin out so he walks over to the house and knocks at the door.

A couple of minutes later achinese guy ooens the door.

"Harro"..says the chinese guy"wa yoo wan?"

"Wheres ya bin mate" says the bin man.

"Har" says the chinese guy "I bin upstairs!!"

"No mate" says the bin man "wheres ya dustbin?"

"Hi toll yoo" says the chinese guy "I bin upstairs!!".

"Mate!" Says the bin man "wheres ya wheelie bin ?!"

"Awww..ok.." says the chinese guy "I wheelie bin avin a wa*k" "

I block some people who are stuck in an era that should be forgotten

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